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By *crumdiddlyumptious OP   Man
over a year ago

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What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?

Has a bad experience put you off ?

You've never/don't really enjoy it ?

Love it or take it or leave it ?

2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,

A status update prompted the question

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Do you expect me to give you me secret techniques of sex nirvana for free?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Hate rough.

I've been made bleed before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the chocolate makes such a mess and looks like a dirty protest

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I find the chocolate makes such a mess and looks like a dirty protest "

Mmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being fingered and fisted occasionally and I've had bad experiences previously through men trying their utmost to make me squirt

I don't squirt just doesn't happen but orgasm while being fingered my man bloody loves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the chocolate makes such a mess and looks like a dirty protest

Mmmmmmmmmm"

Lol I prefer KitKat

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Inserted at the right moment can be truly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm quite like it but wouldn't make me cum..hate it when I'm close to cumming through clit stimulation then a guy sticks his fingers in...puts me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being fingered both before and during. Have had some rough encounters but let him know it. If he's good he will know he's hitting the right spot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate rough.

I've been made bleed before "

Ouch... that made my eyes water...just thinking about it..... .ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being fingered and occasionally fisted... gets me squirting heaps

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have bled before too...some men fiddle around because they cannot control their need to cum ! I like long hard fucking not lots of fingering

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By *crumdiddlyumptious OP   Man
over a year ago

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Before sex is my favourite, Feeling her opening up and how wet she is

I even like the saying,

fingering or finger fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How odd, I've never heard such a request.

Check your fingernails are clean, trimmed and be gentle...

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

love it, fingering in combination with a mouth in certain places...

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I guess this highlights the importance of communication. Very different responses from different women. What may have worked last time may not next time.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

The term 'finger blasting' is possibly the least sexy thing I have ever heard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?

Has a bad experience put you off ?

You've never/don't really enjoy it ?

Love it or take it or leave it ?

2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,

A status update prompted the question "

Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!)

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By *crumdiddlyumptious OP   Man
over a year ago

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"I guess this highlights the importance of communication. Very different responses from different women. What may have worked last time may not next time. "

Reading her body language or listening out for that moan or ouch helps but communication is a must when doing anything sexual

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By *crumdiddlyumptious OP   Man
over a year ago

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" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?

Has a bad experience put you off ?

You've never/don't really enjoy it ?

Love it or take it or leave it ?

2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,

A status update prompted the question

Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!)"

Not every Woman enjoys having fingers inserted in them

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I guess this highlights the importance of communication. Very different responses from different women. What may have worked last time may not next time.

Reading her body language or listening out for that moan or ouch helps but communication is a must when doing anything sexual "

Wise words....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?

Has a bad experience put you off ?

You've never/don't really enjoy it ?

Love it or take it or leave it ?

2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,

A status update prompted the question

Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!)

Not every Woman enjoys having fingers inserted in them "

Not certain I suggested they did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?

Has a bad experience put you off ?

You've never/don't really enjoy it ?

Love it or take it or leave it ?

2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,

A status update prompted the question

Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!)

Not every Woman enjoys having fingers inserted in them

Not certain I suggested they did? "

But I'll leave this to the ladies

Realise your question was aimed at them

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?

Has a bad experience put you off ?

You've never/don't really enjoy it ?

Love it or take it or leave it ?

2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,

A status update prompted the question

Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!)

Not every Woman enjoys having fingers inserted in them "

Hate it

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"I guess this highlights the importance of communication. Very different responses from different women. What may have worked last time may not next time.

Reading her body language or listening out for that moan or ouch helps but communication is a must when doing anything sexual "

I really like it, *providing* my responses are noted and worked with accordingly.

However, like you say, communication is key. There's nothing worse than someone adopting a 'one size fits all' approach, whatever sexual activity you're partaking in and yes, I've been hurt in the past being fingered too roughly by clueless idiots who don't get you're an individual who needs to take things at her own pace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer oral with fingers. But I completely understand when other women say that men have been too rough. But when that has happened in the past I've just gently touched the guy's hand and told him to go softly. It's not usually a problem, but I do think it happens more when a guy is trying to make me "squirt" which isn't going to happen anyway.

But oral without fingers usually isn't as enjoyable for me, so yes, I much prefer it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?

Has a bad experience put you off ?

You've never/don't really enjoy it ?

Love it or take it or leave it ?

2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,

A status update prompted the question "
honestly with 99% of guys Ive met.. I dont want to as I have had so many guys with poor skills.

However Mr is mmm and i rather enjoy them x

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