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By *udistnorthants OP   Man
over a year ago

Desborough

I'm currently looking at my cat Lucy that doesn't know that at 3pm she has an appointment with the Vet to go on her final sleep

I've had her for 16 years since she was a rescue cat in Belgium but just lately her health has deteriorated due to a cancerous tumour in her mouth. From eating over 3 pouches a day she can now only manage about a spoonful at each feed with a dramatic weight loss and fur loss.

I know it's the best decision to end her suffering but it's also the worst decision I've ever had to make.

It's got very dusty in here

Sorry Lucy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that, it's hard saying goodbye to a much loved pet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently looking at my cat Lucy that doesn't know that at 3pm she has an appointment with the Vet to go on her final sleep

I've had her for 16 years since she was a rescue cat in Belgium but just lately her health has deteriorated due to a cancerous tumour in her mouth. From eating over 3 pouches a day she can now only manage about a spoonful at each feed with a dramatic weight loss and fur loss.

I know it's the best decision to end her suffering but it's also the worst decision I've ever had to make.

It's got very dusty in here

Sorry Lucy xx"

I know how you feel, had to do the same with both of our cats. Even though it's never nice and it's never easy, just thinking about the life you've given them, and the pain you're stopping them from suffering helps me to deal with it better.

Sorry that you're going through this

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Aww I'll think of you at 3. Another Diamond will be in the sky tonight x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwwwwwwww that's so sad, but the right thing to do so Lucy doesn't suffer any further

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By *al01Man
over a year ago

solihull


"I'm currently looking at my cat Lucy that doesn't know that at 3pm she has an appointment with the Vet to go on her final sleep

I've had her for 16 years since she was a rescue cat in Belgium but just lately her health has deteriorated due to a cancerous tumour in her mouth. From eating over 3 pouches a day she can now only manage about a spoonful at each feed with a dramatic weight loss and fur loss.

I know it's the best decision to end her suffering but it's also the worst decision I've ever had to make.

It's got very dusty in here

Sorry Lucy xx"

Cant imagine how hard its gunna be for you but atleast shes not gonna be in pain any more. Stat string and remember the good times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know how you feel, and am thinking about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww x it's the best for Lucy but I can imagine what you're feeling right now!

Thinking of you fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that is miserable. I'm sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Awwwwwww, it's horrible doing that ((((()))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cat has only just turned one and is currently curled up on my lap. Love her sooooo much! I really don't want her to get old...

Send you loads of love my friend. Xxx

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I've had to do the same countless times. It's really the very last act of love you can do for an animal though it's not easy, it *is* definitely the right thing to do as it's about them, not you. I don't mean that to sound harsh, sorry, re-reading that it may have come across wrongly.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Aw

Thats all i got sorry.

Fellow cat lover.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sounds like you have given her such a loving home which she's very grateful for.

If she could say anything to you, I bet my bottom dollar it would be "thank you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gave her a 2nd chance at life and because of that shes lived to a grand old age. Remember that. I had to say goodbye to my first dog a couple of years ago, broke my heart but it had to be done for his sake. Me and many others on here will be feeling your pain.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Aww hugs OP. As hard as it is for you it is the ultimate act of love and kindness we can do for our pets when they are suffering.

A few years ago we had to do the same for our elderly cat Maxie. She was nearly 21 and had a tumour in her mouth too.

Thinking of you xxx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Aww so sorry to hear this op and Lucy

I lost my 16 year old in feb,she was hyperthyroid a good few years.

Sending you both love and hugs

Miss xx

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Big hugs

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently looking at my cat Lucy that doesn't know that at 3pm she has an appointment with the Vet to go on her final sleep

I've had her for 16 years since she was a rescue cat in Belgium but just lately her health has deteriorated due to a cancerous tumour in her mouth. From eating over 3 pouches a day she can now only manage about a spoonful at each feed with a dramatic weight loss and fur loss.

I know it's the best decision to end her suffering but it's also the worst decision I've ever had to make.

It's got very dusty in here

Sorry Lucy xx"

We are so sorry to hear that Lucy, we have both recently lost our little cats.

Big hugs to you from both of us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending hugs It's a sad thing to have to do, but so kind. You obviously have given her the best life ever x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like you have given her such a loving home which she's very grateful for.

If she could say anything to you, I bet my bottom dollar it would be "thank you""

Brought a tear to my eye

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs xxx

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I have a dog and he's ten, but could live to 17-18

Dreading this day

Thoughts bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this mate.

Proves you are a good honest person though for putting Lucy and her health first before your heartbreak

Much respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw

Big hugs for you

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww I'm sorry about your cat big hugs OP xx

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By *udistnorthants OP   Man
over a year ago

Desborough

Thankyou for all the kind words and thoughts. I never imagined it would be this upsetting... my last cat was a Tom who passed away aged 4 from natural causes and we didn't have to make the big decision as he went in his sleep.

Now sitting quietly at home with a whiskey and contemplating vacuuming all her clumps of fur she shed yesterday and today.

I'm just glad I took loads of photos of her earlier this year when she was fully fit.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

So so sorry to hear this OP.

I've lost many fur babies and it's hard. She knows you loved her and she is now at Rainbow Bridge with no more suffering.

x

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

So sorry I cried all the way home when I put my tiger down

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Thankyou for all the kind words and thoughts. I never imagined it would be this upsetting... my last cat was a Tom who passed away aged 4 from natural causes and we didn't have to make the big decision as he went in his sleep.

Now sitting quietly at home with a whiskey and contemplating vacuuming all her clumps of fur she shed yesterday and today.

I'm just glad I took loads of photos of her earlier this year when she was fully fit."

I am sure you enjoy the memories of her... Sad for you.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

It's never an easy decision, but you've done the best thing for her, with a final kindness.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear that xx

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By *udistnorthants OP   Man
over a year ago

Desborough

At least at my next Coffee Morning party there will be no glares from her or sulking off in a huff because some guests are sitting on all the seats and cushions on HER sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou for all the kind words and thoughts. I never imagined it would be this upsetting... my last cat was a Tom who passed away aged 4 from natural causes and we didn't have to make the big decision as he went in his sleep.

Now sitting quietly at home with a whiskey and contemplating vacuuming all her clumps of fur she shed yesterday and today.

I'm just glad I took loads of photos of her earlier this year when she was fully fit."

It's an awful decision to have to make even if you know it is the correct one.

Heart goes out to you. I still remember the same journey with one of ours a few years ago. Try to think of all the years you've had together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had to put down my cat, who was 15 yrs old and dog who was 12 yrs old in the last year. Both had cancer. Its a terrible thing to do but ends their suffering.

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