FabSwingers.com forum: Have I been ghosted?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or whatever people are calling it these days.

If you get talking here, exchange numbers, exchange lots of messages on WhatsApp over 10 days, couple of chats on the phone, video chats so confident the person I was speaking to was the person in the pics off here, couple of wank listens on the phone. Talk of a meet, then a suitable date, then were the halfway point would be.

Then Sunday had a message saying really busy again will text tomorrow when I'm free, Monday comes... nothing!

Person has been online on here and WhatsApp.

Is it possible I've been used for wank fodder, if so I feel really stupid cos I'm kind of a veteran and wise to that shit.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly, try contacting him one more time and see how that goes? If it doesn't improve then I think he's lost interest

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Probably. Have you messaged him since Sunday?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rishCWoman
over a year ago

Cavan

Sounds like it..or maybe he found a new playmate.

Happens a lot on here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by your pictures, whoever you were talking to is a complete idiot. How many man would waste a chance to meet with a stunning lady like you is just unbelievable.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you have but why on earth would you settle for just a wank and not grab the oppotunity to have fun with you?

Strange some folk aren't they!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *teveoabcMan
over a year ago

banbury

Sounds like they bottled it, or perhaps just like the chase

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Sounds like he got the thrill of the chase bug and once you were "caught" he had the fix...it happens or he decided that he wasn't that keen and just choose to not communicate any further....just put it down to experience etc..like I said to the other poster in a lot these situations there are 3 sides to every situation...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say so. I think most of us have had this happen and no matter how wise to things you are, it makes little difference. I think they just find someone else or lose interest.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You been dumped.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Judging by your pictures, whoever you were talking to is a complete idiot. How many man would waste a chance to meet with a stunning lady like you is just unbelievable.

Why is he an idiot? Just because someone is good looking doesn't mean that people should bow down to looks etc

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.

Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!

I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!

I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.

Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Or maybe he thought his wife/girlfriend was getting a bit suss?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You been dumped.

No no no! Not by you. You're number one anyway. This was a real messed up sick pup, but sounded right up my street!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possibly, try contacting him one more time and see how that goes? If it doesn't improve then I think he's lost interest

Dont pander to him. He hasnt messaged you move on. If he was interested he would have been in touch

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Sound familiar. I call it being a twatt.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes something happens in the person's life that gets in the way. I've gone quiet before when something sad has happened whilst I dealt with it or tried to get to grips with processing it but, the ideal behaviour would be to at least alert someone to that. Or in his case the need for a longer period of wait on your part as he did initially say to hold on but then went over the timeline.

It's very easy to "read" people's behaviour and make decisions what has happened. It's often wholly inaccurate though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/06/17 17:32:11]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move on the the next bloke. You'll mash your head up by overanalysing stuff. You seem to think you know what you might have done wrong so avoid the same mistake next time. Alternatively, he just wasn't that into you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I do find it odd that people can't simply say 'I've changed my mind.' Like the guy in Bristol who I was supposed to be meeting for a drink tonight but who has mysteriously not logged in for 5 days. Instead I have a hot date with a Tesco sandwich.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Judging by your pictures, whoever you were talking to is a complete idiot. How many man would waste a chance to meet with a stunning lady like you is just unbelievable.

Polish your armour sir?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do find it odd that people can't simply say 'I've changed my mind.' Like the guy in Bristol who I was supposed to be meeting for a drink tonight but who has mysteriously not logged in for 5 days. Instead I have a hot date with a Tesco sandwich.

Lucky sandwich

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent him packing OP was on my patch and i wasn't having none of it.

You're thank me for it later.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judging by your pictures, whoever you were talking to is a complete idiot. How many man would waste a chance to meet with a stunning lady like you is just unbelievable.

Polish your armour sir?

Haha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youve been tangoed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.

Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!

I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!

I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.

Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath! "

Has he read your messages on here or on whatsapp?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you have done something to fuck them off? Some folk get a bit stroppy for no reason and ignore you without you realising. Until they shirty that you've not noticed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it be.

Move on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully, he'll read this thread and be along to post his side of the story soon....

In the meantime, take the radio silence as he's either a - busy with real life or b - not interested.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't "chase" for sex from anyone. If they stop messaging then that's it.

It can be hard and it can screw with your head if you try to analyse what went wrong.

You can't second guess what's going on with the other person or what's going on in their head.

Some are just fuck ups who like to play games.

There is always someone else to pay attention to and soon you'll forget he even existed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some Bristol guys are good

To the OP, could be multiple reasons. If he isn't replying, then wait for him to come back, and see if you accept his excuse when he does.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, perhaps seek out some of the threads posted by single guys enquiring exactly this.

#samerulesapply.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He must be mental !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I hear ya... Sounds like typical 'fap-fodder' behaviour alright. I fell for this kind of thing a few times in my early days, and quickly learned not to share any nude pics, etc., or get drawn into an intimate sexual conversation with anyone until after we'd had an initial social meet (sometimes this was a double-blessing as when we did meet and the connection just wasn't there I couldn't then be called a tease afterwards when I didn't want to follow through with a play meet). I've recently stupidly broken my own rules for someone I had arranged to meet and now that its not happening, I really regret it. It won't be making that mistake again.

Its hugely frustrating when you put your trust in someone and they behave in this manner... Hugs and chin up OP. You're worth so much more than he has given you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably are married lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He must be mental !

Why?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He probably are married lol"

Oh come on chap - surely patience is the key here?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He probably are married lol

Oh come on chap - surely patience is the key here?

"
Yes and lots of patience too there lol.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.

Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!

I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!

I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.

Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath! "

If he's not answering you I'll hazard a guess that it's not him in his pics. Yes, people do pretend to be someone they are not to get a wank. I refuse to do any wank chat prior to meeting.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possibly, try contacting him one more time and see how that goes? If it doesn't improve then I think he's lost interest

Dont pander to him. He hasnt messaged you move on. If he was interested he would have been in touch"

It's hardly pandering to him. Anyway, she's messaged him and got nothing back. So just block and delete.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.

Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!

I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!

I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.

Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath!

If he's not answering you I'll hazard a guess that it's not him in his pics. Yes, people do pretend to be someone they are not to get a wank. I refuse to do any wank chat prior to meeting. "

You didn't read the part about video calling then no?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He must be mental !

He probably is. Which is why he's using pics of the kind of man the OP is attracted to, and not his own.

He maybe is just scared, but I'm going with fake pics.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nkySwitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Stirling

"Or maybe he thought his wife/girlfriend was getting a bit suss? "

Exactly my thoughts, only contacting you when he sneakily can...wanker!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.

Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!

I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!

I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.

Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath!

If he's not answering you I'll hazard a guess that it's not him in his pics. Yes, people do pretend to be someone they are not to get a wank. I refuse to do any wank chat prior to meeting.

You didn't read the part about video calling then no? "

No. I seem to have missed that little snippet of information

I thought she asked if he was using fake pics.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He must be mental !

Why?

In a relationship is my guess.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck knows how I read the opening post and missed so much detail.

Anyhow OP, it does happen. They can say everything they think we want to hear, then back out after they don't need a wank. Or, go home from wherever they are working away, to their wife or girlfriend, or bachelor life.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Some folk are weirdos on here, a couple of weeks ago a really hot couple hit me up. They contacted me not the other way around.

Chatting, exchanging pictures for couple of days and then they were pressing for a meet.

I Jiggled everything around, chatted right up to the night of it happening, then boom, nothing.

Just radio silence... they were online, same as you I sent a couple of polite "everything ok, has something come up" and nothing...

A couple of days later a new veri pops up on their profile... so I'm like ok, they are just rude cunts... onwards

TBF his gran might've died so don't fillet him just yet... wait a day see if he texts then cut his balls off for being a dick

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Trying to second guess anyone on here will drive you mad,hes had chance to reply i would block on here and whatsapp and move on.

Miss

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Maybe he's just not that into you?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

That point was made. By a female too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he's just not that into you?

"
.

He's gay

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there

True... She's already admitted she can be a little strong

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk are weirdos on here, a couple of weeks ago a really hot couple hit me up. They contacted me not the other way around.

Chatting, exchanging pictures for couple of days and then they were pressing for a meet.

I Jiggled everything around, chatted right up to the night of it happening, then boom, nothing.

Just radio silence... they were online, same as you I sent a couple of polite "everything ok, has something come up" and nothing...

A couple of days later a new veri pops up on their profile... so I'm like ok, they are just rude cunts... onwards

TBF his gran might've died so don't fillet him just yet... wait a day see if he texts then cut his balls off for being a dick

Mate.. This happens to me quite regularly

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

That point was made. By a female too.

Mea Culpa for the slight over-generalisation

The point still stands though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

Well, duh!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

That point was made. By a female too.

Mea Culpa for the slight over-generalisation

The point still stands though.

Well, my point wasn't inclined to saying he was *insert negative assumption here* either. But I guess people might be posting based on empirical evidence from their own experiences. That's a point too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there

I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.

I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.

All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.

I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or whatever people are calling it these days.

Then Sunday had a message saying really busy again will text tomorrow when I'm free, Monday comes... nothing!

Person has been online on here and WhatsApp.

Is it possible I've been used for wank fodder, if so I feel really stupid cos I'm kind of a veteran and wise to that shit. "

I've had this happen to me

Me personally I sent one message asking what was going on I didn't hear anything back so I blocked the number on my whatsapp and phone, and then deleted it. That way the temptation isn't there looking to see if they are online on whatsapp or the temptation to contact them. Then do the same on fab, block them. And then but it down to experience and forget about them and move on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there

I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.

I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.

All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.

I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean. "

TMI

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there

I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.

I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.

All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.

I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean. "

Did the videos ever include his face?

Maybe he thought the thrill of sending pictures of specific parts had run its course.

Just move on. I know that's difficult for you as you like to dissect a matter but really, just move on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there

I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.

I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.

All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.

I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean. "

Ah! Now to me that does sound like he might not be genuinely single. Or he had family visiting or something and would just log on here to check messages without having time to reply.

Doesn't explain the Whats app bit though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

[Removed by poster at 27/06/17 18:30:33]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter? Move on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Could just be a wannabe

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there

I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.

I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.

All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.

I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean. "

Maybe he just thought fuck this...you did send some demands there maybe wait for asking for pictures of bum holes etc

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there

I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.

I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.

All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.

I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean.

Ah! Now to me that does sound like he might not be genuinely single. Or he had family visiting or something and would just log on here to check messages without having time to reply.

Doesn't explain the Whats app bit though.

Nah he can accommodate and I know who he lives with and where. He's been single for years which says something cos he's aesthetically a real catch but then so am I and so have I been single years! He's sexually unwell, which I can get then from general chat without sexy chat, you can just tell these things. He's a lot like the guy I met off my ukmuscle forum the one who stuck a douche up my arse and stood there asking how I take my tea whilst I was sat on the toilet with arse juice dribbling out of me and would finger me on the toilet whilst I pissed on his hands, that's why I was excited about him and disappointed if it's done with now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there

I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.

I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.

All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.

I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean.

Ah! Now to me that does sound like he might not be genuinely single. Or he had family visiting or something and would just log on here to check messages without having time to reply.

Doesn't explain the Whats app bit though.

Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF. "

Oh, were you a fellow member?

I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.

Oh, were you a fellow member?

I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!"

Yeah it was noticed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.

Oh, were you a fellow member?

I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!

Yeah it was noticed "

Bet they all slagged me off for months, now what kind of access did you have, did you know about the trusted members only subsection which only original people who came over from ukm had access to? Bunch of wankers, apart from ackee!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/06/17 18:50:06]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He must be mental !

Why?

In a relationship is my guess."

Because OP is mint

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.

Oh, were you a fellow member?

I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!

Yeah it was noticed

I was an original when the UKM ban hammer was swung. The subsection was known by most to be fair.

They are a good bunch of lads. Still in touch with a few.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He must be mental !

Why?

In a relationship is my guess.

Because OP is mint

Bless you but it happens to the best of us I suppose. I've gone quiet on guys just as much if not more times than they've gone quiet on me. Has to even itself out doesn't it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"He must be mental !

Why?

In a relationship is my guess.

Because OP is mint

Bless you but it happens to the best of us I suppose. I've gone quiet on guys just as much if not more times than they've gone quiet on me. Has to even itself out doesn't it. "

And so the threads are born.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.

Oh, were you a fellow member?

I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!

Yeah it was noticed

I was an original when the UKM ban hammer was swung. The subsection was known by most to be fair.

They are a good bunch of lads. Still in touch with a few. "

Yeah I was an original as well and pscarb swung his ban hammer on me on ukm for association with that lot! I speak to ack and munchi now and again but that's as far as it goes.

I think it was a case of loose lips sink ships and I had to go cos you don't fuck with the staff, literally!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like ash

sorry coundnt resist that.

Just relax see it for what it prob was just wanking fun n plod on with the next hottie. Your very like me n get all giddy over one guy.

he may well be just busy give him they quiet treatment if he does want you he'll come sprinting back.

PTU xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Maybe you were a bit of a handful for him... he wasn't ready for breaking out the douche and golden showers

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.

Oh, were you a fellow member?

I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!

Yeah it was noticed

I was an original when the UKM ban hammer was swung. The subsection was known by most to be fair.

They are a good bunch of lads. Still in touch with a few.

Yeah I was an original as well and pscarb swung his ban hammer on me on ukm for association with that lot! I speak to ack and munchi now and again but that's as far as it goes.

I think it was a case of loose lips sink ships and I had to go cos you don't fuck with the staff, literally!

I wonder what Dan is doing now?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's ok. Just makes you wonder and go over things to see if you did anything wrong that would put them off when it happens.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.

Oh, were you a fellow member?

I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!

Yeah it was noticed

I was an original when the UKM ban hammer was swung. The subsection was known by most to be fair.

They are a good bunch of lads. Still in touch with a few.

Yeah I was an original as well and pscarb swung his ban hammer on me on ukm for association with that lot! I speak to ack and munchi now and again but that's as far as it goes.

I think it was a case of loose lips sink ships and I had to go cos you don't fuck with the staff, literally!

I wonder what Dan is doing now? "

What do you mention Dan?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busting makes me feel good

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Probably one of those desperate married women pretending to be a man. Place is full of them!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably have away too much too soon. Only 10 days and you have already had phone sex. I think if the sex talk comes into it too quickly then there wasn't enough interesting things to talk about in the first place x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You probably have away too much too soon. Only 10 days and you have already had phone sex. I think if the sex talk comes into it too quickly then there wasn't enough interesting things to talk about in the first place x"

I sort of directed it that way though! Had general chat as well but I wanted to hear and see him cum!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's said he's crazy busy maybe it's as simple as he's logged on quickly , got interrupted and hadn't had chance to come back to it. I've done it myself, and once marked unread sometimes I forget to reply until I actively go through the inbox and check

Alternatively as we're always telling guys no reply can equal a polite no thanks , leave him be, maybe if he's strapped for time felt he couldn't keep up with your demands. If he reappears with a good excuse then reassess.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

" Probably one of those desperate married women pretending to be a man. Place is full of them!

Wasn't there a thread about it not long ago?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If he's said he's crazy busy maybe it's as simple as he's logged on quickly , got interrupted and hadn't had chance to come back to it. I've done it myself, and once marked unread sometimes I forget to reply until I actively go through the inbox and check

Haven't exchanged messages on here since we exchanged numbers.

Think it's just a case of him finding someone that appeals to him more. He's got no obligations to me, I can't really moan. Just makes you think if you did something to put them off, if I know what it was I wouldn't do it in the future when speaking to someone else.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

It's alway's the guy at fault!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like they got what they wanted and aren't interested any more...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he had a lucky escape,,,

Maybe those things you asked from him he felt uncomfortable,

Others do have fantasies but then when the fantasies becomes a possible reality they get scared,

I'm also inclined to think this isn't a dating site,

Not all contacts winks etc will be a guaranteed meet, nor will it blossom into a loving relationship,

Swinging is a no strings attached fun

Sounds like it got a bit more full on than maybe he wanted,

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like he had a lucky escape,,,

Maybe those things you asked from him he felt uncomfortable,

Others do have fantasies but then when the fantasies becomes a possible reality they get scared,

I'm also inclined to think this isn't a dating site,

Not all contacts winks etc will be a guaranteed meet, nor will it blossom into a loving relationship,

Swinging is a no strings attached fun

Sounds like it got a bit more full on than maybe he wanted,

Think he would've just said no if he didn't want to send stuff.

It's done now anyway, it's blatantly obvious he's no longer interested.

In the words of jay z, on to the next one!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like he had a lucky escape,,,

Maybe those things you asked from him he felt uncomfortable,

Others do have fantasies but then when the fantasies becomes a possible reality they get scared,

I'm also inclined to think this isn't a dating site,

Not all contacts winks etc will be a guaranteed meet, nor will it blossom into a loving relationship,

Swinging is a no strings attached fun

Sounds like it got a bit more full on than maybe he wanted,

Think he would've just said no if he didn't want to send stuff.

It's done now anyway, it's blatantly obvious he's no longer interested.

In the words of jay z, on to the next one!

You would have thought that if he didn't want to send them, he wouldn't have. You've gotten to a point were you both appeared to be into it and it fizzled out, for one reason or another.

Chest up, smile and on to the next lucky victim...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Jesus I can't cope.

What will the next name be...exciting

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!"

Now way? I liked you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus I can't cope.

What will the next name be...exciting

But will she be as bonkers?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!

Did you do it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

It's alway's the guy at fault!

We all know that pfft

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"Jesus I can't cope.

What will the next name be...exciting

Fuckwithmeandi willcutyourballsoff

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!

Did you do it

Nothing to do with me!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"Jesus I can't cope.

What will the next name be...exciting

Fuckwithmeandi willcutyourballsoff

Cockcollector

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucks pal

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!"
Not again

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!"
I wonder what name it will be

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!

Now way? I liked you.

She'll be back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that was pretty shit

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless her, she's bat shit crazy but so honest and endearing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!

Now way? I liked you.

She'll be back

Who will? I forgotten about her already....hi MsV.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!

Now way? I liked you.

She'll be back

Like a

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was the op?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who was the op?"

The Empress

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What will the next name be...exciting

I also look forward to seeing what it will be.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Better than a soap opera

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What will the next name be...exciting

I also look forward to seeing what it will be.

I like the first few posts when I'm not sure if it's her.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What will the next name be...exciting

I also look forward to seeing what it will be.

I like the first few posts when I'm not sure if it's her.

I think I got about a third of the way before the penny dropped.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What will the next name be...exciting

I also look forward to seeing what it will be.

I like the first few posts when I'm not sure if it's her.

I think I got about a third of the way before the penny dropped."

Sorry, I wasn't clear, I mean on the new name. Although, when old threads are resurrected it's a a little game working out who it was and who they are now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have i missed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The empress has gone unlos

she'll be back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The empress has gone unlos

she'll be back

You're right, she said as much when she posted she was leaving

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The empress has gone unlos

she'll be back

You're right, she said as much when she posted she was leaving "

Awww. I know that feeling though. We always come back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Shit, who's tits am i going to perv on now she's gone?!

Dam it fab!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Shit, who's tits am i going to perv on now she's gone?!

Dam it fab!"

You only have to wait a week for them to be back on the forum.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Shit, who's tits am i going to perv on now she's gone?!

Dam it fab!

You only have to wait a week for them to be back on the forum.

Thanks heavens for perfectly formed mercies!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Was it something somebody said?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

She will be back, keep the douches at the ready

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Was it something somebody said? "

She spooked herself.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless her, she's bat shit crazy but so honest and endearing

That's one way to put it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!"

If memory serves, you usually have your alias ready before you leave.

Welcome back!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the clue was in the headline.

She's haunting fab for now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

She will be back, keep the douches at the ready

Make sure it is the skittle one!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

It's alway's the guy at fault!

We all know that pfft

Although in this case...

. Is she back yet?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only just started reading this thread and OP has gone unlos, and I am guessing this is empress? Just by the bum hole piss, and clingy comments I thought straight away it was her, she does make me laugh, so straight up.

If it's not you I am sorry but you have a writing style twin

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.

No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?

Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.

It's alway's the guy at fault!

We all know that pfft

Although in this case...

. Is she back yet?

Probably

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only just started reading this thread and OP has gone unlos, and I am guessing this is empress? Just by the bum hole piss, and clingy comments I thought straight away it was her, she does make me laugh, so straight up.

If it's not you I am sorry but you have a writing style twin

It was her

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not you I am sorry but you have a writing style twin

It was her

Knew, it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh she is under a bit of stress at the moment in her personal life so its good she's taking a breather from here after her little meltdown.

She's a good sort really and I be keeping a eye on her.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh she is under a bit of stress at the moment in her personal life so its good she's taking a breather from here after her little meltdown.

She's a good sort really and I be keeping a eye on her.

Yes she's unique, and quite well liked on here. Some times a break is good. Glad your looking out for her

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mind is like someone emptied the kitchen junk drawer onto a trampoline after reading all that!

Never a dull moment, but hope she's okay.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

She'll be back questing for big cocks again once ages ready

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She'll be back questing for big cocks again once ages ready "

Can't wait.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread