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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Genuine question... does this ever work ?? I can't seem to find one who doesn't want "more"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, I have found several in both categories on this site that work really well - keep looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It does work.

Openness and discussion work very well in these sort of arrangements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does work. Although there is a tendency for one of the parties to catch feelings. Which I think is fairly normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you tell the difference between a FWB and a FB?

It seems to me, from everything I've read from women, that if you ask a guy to do something that's more friend than benefit, he'll soon decide he's only a FB after all.

Personally, I've never met anybody for sex twice. Either you're a friend or you're yesterday's menu.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folks it works, some folks it doesn't. It can be a fine line between fb and that "something more"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the openness is the key to success here. I've had the same FB for 3 years now, I don't here from her for weeks sometimes, then we hook up for some mutual fun. Nothing more expected either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest and be clear with people : we'll be friends, we'll have sex together, but we won't have the drama or the feelings, just the good side of a relation!

That's how i did it and now i've got 4fwb (none from Fab) and we meet wgn both want to meet, simple as that. If people wants more, it means that they don't get the FWB thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve had problems with the FWB/FB thing. Mostly its the men want to chat all the time, meet too often and a lot wanted exclusive. I have had it the other way around by being too attached to my FWB. Currently I just have my long-term FWB again, but this time we're doing what it says on the tin, just sex...XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been friends with benefits with someone now for 9 years that's all it is and that's all it will ever be we both totally agree on that so yeah it does work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine question... does this ever work ??

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Yes.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Yes it can, sometimes the strings grow but I've found this can work successfully if grown up chats are had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still looking ........... just a Fb or Fwb....... nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i ask what is the difference between a FB and a FWB?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never had this problem. I chose guys that i know wont want more or get clingy. Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can i ask what is the difference between a FB and a FWB?"

FB = fuck buddie (Only to fuck)

FWB = friends with benefits (friends but you also fuck)

That's how i see the difference.

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By *eegMan
over a year ago

taunton

well you can hardly blame them if you are as horny as you are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can i ask what is the difference between a FB and a FWB?

FB = fuck buddie (Only to fuck)

FWB = friends with benefits (friends but you also fuck)

That's how i see the difference."

thanks mate... id love a FWB

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes - I've had them work, lasting years. Though when I was younger I had a few where they got involved and it ended with their tears. Keep it random, no established pattern, reduce the friendly part to a minimum if they seem to get more attached. And have variety of them or shag partners - possibly reducing 1 to 1, having more groups - where all are equal, if possible

Make the guy work for it too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys, I'll just have to keep looking x

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

I have a FWB and we have a great time together but neither of us want more than that - especially as she is unavailable.

Suits us perfectly - just a pity we are so far apart as that limits the fun. I have been looking for someone more local as well but hard to find unfortunately.

Guid luck with your search OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a FWB and we have a great time together but neither of us want more than that - especially as she is unavailable.

Suits us perfectly - just a pity we are so far apart as that limits the fun. I have been looking for someone more local as well but hard to find unfortunately.

Guid luck with your search OP"

Thank you x

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

WOuld like a regular FB....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to find a FB or FWB, but I doubt I could keep one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine question... does this ever work ?? I can't seem to find one who doesn't want "more"

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I've had one/got one, she used to live down the road and then she moved away, she's now back and wants to meet up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine question... does this ever work ?? I can't seem to find one who doesn't want "more"

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I believe it can. Keep looking for the right person and set your intentions out clearly, when you decide it's what you both want.

Good luck. Hopefully you'll find something soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its working quite well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine question... does this ever work ?? I can't seem to find one who doesn't want "more"

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I think I've finally found one, but they are rare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love it to work but it's a struggle

It's not impossible though so never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a friend for a drink back in summer 2015 for a catch up after last seeing each other in 2011. We had a drink etc and she went home and i went back to mine. The next day she text me and out right said she wished more had happened. So that evening I went over to her and we played until the early hours. She said she wanted regular sex and I wasn't going to decline. We'd have been meeting up about 3 to 4 times a week for about a month. One day she messaged me asking before we jumped into bed if I could help her put up some curtains in her lounge and spare room...when I got there I cracked on and she let the cat out the back saying she wanted more from me than sex and she'd developed feelings from me. Ouch, I thought. We continued to shag fot about another month until she said she wanted to be with me. I didn't one a relationship.

I think that having a regular FB will, on most cases, lead to one person developing feelings and that's where it gets messy. Having been in this position I wouldn't want to have a regular FB lasting months on end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it does its the process of seeking a fwb out that is true to their word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an amazing FWB a couple of years ago. She was pretty, horny as hell, and half my age. It lasted for about a year, then sadly for me she found love and decided our friendship wasn't fair on her new man. Now we don't even talk. Shame.

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By *eegMan
over a year ago

taunton

lol might want more if you were mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have given up the idea of finding one, the longest I have seen one was 3 times lol.

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