FabSwingers.com forum: What's it worth?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know a lyric from a song "your the type of girl I'd drop a grand for!' And got me thinking.

I'm taking a day off work for the Manchester social, but I've taken time off to meet up with people easily. Life is short and some things I'd regret if I'd never gone ahead with them

I've even booked a full week off work for a potential meet, that's a loss of a lot money for me, yes, but once in a lifetime is worth more than cash.

So how for are you prepared to go or what is great sex with someone worth?

And what's more precious your time or money?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've taken time off work and driven a fair few miles.

As you said life is too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've shelled out for return train tickets to London, which is a fair way from North Wales...

if its worth it I don't mind doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell guys who want to travel to meet me that I don't meet anybody who has to travel for longer than the sex is likely to last, which pretty much restricts me to guys in my street.

I wouldn't travel for sex - the urge can be dealt with very easily and I have better things to do with my time. I'd travel to meet another tgirl but it'd have to be an established online friendship first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tell guys who want to travel to meet me that I don't meet anybody who has to travel for longer than the sex is likely to last, which pretty much restricts me to guys in my street.

Haha.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I've had no luck with life so far so ill take the money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd have to be George Clooney for me to splash the cash to meet up.

A coffee and a kiss is all i'm good for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'd have to be George Clooney for me to splash the cash to meet up.

A coffee and a kiss is all i'm good for."

How about I give you a fiver for a snog then? You buy the coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a lyric from a song "your the type of girl I'd drop a grand for!' And got me thinking.

I'm taking a day off work for the Manchester social, but I've taken time off to meet up with people easily. Life is short and some things I'd regret if I'd never gone ahead with them

I've even booked a full week off work for a potential meet, that's a loss of a lot money for me, yes, but once in a lifetime is worth more than cash.

So how for are you prepared to go or what is great sex with someone worth?

And what's more precious your time or money? "

A full week off work for a potential meet seems excessive to me, a day or two maybe but no more than that. NSA sex on here really isn't worth more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always willing to make the effort in relation to who I'm meeting. If it's just a quick session, then not outside my city.

Meeting up with someone that I have spoke to for a while, even if just for a chat like the social, then within mainland UK.

If you can prove you're worth it, I'll make it work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get great sex with hubby so I probably wouldn't invest much time or energy in finding it elsewhere. I do though spend time and effort on developing friendships, they mean more to me than sex. If great sex came as a bonus then fabulous. But it's not a requirement for me. I have a feeling I'm way out of place on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always willing to book time off for someone who I have good chemistry with. Time is so much more important than money in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm always willing to book time off for someone who I have good chemistry with. Time is so much more important than money in my eyes

My sentiments. And other people's time is precious also. I have that In the back of my mind too.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

This is difficult to answer and is dependent on the person I'm meeting. Real life always comes first but my circumstances mean I can meet for the most part without any impact on that. There have been occasions where I've said no because of real life things and that will always be the case. I'm a genuine believer if something is meant to happen it will so I won't ever force a situation. I like things to evolve and develop. Once it reaches that stage then I will invest time beyond messaging. The amount of time is dependent on the guy and what we are both wanting. Some ppl are worth the time as you know OP. As for financial impact, real life comes first so no monetary loss is ever made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've paid for a hotel then had to cancel due to unforeseen circumstances but I never regretted it.

The money side never entered my head. I was just disappointed i couldn't go.

It all worked out in the end though

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I travel by train to meet a regular guy.....the train journey takes over 6 hours just to get there. Normally make it a 2 night stay.....3 trains and have never come away feeling it was a wasted journey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I travel by train to meet a regular guy.....the train journey takes over 6 hours just to get there. Normally make it a 2 night stay.....3 trains and have never come away feeling it was a wasted journey

That gives me hope that there are at least a few of us around.

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