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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

How do you handle it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete and moved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wee cry and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in work .. drink

here.. delete n feck em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By thinking 'meh!', shrugging my shoulders and going again..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Wallow in it for about ten minutes then put it behind me if it's minor. If its a major disappointment like missing out on a dream job it might take a bit longer.

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Delete and moved on "

I meant in general terms... But good call

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Piss and moan to myself for a little bit then get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointment is just another day around here. Success, now dealing with that would be a challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete and moved on

I meant in general terms... But good call "

Oh, have a cry in the corner, cup of coffee and pick myself up

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Wallow in it for about ten minutes then put it behind me if it's minor. If its a major disappointment like missing out on a dream job it might take a bit longer."

This is more what I meant... I've had so many knock-backs lately on so many fronts its getting harder to pick myself back up all the time.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

On here? Have a "Ffs" conversation, Shrug, forget it & move on.

S

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

It's their loss.... huggles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink 10 cans of Stella and shout at my tortoise, then cry, then pass out. Repeat until feel better

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Learn from it and try not to let it happen again

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Drink 10 cans of Stella and shout at my tortoise, then cry, then pass out. Repeat until feel better"

#shout at tortoise

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Drink 10 cans of Stella and shout at my tortoise, then cry, then pass out. Repeat until feel better"

But then how do you handle your tortoise giving you the silent treatment???

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends on the level of disappointment - something relatively minor or unimportant, just shrug and move on.

Something a bit deeper, wallow in my own misery for a while till I get my head round it (or ideally find someone I can talk it through with) then shrug and move on.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Saying .

Oh well...... NEXT !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just try reminding yourself that tomorrow is another day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drink 10 cans of Stella and shout at my tortoise, then cry, then pass out. Repeat until feel better"

Poor tortoise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Masterbation works for me, mutual masterbation even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you handle it?"

Always have a plan B in case plan A doesn't work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wallow in it for about ten minutes then put it behind me if it's minor. If its a major disappointment like missing out on a dream job it might take a bit longer.

This is more what I meant... I've had so many knock-backs lately on so many fronts its getting harder to pick myself back up all the time."
go n do something you enjoy to buck yourself up again.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drink 10 cans of Stella and shout at my tortoise, then cry, then pass out. Repeat until feel better

But then how do you handle your tortoise giving you the silent treatment??? "

Not much choice until he comes out of his shell

*mic drop

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Disappointment in myself I tend to dwell on a bit, especially when I should know better. If it has impacted on others that's worse still. If I'm unable to rectify the situation that is a killer. I'll endeavour not to repeat also.

Disappointment in others, I tend to get it off my chest. I will give it careful consideration first because I've learnt stepping back can be helpful. I won't dwell on it or drag it out, I'd rather move on. I hate an atmosphere and want harmony to be restored as quickly as possible.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Its just a step in the road there will be more happiness than disappointment so I just look at it that way xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Breathe, relax and discover something else instead

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

If we're talking about disappointment in Fab, it's a huge part of what Fab is all about I'm afraid. No point stressing, so I just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deal with it with my good female friends.

We chat, we analyse, we berate, we give eachother confidence all whilst sinking some good Prosecco.

Maybe just for that night I'll feel on top of the world but at least some of that positivity stays with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Low expectations rarely result in disappointment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its part of life. Gotta move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about knowing your self worth. Self belief and setting the right expectations. Rejection or disappointments don't mould or make us who we are. Its what we do there after that defines us. You pause. Reflect. Assess and move on with a positive mindset.

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