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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What lengths do some of you go to making sure that the people you talk to are genunie and want to meet for some fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been known to meet them for sex to be sure they're genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i phone them and then u know if im planning on meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, get mobile, email, msn/yahoo whatever to chat first. Sometimes you can just tell by looking at their profile.

You can usually tell the timewasters or the firstimers & after awhile you develop a sort of 6th sense.

However, you still get caught out once in a while & it's F'ing annoying when you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What lengths do some of you go to making sure that the people you talk to are genunie and want to meet for some fun ?"

Its different with different people. Sometimes they come across as genuine, and will arrange to meet quite quickly (have been wrong though!) Others, probably most, come over as total bullshitters straight away, so just block. Just asking for a mobile number gets rid of most the timewasters straight away, I find. I won't travel to a meet without speaking first, and won't travel far nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even the most genuine people can still change their hearts at the drop of a hat.

If something does not seem right, then act on it I'd say rather than to ignore it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Not telling ya, cos then all the fakes will know what to do to make themselves look genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even the most genuine people can still change their hearts at the drop of a hat.

If something does not seem right, then act on it I'd say rather than to ignore it. "

if i get a bad gut feeling i wont meet or reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well for me i have had someone msn addy from here for a while and then they left the site . Now i have not seen much of them on msn to talk with or grow any sort of bond of trust with them but when they are online or one of them is online i get asked right away if i fancy a meet that evening .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passport, NI Number, Driving licence and dental records usually do it for me.

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By *quamarina1964Woman
over a year ago

Bideford


"Yeah, get mobile, email, msn/yahoo whatever to chat first. Sometimes you can just tell by looking at their profile.

You can usually tell the timewasters or the firstimers & after awhile you develop a sort of 6th sense.

However, you still get caught out once in a while & it's F'ing annoying when you do."

Im with you on this one, you can pick up vibes from profiles, i always try and chat a while first mobile, emails, msn messaging on here, then arrange a meet hopefully lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peeps should strike the iron when it is hot IMHO.

Once I have gone cold about a person, it would require a lot of effort from him to make me interested again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not telling ya, cos then all the fakes will know what to do to make themselves look genuine "

Don't think the fakes waste their time in the Forums Rugby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peeps should strike the iron when it is hot IMHO.

Once I have gone cold about a person, it would require a lot of effort from him to make me interested again. "

im worried, are you in my head today LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely meet off the site unless been talking for a long time

Mainly through friends,socials and house parties that way ya know they gen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think so!

I have not spent so much time in FAB for a long while, so it has been a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never went to any lengths: it should be fun not an endurance exercise.

Message, chat on phone, arrange social meet, meet to play!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

First i expect a notarised document,then letters from both parents,if one parent is dead 3 previous employers will do.

After receipt of these i expect dna tests, a polygraph,a crb check and full medical.

Over the next 3 weeks i employ a private detective and credit reference agency to do a full back ground check.

Then i will agree to meet for coffee.

If that sounds like too much work, i do have plan b, i use my judgment, intuition and gut feeling.The fact most of our meets come from chat help...

An example from last night, a bi man came into the room,started chatting ,wanted to meet me and kev.We went to pm where he quickly wanted details of what wud happen on a meet.Bye bye and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DV clearance mandatory

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

CRB check

Full medical

Name rank and serial number

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Not telling ya, cos then all the fakes will know what to do to make themselves look genuine

Don't think the fakes waste their time in the Forums Rugby!"

They might read them !! anyway it saves me typing a list, I am being lazy today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exchange messages via FAB

Exchange photos via FAB

Move on to e-mail exchanges off FAB

Chat via MSN

Cam via MSN

Exchange phone numbers

Chat and text via phones

If I am still interested after all that (most of them apply, chat via MSN does not always happen), then I would agree to meet.

Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First i expect a notarised document,then letters from both parents,if one parent is dead 3 previous employers will do.

After receipt of these i expect dna tests, a polygraph,a crb check and full medical.

Over the next 3 weeks i employ a private detective and credit reference agency to do a full back ground check.

Then i will agree to meet for coffee.

If that sounds like too much work, i do have plan b, i use my judgment, intuition and gut feeling.The fact most of our meets come from chat help...

An example from last night, a bi man came into the room,started chatting ,wanted to meet me and kev.We went to pm where he quickly wanted details of what wud happen on a meet.Bye bye and blocked. "

Thats a one I often get too. Too many questions about what we are going to get up to, is a sure sign of a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i agree with the above

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I never went to any lengths: it should be fun not an endurance exercise.

Message, chat on phone, arrange social meet, meet to play!

"

I do wish you would stop showing how easy it is Sassy....

Didn't anyone ever tell you about leaking trade secrets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say genuine,do you mean, reliable/dependable?

Genuinely what? Genuinely buy what im telling you and then dont turn up?

That happens,if you turn up/meet then your reliable surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a genuine pain in the ass

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