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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just had a great insulting message just made me laugh

i am just wondering how many people would have been the same as me and just laughed at the insult

or are you the blocking and telling admin about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just had a great insulting message just made me laugh

i am just wondering how many people would have been the same as me and just laughed at the insult

or are you the blocking and telling admin about it

"

ye i had a few knob heads private message me abuse then block me....i just laugh....if i dnt get an abusive message at least twice a day i feel a little dissapointed ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no shame in blocking and informing admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message the other day from a random person telling me that she knew a great weight watchers meeting that I should go to as looked like I need it??? Wtf. Now I try to not let these people upset me but this isn't the first time and I'm sure it won't be the last.... Just makes me wonder what those kind of people are on this site for, how sad must you be to make yourself feel better by insultings others.... The best bit was that 2 mins after they had removed them self from the site.....can give out the insults but not wanting any back maybe or just scared?? Anyway just block and move on I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually respond in kind, then block, then report if the message is very abusive.

No skin off my nose at the end of the day, as I am unlikely to meet the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message the other day from a random person telling me that she knew a great weight watchers meeting that I should go to as looked like I need it??? Wtf. Now I try to not let these people upset me but this isn't the first time and I'm sure it won't be the last.... Just makes me wonder what those kind of people are on this site for, how sad must you be to make yourself feel better by insultings others.... The best bit was that 2 mins after they had removed them self from the site.....can give out the insults but not wanting any back maybe or just scared?? Anyway just block and move on I say"

Amazing that but not surprising there are people around who just like ta insult and belittle others

Pity they have ta get their kicks that way but that's life (I thinks ya look great BTW ) xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive rarely had an insulting message, but a couple ive reported, but usually i ignore dont give them the satisfaction.

Best one i had was a message and it just said "I know a good vet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had a single profile, my other single female friends and I would often get a very similar offensive, insulting message from the same profile name who would then vanish and reappear a few days later. Block, report and shrug it off. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message the other day from a random person telling me that she knew a great weight watchers meeting that I should go to as looked like I need it??? Wtf. Now I try to not let these people upset me but this isn't the first time and I'm sure it won't be the last.... Just makes me wonder what those kind of people are on this site for, how sad must you be to make yourself feel better by insultings others.... The best bit was that 2 mins after they had removed them self from the site.....can give out the insults but not wanting any back maybe or just scared?? Anyway just block and move on I say

Amazing that but not surprising there are people around who just like ta insult and belittle others

Pity they have ta get their kicks that way but that's life (I thinks ya look great BTW ) xx "

Why thank you kind sir

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

never had an abusive message but did get called a timewaster and tease for not meeting because I was in hospital having an operation... got to love 'em, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just find it such a laugh that a random persons life is so dull that only bit of excitement they have is to be insulting to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never had an abusive message but did get called a timewaster and tease for not meeting because I was in hospital having an operation... got to love 'em, lol "

Ya the biggest waste a my time I know but ya worth it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ye it is funny, cause you say somthing on here, then people dissagree with you then PM with abuse....then block you so you carnt respond.....i find it shocking as my m8s ent that immature and there all in there 20's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just find it such a laugh that a random persons life is so dull that only bit of excitement they have is to be insulting to others "

I actually think some people get off on it! I had one long insulting message ages ago that was obviously very carefully crafted and a lot of thought had been put into it. The fact that he sent it to a few of us and referred to me as fat showed that it was a cut & paste job! Saddo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say what I want to say in the open, never one to hold back, that's for certain!

Snipping behind close doors is very underhanded and gutless IMHO.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I must be lucky. no one has noticed me yet so no nasty messages. I do send a nice message now and then if i see a nice profile or foto tho.. think its good to be positive people need a boost now and then. Its a shame people have to be nasty there is no need.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

also, I never block, much more entertaining to keep them going until they actually get to a level whereby I will respond ...then shoot them down in flames!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say what I want to say in the open, never one to hold back, that's for certain!

Snipping behind close doors is very underhanded and gutless IMHO. "

thats what i do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, simples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say what I want to say in the open, never one to hold back, that's for certain!

Snipping behind close doors is very underhanded and gutless IMHO.

thats what i do..."

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There are ways of saying the same thing without causing offence though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message the other day from a random person telling me that she knew a great weight watchers meeting that I should go to as looked like I need it??? Wtf. Now I try to not let these people upset me but this isn't the first time and I'm sure it won't be the last.... Just makes me wonder what those kind of people are on this site for, how sad must you be to make yourself feel better by insultings others.... The best bit was that 2 mins after they had removed them self from the site.....can give out the insults but not wanting any back maybe or just scared?? Anyway just block and move on I say

Amazing that but not surprising there are people around who just like ta insult and belittle others

Pity they have ta get their kicks that way but that's life (I thinks ya look great BTW ) xx "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ye it is funny, cause you say somthing on here, then people dissagree with you then PM with abuse....then block you so you carnt respond.....i find it shocking as my m8s ent that immature and there all in there 20's"

'Nods in agreement'

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

water off a ducks back to me.... i have probably heard worse things said by my friends....

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

OH WOW !!! i feel really at home now I have just received my first abusive message.. It even had a check list giving me choices. that is just perfect.... I wont name and shame tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insults..... I've had a few, but then again too few to mention...... ahem.

I once mailed a guy back asking for an explanation as to why he thought it okay sending such insulting mail especially as we had never spoken or met.

He explained it was just another way of getting attention and standing out from the crowd. Nothing personal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OH WOW !!! i feel really at home now I have just received my first abusive message.. It even had a check list giving me choices. that is just perfect.... I wont name and shame tho "

See, tempting fate with your last post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Insults..... I've had a few, but then again too few to mention...... ahem.

I once mailed a guy back asking for an explanation as to why he thought it okay sending such insulting mail especially as we had never spoken or met.

He explained it was just another way of getting attention and standing out from the crowd. Nothing personal!"

Bet that worked! Not!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"water off a ducks back to me.... i have probably heard worse things said by my friends.... "

I've probably said worse to myself

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We tend to laugh at rude messages, hit the delete button and then block.

Can't say we have ever reported anyone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some remarks I smile at because once they have described you as they feel your life is what can you do but ignore them as theiyre closed to being told differently. Thats their perception of something they haven't been privvy to though so water off a ducks back - you can't pander to someone elses negative imagery.

I'm definitely not thick skinned if someone gets personal about a forum opinion though if they tell me I'm such and such for having that opinion. That's hurtful and uncalled for and I expect if they're having a go at me for my posted opinions, they're also writing and raising their objections with others with a similar viewpoint. I suspect they don't and its just my turn that day. I suspect a lot of strong characters on the forums tell people off in private on a reg basis though just to test the strength of that person to check for chinks. It's all very interesting when you people watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been called a stuck up cow by peeps before, can't help it that I made them look like twats - they did it all by themselves without any help from anyone!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

So thick skinned i'm calloused.

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