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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Over the years. Ive evolved into someone unrecognizable from my early adult years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the years. Ive evolved into someone unrecognizable from my early adult years"
do you mean looks or mind I've got very open minded but look the same really

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

More open minded. Greyer. More confident and outgoing. Richer. More widely read and more knowledge. Bigger biceps. Fitter. Healthier. Mostly happier. More in tune with myself and woo-woo stuff

Just having a fucking awesome time to be honest.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Over the years. Ive evolved into someone unrecognizable from my early adult yearsdo you mean looks or mind I've got very open minded but look the same really"
i was thinking mind when i typed but either.

I look more like the 20 year old me just older than i do the 40 year old.

Im much quieter and laid back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think having kids changed me more then anything else i'm no longer number 1.

But the sparks still there it hasn't dimmed.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think having kids changed me more then anything else i'm no longer number 1.

But the sparks still there it hasn't dimmed. "
ahh funny you say that. Ive quitened down so much. But the streak will always be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a completely different person to who I was 10 years ago simply because of some of the things I've been through. I feel I'm better for it though

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I'm completely different to who I was 2 years ago but not to dissimilar too who I was at 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so, I was quiet, shy, and not very confident. Allowed myself to get into a marriage that I was later to regret. But 2 years ago I found the strength to say enough and now I wouldn't put up with that shit.

I'm strong and though not overly confident I have learned to put on a brave face and stand up and be counted. My young self wouldn't recognise me now. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am definitely quieter now. But still me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight "

Holy crap well done to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a padawan many years ago. Now I'm a Jedi master. I changed.

I've changed lots over the last 2/3 years. Wiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

Holy crap well done to you "
Thank you - was hard work but I persevered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was completely different when younger. More happy, more carefree.

Having children has made me worry about everything.

Having recurring depression has left me feeling a little bit broken.

Being peri-menopausal (i think) has made me a right moody mare.

Things can only get better

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

A host of changes.

Refinding some of my physical fitness that slipped away for a decade there!

Confidence levels are proven by my presence on this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far more confident and more laid back in everything that I do now but that comes from experience and age. Been told I've gotten better looking as I got older but I think most guys do

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By *otterabzMan
over a year ago

Ellon


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight "

That's amazing, well done!

Have I changed over the years? Definitely. Went through a bad divorce which brought out a much more resilient me. Have since lost 4 stone, taken up running which has become almost an obsession, self confidence is back, good circle of mates around. A new me for sure. And a bloody happy one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

Holy crap well done to you Thank you - was hard work but I persevered "

Having perved on your pics I can confirm you look amazing

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight "

Holy moly, well done you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

Holy crap well done to you Thank you - was hard work but I persevered

Having perved on your pics I can confirm you look amazing "
Aww it's compliments like this that makes it all the more worthwhile thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

Holy moly, well done you! "
Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

That's amazing, well done!

Have I changed over the years? Definitely. Went through a bad divorce which brought out a much more resilient me. Have since lost 4 stone, taken up running which has become almost an obsession, self confidence is back, good circle of mates around. A new me for sure. And a bloody happy one "
Aww thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My marriage changed me, along with a few long term illnesses. I'm more outspoken, in real life, and more of a worrier.

I put on 9 stones very quickly and changed drastically, physically.

I'm still empathic and caring, the same as I was as a child.

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

A lot, and mostly for the better. i'm now happier, more confident, less angry, less selfish, less self-destructive, physically fitter (though I weighed a lot less then) have more good sex, and i'm more thoughtful. I've learned what makes me happy in life.

I do worry a lot more though and I have a lot less hair, there's probably a connection

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

Holy crap well done to you Thank you - was hard work but I persevered "
thats just amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

Holy crap well done to you Thank you - was hard work but I persevered thats just amazing"
It's quite an achievement

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

In many ways not that much. I'm a bit heavier, and my hair colours have evolved but I'm still the same otherwise.

Mentally and emotionally I'm a bit stronger some days and a but weaker others. My confidence has suffered many knocks and I've faced some pretty hard times.

Now I feel I've grown up in some ways. My circle is small and my walls have been built higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hair is the same colour. Eyes are better because I had them lazered. Fatter.

In myself, I'm more open minded, wiser and aware of the nastiness in the world.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight "

That is a brilliant achievement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nature has always been the same, but my personality and confidence has babes lots, particularly over the past 18 months x

I'm a happier person now than I was 10 years ago, without a doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

That is a brilliant achievement."
Aw thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My whole appearance has completely changed since losing over 13 stone in weight

Holy crap well done to you Thank you - was hard work but I persevered thats just amazing"
Thank you

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Unrecognizable I was a thug with nothing more to look forward to than time. Thankfully it's a time long since passed and best forgotten....

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Naaa I'm still an opinionated asshole who can't stand other opinionated assholes.

I'm just bigger with less hair.

Mr

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Such a lot, but I think it's just maturity. I saw everything as black and white which made me judgemental. I now realise there is a lot of grey in the world and that makes me more empathetic. I'm much more open minded too and want to understand other ppl, especially why and how they do things. I still need to work on my defence mechanism, that doesn't always come across well and I find it hard to control it. To the point someone blocked me recently, quite rightly so and I regret that a lot because I wasn't being myself

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've changed more recently that I did before.

I'm rediscovering my confidence and self-esteem (partly in thanks to this site) and started working out more.

It's small changes but I like them and want to keep the momentum going. I want to be a better version of myself.

I'd also like to go back and slap my younger self for not making these changes earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look the same as I did 30 years ago and I even weigh the same even though my boobs are noticeably bigger than they used to be..

personally, I am a lot more confident than I was back then...I am still essentially an introvert and prefer my own company but I these days I have no problems mixing with people from all walks of life..

also these days I worry less about what people think about me than I used to..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just got more awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, still a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was painfully shy, not very outgoing, not that confident and wore clothes that were far to old for me. I didnt like talking to people on the phone, getting a bus or having to see people for appts.

When i had my only child at the age of 20 .. that changed slowly over the years. Ive come a long way to a more confident, more sexually aware, better able to handle difficult situations and pretty proud that i have my own house, car and a beautiful family. The only thing missing is a man in my life.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm much calmer since having the children, they come first.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

a lot of health scares changed me not sure for the better

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Took a while but I'm now happy in my own skin ( even with my hairy back ) and loving life more and more each day

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm wiser and more confident, as well as stable - as I grew up I could be a bit moody sometimes. Adolescence over, I'm less crazy and drink loving etc. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely give less fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am far more confident, relaxed and happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happier and more confident, would hate to be 20 again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older I get the more inclined I am to listen .....

Which probably indicates just how much of a self-opinionated berk I was as a younger man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a mess when in my 20s.

I am happy. Confident. Know what I want. Not afraid to speak up. Fitter. Quit smoking. Best years of my life

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