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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice?" I would think it depends on your reason, if you are like that in real life, etc. The definition of prejudice is judging all, assuming all of one group are the same .... but I don't think this is the same as sexual preference | |||
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"If you have to ask then probably. There are groups that I am not that attracted to...east asians for one, not really into TS/TV's either. But, I cant for the life of me understand why people need to make a big song and dance about the fact. Yeah, I get the annoyance of being accused of being racist for having a preference but, most of the time, there seems to be a thin line between preference and prejudice and it will never take long for someone who airs their "preferences" in public to start ranting about some racist bullshit. I hate the innocence play in these discussions. I think people genuinely know when they're being ignorant and when they're not being. " Fair point | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice?" Yes it is. Do your duty and fuck whoever asks you | |||
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"I can't help but wonder if it's a) a trick question or b) you're being disingenuous. I'm not a regular forum user so have no idea who folk are but I am trying to think what's behind the question... " There was a thread on a different topic that's turned into the topic of discussion was: preference or prejudice. Enough people were discussing it, so I guess OP thought it'd be better as a separate thread | |||
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"I can't help but wonder if it's a) a trick question or b) you're being disingenuous. I'm not a regular forum user so have no idea who folk are but I am trying to think what's behind the question... There was a thread on a different topic that's turned into the topic of discussion was: preference or prejudice. Enough people were discussing it, so I guess OP thought it'd be better as a separate thread" Thanks for the heads up. As I said: not a forum regular and dip in and out... as you were folks... | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice?" If you will not meet people because they belong to a specific grouping it is prejudice. If you are prepared to meet some people of that same grouping but not others it is preference. For example if you have more inclined to meet white people but do not rule meeting a black person if he or she appeals to you that is a preference, if you rule out all black people that is prejudice. | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice?" I'm the same. And in my case it's sexual preference. There are people I will never engage with sexually - because I'm not in any way attracted to them - but I have absolutely no prejudice towards them in other aspects of life. | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice?" Me too #notbovveredwhatitis | |||
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"If you have to ask then probably. There are groups that I am not that attracted to...east asians for one, not really into TS/TV's either. But, I cant for the life of me understand why people need to make a big song and dance about the fact. Yeah, I get the annoyance of being accused of being racist for having a preference but, most of the time, there seems to be a thin line between preference and prejudice and it will never take long for someone who airs their "preferences" in public to start ranting about some racist bullshit. I hate the innocence play in these discussions. I think people genuinely know when they're being ignorant and when they're not being. " | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice?" Yes. No. Maybe. For me, I'll talk to anyone, having sex with anyone is completely different concept. I need to fancy them. But not not talking to someone is just closing doors in the face of fantastic moments that could be. | |||
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"I was going to write a bit of an essay about how I don't understand how you can just flat out refuse to meet people in certain "groups" without getting to know the individual. But then I realised I won't sleep with half of the population because it's a preference" | |||
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"If you have to ask then probably. There are groups that I am not that attracted to...east asians for one, not really into TS/TV's either. But, I cant for the life of me understand why people need to make a big song and dance about the fact. Yeah, I get the annoyance of being accused of being racist for having a preference but, most of the time, there seems to be a thin line between preference and prejudice and it will never take long for someone who airs their "preferences" in public to start ranting about some racist bullshit. I hate the innocence play in these discussions. I think people genuinely know when they're being ignorant and when they're not being. " | |||
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"I was going to write a bit of an essay about how I don't understand how you can just flat out refuse to meet people in certain "groups" without getting to know the individual. But then I realised I won't sleep with half of the population because it's a preference" Is being gay a preference then? | |||
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"I was going to write a bit of an essay about how I don't understand how you can just flat out refuse to meet people in certain "groups" without getting to know the individual. But then I realised I won't sleep with half of the population because it's a preference Is being gay a preference then? " | |||
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"I was going to write a bit of an essay about how I don't understand how you can just flat out refuse to meet people in certain "groups" without getting to know the individual. But then I realised I won't sleep with half of the population because it's a preference Is being gay a preference then? " No , but refusing to meet them is a prejudice as they are equally as good company as bi and straight people . Infact I would go as far as to say that the gay community is actually way more open , liberal and fun than the swinging community from our experience | |||
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"I was going to write a bit of an essay about how I don't understand how you can just flat out refuse to meet people in certain "groups" without getting to know the individual. But then I realised I won't sleep with half of the population because it's a preference Is being gay a preference then? No , but refusing to meet them is a prejudice as they are equally as good company as bi and straight people . Infact I would go as far as to say that the gay community is actually way more open , liberal and fun than the swinging community from our experience " Just for the record, I never said I wouldn't meet them, just wouldn't sleep with them | |||
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"I was going to write a bit of an essay about how I don't understand how you can just flat out refuse to meet people in certain "groups" without getting to know the individual. But then I realised I won't sleep with half of the population because it's a preference Is being gay a preference then? No , but refusing to meet them is a prejudice as they are equally as good company as bi and straight people . Infact I would go as far as to say that the gay community is actually way more open , liberal and fun than the swinging community from our experience Just for the record, I never said I wouldn't meet them, just wouldn't sleep with them" True , and we weren't having a dig at you , or anyone else | |||
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"I was going to write a bit of an essay about how I don't understand how you can just flat out refuse to meet people in certain "groups" without getting to know the individual. But then I realised I won't sleep with half of the population because it's a preference Is being gay a preference then? No , but refusing to meet them is a prejudice as they are equally as good company as bi and straight people . Infact I would go as far as to say that the gay community is actually way more open , liberal and fun than the swinging community from our experience Just for the record, I never said I wouldn't meet them, just wouldn't sleep with them True , and we weren't having a dig at you , or anyone else " It's all good | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice?" Only you know the answer to that, but there is a big difference between who you will meet from here and how you treat people in real life. | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice?" Just re-read this. You won't even speak to them? Yes that's prejudice | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice? Just re-read this. You won't even speak to them? Yes that's prejudice " Depends, the group might be neo-nazis, in which case it it isn't... If the group is the French, then it would be prejudice. | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice? Just re-read this. You won't even speak to them? Yes that's prejudice Depends, the group might be neo-nazis, in which case it it isn't... If the group is the French, then it would be prejudice." I'm happy to say I am prejudiced against any race hate group . Or any homophobic group too . | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice? Just re-read this. You won't even speak to them? Yes that's prejudice Depends, the group might be neo-nazis, in which case it it isn't... If the group is the French, then it would be prejudice." Yea good point | |||
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"I chat to anyone and everyone but definitely have preference as to who I shag" I think the confusion between the two in fabs is because people assume that someone definitely want to have sex with everybody they interact with in here. | |||
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"I have preferences of who I would and wouldn't play with, but if I didn't speak to them then that I would say is prejudice. X " Perfectly put | |||
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"I chat to anyone and everyone but definitely have preference as to who I shag I think the confusion between the two in fabs is because people assume that someone definitely want to have sex with everybody they interact with in here. " Exactly this!! | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice? Just re-read this. You won't even speak to them? Yes that's prejudice " But people say on here all the time that no reply is ok. "It's not rude because the FAQ's say so". | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice? Just re-read this. You won't even speak to them? Yes that's prejudice But people say on here all the time that no reply is ok. "It's not rude because the FAQ's say so". " Just because one person (the site) tells you it's okay. It doesn't make it right. Even 100 people telling you something, it doesn't make it right. | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice? Just re-read this. You won't even speak to them? Yes that's prejudice But people say on here all the time that no reply is ok. "It's not rude because the FAQ's say so". Just because one person (the site) tells you it's okay. It doesn't make it right. Even 100 people telling you something, it doesn't make it right. " | |||
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" Civility and manners cost nothing " I'm really beginning to dislike that saying. I'm quite prejudiced against it. | |||
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" Civility and manners cost nothing I'm really beginning to dislike that saying. I'm quite prejudiced against it. " | |||
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"If you won't fuck men, that makes you a lesbian, not prejudiced. If you won't fuck whites your prejudiced. If you won't fuck blacks your racist." .. What if you won't fuck French people, is that a prejudice?. But if there French and black.. Your a prejudiced racist. Whoever knew that fucking could be so tricky | |||
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"If you have to ask then probably. There are groups that I am not that attracted to...east asians for one, not really into TS/TV's either. But, I cant for the life of me understand why people need to make a big song and dance about the fact. Yeah, I get the annoyance of being accused of being racist for having a preference but, most of the time, there seems to be a thin line between preference and prejudice and it will never take long for someone who airs their "preferences" in public to start ranting about some racist bullshit. I hate the innocence play in these discussions. I think people genuinely know when they're being ignorant and when they're not being. " Indeed. | |||
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"If you have to ask then probably. There are groups that I am not that attracted to...east asians for one, not really into TS/TV's either. But, I cant for the life of me understand why people need to make a big song and dance about the fact. Yeah, I get the annoyance of being accused of being racist for having a preference but, most of the time, there seems to be a thin line between preference and prejudice and it will never take long for someone who airs their "preferences" in public to start ranting about some racist bullshit. I hate the innocence play in these discussions. I think people genuinely know when they're being ignorant and when they're not being. " For once, I actually agree with you... | |||
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"I think people will reverse engineer the socially desirable answer to the question. By definition, you don't know what your subconscious is thinking so if you say you're not attracted to anyone of a particular race that just happens to have negative stereotypes then personally i find it a dubious 'preference'. " | |||
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"If you have to ask then probably. There are groups that I am not that attracted to...east asians for one, not really into TS/TV's either. But, I cant for the life of me understand why people need to make a big song and dance about the fact. Yeah, I get the annoyance of being accused of being racist for having a preference but, most of the time, there seems to be a thin line between preference and prejudice and it will never take long for someone who airs their "preferences" in public to start ranting about some racist bullshit. I hate the innocence play in these discussions. I think people genuinely know when they're being ignorant and when they're not being. For once, I actually agree with you..." I did too | |||
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"There's whole groups of people that I absolutely WILL NOT ever meet or chat to and certainly won't fuck. Is this prejudice?" If someone from that group was a nice person and you wouldn't be friends with them it's prejudice. If you would but just won't fuck them then it's a preference | |||
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