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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I see this phrase or similar in a profile, it would give me the impression that the person is lacking in self confidence about his/her own worth, and it could put me off that person.

This applies to FAB as well as profiles in the vanilla dating world.

Does anyone else feel the same I wonder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I see this phrase or similar in a profile, it would give me the impression that the person is lacking in self confidence about his/her own worth, and it could put me off that person.

This applies to FAB as well as profiles in the vanilla dating world.

Does anyone else feel the same I wonder? "

No, I think that they think it, but are attributing it to someone else, so as not to sound (too) vain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blah blah i was thinking it was barrr barrrrr , lolol Each persons diffrent and takes alot to get on my tits .... as i think some just may have hang-ups and crap in there life and looking to pull others down with them too ...... so i may give them sort a wide birth as like to smile here and be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I see this phrase or similar in a profile, it would give me the impression that the person is lacking in self confidence about his/her own worth, and it could put me off that person.

This applies to FAB as well as profiles in the vanilla dating world.

Does anyone else feel the same I wonder? "

ye its such a turn off when women go on about age.......its about how you look not how old you are......id shag the life out of dolly parton twiggy and i would probs climb on board barbaa windsor if she was offering.....and i love lorrain kelly, carol vordaman, and loads more list is endless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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No, I think that they think it, but are attributing it to someone else, so as not to sound (too) vain!"

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It then makes him/her vain by including it in his/her profile IMHO.

Perhaps I am being too harsh as usual!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Quickly goes and checks profile

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Phew, no such words contained in said profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No, I think that they think it, but are attributing it to someone else, so as not to sound (too) vain!

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It then makes him/her vain by including it in his/her profile IMHO.

Perhaps I am being too harsh as usual! "

No, I think so too. It wouldn't put me off them completely though, unless they had gone too far with these type of comments in their profile.

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By *icheekyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

That's something I say a few times I think - on here and on other vanilla dating sites. I can't speak for other people but I use that phrase because there's a fine line between selling yourself and coming across as arrogant and vain. Just as noone likes to read a profile where they haven't sold themselves, neither do you want to read a profile which is all just bragging.

"I'm told that..." is just a way of saying "I think this is one of my better features and other people seem to agree so I might be onto something".

Then again, maybe it's jsut a lazy way of bragging... hmmmm methinks my profile might need a re-jig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im told im a gobby cow and anything can happen when i have had a drink

i would like to say its not true BUT it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont start on here about bragging...i started a thread on it...and it was removed lol

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By *exybabyMan
over a year ago

Canterbury....ish


"If I see this phrase or similar in a profile, it would give me the impression that the person is lacking in self confidence about his/her own worth, and it could put me off that person.

This applies to FAB as well as profiles in the vanilla dating world.

Does anyone else feel the same I wonder? "

B.........BORING

L.........LACKING IN CONFIDENCE

A.........AND (IN NEED OF)

H.........HELP

or

B.........BRILLIANT (IN)

L.........LOOKS

A.........AND

H.........HORNY

or

B.........BALD

L.........LECHEROUS

A.........AMOUROUS

H.........HUSSY.

or???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reads profile... blah blah... Nearly

Finished readin... etc etc.. Mmmm... Time to move on to the nex.... Oooo whats this...

Pauses... Reads profile again...

*Job done...*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I stick by what my Mum says blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I see this phrase or similar in a profile, it would give me the impression that the person is lacking in self confidence about his/her own worth, and it could put me off that person.

This applies to FAB as well as profiles in the vanilla dating world.

Does anyone else feel the same I wonder? "

Well ive never been told owt like that anyway so i canna put it on me profile lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont start on here about bragging...i started a thread on it...and it was removed lol

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Another way to achieve a thread or post being removed is to instigate a thread, or comment on "say" this one, in a style which registers lament pertaining to the previous thread... Thus removed...

{Ruggers will interject....;-);-)}

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

No I'm not a blacksheep and I ain't got any wool now feck off and leave me alone

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It cracks me up, ive been told im good looking/good snogger/good at oral makes me laugh

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"It cracks me up, ive been told im good looking/good snogger/good at oral makes me laugh"
Why dont people say, ive been told im shite at oral sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I see this phrase or similar in a profile, it would give me the impression that the person is lacking in self confidence about his/her own worth, and it could put me off that person.

This applies to FAB as well as profiles in the vanilla dating world.

Does anyone else feel the same I wonder?

No, I think that they think it, but are attributing it to someone else, so as not to sound (too) vain!"

Agree, I think that too...and it would put me off them as they'd come across as disingenuous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It cracks me up, ive been told im good looking/good snogger/good at oral makes me laughWhy dont people say, ive been told im shite at oral sex? "

Im ace at oral sex i can talk about it fa hours x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It cracks me up, ive been told im good looking/good snogger/good at oral makes me laughWhy dont people say, ive been told im shite at oral sex? "

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Precisely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No, I think that they think it, but are attributing it to someone else, so as not to sound (too) vain!

.

It then makes him/her vain by including it in his/her profile IMHO.

Perhaps I am being too harsh as usual! "

I dont think it makes people sound vain, what annoys me is when people say 'perhaps I am being to harsh as usual'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

No, I think that they think it, but are attributing it to someone else, so as not to sound (too) vain!

.

It then makes him/her vain by including it in his/her profile IMHO.

Perhaps I am being too harsh as usual!

I dont think it makes people sound vain, what annoys me is when people say 'perhaps I am being to harsh as usual' "

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I am always harsh, so I was only telling the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It cracks me up, ive been told im good looking/good snogger/good at oral makes me laughWhy dont people say, ive been told im shite at oral sex? "

I KNOW im good at kissing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know I am brilliant! PMSL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like reading "touching" or "heartwarming" in a tv programme description. It's just code for "shit" haha

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