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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home

...on the forums? How did you start interacting and make yourself notice here,?

We started with "Spanishbrunette roulette " . It was a lot of fun.

What about you all?

Mrs SB

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think my first big thread was 'hot tub party' or something. I read the forums for ages before I posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend told me about the forums. I had a look. My first thread (and post) was about sandwiches.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/534047

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"My friend told me about the forums. I had a look. My first thread (and post) was about sandwiches.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/534047"

Hi Estella. Looking good ad always

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I was told "don't go on the forums, its full of cunts". I wanted to see for myself. And felt right at home.....

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By *ellowbabesCouple
over a year ago

newport/cwmbran

Not entirely sure, but think it may have had something to do with cake or cider

And Mrs was probably in one of the exhibitionism threads, tits probably!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a few mail out....I got zero replies So I found the forums. I thought I'd post a few things on here......with zero replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember this morning, let alone what my first forum bit was. Might have been joining in a face pic Friday or similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just felt it would be cruel to rob forums of my presence .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got told about it on a meet, she used to frequent here, so thought I'd have a look, and here I am.

Jumped straight in, and never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first thread was an enquiry about Clubs in the North West.

Then I joined in on a few kiss, fuck, avoid threads and it all took off on a Christmas 2013 face pic thread called Show Yourself. I got to know a few regular forumites and that helped me settle in. I got burned badly on the first Lounge thread I posted on 'the mind of a woman' and my initiation was complete. I screwed up on a dating thread a few months later and the issues surrounding it and decided to get less involved, stop meeting and generally just take the piss out of myself on here and post pics instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm.

Probably Danielpierced's original nocturnal roll call threads two years ago.

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I was told "don't go on the forums, its full of cunts". I wanted to see for myself. And felt right at home....."

You are my favourite cunt

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I sent a few mail out....I got zero replies So I found the forums. I thought I'd post a few things on here......with zero replies. "

Liar

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Erm.

Probably Danielpierced's original nocturnal roll call threads two years ago. "

Your profile pic is making me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm.

Probably Danielpierced's original nocturnal roll call threads two years ago.

Your profile pic is making me "

Mwuhahaha! Naming no names

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I just felt it would be cruel to rob forums of my presence ..... "

It would. Don't you leave

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

A riend told me about the forums so I popped on and had a look and then one day I plucked up courage to say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, it was either about Easter eggs or being sad. I enjoyed both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i first just read from boredom i suppose then decided to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I started with a thread moaning about people not meeting, er, that might have being yesterday!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Started reading before posting.

My first post was sex hair.

Got chatting to a few regulars that are sadly unlos.

Welcome back BTW x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to get chatting and meet a few people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blimey....it was far too long ago to remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a few mail out....I got zero replies So I found the forums. I thought I'd post a few things on here......with zero replies. "

Hold on....let me find my miniature violin...

Peach x

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Started reading before posting.

My first post was sex hair.

Got chatting to a few regulars that are sadly unlos.

Welcome back BTW x "

Hi lovely. Good to be back.xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I did an intro post, then read for a while, then probably started replying somewhere. It wasn't anything startling as I don't remember specifically my first post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend told me about the forums. I had a look. My first thread (and post) was about sandwiches.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/534047

Hi Estella. Looking good ad always "

Awwww thanks -- good to see you

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

When I first started, the forums were full of formidable characters and I stayed away for ages, then when I did post and one of them answered in a negative fashion I shit myself and stayed away for a while! Now I think meh lol But even after 9 years I'm still forgettable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello strangers

I carnt remember I was prob pissed n being a dick. Now I'm a sober dick.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing noteworthy from us

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I think I'd been on Fab for over a year and was literally just about to leave the site altogether when I happened to spot the forums. I'd never even noticed them before! I found it was nice to finally get to interact with people. Slowly I became more confident and started to post more and before I knew it I was one of the regulars.

I haven't been around much for about the past six months but I am slowly trying to ease my way back into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to frequent the chatrooms way before I discovered the forums ...

I still use them occasionally

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

I kind of lurked then started doing the Nocturnal Role Call to get to know people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only been a few weeks but I can't remember. I found the forums and just started posting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just searching the site being bored, and was a lurker at first. Can't remember my first thread. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just started offering tea and talking about my hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just started offering tea and talking about my hair."

Has there been any further character development?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea but I started on the forums on my previous couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just started offering tea and talking about my hair.

Has there been any further character development? "

No, there really hasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just started offering tea and talking about my hair.

Has there been any further character development?

No, there really hasn't. "

Well, when you start with excellence there's not really anywhere to go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to frequent the chatrooms way before I discovered the forums ...

I still use them occasionally"

I wasted away my first four years on Fab in the chatrooms - the next four in the forum. I guess that means I need a new haunt or should just join the UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just started offering tea and talking about my hair."

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Hadn't even looked at the forums for months when we joined.

Not sure what was my first that I posted to but they suit my sense of humour 100%.

I can be a bit controversial at times but that's how I am.

Never mean to offend and will never intentionally.

Great fun, we love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started reading a few months ago. Then plucked up the courage to join in. Have done a couple of threads. One being a very funny status swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the forums a better place to interact, many different subjects, ideas and opinions..... you get to see people in a whole new light ..... everyone's opinion is valid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just started offering tea and talking about my hair.

Has there been any further character development?

No, there really hasn't.

Well, when you start with excellence there's not really anywhere to go... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still an infant on here finding my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go into the chat rooms and the then the first woman I met suggested to try the forums. I did an into post on the introductions thread and I guess I've been here ever since

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I think I'd been on Fab for over a year and was literally just about to leave the site altogether when I happened to spot the forums. I'd never even noticed them before! I found it was nice to finally get to interact with people. Slowly I became more confident and started to post more and before I knew it I was one of the regulars.

I haven't been around much for about the past six months but I am slowly trying to ease my way back into it "

Slow down cowboy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 4 or 5 years ago now.....on our couples profile.

I stuck to the Scottish forums and very seldom posted in the lounge but as time went on...I posted more. For my singles profile honestly I can't remember now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd been on here about a month before realising that there even were forums here, and even then only because I saw it mentioned on a status

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

I infiltrated the late night thread about 2 years ago on my single profile. They were great times!!

JG x

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I lurked for ages. Then posted a tiny bit. Then a bit more. I tend to post things that amuse me, or in response to something that mildly irks me or that makes me think and despite having some good interactions as a result with the occasional kindred spirit I tend not to get noticed that much. Which is fine by me, it means I can pop in and out as and when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lurked for ages. Then posted a tiny bit. Then a bit more. I tend to post things that amuse me, or in response to something that mildly irks me or that makes me think and despite having some good interactions as a result with the occasional kindred spirit I tend not to get noticed that much. Which is fine by me, it means I can pop in and out as and when."

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Last year someone who I had been chatting to for a while mentioned the forums being a great deal of fun as she wasn't actually meeting at that point. I hadn't investigated the forums though I had been on Fab over a year.

I decided to take a look and jumped into discussion that day...though I do not remember what the thread was about.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Erm...

A thread about a social that Obi organised. First social I went to and first forum venture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lurked for ages. Then posted a tiny bit. Then a bit more. I tend to post things that amuse me, or in response to something that mildly irks me or that makes me think and despite having some good interactions as a result with the occasional kindred spirit I tend not to get noticed that much. Which is fine by me, it means I can pop in and out as and when."

Kindred spirit

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I tried the chat rooms first but couldn't get into it, It moved to fast and 90% of my comments either didn't get noticed or was just ignored,

It was months before I found the forums and my first post was something along the lines of would it be ok to send people who live miles away my face pic asking for their view before I send it to local Women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i read for a while - then 'forgot myself' and dared to post - mostly got ignored but continued - i still get ignored sometimes but i carry on regardless

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I was a lurker for ages before I plucked up the courage to post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a lurker for ages before I plucked up the courage to post!"

And now we are in charge of planning a bloody social!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"...on the forums? How did you start interacting and make yourself notice here,?

We started with "Spanishbrunette roulette " . It was a lot of fun.

What about you all?

Mrs SB "

I've dun so meney posts I can't rember

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I was a lurker for ages before I plucked up the courage to post!

And now we are in charge of planning a bloody social! "

Haha I know! Love it!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a lurker for ages before I plucked up the courage to post!

And now we are in charge of planning a bloody social!

Haha I know! Love it!x"

I seriously can't wait xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came straight in and got my cock out

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I carnt rember or find my 1st Thread I posted on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how I started...or it was another thread but I'm not admitting to that one

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/489550

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I jumped right in before weighing up anyone, my post was about looking for a dominant women, needless to say I get the piss taken out of me for asking that question by the regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember what our first post was about but we just dip in and out of the forums. Sometimes they're a great laugh and sometimes all the fluffy shit does my head in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I had been on the site 9 month, hadn't really posted in the forums just lurked and decided to dip my toe in

Been here 2 years and I still lurk and post wherever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a lurker for ages before I plucked up the courage to post!

And now we are in charge of planning a bloody social! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a few mail out....I got zero replies So I found the forums. I thought I'd post a few things on here......with zero replies.

Liar "

Haha.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I just died straight in to answer one of the standard crop of questions asking for opinion - can't remember the subject now - does size matter, why no meets, bareback… etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a bit of lurker for a while, then threw myself in the deep end and commented on one of the lovely Femme Fatal posts

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Ummm been far to long I can't remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I jumped right in before weighing up anyone, my post was about looking for a dominant women, needless to say I get the piss taken out of me for asking that question by the regulars "

Same.

'The regulars' still take the piss out of newbies.

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

Trim

Kiss fuck or pass, got chosen for a kiss too

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Think I just jumped on in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lurked for ages. Then posted a tiny bit. Then a bit more. I tend to post things that amuse me, or in response to something that mildly irks me or that makes me think and despite having some good interactions as a result with the occasional kindred spirit I tend not to get noticed that much. Which is fine by me, it means I can pop in and out as and when."

This is very similar to how I ventured into the forums.

But then...

I decided to get more stuck in especially with the North East. All I wanted to do was close the gap between the North and South divide...

100+ Forumites in the North were trying to ignore me and stop me from engaging or were picking on me in the threads. I had adopted the resistence is futile policy and they eventually accepted me as a long distance friend!

I then went into the Irish forums... big mistake! I peaked, threads got closed so I backed off. Those that were involved or witnessed that know how funny that was

I enjoy light hearted forum banter, but the interactions with the occasional kindred spirit keeps me coming back to the forums x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My first thread in the new forums was feb 2009 and it got 7 replies.

Dont know about the old forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummm... I think I just had a nose about the forums and and started nattering

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I started reading, then jumped in and posted a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody I met a few times ^^ mentioned he used it so I too had a nosey and thought, this could be fun. And it has, mostly.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I think it had someting to do with boobs

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I think it had someting to do with boobs "

Boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hello senora.

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP   Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Oh hello senora."

Hola pp. How are you sexy bum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea how I got started posting.

Welcome back MrandMrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a bit of lurker for a while, then threw myself in the deep end and commented on one of the lovely Femme Fatal posts "
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i miss her on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck knows. Probably Kiss, fuck etc threads and then status shuffles. Then I worked my way into every thread going and am slowly taking over.

I think the end of year awards really did it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I commented on someone's post and got slaughtered for it. Nearly put me off for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I commented on someone's post and got slaughtered for it. Nearly put me off for life "

Yeah something similar happened to me.

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