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"Hi all, have over the last 12 months seen the deterioration of some swingers houses that I have met from dog smelling houses that make you gag, to single women's houses who have kids who don't use bleach or have clean towels let alone carpets in their houses, have others had the same experiences or have I been unlucky as seems that things are getting worse not better with those on here?? I'm not rich but I know how to use elbow grease, and I'm not knocking single mothers etc before others start bashing me!! but never encountered this till last 6-12 months as before most swingers met were house proud no matter their financial situations!! my real question is what to do should I walk out and tell them? " i don't think it's your position to tell them. the bonds of trust aren't there to legitimately say something like that to a stranger people are inviting a 'shag' round at the end of the day not kim & aggie ! some peoples interpretation of 'clean' is a very wide one however i always make sure the flat is tidy, scented candles are lt etc b4 inviting someone round and appreciate it when others make their own space attractive to visitors so if i went somewhere and there was a pungent smell, then it'd be a passion killer for me and i think i'd make my excuses if it was just untidy or not carpeted, i'd get down to business but not stay long afterwards but i wouldnt say am not shaggin ya -look at ur house ya scruffy bastards | |||
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"Hi all, have over the last 12 months seen the deterioration of some swingers houses that I have met from dog smelling houses that make you gag, to single women's houses who have kids who don't use bleach or have clean towels let alone carpets in their houses, have others had the same experiences or have I been unlucky as seems that things are getting worse not better with those on here?? I'm not rich but I know how to use elbow grease, and I'm not knocking single mothers etc before others start bashing me!! but never encountered this till last 6-12 months as before most swingers met were house proud no matter their financial situations!! my real question is what to do should I walk out and tell them? i don't think it's your position to tell them. the bonds of trust aren't there to legitimately say something like that to a stranger people are inviting a 'shag' round at the end of the day not kim & aggie ! some peoples interpretation of 'clean' is a very wide one however i always make sure the flat is tidy, scented candles are lt etc b4 inviting someone round and appreciate it when others make their own space attractive to visitors so if i went somewhere and there was a pungent smell, then it'd be a passion killer for me and i think i'd make my excuses if it was just untidy or not carpeted, i'd get down to business but not stay long afterwards but i wouldnt say am not shaggin ya -look at ur house ya scruffy bastards" Sorry didn't mean carpeted meant not clean carpets, think need a verification system like hotels friendliness, clean, host lol. More and I agree if house Is a state do they wash properly, doesnt have to be a palace just somewhere nice to have sex as I'm not a robot like most on here and will shag anything etc, think a bit of common decency is all I'm asking for etc from those I meet. | |||
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"There's really no excuse not to keep your home clean and tidy, especially if you've got children around. It doesn't take much time and doesn't actually cost very much to get the basics right If i arrived for a meet and the house was a mess, without question I would rapidly (and politely) say "ta but no ta". Lol some don't even take you to a bed any more just a sheet in the lounge, what's that about as well ?? If the downstairs is messy, dirty, grubby and unclean then i'd dread to see their boudoir!" | |||
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"have had quite a few meets where i havent been shown to a bedroom as a lot of people feel it is 'sacred ground' esp if it is a marital bed. when entertaining here, i usually give the guy the choice of bedroom or living room - being in a flat, it's easier to ask that than if i was in a house i have had 2 guys who i have asked to shower when they have got here too - if they av been in work all day and 'popping in' on their way home, i don't want a cock that was washed in the mornin or in the sink at work " Find it bit insulting to be invited round for sex then for someone to say your ok to come into my lounge and play on a floor but a comfy bed isn't for you lol if it's for space etc then fine if loads there and for group, but sacred beds give me a break especially when seen others fucking on it lol | |||
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"have had quite a few meets where i havent been shown to a bedroom as a lot of people feel it is 'sacred ground' esp if it is a marital bed. when entertaining here, i usually give the guy the choice of bedroom or living room - being in a flat, it's easier to ask that than if i was in a house i have had 2 guys who i have asked to shower when they have got here too - if they av been in work all day and 'popping in' on their way home, i don't want a cock that was washed in the mornin or in the sink at work Find it bit insulting to be invited round for sex then for someone to say your ok to come into my lounge and play on a floor but a comfy bed isn't for you lol if it's for space etc then fine if loads there and for group, but sacred beds give me a break especially when seen others fucking on it lol " i feel ur pain but hey it's a reality in some cases and u often never know til u turn up ! not with me btw - my guests get to go wherever they feel comfier, are always offered the shower before and after and are (in most cases) welcome to stick round a while | |||
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"I am messy, in the sense that if there is a surface, there is usually something on it kind of messy. Hence I meet at hotels or at the gents' homes instead. " u suffer from what is known as 'flat surface syndrome' my mam has that, she sees a flat surface, she has to put something on it | |||
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"A few years ago, via another site, I attended a meet. The house was tiny, everyone was gathered together on the ground floor; changing "facilities" were in the small kitchen/diner towards the rear of the house. But it became very clear that as I undressed, I was literally sticking to the floor; other people noticed it too, such that half of those attending including myself, got dressed and left as quickly as possible!! " i dont mind being stuck to the floor after the main event, but certainly not before | |||
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"A few years ago, via another site, I attended a meet. The house was tiny, everyone was gathered together on the ground floor; changing "facilities" were in the small kitchen/diner towards the rear of the house. But it became very clear that as I undressed, I was literally sticking to the floor; other people noticed it too, such that half of those attending including myself, got dressed and left as quickly as possible!! i dont mind being stuck to the floor after the main event, but certainly not before " Lol me too, have to say thanks for the advice and I'm sure the ones who have the problem don't realise the impression it gives. The wet dog smell house was the worst though, cut and ran very quickly awful and put me off meeting for a few weeks. | |||
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"Hi all, have over the last 12 months seen the deterioration of some swingers houses that I have met from dog smelling houses that make you gag, to single women's houses who have kids who don't use bleach or have clean towels let alone carpets in their houses, have others had the same experiences or have I been unlucky as seems that things are getting worse not better with those on here?? I'm not rich but I know how to use elbow grease, and I'm not knocking single mothers etc before others start bashing me!! but never encountered this till last 6-12 months as before most swingers met were house proud no matter their financial situations!! my real question is what to do should I walk out and tell them? " i do actually find it quite odd that you needed to single out single mothers in your post there even tho you went onto saying you wasnt knocking single mums you quite obviously was anyone can have a dirty house, anyone can not use bleach and not wash towels that fact they are single parents has nothiing to do with it, their house would probably be just as bad if they was married if not worse cause then they'd have a man to not clean up ater as well NN offended single mum | |||
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"i do actually find it quite odd that you needed to single out single mothers in your post there even tho you went onto saying you wasnt knocking single mums you quite obviously was anyone can have a dirty house, anyone can not use bleach and not wash towels that fact they are single parents has nothiing to do with it, their house would probably be just as bad if they was married if not worse cause then they'd have a man to not clean up ater as well NN offended single mum " agreed.. | |||
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"I've yet to come across a dirty house! I always meet socially and if the man isn't erm clean looking, or smell nice, no matter how hot he looks he's not entering my home: and more to the point I wouldn't be going to his!!! I paid a fortune last week to remove the shit my daughter brought back from uni as I'm slightly OCD when it comes to cleanliness, however I think I'd feel a bit uncomfortable and a bit paranoid if I'd met the OP and read this post and the comments on his profile! " i actually agree theres no way id invite anyone with a profile like that back to my house, and not becase i dont think my house is ok to invite people to but because id feel like he was walking round giving each of my rooms marks out of 10 and im not here to be judged my advice to the OP is if your so superior to other people just accommodate | |||
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"lets hope its none of those people he is ranting on about who have left him a verification.. its humiliation" As I said, if I'd met the OP and also had a dog I'd be wondering if he was talking about me! | |||
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"Hi all, have over the last 12 months seen the deterioration of some swingers houses that I have met from dog smelling houses that make you gag, to single women's houses who have kids who don't use bleach or have clean towels let alone carpets in their houses, have others had the same experiences or have I been unlucky as seems that things are getting worse not better with those on here?? I'm not rich but I know how to use elbow grease, and I'm not knocking single mothers etc before others start bashing me!! but never encountered this till last 6-12 months as before most swingers met were house proud no matter their financial situations!! my real question is what to do should I walk out and tell them? " Just a thought but it might be you have dropped your standards and will meet anything rather than other people deteriorating. It often happens when someone initially think they are an 8/10 and look to meet other 8's as well as 7's and 9s. When realisation hits you are say a 3 or a 4 then you start meeting other 3's and 4's and maybe they have lower home and hygiene standards too. Just a hypothetical possibility for you to think about. | |||
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"if hes doing a naked cleaner service i'll have him lol" Will he be happy with the naked cleaner uniform that the employer has to provide .. ?? | |||
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"if hes doing a naked cleaner service i'll have him lol" You're a single mum so I don't think he'd offer himself naked. If you have a haz mat suit however...!!! | |||
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"if hes doing a naked cleaner service i'll have him lol You're a single mum so I don't think he'd offer himself naked. If you have a haz mat suit however...!!! " Ooo theres sites for that kinda thing you know lol | |||
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"if hes doing a naked cleaner service i'll have him lol You're a single mum so I don't think he'd offer himself naked. If you have a haz mat suit however...!!! Ooo theres sites for that kinda thing you know lol" Naked guy at your service, then again your a single mother so no thanks | |||
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"lets hope its none of those people he is ranting on about who have left him a verification.. its humiliation" It's not it was yours I was referring too, didn't verify you as house was a tip , just so we are clear stay away from this one house stinks lol | |||
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" And as I said if you don't think your house is unclean it's you lmao " This is the bit about your post that I just don't get Maybe they don't think their house is unclean because it isn't unclean and it is you just going over the top in your critisisms! | |||
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"I've yet to come across a dirty house! I always meet socially and if the man isn't erm clean looking, or smell nice, no matter how hot he looks he's not entering my home: and more to the point I wouldn't be going to his!!! I paid a fortune last week to remove the shit my daughter brought back from uni as I'm slightly OCD when it comes to cleanliness, however I think I'd feel a bit uncomfortable and a bit paranoid if I'd met the OP and read this post and the comments on his profile! " I met both the couple and one of the single women in neutral locations and all were very nice sexy and smelt well, how can you tell what state theirs is in when invited back? As others who have met me don't know what mine will be like till come back to mine, just so you know my cleaner does mine once a week and I do very little!! | |||
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"if hes doing a naked cleaner service i'll have him lol You're a single mum so I don't think he'd offer himself naked. If you have a haz mat suit however...!!! Ooo theres sites for that kinda thing you know lol Naked guy at your service, then again your a single mother so no thanks " Oh go on: be a sport! Naughty can send the kids to the pictures, I'll nip down to Lidl for the bleach, feather duster and the Marigold's and Peacock's have some cheap towels I'll chuck in! (I'm trying for you Naughty, no need to thank me)! | |||
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" And as I said if you don't think your house is unclean it's you lmao This is the bit about your post that I just don't get Maybe they don't think their house is unclean because it isn't unclean and it is you just going over the top in your critisisms! " Not over the top at all, when the bath has loads of black mould around it, pots stacked up in sink for a week, and wet towels are left everywhere, etc etc that's not pleasant, like I said difference between untidy and unclean isn't difficult to fathom, and it's not like they didn't work or know the difference themselves infact one was a nurse in a hospital!! | |||
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"dogs don't bother me apart from the one that ate it's way thru my jacket and my wallet and the £50 quid inside it while i was otherwise engaged " Lmao expensive blow job | |||
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"Lol didn't take the single parents long time to raise that slight point I made, in fact just so I'm being transparent the last 3 people who's house was a mess two were single mothers and one was a couple, doesnt mean I will stop meeting couples or single mothers, and as for the dog it was a guys house. So there we go!! My point as you have obviously missed was is it acceptable to put others you have invited round through that? And being the very polite and good natured chap I am I didn't and wouldn't say it to anyone that they have an untidy house etc. I don't have OCD etc just like to have a clean house and somewhere pleasant to have sex, that's not a crime just something for me. As for slagging off my profile for adding my wants etc, last time I looked others discriminate against loads of things, and it's everyone's prerogative to post what they want etc. And as I said if you don't think your house is unclean it's you lmao " you say put others thro that? but put others thro what? everyone has different standards and they may thiink theres nothiing wrong with their house, some may come to your house and it may not be upto their standards but you obviously think its ok or your woulsnt invite people back....you get what im saying? Personally i would tell people why i was leaving if i went to someones home and it was that bad i had to go, i dont think thats rude its just honest, it would be ruder of me to lie and make out i had to leave for the kids etc but thats just my opinion We do all have different standards but but sometimes some things are best kept to ourselves because your profile is off putting, like it or not it will put lots of people off who may have perfectly good homes but to scared to invite you round incase your turn your nose up at them | |||
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" And as I said if you don't think your house is unclean it's you lmao This is the bit about your post that I just don't get Maybe they don't think their house is unclean because it isn't unclean and it is you just going over the top in your critisisms! Not over the top at all, when the bath has loads of black mould around it, pots stacked up in sink for a week, and wet towels are left everywhere, etc etc that's not pleasant, like I said difference between untidy and unclean isn't difficult to fathom, and it's not like they didn't work or know the difference themselves infact one was a nurse in a hospital!! " Do you not think you are getting a bit to explicit about who this person is? Done no naming but plenty shaming. | |||
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"if hes doing a naked cleaner service i'll have him lol You're a single mum so I don't think he'd offer himself naked. If you have a haz mat suit however...!!! Ooo theres sites for that kinda thing you know lol Naked guy at your service, then again your a single mother so no thanks Oh go on: be a sport! Naughty can send the kids to the pictures, I'll nip down to Lidl for the bleach, feather duster and the Marigold's and Peacock's have some cheap towels I'll chuck in! (I'm trying for you Naughty, no need to thank me)! " nah no point mate you'd never scub my carpets up in time for him coming round | |||
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"dogs don't bother me apart from the one that ate it's way thru my jacket and my wallet and the £50 quid inside it while i was otherwise engaged Lmao expensive blow job" yeah you should have gone down pleck, you could have got one for a fiver lol | |||
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"Though did have a meet a long time ago, where the house smelled of a deep fat fryer, from the moment i walked in i could smell it and i couldnt stop smelling it, couldnt play the smell made me feel sick." I've had that with 2 different lads but they came to me. They were clean in themselves but it was on their clothes. I don't have a deep fat fryer and if I need to cook something in a frying pan then it sends me febreezing crazy | |||
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