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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand there is so many men compared to women so surely fabswigers should stop adding new male members, just for a while for, 1 give the genuine males on here a chance and 2 to help the women stop being bombarded with hundreds of messages???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why do you deserve a chance and not the others ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if I were you I'd work on your profile letting women know about you: what you like, what you're into, what you bring to the table.

Banning further men from joining won't help you as currently you don't stand out from the pack, and if you don't improve your profile you never will!

Good luck!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Perhaps only clean sluts are looking at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is that then??

Fabswingers is a business like any other lol

If you owned it would you turn potential customers away??

Numbers is the name of the game for advertising purposes

Also site supporter income

But the main thing is that its open to everyone and everyone has the same chances its just the ones that "sell themselves" better on their profile tend to do better lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that then??

Fabswingers is a business like any other lol

If you owned it would you turn potential customers away??

Numbers is the name of the game for advertising purposes

Also site supporter income

But the main thing is that its open to everyone and everyone has the same chances its just the ones that "sell themselves" better on their profile tend to do better lol xx "

Wot he (and the others) said...

PLUS: It isnt only the young guys who get it hard...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u cant pull off here u wont pull onhere if u rarely pull off here u`ll rarely pull onhere

dont expect miracles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if u cant pull off here u wont pull onhere if u rarely pull off here u`ll rarely pull onhere

dont expect miracles "

Well put that made me smile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps only clean sluts are looking at your profile "

Oh: I missed that! That said, there are some women on here that will hear his Siren's call!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps only clean sluts are looking at your profile

Oh: I missed that! That said, there are some women on here that will hear his Siren's call! "

Ooooh im missed that bit too

Mail me mail me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid off all the single Femmes then we will find out who is bi or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid off all the single Femmes then we will find out who is bi or not... "

A sausage only site?? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think restricting male numbers would help you in any way.

For us we couldn't care less if male numbers was zero as we dont meet single males.

To be honest though, There are loads of single males who pester people ... You might be the most genuine guy on here but to some couples and females will see you as yet another single male who is just like the rest.

The reason we dont meet males is for that reason and yes it is unfair to class you all the same but we cant be bothered ing out the fakes etc ... We do enough of that with some female and couple profiles too lol

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"if u cant pull off here u wont pull onhere if u rarely pull off here u`ll rarely pull onhere

dont expect miracles "

Thats very true, I love the challenge of pulling on here, it's all about how you come across, from my experience.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i agree...... in fact I'd go further...

last in.. first out!!!! and since you have only been here 6 weeks.... cheerio!!!! see ya!!!

okay.. all the above is me being really flippant.... but it does strike me that your opening post smacks of self interest..

the site gives you all the tools to make it work... if you can't make it work for you... then only one people you should be looking at!!!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

stop bothering about other guys and just consentrate on what your doing! plenty of single genuine guys get meets ,if your not then look closer to home for where the problem lies and take steps to sort it . if you dont then you could be the only guy on here and still not gets meets lol !!! but end of the day there are no garentees that anyone will get meets . trust me couples and single fems find difficulties getting meets aswell . just as with everyone else you just have to have patience and raise your game !

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"I understand there is so many men compared to women so surely fabswigers should stop adding new male members, just for a while for, 1 give the genuine males on here a chance and 2 to help the women stop being bombarded with hundreds of messages???"

Are you taking the fucking piss?

6 weeks here and 4 meets!!!

Jesus man, were you expecting to get an easy shag every night of the week?

Your post has nothing to do with women being bombarded with messages or letting the 'genuine males' get a chance.....

It's a "Look at me thread!"

**Maddie wanders off muttering...... "unfrickingbelievable"**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if u cant pull off here u wont pull onhere if u rarely pull off here u`ll rarely pull onhere

dont expect miracles "

couldnt agree more! makes me annoyed the amount of single guys that join a site like this "expecting" to get some action, sorry guys, doesnt work like that, us single girls are here for our pleasure, we arnt just sat around waiting for you to contact us, yes even us fat asses, can be choosy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand there is so many men compared to women so surely fabswigers should stop adding new male members, just for a while for, 1 give the genuine males on here a chance and 2 to help the women stop being bombarded with hundreds of messages???

Are you taking the fucking piss?

6 weeks here and 4 meets!!!

Jesus man, were you expecting to get an easy shag every night of the week?

Your post has nothing to do with women being bombarded with messages or letting the 'genuine males' get a chance.....

It's a "Look at me thread!"

**Maddie wanders off muttering...... "unfrickingbelievable"**"

Mornin oh Mad one good ta see ya still on form fa a Granny xx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"I understand there is so many men compared to women so surely fabswigers should stop adding new male members, just for a while for, 1 give the genuine males on here a chance and 2 to help the women stop being bombarded with hundreds of messages???

Are you taking the fucking piss?

6 weeks here and 4 meets!!!

Jesus man, were you expecting to get an easy shag every night of the week?

Your post has nothing to do with women being bombarded with messages or letting the 'genuine males' get a chance.....

It's a "Look at me thread!"

**Maddie wanders off muttering...... "unfrickingbelievable"**

Mornin oh Mad one good ta see ya still on form fa a Granny xx "

Frick orf Soapmeister!

I'll never be as old as you!

**Maddie and her old bones run of cackling**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


" xx"

get ready for ya whipping at the Beach Party.......!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" xx

get ready for ya whipping at the Beach Party.......! "

Soapy slowly bending over and removing his boxers in anticipation xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


" xx

get ready for ya whipping at the Beach Party.......!

Soapy slowly bending over and removing his boxers in anticipation xx "

well that's put me off my brekkie!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" xx

get ready for ya whipping at the Beach Party.......!

Soapy slowly bending over and removing his boxers in anticipation xx

well that's put me off my brekkie!!!"

*Giggles*...who you kidding?!!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Just a thought, cant this type of thread and all similar ones from anyone be put into a 'read this' before you place your first post on the Forums page?

May stop the same old question being asked again and again, also some may read it and take on board the constructive comments from other posters in response to the question.

Then, (and dont hold your breath)some might amend their own profile based on said comments...simples

Mind you speaking as a bloke who does not read instructions on kit that thoroughly i think world peace will happen before some post why me, why not now, why why why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

y's every1 giving him a hard time....if you dnt like the thread subject dnt post on it....single blokes find it harder cuz most people are looking 4 couples and there are about 400 blokes 2 every bird on this site....maybe blokes should have a small charge like 2.50 a month....swinger clubs have a extra charge 4 blokes.....also i would recomend you get better at bullshit cuz by the looks of things, the more you bullshit the birds the more success you get...and in day 2 day life you must have m8's who just totally act flase infront of birds, and there successfull, I have got mate's like that....and birds think there good at smelling B/S, when infact there rubbish at it...ha ha. ...looks like it works here anyway.....just an observation

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

'a hard time'?

got to disagree tbh, fact is if you put a post on an open forum you have to expect you may well be criticised if people who read it and disagree feel thats their response.

unless you want only responses which are absolutely in agreement, what a thought eh?

then when someone posts something really inane eg. do 'ladies like being fisted up the arse on a first date or similar' all the ladies on the site can answer 'Yes of course we do dear'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say bullshit works on here or in real life, Yes you can big yourself up to be something but then they get to know the real you and your gone!! (But fine for a one night stand)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'a hard time'?

got to disagree tbh, fact is if you put a post on an open forum you have to expect you may well be criticised if people who read it and disagree feel thats their response.

unless you want only responses which are absolutely in agreement, what a thought eh?

then when someone posts something really inane eg. do 'ladies like being fisted up the arse on a first date or similar' all the ladies on the site can answer 'Yes of course we do dear'

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ye i agree with you....i mean people sayin he shudnt of posted this subject at all....there who im dissagreeing with

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I understand there is so many men compared to women so surely fabswigers should stop adding new male members, just for a while for, 1 give the genuine males on here a chance and 2 to help the women stop being bombarded with hundreds of messages???"

Why should my barrel have some of the fish removed so I have to have the tiddlers ?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"y's every1 giving him a hard time....if you dnt like the thread subject dnt post on it....single blokes find it harder cuz most people are looking 4 couples and there are about 400 blokes 2 every bird on this site....maybe blokes should have a small charge like 2.50 a month....swinger clubs have a extra charge 4 blokes.....also i would recomend you get better at bullshit cuz by the looks of things, the more you bullshit the birds the more success you get...and in day 2 day life you must have m8's who just totally act flase infront of birds, and there successfull, I have got mate's like that....and birds think there good at smelling B/S, when infact there rubbish at it...ha ha. ...looks like it works here anyway.....just an observation"

Its a forum...it works by people posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"y's every1 giving him a hard time....if you dnt like the thread subject dnt post on it....single blokes find it harder cuz most people are looking 4 couples and there are about 400 blokes 2 every bird on this site....maybe blokes should have a small charge like 2.50 a month....swinger clubs have a extra charge 4 blokes.....also i would recomend you get better at bullshit cuz by the looks of things, the more you bullshit the birds the more success you get...and in day 2 day life you must have m8's who just totally act flase infront of birds, and there successfull, I have got mate's like that....and birds think there good at smelling B/S, when infact there rubbish at it...ha ha. ...looks like it works here anyway.....just an observation

Its a forum...it works by people posting. "

i ment people wer saying this topic shuldnt be posted, and i was saying if you dnt think it shud b posted dnt post on it.......it came out wrong

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Anyone can post anything....whether a new subject or not and those who feel they have the power to decide are sorely deluded but funny....lol

If you don't want to read it don't read it....

to the op .... doesn't make much difference to us. We will only meet those who are right for us and if that is only one then so be it.

However...... too many woman on here...ban them...and the couples.... want to be the only one left on here so i can complain about getting too much mail

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone can post anything....whether a new subject or not and those who feel they have the power to decide are sorely deluded but funny....lol

If you don't want to read it don't read it....

to the op .... doesn't make much difference to us. We will only meet those who are right for us and if that is only one then so be it.

However...... too many woman on here...ban them...and the couples.... want to be the only one left on here so i can complain about getting too much mail

Mistress x"

ye thats wot i was trying 2 say, but got my words muddled up

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Damn!!!! Just remembered I like women too....this complaining is more tricky than I thought....

Mistress x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Anyone can post anything....whether a new subject or not and those who feel they have the power to decide are sorely deluded but funny....lol

If you don't want to read it don't read it....

to the op .... doesn't make much difference to us. We will only meet those who are right for us and if that is only one then so be it.

However...... too many woman on here...ban them...and the couples.... want to be the only one left on here so i can complain about getting too much mail

Mistress x

ye thats wot i was trying 2 say, but got my words muddled up "

Glad icould be here for you.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I understand there is so many men compared to women so surely fabswigers should stop adding new male members, just for a while for, 1 give the genuine males on here a chance and 2 to help the women stop being bombarded with hundreds of messages???

Why should my barrel have some of the fish removed so I have to have the tiddlers ?"

So you can fit more of them in your mouth

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand there is so many men compared to women so surely fabswigers should stop adding new male members, just for a while for, 1 give the genuine males on here a chance and 2 to help the women stop being bombarded with hundreds of messages???"

but then i may miss out on a great meet by a guy who would have joined lol

nah keep them coming i go thro the male section most days and i need new faces for when ive fun out of guys to mail lol

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