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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone,

So yesterday, i was on a second date, and when my date went to get the second round of drinks, an older man, wayyy older than her and I, grabbed her by the arm and started to flirt with her, just chatting but he wanted clearly more. She told him politely thank you but i'm on a date right now and she left to join the table we were on.

Later that evening, i got to the bathroom and i've seen the guy wasn't far and he was still looking at my date from time to time, so when i stood up i knew he would use this moment to chat with her.

I come back and there he is, on my sit chatting with my date and he even bought a drink to her!

I went really polite and told the guy : excuse me sir, this is my sit and i would like to get it back so i can keep enjoying the date with my lovely company.

Of course he stood up and went a bit away without any problem, do i have to say that he was maybe 5ft6, my date is 6ft and i'm 6ft8 ? I think y'all get what i mean.

But then he came back and asked her for a kiss even tho she was holding my arm, she declined it, thanks god she did.

I've gotta say that i went really patient on that one and played it cool, kept my blood cold, even tho i've to admit that i was really uncomfortable and felt disrespected.

And it keeps working on my mind even tho i know it shouldn't but fuck me this guy got lucky i wasn't in the mood to punch him hard, because then he would have needed a whole new face.

So yeah, how would you react if you're meeting/having a date with someone you fancy, obviously, and someone, Man or Woman, it doesnt matter, is clearly trying to chat/flirt with you meet/date ?

I've to say that when i came back from the toilet, i almost wanted to take my stuff on the table and leave without a word.

I need your opinions on that one, what would you have done, how would you have felt, etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoulda asked him to join you, and see where it went.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shoulda asked him to join you, and see where it went. "

Are you THAT Guy ?

Nice try buddy but she said no to you last night lmao.

Joking appart why would i ask him to do so ? All he was interested in was bringing my date at his place and fuck her.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Cheeky bleeders those old fuckers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was your date from fab? was he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have caused a riot and put the full pub up in the air. How dare someone find the person you're out with attractive It's a liberty so it is mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"was your date from fab? was he?"

Nope and nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd have caused a riot and put the full pub up in the air. How dare someone find the person you're out with attractive It's a liberty so it is mate "

There's a difference between finding someone attractive, which i have nothing agaisn't it, and flirting with someone who told you he/she's on a date when the date is like 1meters away, no ?

Or maybe it's just me, but to me there's a huuuuge difference.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

did she not tell him to go away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have caused a riot and put the full pub up in the air. How dare someone find the person you're out with attractive It's a liberty so it is mate

There's a difference between finding someone attractive, which i have nothing agaisn't it, and flirting with someone who told you he/she's on a date when the date is like 1meters away, no ?

Or maybe it's just me, but to me there's a huuuuge difference."

Yeah it's just you

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By *iceguymkMan
over a year ago

aylesbury


"Hello everyone,

So yesterday, i was on a second date, and when my date went to get the second round of drinks, an older man, wayyy older than her and I, grabbed her by the arm and started to flirt with her, just chatting but he wanted clearly more. She told him politely thank you but i'm on a date right now and she left to join the table we were on.

Later that evening, i got to the bathroom and i've seen the guy wasn't far and he was still looking at my date from time to time, so when i stood up i knew he would use this moment to chat with her.

I come back and there he is, on my sit chatting with my date and he even bought a drink to her!

I went really polite and told the guy : excuse me sir, this is my sit and i would like to get it back so i can keep enjoying the date with my lovely company.

Of course he stood up and went a bit away without any problem, do i have to say that he was maybe 5ft6, my date is 6ft and i'm 6ft8 ? I think y'all get what i mean.

But then he came back and asked her for a kiss even tho she was holding my arm, she declined it, thanks god she did.

I've gotta say that i went really patient on that one and played it cool, kept my blood cold, even tho i've to admit that i was really uncomfortable and felt disrespected.

And it keeps working on my mind even tho i know it shouldn't but fuck me this guy got lucky i wasn't in the mood to punch him hard, because then he would have needed a whole new face.

So yeah, how would you react if you're meeting/having a date with someone you fancy, obviously, and someone, Man or Woman, it doesnt matter, is clearly trying to chat/flirt with you meet/date ?

I've to say that when i came back from the toilet, i almost wanted to take my stuff on the table and leave without a word.

I need your opinions on that one, what would you have done, how would you have felt, etc.. "

Why would you leave without saying a word ... It wasn't your date that was encouraging him as you said she declined all his offers . Think you did the best thing , keep your cool ,as you don't wanna show your angry side to your date .... Only show that if he was completely being a knob head and was your last option to keep him away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"did she not tell him to go away?"

She did that's the point.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Should have gone somewhere between the two options. I know it was only a first date, maybe told him in no unclear terms to clear off. Your date had already told him she wasn't interested, it wouldn't have been over possessive or anything.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Yeah it's just you "

Well then, discussion closed lmao

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I understand completely how you feel, and I feel that you did the best you could in a situation like that and kept yourself calm to enjoy the rest of your date.

Also it sounds like she behaved well too.

The only person who didn't with the 3rd person who should have known better and sounds very disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you get flirty old men in pubs, they are usually retired men who chat with everyone. If he wasn't one of those kind, and wasn't d*unk, I'd have been a bit more stern in telling him to leave me alone. I might have moved to a different bar area, and I wouldn't have accepted his drink. If he had sat down beside me I would have gotten up and told him to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he was d*unk, and there was security in the place, I'd have signalled one of them to remove him (I've done that before and they did).

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

6ft 8!

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By *iceguymkMan
over a year ago

aylesbury


"6ft 8! "

Calm down lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok well thanks for your feedback, i feel better about it now.

And he wasn't really D*unk, maybe a bit tipsy, and i've to say that it's not an excuse, to me being D*unk/tipsy/old/single/desesperate to do what this guy did.

And MrandMrsRolePlay, would none of you two would feel like i did even after you told the person to politely back off and they keep being pushy/insisting ?

Isn't it a bit like on fab ? No means no ?

I wasn't thinking that single men being pushy was only a bad thing on fab :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably fought he could take you if it came to a fight.

If it was me and some woman was flirting with my date I'd ask her if she wanted a straw, if she asked why I'd say cos you'll be eating all your meals through it if you don't fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fought? Thought! See my phone sensed I was angry and changed the word!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I would have asked him politely to follow you outside and layed the fucker out.

Classic case of small man syndrome.

Saw a big guy and tried to steal your woman.

What a proper cunt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh he probably Could have taken me, i got in fight with smaller but stronger men that knew what they were doing so yeah i wouldn't have underestimated him if anything like that was happening, but what i could have done to make things clearer, just thought about it, i could have taken him by the arm a bit away and tell him clearly that i'm not appreciating what he's doing, maybe he wouldn't have kept being pushy and annoying.

And for the free drink, my date told me that he sat down and he had the drink with him already, and she told me also : why should i not take the drink ? He wanted to offer me one, i took it and then told him to go enjoy his night. And she added : and it usually tastes better when it's free, which made me laugh ahah.

But after thinking, who knows he could have put pills or something in the drink :0 he didn't but he could have!

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I'd have caused a riot and put the full pub up in the air. How dare someone find the person you're out with attractive It's a liberty so it is mate "

Ha ha only the jocks can react with turning a place inside out.

I seen it in a pub in wishaw when they ran out of draught cider.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Oh he probably Could have taken me, i got in fight with smaller but stronger men that knew what they were doing so yeah i wouldn't have underestimated him if anything like that was happening, but what i could have done to make things clearer, just thought about it, i could have taken him by the arm a bit away and tell him clearly that i'm not appreciating what he's doing, maybe he wouldn't have kept being pushy and annoying.

And for the free drink, my date told me that he sat down and he had the drink with him already, and she told me also : why should i not take the drink ? He wanted to offer me one, i took it and then told him to go enjoy his night. And she added : and it usually tastes better when it's free, which made me laugh ahah.

But after thinking, who knows he could have put pills or something in the drink :0 he didn't but he could have!"

she must be mad to have drank that drink as you say he could have spiked it

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"I'd have caused a riot and put the full pub up in the air. How dare someone find the person you're out with attractive It's a liberty so it is mate

Ha ha only the jocks can react with turning a place inside out.

I seen it in a pub in wishaw when they ran out of draught cider. "

bet you have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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she must be mad to have drank that drink as you say he could have spiked it"

Yeah i just thought about it ! This is scary :0

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd communicate with the date, to find a joint plan and then execute it. A formal request to go away would be issued and repeated, then staff would be engaged.

No aggression or violence from our part, nor the giving of any further information to the intruder, other than that the unwanted person should leave.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Remain unaffected and carry on flirting with my date.

Then when he goes to the toilet ask him if he haas ever seen the blue dolphin?

Then introduce him to it.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

How old are we talking? Old and frail or young enough that you can shove him and not look bad? If he was my age he would have gotten something between "fuck off" and a shove depending on my mood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So first....what the hell is a Blue Dolphin ? Aha

And well i Would have said between 45/55years old, so 20/30years older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a wasp lands on your testicle, you finally realise that violence isn't the only way.

Nice story OP.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well you got the girl so pity the man,I'm sure it was pretty annoying for you,but it sound's like you were a gentleman unlike that twit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

So yesterday, i was on a second date, and when my date went to get the second round of drinks, an older man, wayyy older than her and I, grabbed her by the arm and started to flirt with her, just chatting but he wanted clearly more. She told him politely thank you but i'm on a date right now and she left to join the table we were on.

Later that evening, i got to the bathroom and i've seen the guy wasn't far and he was still looking at my date from time to time, so when i stood up i knew he would use this moment to chat with her.

I come back and there he is, on my sit chatting with my date and he even bought a drink to her!

I went really polite and told the guy : excuse me sir, this is my sit and i would like to get it back so i can keep enjoying the date with my lovely company.

Of course he stood up and went a bit away without any problem, do i have to say that he was maybe 5ft6, my date is 6ft and i'm 6ft8 ? I think y'all get what i mean.

But then he came back and asked her for a kiss even tho she was holding my arm, she declined it, thanks god she did.

I've gotta say that i went really patient on that one and played it cool, kept my blood cold, even tho i've to admit that i was really uncomfortable and felt disrespected.

And it keeps working on my mind even tho i know it shouldn't but fuck me this guy got lucky i wasn't in the mood to punch him hard, because then he would have needed a whole new face.

So yeah, how would you react if you're meeting/having a date with someone you fancy, obviously, and someone, Man or Woman, it doesnt matter, is clearly trying to chat/flirt with you meet/date ?

I've to say that when i came back from the toilet, i almost wanted to take my stuff on the table and leave without a word.

I need your opinions on that one, what would you have done, how would you have felt, etc.. "

Well 1st off hat's off to you mate for staying cool & composed violence ain't always the answer.

In your position honestly cld say how wld have reacted am normally a very calm guy, can take banter, insults etc but disrespect or humiliation! Think he might have ended in intensive care lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately some blokes out there can't take a hint and think they can barge in regardless.

I had this years ago with a woman I was in a relationship with.

We'd been living together for a couple of years too.

We were at a pub I used to help out at with the DJing, and he was one of the doormen - so it wasn't like he didn't know what the score with.

One night,when we were in there with her parents, he handed her a note inviting her to meet for sex.

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