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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

obviously when 2 profiles have no face pics in public, there is that aspect of 'nervousness' when it comes to the big reveal

will i fancy them ?

will they fancy me ?

will we know each other ?

and perhaps most critical, if they i show first and they either know me or don't fancy me, will i get theirs in return ?

when it comes round to showing face pics ?

if i make the contact then i will gladly 'show my cards' first

however, if i am contacted by someone else when it comes to that time, i think the impetus should come from them

(can i just add that if i dont fancy the other person if they entrust me with their pics and i don't fancy them, i will send mine anyway - as trust should work both ways)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was to make first contact then I would show first , if they make first contact then I would expect them to show first but thats just me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont judge users on a pict

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i was to make first contact then I would show first , if they make first contact then I would expect them to show first but thats just me .

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Thats the same rule i go with under normal circumstances

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

That is a good rule!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"obviously when 2 profiles have no face pics in public, there is that aspect of 'nervousness' when it comes to the big reveal

will i fancy them ?

will they fancy me ?

will we know each other ?

and perhaps most critical, if they i show first and they either know me or don't fancy me, will i get theirs in return ?

when it comes round to showing face pics ?

if i make the contact then i will gladly 'show my cards' first

however, if i am contacted by someone else when it comes to that time, i think the impetus should come from them

(can i just add that if i dont fancy the other person if they entrust me with their pics and i don't fancy them, i will send mine anyway - as trust should work both ways)"

sounds fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont judge users on a pict

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neither do I but that wasnt the Question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont judge users on a pict

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why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont judge users on a pict

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Can we meet? kwa si modo

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

if someone contacts me then they show first, that way I have time to put my trainers on and run away before they see me

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By *quamarina1964Woman
over a year ago

Bideford

yadda yadda yadda lol, beauty is in the eye of the beholder lol.

Never judge a book by its cover, the list is endless lol, oh and if i contact, i show first then hopefully they return the favour, at the end of the day arent we all on here for the same thing? lol Its not a dating site yano lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Show?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Just go to a chat room and put on cam . so much better than a picture anyway.In all honesty they could be showing any pic of anyone .. could be ten years old some people are deceitful. when I ask for a pic I expect a clear lit face picture and you would get that from me. but sadly this is rarely the case. camming gives you a proper idea of what the whole person is like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just go to a chat room and put on cam . so much better than a picture anyway.In all honesty they could be showing any pic of anyone .. could be ten years old some people are deceitful. when I ask for a pic I expect a clear lit face picture and you would get that from me. but sadly this is rarely the case. camming gives you a proper idea of what the whole person is like ."

ahhhh but as we learnt from another thread its easy to put a video up on cam

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

well thats easy to sort by asking them to sit stand or move .

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

i just show em a piccy of John Hurt in make up from the Elephant Man. If they still wanna meet after that its a win-win for everyone.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


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(can i just add that if i dont fancy the other person if they entrust me with their pics and i don't fancy them, i will send mine anyway - as trust should work both ways)"

I'm the same as you, even though I don't fancy them (hmm 90%)of the time, I will still send mine back, fairs fair after all

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