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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any excuse not to be photo verified??

Come accross this a lot lately, couples profiles chatting and getting to the point of speaking in more depth or pictures and suddenly the female is 'at work' or your message gets deleted? Is it just men trying to get off on anything they can, be it male, female, donkey, alien

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our excuse is that when we were new here, we didn't realise it was necessary. 3 years on, it's kind of obsolete as we have enough connections on the swing scene and a hell of a lot of meet verifications. We'd get photo verified if we had to, but it's simply never been relevant.

Mrs

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"Our excuse is that when we were new here, we didn't realise it was necessary. 3 years on, it's kind of obsolete as we have enough connections on the swing scene and a hell of a lot of meet verifications. We'd get photo verified if we had to, but it's simply never been relevant.

Mrs "
. this for us too Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to be photo verified. Then we got meet verified enough that I saw the photo verification as superfluous and asked admin to remove it because I didn't want the photo verification pic to be on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't want their face pics stored on a casual sex sites central server. I'm in two minds about it to be honest...

Each to their own, if you prefer to only meet 'green flags' then avoid those that don't have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was but it was in male mode....which I felt could have compromised my confidentiality so I removed it...but hey a don't have a wife anyway

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Some people don't want their face pics stored on a casual sex sites central server. I'm in two minds about it to be honest...

Each to their own, if you prefer to only meet 'green flags' then avoid those that don't have them. "

You don't need to shoe your face though do you to be photo verified

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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In theory with the instant pictures what fab has introduced it should put a end to fakes or Men pretending to be Women, Unless they have a reason for not sending a pic but why would you meet someone if you haven't seen what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people don't want their face pics stored on a casual sex sites central server. I'm in two minds about it to be honest...

Each to their own, if you prefer to only meet 'green flags' then avoid those that don't have them.

You don't need to shoe your face though do you to be photo verified "

That's true. Or a full length nude. I chose the face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to be photo verified. Then we got meet verified enough that I saw the photo verification as superfluous and asked admin to remove it because I didn't want the photo verification pic to be on the site. "

Superfluous, new word for me. Hopefully it's British as my colleagues already look weird at me when I say trash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In theory with the instant pictures what fab has introduced it should put a end to fakes or Men pretending to be Women, Unless they have a reason for not sending a pic but why would you meet someone if you haven't seen what they look like "

Not really as it will be easy to download a pic off the net....say it's your Mrs. ...who unfortunately took I'll just before meet but husband can come alone

I know I'm a bloody sceptic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any excuse not to be photo verified??

Come accross this a lot lately, couples profiles chatting and getting to the point of speaking in more depth or pictures and suddenly the female is 'at work' or your message gets deleted? Is it just men trying to get off on anything they can, be it male, female, donkey, alien "
the only ones who win are those who have both photo verified and member verified

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"In theory with the instant pictures what fab has introduced it should put a end to fakes or Men pretending to be Women, Unless they have a reason for not sending a pic but why would you meet someone if you haven't seen what they look like

Not really as it will be easy to download a pic off the net....say it's your Mrs. ...who unfortunately took I'll just before meet but husband can come alone

I know I'm a bloody sceptic "

I think if you are already suspicious about someone you would ask for a proof picture, Maybe one with a newspaper in it or a random object of your choice, If someone is meeting with the other half's permission a phone call could be arranged, It still might not guarantee anything but it helps

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It has to be a full face or full length nude with your hands showing holding the piece of paper with your name.

I won't do a full length nude and I don't want a face picture with me holding a sign with the name. If my pictures are compromised I prefer to have the option of saying they were stolen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has to be a full face or full length nude with your hands showing holding the piece of paper with your name.

I won't do a full length nude and I don't want a face picture with me holding a sign with the name. If my pictures are compromised I prefer to have the option of saying they were stolen.

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Agreed with this

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Some people don't want their face pics stored on a casual sex sites central server. I'm in two minds about it to be honest...

Each to their own, if you prefer to only meet 'green flags' then avoid those that don't have them.

You don't need to shoe your face though do you to be photo verified

That's true. Or a full length nude. I chose the face!"

Don't know where shoe came from!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In theory with the instant pictures what fab has introduced it should put a end to fakes or Men pretending to be Women, Unless they have a reason for not sending a pic but why would you meet someone if you haven't seen what they look like "

In theory yes but when you ask them, it's all them questioning you as to why you don't believe them or just deleting

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"In theory with the instant pictures what fab has introduced it should put a end to fakes or Men pretending to be Women, Unless they have a reason for not sending a pic but why would you meet someone if you haven't seen what they look like

In theory yes but when you ask them, it's all them questioning you as to why you don't believe them or just deleting "

To be honest someone raising those sorts of questions would put my suspicions up anyway - anyone genuinely interested in meeting would understand you asking, especially if asked in the right way and offered the same in return, or pro-actively sent your own first.

Personally I like to chat to people a while before even thinking about meeting and like to think I can usually tell through doing so for a while that they are whho they say they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any excuse not to be photo verified??

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Is there any compelling reason people who choose not to should be made to conform ....

People have different motivations for being here and no-ones reasons should hold primacy .....

It's easy enough to simply ignore profiles that don't match our individual expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any excuse not to be photo verified??

We neither have nor feel we need an excuse.

If someone sees or doesn't see something on our profile that appeals to them,then don't contact us.if we message someone and our profile isn't agreeable, don't message us back.

It really is that simple.

But don't tell us,or anyone else how to run our profile.its no one's business but our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In theory with the instant pictures what fab has introduced it should put a end to fakes or Men pretending to be Women, Unless they have a reason for not sending a pic but why would you meet someone if you haven't seen what they look like

Not really as it will be easy to download a pic off the net....say it's your Mrs. ...who unfortunately took I'll just before meet but husband can come alone

I know I'm a bloody sceptic

I think if you are already suspicious about someone you would ask for a proof picture, Maybe one with a newspaper in it or a random object of your choice, If someone is meeting with the other half's permission a phone call could be arranged, It still might not guarantee anything but it helps"

I know all that....what I was making a point about was when you mention the new private picture sending.....I do not see how this will make things easier in this situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In theory with the instant pictures what fab has introduced it should put a end to fakes or Men pretending to be Women, Unless they have a reason for not sending a pic but why would you meet someone if you haven't seen what they look like

In theory yes but when you ask them, it's all them questioning you as to why you don't believe them or just deleting "

Sure, if they are not photo or meet verified, I get that you would be suspicious. But surely if they are well verified from meets, that should be sufficient? We don't even think about whether some is photo verified, because we would be highly unlikely to meet someone with no displayed meet veris unless referred by someone we know. Hense being photo verified ceases to be relevant for the ways we do our searching.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any excuse not to be photo verified??

Come accross this a lot lately, couples profiles chatting and getting to the point of speaking in more depth or pictures and suddenly the female is 'at work' or your message gets deleted? Is it just men trying to get off on anything they can, be it male, female, donkey, alien "

Being photo verified is practically worthless and can be easily photoshopped .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm tired of regulation

Fab is meant to be an escape from all that ......

Rules are for fools and I don't consider myself to be a fool.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not. Can't be arsed.

Negative impact on profile = 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm tired of regulation

Fab is meant to be an escape from all that ......

Rules are for fools and I don't consider myself to be a fool..... "

Why are you photo verified then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm tired of regulation

Fab is meant to be an escape from all that ......

Rules are for fools and I don't consider myself to be a fool.....

Why are you photo verified then "

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