FabSwingers.com forum: Message but no meet !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people message loads but then not meet ???

I totally understand not everyone will be into each other but then don't message just say "no thanks not our type etc ".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because sex isn't everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True but this site is about sex !!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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Messaging stops when the interest goes elsewhere or disappears - fab rules - no reply equals no continued interest.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Thats why I have added in my profile I dont do ping pong messages for weeks on end if they got NO intention to meet. I understand people change minds etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people message loads but then not meet ???

I totally understand not everyone will be into each other but then don't message just say "no thanks not our type etc ". "

Get used to it.....you are in a majority of hundreds of males wanting the same thing......be patient and wait ???.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True but this site is about sex !! "

You'd think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes most r time waster or fakes on here I've notice that I get like 40messages a day sometimes more and I've only ever met 5 lads on here in over a year but that is because I'm fussy asf but just act slutty on updates hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because sex isn't everything."
ffs its a sex site not mills n boons knitting circle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they like the idea of meeting but when push comes to shove they lose there bottle perhaps. I'm speaking subjectively of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lose interest if lots of messages without the hint of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do people message loads but then not meet ???

I totally understand not everyone will be into each other but then don't message just say "no thanks not our type etc ".

Get used to it.....you are in a majority of hundreds of males wanting the same thing......be patient and wait ???."

Am not a male am a women and part of a couple

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Why do people message loads but then not meet ???

I totally understand not everyone will be into each other but then don't message just say "no thanks not our type etc ". "

Because some folks like to get to know the person/people they may potentially fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do people message loads but then not meet ???

I totally understand not everyone will be into each other but then don't message just say "no thanks not our type etc ".

Because some folks like to get to know the person/people they may potentially fuck.

I understand that but days of messages then you mention meeting and that's it nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because sex isn't everything. ffs its a sex site not mills n boons knitting circle"

My friend, I'm just echoing and sucintctly? posting what Forumites have told me about Fab since the first time I every posted about people on here not meeting. I've even likened it to nothing more than a risqué Facebook before now and you wouldn't believe the shit I got for it too.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Why do people message loads but then not meet ???

I totally understand not everyone will be into each other but then don't message just say "no thanks not our type etc ".

Because some folks like to get to know the person/people they may potentially fuck.

I understand that but days of messages then you mention meeting and that's it nothing "

how are you approaching that though?

maybe they don't know when they can meet or it's possible you put them off by how you asked.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Why do people message loads but then not meet ???

I totally understand not everyone will be into each other but then don't message just say "no thanks not our type etc ". "

Because they are fake profiles set up by blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people want to get it on after a few messages, some people don't. Some of them will want one offs, others might want to make it a regular thing.

Some people like to get to know people; of them some will want to meet you, some will get distracted by someone else or life, while others will like you less the more they chat to you (all of us).

I guess the morale of this long and winding message is that everybody is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True but this site is about sex !! "

I shout ...bull shit. I don't think it is all about sex. It's sex themed, but it's not what everyone is here for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True but this site is about sex !!

I shout ...bull shit. I don't think it is all about sex. It's sex themed, but it's not what everyone is here for. "

Bravo sir. That's a very good point and deserves one of these:

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"True but this site is about sex !!

I shout ...bull shit. I don't think it is all about sex. It's sex themed, but it's not what everyone is here for. "

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some get loads of posts and can see they are not the sort of person for the posts .. Its not just sex its nice to like something about the person .

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