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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When a really hot guy who find attrative chats you up you think its amazing.

When a real ugly guy hits on you thats harassment?

True or false

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"When a really hot guy who find attrative chats you up you think its amazing.

When a real ugly guy hits on you thats harassment?

True or false "

I think us ugly guys have a right to try to chat up any woman we want if we're polite and friendly

The difference is knowing when to walk away when she's said she's not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

False,I chat to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"False,I chat to anyone. "
ok if a repulsive guy was repeatedly hitting on you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

False. I practice resting bitch face and if anyone chats me up and disturbs my peace it isn't appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"False,I chat to anyone. ok if a repulsive guy was repeatedly hitting on you?"

Surely that's harassment?

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

False

I will chat to anyone but if they try to chat me up and im not interested i will say no.

Touch wood never had no issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a really hot guy who find attrative chats you up you think its amazing.

When a real ugly guy hits on you thats harassment?

True or false "

A hot guy is very unlikely to chat me up, and if he did, I'd be very surprised and suspicious!

And ugly guys don't hit on me either. Actually I just don't get chatted up! Oh god, send me crates of cats now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a really hot guy who find attrative chats you up you think its amazing.

When a real ugly guy hits on you thats harassment?

True or false "

false..its nonsense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any guy was hitting on me. I'd concider it harassment. I'd still get a drink out of him though.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"False,I chat to anyone. ok if a repulsive guy was repeatedly hitting on you?"

I've been out with female work colleagues and they've told guys who think they are gods gift to jog on if repeatedly hit on after they've made it obvious they aren't interested.

Women don't always want sex just because a guy thinks he's hot, he can still be a knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes no difference whether the guy is hot or not. If they persistently ignore the social cues of unwanted attention then it's harassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes no difference whether the guy is hot or not. If they persistently ignore the social cues of unwanted attention then it's harassment. "

Agreed

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm terrible at chatting up.

I need more practice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a really hot guy who find attrative chats you up you think its amazing.

When a real ugly guy hits on you thats harassment?

True or false "

It's only harassment when someone refuses to take no for an answer,regardless of how attractive they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought initial eye contact is required to make contact , how can anyone nowadays do that when people have their faces stuck to a phone or eyes down staring at a screen ?? Glad not single

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"When a really hot guy who find attrative chats you up you think its amazing.

When a real ugly guy hits on you thats harassment?

True or false "

False, nobody chats me up.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

repulsion is more often than not in the personality of someone, rather than their looks imo. beauty on the inside is seen through and despite of the flesh overcoat. i fancy the person not reliant on the body type they inhabit. anyone actually trying to chat me up is a bit eeek, people being themselves chatting away i find more appealing, but thats because i am actually rather shy and stuff like 'chatting up' makes me feel socially awkward.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Well, perception of beauty is key here but I've never been chatted up. I've had old, leering blokes making creepy comments about my body but that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a really hot guy who find attrative chats you up you think its amazing.

When a real ugly guy hits on you thats harassment?

True or false

I think us ugly guys have a right to try to chat up any woman we want if we're polite and friendly

The difference is knowing when to walk away when she's said she's not interested. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I harrass gorgeous young men all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I harrass gorgeous young men all the time "

I mean chat them up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"False,I chat to anyone. ok if a repulsive guy was repeatedly hitting on you?"

I make it clear to anyone who approaches me I'm not available. If they want a pleasant chat I chat to anyone.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"When a really hot guy who find attrative chats you up you think its amazing.

When a real ugly guy hits on you thats harassment?

True or false "

False.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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there's actually been studies done on this -when it comes to sex and flirting- and women do find approaches from unattractive men as creepy. but just being sexual with someone can be seen as creepy overall too.

it just seems women are more bothered by an unattractive men doing it than an attractive one.

and personally if i don't find a guy attractive and he approaches me with his dick and sexual words i do feel repulsed.

so generally i'd say men need to back off being sexual and be more like women in that they wait for cues for that to be ok. and definitely do not be over confident and approach women straight away for sex with them, it's highly unlikely she will find you attractive from the off (which is general common sense really).

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