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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What should I do my neighbour owns his own house is a drug dealer and he throws party's all damn time I knocked on door a few times on night I ask him during day can I have a word.

The music is full blast my windows are shaken I live next door but under neith in down stairs flat separate doors anyway earlier tonight I complained and got told to f off by his Minions.

The older bloke has had a word and he has rang police.

Police of cause done nothing.

So should I just walk in and turn it of myself?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report it to the council

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I was woken near 2 hours ago by people having a chat.. I thought it was mid afternoon until I realised the time. I opened my front door to see what's up and they shut up and fuck off! It's not totally quiet and I'm left awake.

Don't know what you can do buddy other that keep reporting dug use, people using the house as a drug den. I doubt any house association will be bothered... maybe threaten to go to your local newspaper if you don't get an adequate response.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

*now totally

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

No don't take action yourself. Sounds awful OP. Can you move ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you type the following question into google you'll find the appropriate advice

" Who do I report antisocial behaviour too"

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you type the following question into google you'll find the appropriate advice

" Who do I report antisocial behaviour too"

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the noise nuisance report it to the Environmental Health Dept at your Local Authority. Keep a diary of what happens and when as evidence. They can lend you noise monitoring equipment to record the level of nuisance. Encourage other neighbours to complain so a case can be built against the perpetrators.

Drug dealing is the police. Just keep reporting it,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No don't take action yourself. Sounds awful OP. Can you move ? "

I can but why should I everyone is lovely despite this man he puts his dogs pooh is everyone elses bin and he fills mine with alcohol cans and bottles so I have no room the other day my bin was full so I put my empty milk bottle and my empty microwave meal in his bin he flipped big style so I said you use others he said yes and unlike other than all of you I own my house.

So I said yes by breaking the law then I got told to watch my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For the noise nuisance report it to the Environmental Health Dept at your Local Authority. Keep a diary of what happens and when as evidence. They can lend you noise monitoring equipment to record the level of nuisance. Encourage other neighbours to complain so a case can be built against the perpetrators.

Drug dealing is the police. Just keep reporting it, "

Police won't help me cause of who I have been asoicited with but I'll give rest a go cheers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you type the following question into google you'll find the appropriate advice

" Who do I report antisocial behaviour too"

Good luck

Thanks I'll check that out as can't sleep now any way got to be out in a hour or well no sleep since wed

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Don't do anything your self or it may back fire.

Just keep reporting him to police and complain to your local kansall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it's ok ladies - he can accommodate!

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

Council. Get other neighbours to report to.

If drug dealer then watch for him to sell some. Then call police say he is selling drugs to children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would move house asap. I would also check about antisocial behaviour where you move too before you decide where to move.

I had behaviour like this for years where i used to live. My children were very young. It was awful. If i complained to them they were abusive and threatening to me. The police werent interested in the drug dealing and thieving that openly went on. The council werent interested in the high noise levels causing disturbance and distress to us. The fire brigade werent interested when they exploded things causing huge, high fires. It was awful. I finally was able to move after 14 years.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Contact various religious groups pretending to be him saying that you are interested in joining.

Hopefully he will get relentlessly pestering him to join.

Write to local newspaper telling them.

Go to your local mp open surgery where people can go along with issues.

Keep a diary.

Keep telling police.

Ask police to visit regularly.

Get others to complain.

Shit in his bin.

Be Lound during the day when he is probably sleeping.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Contact environmental health tomorrow. Fucking hate my neighbours you have my sympathises.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Drug dealing is the police. Just keep reporting it,

Police won't help me cause of who I have been asoicited with but I'll give rest a go cheers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had awful neighbours for 18 months..

He was a mechanic and used to fix cars at all hours of day and night, banging away and making so much noise ..

He had loads of mates who just used to hang around and intimidate me as I walked past .. it was a very noisy, scary time... he eventually moved out as he got a neighbour on the other side who was noisier that him!

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I was in a similar situation a while back

Call 101

Especially if Its after 11pm

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

There are laws/rules/regs regarding acceptable times and levels of noise and nuiscance.

There are several bodies that you can seek advice and action from - Police, council, Noise abatement etc.....

Make an appt with your C.A.B.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Just meandered into a web site called....... 'problem neighbours'

Looks good. Have a read. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should I do my neighbour owns his own house is a drug dealer and he throws party's all damn time I knocked on door a few times on night I ask him during day can I have a word.

The music is full blast my windows are shaken I live next door but under neith in down stairs flat separate doors anyway earlier tonight I complained and got told to f off by his Minions.

The older bloke has had a word and he has rang police.

Police of cause done nothing.

So should I just walk in and turn it of myself?. "

His minions?? is your neighbour Felonious Gru

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We experienced this, eventually we sold up and left taking the easy route. Loved our place but now loving our new place too. I know you don't want to leave op and rightfully so, just saying you can be just as happy elsewhere if it gets too bad. Sorry to hear your plight and absolutely relate.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

And obviously don't forget that if he is dealing drugs he is receiving income without declaring it,pretty sure hmrc will be interested in this information.

Failing that.

Depending on what circles you move in, if you know any other drug dealers tell them he is undercutting them and stealing their business.

However that sounds risky.

Post a handful of locusts thru his letterbox.

Bloody nightmare as they hide all over the place and make a right racket.

Drive him crazy.

There are many other ways but it involves being a right devious bastard.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

People like this live their lives on a perpetual knife edge, sooner or later they slip up.

Either get caught by the police or other local dealer's.

You just have to be persistent in the complaints about noise.

If it's a flat chances are it's a leasehold.

Contact land registry and find out who is the lease owner.

Contact them anonymously to let them know that he is a dealer.

Report a imaginary gas leak. Make sure it's early morning so they knock early.

Contact mum's net.

Once they get their teeth in

Ouch.

Don't put yourself in danger, certainly don't threaten violence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd move. It's cowardly amd you shouldn't have too but if he bowls his flat amd you don't it really is not worth the drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he ever leaves for a week or two put a hosepipe through the letter box, get the carpet damp then blow cress and mustard seeds through a pipe,a Biro works well. Grows like a bastard. Nice surprise when they get back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's Stockton then it's not a surprise

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"We experienced this, eventually we sold up and left taking the easy route. Loved our place but now loving our new place too. I know you don't want to leave op and rightfully so, just saying you can be just as happy elsewhere if it gets too bad. Sorry to hear your plight and absolutely relate.

This is what I worry about though,when you're showing new potential buyers round and they ask how are you neighbours? How the hell do you say?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's Stockton then it's not a surprise "

I shouldn't crack a smile at that but I cant help it ...

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I would move house asap. I would also check about antisocial behaviour where you move too before you decide where to move.

Poor you. I now see why you moved to the King power stadium.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

This is what I worry about though,when you're showing new potential buyers round and they ask how are you neighbours? How the hell do you say?!"

Don't know, I keep myself to myself

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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you reported him for drug dealing?

if he paid for his house doing that he could lose it.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Love the morality of the people suggesting the OP should transfer to problem to someone else by selling

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Just because he owns his own house he still can be evicted for anti social behavior..

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

Just reporting it to the council/landlord often results in nothing happening. You have to threaten the landlord with legal action for them allowing illegal activities on their property. If/when the neighbours from hell have children so councils are very reluctant to take action. Good luck, you'll need it. Not many authorities help good quiet folk.

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

Apologies just read he owns the property. I would check though with the Land Registry. Often Police do nothing if they are small time dealers. They would rather put pressure on them as informers. Very wrong but up the Police chain they don't give a shot about the poor sods who have to live near them. Write to your MP and ask why the Police aren't taking action.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

There are people that would 'have a word' with him on your behalf from a price. They are usually found in caravans...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go party with them

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

This is what I worry about though,when you're showing new potential buyers round and they ask how are you neighbours? How the hell do you say?!

Don't know, I keep myself to myself

But aren't you supposed to tell them if you've had problems?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"But it's ok ladies - he can accommodate!

priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Contact environmental health tomorrow. Fucking hate my neighbours you have my sympathises. "

There is a surprise

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Contact environmental health tomorrow. Fucking hate my neighbours you have my sympathises.

There is a surprise

Oh shut up you silly little man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Contact environmental health tomorrow. Fucking hate my neighbours you have my sympathises.

There is a surprise

Oh shut up you silly little man."

Hi there. Great to hear from you again, are you enjoying the lovely sun shine??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love the morality of the people suggesting the OP should transfer to problem to someone else by selling

Well if you have lived in that sort of situation for many years and recieved no help and fear for your childrens and your safety then morality doesnt takes a back seat.

My house was rented though anyway.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Love the morality of the people suggesting the OP should transfer to problem to someone else by selling

Well if you have lived in that sort of situation for many years and recieved no help and fear for your childrens and your safety then morality doesnt takes a back seat.

My house was rented though anyway."

So having been in the situation, can you think of any solutions that actually solve the problem rather than transfer it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies just read he owns the property. I would check though with the Land Registry. Often Police do nothing if they are small time dealers. They would rather put pressure on them as informers. Very wrong but up the Police chain they don't give a shot about the poor sods who have to live near them. Write to your MP and ask why the Police aren't taking action. "

The OP states they do nothing, but hasn't actually specified what facts were furnished? If they committed to every uncorobborated report of someone doing something wrong they'd be consistently be paying out compensation and being used by people to solve personal grudges?

OP have you provided evidence of this ?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Love the morality of the people suggesting the OP should transfer to problem to someone else by selling

Well if you have lived in that sort of situation for many years and recieved no help and fear for your childrens and your safety then morality doesnt takes a back seat.

My house was rented though anyway.

So having been in the situation, can you think of any solutions that actually solve the problem rather than transfer it? "

i can, most of them are illegal but i got one really good idea.

just build an estate for people like this, shove it next to an abbatior or sewage plant, then let them all see how shit it living next to someone like themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love the morality of the people suggesting the OP should transfer to problem to someone else by selling

Well if you have lived in that sort of situation for many years and recieved no help and fear for your childrens and your safety then morality doesnt takes a back seat.

My house was rented though anyway.

So having been in the situation, can you think of any solutions that actually solve the problem rather than transfer it? "

The police, council etc should have helped solve the problems but they did nothing, in fact they made it worse. Im my case the only way to solve it was to move. So i saved and saved and 14 years later i moved. I tried getting help thru the police, the council etc. As my kids got older i could no longer shield them from the horrors there. So once i could move away i did. The council moved in a family who are well known criminals. They fitted right in. To be honest though after 14 years i really didnt care about that, i just wanted safety and a nice life for my kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love the morality of the people suggesting the OP should transfer to problem to someone else by selling

Well if you have lived in that sort of situation for many years and recieved no help and fear for your childrens and your safety then morality doesnt takes a back seat.

My house was rented though anyway.

So having been in the situation, can you think of any solutions that actually solve the problem rather than transfer it?

i can, most of them are illegal but i got one really good idea.

just build an estate for people like this, shove it next to an abbatior or sewage plant, then let them all see how shit it living next to someone like themselves."

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Love the morality of the people suggesting the OP should transfer to problem to someone else by selling

Well if you have lived in that sort of situation for many years and recieved no help and fear for your childrens and your safety then morality doesnt takes a back seat.

My house was rented though anyway.

So having been in the situation, can you think of any solutions that actually solve the problem rather than transfer it?

i can, most of them are illegal but i got one really good idea.

just build an estate for people like this, shove it next to an abbatior or sewage plant, then let them all see how shit it living next to someone like themselves."

Actually that was how it was done before. Tony Blairs labour decided that if you took the chav out the council estate then they would cease to act like scum. So they started spreading them around, the policy is called pepper potting. Spoiler alert, he was wrong.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Fire bomb through the window will sort your problem

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Love the morality of the people suggesting the OP should transfer to problem to someone else by selling

Well if you have lived in that sort of situation for many years and recieved no help and fear for your childrens and your safety then morality doesnt takes a back seat.

My house was rented though anyway.

So having been in the situation, can you think of any solutions that actually solve the problem rather than transfer it?

i can, most of them are illegal but i got one really good idea.

just build an estate for people like this, shove it next to an abbatior or sewage plant, then let them all see how shit it living next to someone like themselves.

nobody did that round this way.

last council estate i lived on round here, so in 2003, they just shoved more of the people from the same families into the estates because nobody wanted to live in these areas (except those families as those families had no problems with each other but did have ASBO problems). and tbh if they'd moved the rest of us away from them (we all fucked off anyway) that would have been fine with us.

so that plan failed coz we have, somewhat limited, choices. but yes having more of the same shit people living in a place does make it worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if any of my neighbours complain about how loud my music is I turn it up louder and I always have house party very lucky people where I live mind Thier own business or r the same as me and r lively people maybe speak to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if any of my neighbours complain about how loud my music is I turn it up louder and I always have house party very lucky people where I live mind Thier own business or r the same as me and r lively people maybe speak to him"

Glad i dont live near you although being partly deaf has its good side !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're dealing then the police will want to know.

I had this a few years back when I lived in that London with some mouthy little gobshites. I went to see their parents and the problem went away.

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