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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for you as a treat for my girls birthday In bishops stortford this coming Friday night

Please reply here as we both use account

Thanks M xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a kind of floor show scenario?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as a kind of floor show scenario?"

Full ffm but you will be ordered as a take away I've a saucy plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a kind of floor show scenario?

Full ffm but you will be ordered as a take away I've a saucy plan "

well its not my thing as I would rather chat to both beforehand

and I'm guessing its not for most fems either ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as a kind of floor show scenario?

Full ffm but you will be ordered as a take away I've a saucy plan

well its not my thing as I would rather chat to both beforehand

and I'm guessing its not for most fems either ..

I know but it is my girl

"

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Well I'm not fit so I'll rule myself out.

Put it up in meets and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm told I'm fit but I'm also not anyone's "treat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you wrap me up with a bow?

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Oh dear. This won't go well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Stating the tour of woman that you find "fit" might be a good starting point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm not fit so I'll rule myself out.

Put it up in meets and see what happens. "

My idea of fit and the Mr's differ slightly, shame we didn't arrange somethings as I think you're fit as fuck

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Well I'm not fit so I'll rule myself out.

Put it up in meets and see what happens.

My idea of fit and the Mr's differ slightly, shame we didn't arrange somethings as I think you're fit as fuck "

Well there's always time

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"as a kind of floor show scenario?

Full ffm but you will be ordered as a take away I've a saucy plan "

Does that mean that said "fit fem" has to get inside one of those tin foil dishes with a cardboard lid and be delivered in a brown paper carrier bag?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well I'm not fit so I'll rule myself out.

Put it up in meets and see what happens. "

i think your fit

i'm not pizza or a chinese..my apologies

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"as a kind of floor show scenario?

Full ffm but you will be ordered as a take away I've a saucy plan

Does that mean that said "fit fem" has to get inside one of those tin foil dishes with a cardboard lid and be delivered in a brown paper carrier bag? "

chuckles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that like saying that most of the single women on here look like trolls?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"as a kind of floor show scenario?

Full ffm but you will be ordered as a take away I've a saucy plan

well its not my thing as I would rather chat to both beforehand

and I'm guessing its not for most fems either ..

"

Ordered as a takeaway

Just using the numbers on the side of the menu no doubt. 11, 010, 69, 8, 88

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Well I'm not fit so I'll rule myself out.

Put it up in meets and see what happens.

i think your fit

i'm not pizza or a chinese..my apologies "

X x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Well I'm not fit so I'll rule myself out.

Put it up in meets and see what happens.

My idea of fit and the Mr's differ slightly, shame we didn't arrange somethings as I think you're fit as fuck "

I'm now confused. Who is actually supposed to be posting here, op. You, or the Mrs???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute. "

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As most people aren't on the forum, it probably would have been more productive to have contacted the women in your area that were attractive to you imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that like saying that most of the single women on here look like trolls? "
they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that like saying that most of the single women on here look like trolls? they do "

And I was just about to ask if you want your cock sucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know."

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Well I'm not fit so I'll rule myself out.

Put it up in meets and see what happens.

i think your fit

i'm not pizza or a chinese..my apologies "

I'd like a pizza the action

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right "

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude."

i do believe it was the attitude in which this man asked for a woman for their 'scenario' ,most women will, on here here feel that being a'treat' for his Mrs, and the way he is organizing it, is a disrespectful way of asking her fulfilling their fantasy, why should she? what he is asking for happens every day, the way he is asking for it, doesnt..most women dont like feeling they are being treated, as a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure..thats the point..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the arrogance of youth never gets anyone very far on here...

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude.i do believe it was the attitude in which this man asked for a woman for their 'scenario' ,most women will, on here here feel that being a'treat' for his Mrs, and the way he is organizing it, is a disrespectful way of asking her fulfilling their fantasy, why should she? what he is asking for happens every day, the way he is asking for it, doesnt..most women dont like feeling they are being treated, as a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure..thats the point.."

While that's true of 'most women', it's not true of 'all women'.

Are you also suggesting the women on Fab who do enjoy being treated as 'a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure' are no better than prostitutes?

How enlightened you are, Suzy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude.i do believe it was the attitude in which this man asked for a woman for their 'scenario' ,most women will, on here here feel that being a'treat' for his Mrs, and the way he is organizing it, is a disrespectful way of asking her fulfilling their fantasy, why should she? what he is asking for happens every day, the way he is asking for it, doesnt..most women dont like feeling they are being treated, as a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure..thats the point..

While that's true of 'most women', it's not true of 'all women'.

Are you also suggesting the women on Fab who do enjoy being treated as 'a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure' are no better than prostitutes?

How enlightened you are, Suzy! "

I doubt there are too many women on here who enjoy being treated as such, tbh....so its a moot point IMO..

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude.i do believe it was the attitude in which this man asked for a woman for their 'scenario' ,most women will, on here here feel that being a'treat' for his Mrs, and the way he is organizing it, is a disrespectful way of asking her fulfilling their fantasy, why should she? what he is asking for happens every day, the way he is asking for it, doesnt..most women dont like feeling they are being treated, as a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure..thats the point..

While that's true of 'most women', it's not true of 'all women'.

Are you also suggesting the women on Fab who do enjoy being treated as 'a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure' are no better than prostitutes?

How enlightened you are, Suzy!

I doubt there are too many women on here who enjoy being treated as such, tbh....so its a moot point IMO..

"

Unless the numbers are zero, it's you who is making a moot point. How many do you think it is then? 10? 100? 1000?

The fact is you have no idea, and are being disrespectful to them as a consequence. Far too many people on Fab think the way they like to play and be treated is what's 'right', and what others enjoy consensually must then be 'wrong'.

Open-mindedness, respect and understanding is severely lacking amongst some of Fab's most voiciferous contributors - but naturally they would never realise this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the great thing about this site there is someone for virtually every scenario... although I agree OP hasn't gone about it the best way, at least he's being honest!! Maybe just not gonna get the response they/he wants xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have the cream of sum yung guy, please. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude.i do believe it was the attitude in which this man asked for a woman for their 'scenario' ,most women will, on here here feel that being a'treat' for his Mrs, and the way he is organizing it, is a disrespectful way of asking her fulfilling their fantasy, why should she? what he is asking for happens every day, the way he is asking for it, doesnt..most women dont like feeling they are being treated, as a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure..thats the point..

While that's true of 'most women', it's not true of 'all women'.

Are you also suggesting the women on Fab who do enjoy being treated as 'a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure' are no better than prostitutes?

How enlightened you are, Suzy!

I doubt there are too many women on here who enjoy being treated as such, tbh....so its a moot point IMO..

Unless the numbers are zero, it's you who is making a moot point. How many do you think it is then? 10? 100? 1000?

The fact is you have no idea, and are being disrespectful to them as a consequence. Far too many people on Fab think the way they like to play and be treated is what's 'right', and what others enjoy consensually must then be 'wrong'.

Open-mindedness, respect and understanding is severely lacking amongst some of Fab's most voiciferous contributors - but naturally they would never realise this."

the fact is that no one has any idea, including you, and you are just trying to score points in the interests of being 'open minded'...whereas the OP just wanted a bit of titillation for his missus, you have blown it up into a violation of his rights as a swinger

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude.i do believe it was the attitude in which this man asked for a woman for their 'scenario' ,most women will, on here here feel that being a'treat' for his Mrs, and the way he is organizing it, is a disrespectful way of asking her fulfilling their fantasy, why should she? what he is asking for happens every day, the way he is asking for it, doesnt..most women dont like feeling they are being treated, as a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure..thats the point..

While that's true of 'most women', it's not true of 'all women'.

Are you also suggesting the women on Fab who do enjoy being treated as 'a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure' are no better than prostitutes?

How enlightened you are, Suzy!

I doubt there are too many women on here who enjoy being treated as such, tbh....so its a moot point IMO..

Unless the numbers are zero, it's you who is making a moot point. How many do you think it is then? 10? 100? 1000?

The fact is you have no idea, and are being disrespectful to them as a consequence. Far too many people on Fab think the way they like to play and be treated is what's 'right', and what others enjoy consensually must then be 'wrong'.

Open-mindedness, respect and understanding is severely lacking amongst some of Fab's most voiciferous contributors - but naturally they would never realise this.

the fact is that no one has any idea, including you, and you are just trying to score points in the interests of being 'open minded'...whereas the OP just wanted a bit of titillation for his missus, you have blown it up into a violation of his rights as a swinger "

No, I've correctly observed that there are people on here too small-minded to understand there are people who enjoy things different to them.

You are (finally!) correct that no-one has any idea how many women this scenario would appeal to, and so presumably now agree that telling the OP to 'hire a prostitute' is small-minded, disrespectful and just plain rude.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"As most people aren't on the forum, it probably would have been more productive to have contacted the women in your area that were attractive to you imo. "

Spot on

Besides, everyone's definition of fit isn't necessarily the same. I see this on profiles and ads for meets and wonder if I'm the only one that thinks they're silly and won't get much of a response.., "Looking for a very fit guy/female to join us"

Furthermore, you may not be as fit as you think to interest the fit people you're looking for.

Your time will be better spent putting in the graft to contact the people that meet your expectation of fit, and not wait for them to come to you.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude.i do believe it was the attitude in which this man asked for a woman for their 'scenario' ,most women will, on here here feel that being a'treat' for his Mrs, and the way he is organizing it, is a disrespectful way of asking her fulfilling their fantasy, why should she? what he is asking for happens every day, the way he is asking for it, doesnt..most women dont like feeling they are being treated, as a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure..thats the point..

While that's true of 'most women', it's not true of 'all women'.

Are you also suggesting the women on Fab who do enjoy being treated as 'a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure' are no better than prostitutes?

How enlightened you are, Suzy! "

do i have issues with prostitutes? i dont think so.. everyone has their price, some its money, some its being asked nicely to do the things you want to do with them..every interaction is an energy exchange..when you embody that concept then you may not only have become enlightened, but you may also see the world for what it is..and dance, in its many wondrous opportunities..

im no better than anyone, but my preference is in a desirable approach..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference between myself and a prostitute is, they have more money than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude.i do believe it was the attitude in which this man asked for a woman for their 'scenario' ,most women will, on here here feel that being a'treat' for his Mrs, and the way he is organizing it, is a disrespectful way of asking her fulfilling their fantasy, why should she? what he is asking for happens every day, the way he is asking for it, doesnt..most women dont like feeling they are being treated, as a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure..thats the point..

While that's true of 'most women', it's not true of 'all women'.

Are you also suggesting the women on Fab who do enjoy being treated as 'a glorified walking sex toy, for someone else's pleasure' are no better than prostitutes?

How enlightened you are, Suzy!

I doubt there are too many women on here who enjoy being treated as such, tbh....so its a moot point IMO..

Unless the numbers are zero, it's you who is making a moot point. How many do you think it is then? 10? 100? 1000?

The fact is you have no idea, and are being disrespectful to them as a consequence. Far too many people on Fab think the way they like to play and be treated is what's 'right', and what others enjoy consensually must then be 'wrong'.

Open-mindedness, respect and understanding is severely lacking amongst some of Fab's most voiciferous contributors - but naturally they would never realise this.

the fact is that no one has any idea, including you, and you are just trying to score points in the interests of being 'open minded'...whereas the OP just wanted a bit of titillation for his missus, you have blown it up into a violation of his rights as a swinger

No, I've correctly observed that there are people on here too small-minded to understand there are people who enjoy things different to them.

You are (finally!) correct that no-one has any idea how many women this scenario would appeal to, and so presumably now agree that telling the OP to 'hire a prostitute' is small-minded, disrespectful and just plain rude."

Erm no I don’t......to be honest, I think if it’s for a one off experience it would be something for the OP to think about ...

Just one more experience of the many that are available...but the bonus would be there would be no deviation from the OPs fantasy ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Calm down everyone, keep your knickers on

Yep M defo didn't word it right, but what's the difference between using the word fit or sexy or gorgeous?

It was a tongue in cheek way of asking if a female would like to join us for the evening...fml it's better than the usual "any sexy ladies free tonight"

We weren't looking for someone to use and abuse, we weren't looking to disrespect anyone in anyway.

So chill your beans people.

And we weren't looking for a prostitute, if we were we would have called one and not posted on here...clearly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see the offended squad out in force today.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want a female as a "treat" for Mrs then hire a prostitute.

That's one way! Or they could look on Fab for women who might enjoy being part of the scenario they are proposing. They do exist, you know.

well none of them came forward did they? I did say it wouldn't be for a lot of women and I was right

People who read the forum represent a fraction of people on Fab. People who respond to threads represent a fraction of those who read the forum.

Naturally, women who fit what the OP are looking for will be a small proportion of the members here, but women who meet couples are a small proportion of the Fab membership too.

Suggesting to the OP that they should pay a prostitute rather than look for a woman on here who shares the same desires as them is disrespectful to them, and the women who would meet them.

It's also just plain rude."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Good to see the offended squad out in force today.

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Aren't they always...

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