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"My friend recently broke up with a guy because he was controlling. He is 47 and has a history of this. Recently she has started getting closer to him presumably thinking that he has or will change. Is it possible?" No. They never will . 13 years of my life I wasted hoping they would change. Feeling too scared to come home . The abuse . The beatings. And eveything else he did to me. Now .....I would never let a man do what he did to me . ?? | |||
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"My friend recently broke up with a guy because he was controlling. He is 47 and has a history of this. Recently she has started getting closer to him presumably thinking that he has or will change. Is it possible?" No they never do | |||
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"My friend recently broke up with a guy because he was controlling. He is 47 and has a history of this. Recently she has started getting closer to him presumably thinking that he has or will change. Is it possible?" No it's not... A leopard never changes its spots... He is probably faking it because he hated the thought she got away in the first place... Once he has her back again he will return to his controlling self and make her life even more of a misery | |||
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"Yes. People can change and those they are with can learn to use different behaviours to support them. They have to want it though. V x " Agree, only if they want to change themselves. | |||
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"But wait ... some women don't seem to be able to tell the difference between possesiveness (and all its mates like controlling) and love. A girlfriend escaped a controling guy after years and then turned up with her new man. He very rapidly showed himself to be the same!! " Yap....a leopard never change its spots. | |||
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"My friend recently broke up with a guy because he was controlling. He is 47 and has a history of this. Recently she has started getting closer to him presumably thinking that he has or will change. Is it possible?" nope | |||
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