FabSwingers.com forum: People who slag your photos off

By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, there's nothing wrong with your photo. Just ignore them.

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

No.. but whoever does that is seriously not worth giving two shits about. Or any number of shits for that matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, although there's plenty of reason to, I don't photograph well hence my username!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

No - I don't think so! But then again I don't get to read most of my messages - so maybe they do!

Wouldn't bother me overly much though - after over three years on fab I've had to develop a pretty thick skin! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

No...or not yet..

And your pics are hot

So their loss not yours

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have, easiest thing to do is block then they don't have to look!!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

No one appears to slag mine off

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

No... even if I did.. the views would not effect me from these kind of people

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

Nope.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Nope

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Thanks guys n galls all ready blocked them back. Just seems such an insidious thing to do.

But hey ho each to there own.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You should report abusive messages.

Most of my pics are friends only so I'd blimmin hope there would be no abuse!

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

[Removed by poster at 17/06/17 10:55:22]

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It hasn't happened to me thank goodness. I'm not really sure what people get out of behaving like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here but I sent a female who was looking for a female playmate, a photo of me in my stockings and Basque. She replied,

" I am sorry but......"

Making it quite clear she didn't like my photo.

XXX

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

You look amazing in your pics, it's their lose. Don't worry about it xxx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

oh god yea

Happens a fair but to me a just counter block and carry on making the most of fab. Their idiocy and opinion is really fuck all in the grand scheme of things

I've never had anyone complain that what they see isn't what they get when they meet me so I ain't doing bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far to thick skinned to let that type of thing bother me if ever it happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just flicked through your pics and you look stunning I wouldn't worry about it there problem not yours

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

Yep a minority have have ...after I've turned em down funnily enough lol.

Don't give it a second thought as not going to be everyone's cup of tea

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Nope

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Not at first message, but when politely declined their offer of a "good seeing to", I have had one or two people then call me and my pictures. Shows I was right to decline their generous offer

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By *ecretEscapes2Woman
over a year ago

worcester

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

damn ,and there's me thinking it's an adult site

These kids get everywhere .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but if they did it's an easy block. I wouldn't bother reporting. Some people are just cunts and don't deserve any of my time

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

"Not on here but I sent a female who was looking for a female playmate, a photo of me in my stockings and Basque. She replied,

" I am sorry but......"

Making it quite clear she didn't like my photo.

XXX"

Now who could decline that!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I do get some bizzare follow up messages after deleting "fancy a fuck" ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it to heart, it's just some asshole sitting at a keyboard with a chip on his/shoulder and decided to pick on your pics and after yours someone else's

Just enjoy the nice people on fab

I had some guy message and say " what a waste of spunk you are "

I just laughed at it and didn't give it a thought

It's not worth your time or energy on people like that

Good luck op and keep putting up your pics xx

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Perhaps these people suffer low self-esteem and do this to make themselves feel better. Still it knocks your confidence a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly yes I have a fair few times. I was even accused of being a man dressing as a female with a fake profile x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No, not experienced this, but I would just ignore, if anyone did.

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"Don't take it to heart, it's just some asshole sitting at a keyboard with a chip on his/shoulder and decided to pick on your pics and after yours someone else's

Just enjoy the nice people on fab

I had some guy message and say " what a waste of spunk you are "

I just laughed at it and didn't give it a thought

It's not worth your time or energy on people like that

Good luck op and keep putting up your pics xx"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never, thank god...

only ever had praise for my pics

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"oh god yea

Happens a fair but to me a just counter block and carry on making the most of fab. Their idiocy and opinion is really fuck all in the grand scheme of things

I've never had anyone complain that what they see isn't what they get when they meet me so I ain't doing bad

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

People who do usually don't have photos themselves it's all about being brave enough to put them up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume you reported them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...on two occasions reported both both times. It's horrible and hurtful...I had a rant got it off my chest felt better and moved on.

Sorry that this has happened to you op

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Its happend on occasion. Usually straight guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. A fella actually made a comment about one of my pics recently and then started a thread along the same lines as his comment

Meh.

Some folk like and others don't. Don't like them don't look. My pics aren't fabbable

So you'd have to look at my profile to see them, and my profile clearly states i'm large.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

Yes, without the blocking. I have two contradictory reactions, the first is to be childish and react in a 'ner, made you look though' style, the second is to point out that at 40 years old I am pretty much immune to negging since it's the pick up artist equivalent of pulling my hair and running away. Neither reaction is strong enough to make me engage though.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

No.

But if I did I woodiunt pay any attention to it

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Once, years back.

But I reported the profile and it was suspended within a couple of hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not on here but I sent a female who was looking for a female playmate, a photo of me in my stockings and Basque. She replied,

" I am sorry but......"

Making it quite clear she didn't like my photo.

XXX"

That's just bloody rude

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep"

No idea why, you're stunning (I've just had a perv) x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Some people are just dicks on here. I once had a guy insult me and as I was in a sarky playful mood I just agreed with everything he said just to see how far he would go,by the end of it I was now apparently very attractive!

I got bored then,told him to fuck off and blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "
yup. I see it as they were good enough to attract their attention and make them feel they had to comment. And while they are picking on us.. they are leaving some other poor sod alone x

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Nowt wrong with your pics OP, I'd just reply.

I bet I'm having a better time than you..happy stroking tosser.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

No, but we do get blanked a lot though.

Maybe the Green eyed monster has found its way on here too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully not. I'm sure some must have laughed though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

Not us

But sadly the worlds technology has created the Keyboard warriors, usually faceless tw@ts that have nothing better to do than troll people to boost their own ego and confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, some people think that they have the right to criticise other peoples photos regardless of whether they have been invited to do so or not.

Who the f*** do they think they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "
Did you turn this person down .? If they are being like this you really would never wish to meet so lucky escape xc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think your photos are great OP!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

Nope, I like mine no matter what anyone says. It's why they are there.

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By *igerlilycubWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Yes all the time I just delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing they have been summarily blocked and reported?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it once a guy messaged and set a photo he wasn't for me(beard and hairy chest) I just replied and said "sorry you aren't for me" followed by a kiss and a happy swinging in the future, and I got back I was fat and he wouldn't want to play anyway.

I thought that was nice seen has he messaged first so I just blocked him.

Then a few months later he messaged again under a different profile and said I was hot and he wanted me and attached the same photo. I don't have a short memory like he did so I just blocked him again hasi couldn't be arsed to even reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't experienced it, but would tell 'em to fuck off if they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never experienced it.

But who cares, if they feel the need to take time out of their life or do so then that's their issue not mine

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"I had it once a guy messaged and set a photo he wasn't for me(beard and hairy chest) I just replied and said "sorry you aren't for me" followed by a kiss and a happy swinging in the future, and I got back I was fat and he wouldn't want to play anyway.

I thought that was nice seen has he messaged first so I just blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

No because I'm so stunning

Apparently

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"I'm guessing they have been summarily blocked and reported?"

Deleted & blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, there's nothing wrong with your photo. Just ignore them."

fuck em ignore is best way

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"Yes all the time I just delete and block

That's crazy you look stunning

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"Never experienced it.

But who cares, if they feel the need to take time out of their life or do so then that's their issue not mine "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Only after saying no thanks.

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this?

No because I'm so stunning

Apparently

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"We think your photos are great OP!!!

Thanks

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

I have received negative comments, but never about any of my pics

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this?

Not us

But sadly the worlds technology has created the Keyboard warriors, usually faceless tw@ts that have nothing better to do than troll people to boost their own ego and confidence "

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"Nowt wrong with your pics OP, I'd just reply.

I bet I'm having a better time than you..happy stroking tosser."

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? yup. I see it as they were good enough to attract their attention and make them feel they had to comment. And while they are picking on us.. they are leaving some other poor sod alone x"

Shouldn't happen though

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"Yep

No idea why, you're stunning (I've just had a perv) x

You're too kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No........

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

No never had bad remarks .but I would just block and carry on.

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"No never had bad remarks .but I would just block and carry on."

Yep their problem not ours and already blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a few occasions. Keep smiling xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.

Has anyone else experienced this? "

Yep, I've had some foul abuse from one particular account over the last couple of days. It's clear they are mentally ill.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well to the woman that sent me a message from my comment on here not too sure what you're saying really,but just in case you were insulting me I'll not reply. Apologies if you weren't.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Yes I have been, the first time I was a little upset but now I couldn't give two shits.

Basically if you don't like my photos then stop looking at them, don't message me to call me an ugly cunt when you are clearly one yourself.

Some people are just pricks

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Ha! Yes!

We've had a few about our latest and very explicit pic, knew it wouldn't be liked universally but really do just let the comments roll straight of the back. We delete and don't give it a second thought.

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"Yes I have been, the first time I was a little upset but now I couldn't give two shits.

Basically if you don't like my photos then stop looking at them, don't message me to call me an ugly cunt when you are clearly one yourself.

Some people are just pricks

Absolutely well said

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"Ha! Yes!

Just had a perv and your pics are stunning

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

Yes we have had this happen to us and it's hard not to feel hurt by the comments I (N) took all our pics down which are now set in private (M keeps gradually putting them back on) and I felt like coming off here, my confidence and self esteem took a bit of a hit, we never logged on here for people like that but we are still here and looking for the right guy to join us

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Ha! Yes!

Just had a perv and your pics are stunning

Thank you op

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"Yes we have had this happen to us and it's hard not to feel hurt by the comments I (N) took all our pics down which are now set in private (M keeps gradually putting them back on) and I felt like coming off here, my confidence and self esteem took a bit of a hit, we never logged on here for people like that but we are still here and looking for the right guy to join us

Nothing wrong with your pics at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dare them to. Someone's (a stranger) oppinion about my photos ?? Haha. It means little to me. I can ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in life Some are merely vindictive trolls that have a deep abiding self loathing they feel compelled to offload onto others to make the unwitting recipient feel as bad or unattractive as they themselves feel.

You shouldn't personalise unsolicited correspondence of that nature.. it's more a reflection upon them than you in all likelihood.

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