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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A girl I know said she wanted to meet me tonight at ten and then when I text her earlier on she said she would let me know if it's on. And now it's got to this time she is annoyed at me for saying forget it at half 9.

It takes half an hour to get to her and by the time I'm ready down to her messing about, it will be nearer 11.

So why should she be annoyed when I cancelled?

Am I being unreasonable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I know said she wanted to meet me tonight at ten and then when I text her earlier on she said she would let me know if it's on. And now it's got to this time she is annoyed at me for saying forget it at half 9.

It takes half an hour to get to her and by the time I'm ready down to her messing about, it will be nearer 11.

So why should she be annoyed when I cancelled?

Am I being unreasonable?"
nope your not

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't think you're being unreasonable. Nobody likes to be messed around and that is what she is doing.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Goodness no. Manners and politeness doesn't cost anything.

Your well within your rights to do so and I certainly wouldn't feel bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay strong bro.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Not at all. Was she expecting you to just be sat there ready and waiting for a text?

It's Friday night. People have lives. You can't be expected to put everything on hold for a "maybe"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You lucky fucker .. no one's contacted me today... Or yesterday.. or the day before that actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is prepared to mess you about like that then how do you even know she will be there when she says she will.

Swerve

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Why was she leaving it so late to give you a definite answer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why was she leaving it so late to give you a definite answer?"

Fuck knows, it's all a little weird if you ask me. I have met her before just for a drink but she says one thing then does another. Weird if you ask me

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Why was she leaving it so late to give you a definite answer?

Fuck knows, it's all a little weird if you ask me. I have met her before just for a drink but she says one thing then does another. Weird if you ask me "

flakey.

just fuck her off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No mate, some people just bottle it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think you're unreasonable. She should have come back to you much earlier - not fair to expect people to be sitting around waiting on the off chance. She's unreasonable to be off with you for saying no.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Why entertain the thought of a maybe, so if she clicks her hand you will run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why was she leaving it so late to give you a definite answer?

Fuck knows, it's all a little weird if you ask me. I have met her before just for a drink but she says one thing then does another. Weird if you ask me

flakey.

just fuck her off. "

I agree, sounds like way too much hassle. Leave her to it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Not at all, either she wanted to meet you or not. If she really did then the time would have been definite.

Sounds like you might have been a backup plan that went south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all, either she wanted to meet you or not. If she really did then the time would have been definite.

Sounds like you might have been a backup plan that went south "

That's my thoughts , she was hedging her bets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I know said she wanted to meet me tonight at ten and then when I text her earlier on she said she would let me know if it's on. And now it's got to this time she is annoyed at me for saying forget it at half 9.

It takes half an hour to get to her and by the time I'm ready down to her messing about, it will be nearer 11.

So why should she be annoyed when I cancelled?

Am I being unreasonable?"

You gave her the noose earlier when she said she'll let you know.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Why was she leaving it so late to give you a definite answer?

Fuck knows, it's all a little weird if you ask me. I have met her before just for a drink but she says one thing then does another. Weird if you ask me

flakey.

just fuck her off. "

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Why was she leaving it so late to give you a definite answer?

Fuck knows, it's all a little weird if you ask me. I have met her before just for a drink but she says one thing then does another. Weird if you ask me "
lucky escape if you ask me, no you aren't unreasonable x

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By *eekaBooCpl4UCouple
over a year ago

auckland

Yep - you're being completely unreasonable!... You're a male so should be grateful for anything you can get!..

Haha Muwaaah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you are being unreasonable, OP

Looks to me as if she has issues of low esteem and needs to control someone else's life to make herself feel better

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I know said she wanted to meet me tonight at ten and then when I text her earlier on she said she would let me know if it's on. And now it's got to this time she is annoyed at me for saying forget it at half 9.

It takes half an hour to get to her and by the time I'm ready down to her messing about, it will be nearer 11.

So why should she be annoyed when I cancelled?

Am I being unreasonable?"

What did she say when you said forget it? What was her reason for 'letting you know' ?

Just playing devils advocate

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Why was she leaving it so late to give you a definite answer?

Fuck knows, it's all a little weird if you ask me. I have met her before just for a drink but she says one thing then does another. Weird if you ask me

flakey.

just fuck her off.

"

yeah that reply was partly for you, lol. *in jokes*.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, it's not unreasonable. You can't be expected to be sitting there, body oiled and wearing your best pants, on the off-chance she'll give you the nod.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Probably a wannabe meeter with no intention of actually doing it, block and move on OP, best if luck to you, don't be messed about on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah coz it's not like you've got anything better to do than post on here... Cheeky bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I know said she wanted to meet me tonight at ten and then when I text her earlier on she said she would let me know if it's on. And now it's got to this time she is annoyed at me for saying forget it at half 9.

It takes half an hour to get to her and by the time I'm ready down to her messing about, it will be nearer 11.

So why should she be annoyed when I cancelled?

Am I being unreasonable?"

You say she said she'd let you know, did she give a reason why? When did you agree to meet at 10pm? What was she annoyed at and what did you text her saying and what did she reply. ? Sorry if I'm sounding rude, I'm not I'm just seeing your side only and you only vaguely say why she said she'd let you know, if she just said that and nothing else I'd of politely said 'don't worry we can sort another date out'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why was she leaving it so late to give you a definite answer?

Fuck knows, it's all a little weird if you ask me. I have met her before just for a drink but she says one thing then does another. Weird if you ask me "

I just wouldn't entertain people like that. People will only treat you how you allow them to. But as I've said, only one side of the story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea,,,i wonder what her side of the story is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yea,,,i wonder what her side of the story is "

She's a lazy bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yea,,,i wonder what her side of the story is

She's a lazy bitch "

or too busy shagging some one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yea,,,i wonder what her side of the story is

She's a lazy bitch "

If that's the case I've no sympathy for the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not unreasonable at all .... it's just keeping you dangling there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ur sat in watching tv I'd say u cut ur nose off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With your side of the story op, its sounds like your in your rights if you don't want to be messed around. Some women enjoy stringing you along, if you don't like it, set boundaries and limits to what you'll put up with.

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