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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ladies get disappointed when a guy doesn't cum?

I know men often do when a lady doesn't orgasm but is it the same for women?

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex!

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Id be disappointed with both

Boo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonde_ed this. I sometimes struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its never happened to me, so cant really comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance would be a fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the circumstances. Some

Men take an age to cum due to medication

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I often don't cum on meets, when me and Mrs started playing I said I would save my orgasm for her, after a while we decided to scrap that idea but still don't always cum, I still really enjoy my self and go for hours but the women involved tend not to like it lol xx

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I had a meet with a guy who was impotent... traumatic

Ive also had a meet last moments...

Id always opt for over excited than under

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket


"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! "

or boiling a kettle takes longer

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By *ouncy BabyWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha "

Haha I'm sure you are.

It is nothing to do with performance of the women but I'm sure some women do take it personal even though it's nothing to do with that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only position I cum from is being ridden and I sometimes find that hard too. Even blowjobs rarely make me cum no matter how good it feels.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha "

Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex!

or boiling a kettle takes longer "

Ha ha thank god I didn't try and find out!

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Had a few not cum but its not the only metric with which to measure the meet.

Also the reason I am greedy!

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By *ouncy BabyWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"The only position I cum from is being ridden and I sometimes find that hard too. Even blowjobs rarely make me cum no matter how good it feels. "

Do you find it easier if you've met the person as a regular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I take the strongest Viagra I can't cum easily..maybe if I was fucking a 22 year old 5'9" glamour model nympho brewery heiress I'd plaster the Travelodge curtains

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! "

That's easy! Can get my kit off ever so quick!!

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By *ouncy BabyWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha

Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue "

From now on I bet every guy I meet doesn't cum just to spite me haha

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha

Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue

From now on I bet every guy I meet doesn't cum just to spite me haha "

You're allowed to shout "I know why you're doing this, you bastard!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only position I cum from is being ridden and I sometimes find that hard too. Even blowjobs rarely make me cum no matter how good it feels.

Do you find it easier if you've met the person as a regular?"

Now you mention it. Yes. But only a bit easier.

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By *ouncy BabyWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha

Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue

From now on I bet every guy I meet doesn't cum just to spite me haha

You're allowed to shout "I know why you're doing this, you bastard!" "

Sod that I'll just milk them dry

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha

Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue

From now on I bet every guy I meet doesn't cum just to spite me haha

You're allowed to shout "I know why you're doing this, you bastard!"

Sod that I'll just milk them dry "

*drifts off into daydream *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he has had fun and a huge genuine smile I don't get disappointed .... for me it's all about having fun and no pressure and being completely ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as he has had fun and a huge genuine smile I don't get disappointed .... for me it's all about having fun and no pressure and being completely ourselves "

Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when a guy takes ages, I get so bo_ed

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I hate it when a guy takes ages, I get so bo_ed "

Get the playing cards out and play Patience?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I hate it when a guy takes ages, I get so bo_ed "

I am fucked then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fake it for you ladies. Make you feel better!

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By *lbi niceMan
over a year ago

romsley


"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha "

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By *ouncy BabyWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I'd fake it for you ladies. Make you feel better! "

Unlike men we know when it's being faked as there's always evidence left around haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my partner says he doesn't have to cum to have had a gd time, as long as the female goes away happy she has cum that's good enough for him....

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Do you ladies get disappointed when a guy doesn't cum?

I know men often do when a lady doesn't orgasm but is it the same for women?"

I quite like it... If he stays hard and continues fucking me in different ways... The best lovers learn self control and can go for hours... In this case it's really amazing and he usually cums at the very very end.

Otherwise it could be a sign that he has health issues... Not good... Especially if he doesn't stay hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my partner says he doesn't have to cum to have had a gd time, as long as the female goes away happy she has cum that's good enough for him...."

I agree to a certain extent. But I sometimes get the feeling my orgasm is part of the females enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I have only encounte_ed by round 4 onwards...so i figure they've reached their limit. No problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually take ages to cum, so quickies are out the window

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I usually cum a every other Tuesday

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"my partner says he doesn't have to cum to have had a gd time, as long as the female goes away happy she has cum that's good enough for him....

I agree to a certain extent. But I sometimes get the feeling my orgasm is part of the females enjoyment. "

Absolutely it is... But at the right time... Once you've pleasu_ed her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when a guy takes ages, I get so bo_ed "

This

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The bloke in the unreasonable thread isn't cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit to feeling a little disappointed and make it all about me not turning them on enough - but it hasn't happened enough for me to worry too much

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I usually take ages to cum, so quickies are out the window "

Yes each man is different... Some can repeat rounds so no problem if he cums relatively soon... For those who cannot... Self control is essential

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It doesn't bother me, all our bodies work differently.

If I'm with a naked guy it means I'll have sussed out before hand if he's nice or not.

And that's more important for me

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Do you offer some kind of satisfaction guarantee? I'd have to check the small print

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when a guy takes ages, I get so bo_ed

This "

About 3 minutes ok...including a coffee after

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"It doesn't bother me, all our bodies work differently.

If I'm with a naked guy it means I'll have sussed out before hand if he's nice or not.

And that's more important for me "

There's sense in that too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

there are both men and women who struggle to reach orgasm. if you know it and tell your playmate in advance i can't see a problem. it's about the fun isn't it?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Plus it means your curtains won't look like there have been snails slithering up them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are both men and women who struggle to reach orgasm. if you know it and tell your playmate in advance i can't see a problem. it's about the fun isn't it?"

exactly....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my partner says he doesn't have to cum to have had a gd time, as long as the female goes away happy she has cum that's good enough for him....

I agree to a certain extent. But I sometimes get the feeling my orgasm is part of the females enjoyment.

Absolutely it is... But at the right time... Once you've pleasu_ed her "

Why not before and after her pleasure. If it's more than a quickie why not more than once if it's possible? If I do cum it doesn't mean I can't pleasure her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you can cum like that then all well and good but why does a guy HAVE to cum on a meet....

do all ladies cum on meets????

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"there are both men and women who struggle to reach orgasm. if you know it and tell your playmate in advance i can't see a problem. it's about the fun isn't it?"

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personaly Ive always had to finish myself off in order to cum 'during' sex

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"if you can cum like that then all well and good but why does a guy HAVE to cum on a meet....

do all ladies cum on meets????

"

I rarely cum during sex... Not on a meet... Not in a club... Always after or sometimes when watching porn together...

But the pleasure from really good quality play is mind blowing for me... Just different from orgasms which are also wonderful... They complement each other... And by not Cumming my appetite stays insatiable

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I prefer men not to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so its all about the play and weather you all have a good time rather than cumming.... for us it is anyway... perhaps that's why we don't get many meets.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! "

I thought you liked my suit of armour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with not cumming aslong as your both enjoying it and having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is nothing wrong with not cumming aslong as your both enjoying it and having fun."

that's exactly right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command."

I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command.

I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum. "

a lot of people on here think you have to perform like porn stars.... when in reality its nothing like that at all.... having fun is the most important thing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command.

I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum.

a lot of people on here think you have to perform like porn stars.... when in reality its nothing like that at all.... having fun is the most important thing...."

I leave them to it. I'd rather not meet than compete with all that

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By *ackhammer87Man
over a year ago

Walsall

I take along time to cum if it's slow sex but if I Jackhammer the pussy I cum sooner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command.

I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum.

a lot of people on here think you have to perform like porn stars.... when in reality its nothing like that at all.... having fun is the most important thing....

I leave them to it. I'd rather not meet than compete with all that "

They do know that most male porn starts are gym fit and also hax gay or bi sexual orientation. Not to mention that the industry standed is 6+ Inches, circumcised and preferably can only finish through wanking.

Dont ask me how I know all this I had too much spare time as a teenager.

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By *haggerMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

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By *haggerMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! "

That is very funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would like it if a guy didn't cum. We recently met a guy who went for ages, I was very close to asking him to stop when it transpi_ed he was delaying it. I told him that he needed to finish now and he immediately came!

Sex that goes on for ages and ages just doesn't appeal to me!

For me one of the most fantastic erotic sensual feelings is when a guy cums and I can feel it through his whole body! It's what it's all about for me!

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By *haggerMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex!

or boiling a kettle takes longer

Ha ha thank god I didn't try and find out! "

You talking about one you put on a stove or the new age quick boil versions?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I had a guy once who was like that, to be honest I got used to it and had several orgasms on him.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Common club behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ladies get disappointed when a guy doesn't cum?

I know men often do when a lady doesn't orgasm but is it the same for women?"

Can't say I've Ever had the luxury lol quite the opposite- so how do you stop it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd fake it for you ladies. Make you feel better! "

Rarely......but I have actually thought about doing this on occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy once who was like that, to be honest I got used to it and had several orgasms on him. "

And that's what counts!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I don't think I would like it if a guy didn't cum. We recently met a guy who went for ages, I was very close to asking him to stop when it transpi_ed he was delaying it. I told him that he needed to finish now and he immediately came!

Sex that goes on for ages and ages just doesn't appeal to me!

For me one of the most fantastic erotic sensual feelings is when a guy cums and I can feel it through his whole body! It's what it's all about for me!"

Exactly the same here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its not really happened much. But you know what. Im 52 ive been round the block a few times..Theres all.kind of reasons a go.wont come.

It wouldnt bother me in the least

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'd fake it for you ladies. Make you feel better!

Rarely......but I have actually thought about doing this on occasion. "

I knew someone who did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet with a guy who was impotent... traumatic

Ive also had a meet last moments...

Id always opt for over excited than under"

I would say if it was traumatic then he did not look after you properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sometimes we can cock block ourselves for whatever reason of thoughts, fatigue, or overworked cock with little sensation.

Other times (sorry to say this) it can be the tightness of a pussy in combination of guy size with little friction

so if in similar situation best to improvise and have close legs sex to squeeze on cock as much as possible and maximise friction.

Other factors can help with dirty talk, touching balls - ie grabbing of balls and saying 'i want your cum, I want it bad, I want your hot load soooo bad'

or something similar to that effect

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"The only position I cum from is being ridden and I sometimes find that hard too. Even blowjobs rarely make me cum no matter how good it feels. "

A stallion with no seed!

Sacreligious! Lol J/K

Nice thighs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex FWB stopped being able to cum during sex about a year ago, not sure if it's medication or because he started wanking more XXX

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

I've never had the it cumming problem but from girls I've known who have talked about guys not cumming it seems to be a frustration more because they're not sure if they did enough. However I did have a meet with someone and they didn't want to meet again as she asked me to cum on her tits and I did and apparently I came too much and she didn't like it lol. I have a sneaky suspicion that was just an excuse though lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, if the lady is truly as turned on as I am, then we are both cumming fairly quickly the first time. The second, third and so on, they are more prolonged for me, but I believe that being attuned to each other makes it more likely that neither of us will feel disappointed in the end result of the meet and more than likely, neither of us will have missed out on an orgasm or three

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"In my experience, if the lady is truly as turned on as I am, then we are both cumming fairly quickly the first time. The second, third and so on, they are more prolonged for me, but I believe that being attuned to each other makes it more likely that neither of us will feel disappointed in the end result of the meet and more than likely, neither of us will have missed out on an orgasm or three "

I prefer men not to cum as when some do there is no second or third time. So if cumming quickly the first time is the measure of being truly turned on then I'm going to lose out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, if the lady is truly as turned on as I am, then we are both cumming fairly quickly the first time. The second, third and so on, they are more prolonged for me, but I believe that being attuned to each other makes it more likely that neither of us will feel disappointed in the end result of the meet and more than likely, neither of us will have missed out on an orgasm or three

I prefer men not to cum as when some do there is no second or third time. So if cumming quickly the first time is the measure of being truly turned on then I'm going to lose out.

"

Perhaps if I knew that I were unable to go again then I may feel that I should restrain myself.

But as I have said, this is only from my experiences so far and what I believe.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command.

I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum.

a lot of people on here think you have to perform like porn stars.... when in reality its nothing like that at all.... having fun is the most important thing....

I leave them to it. I'd rather not meet than compete with all that

They do know that most male porn starts are gym fit and also hax gay or bi sexual orientation. Not to mention that the industry standed is 6+ Inches, circumcised and preferably can only finish through wanking.

Dont ask me how I know all this I had too much spare time as a teenager."

Don't believe everything you hear lol, I'm not gym fit not gay or bi & not circumcised nor are 90% of the guys I know who star in them.

Yes lots of guys want off at the end as most shoots finish with a facial cum shot & it's easier for us to aim than the lady.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"In my experience, if the lady is truly as turned on as I am, then we are both cumming fairly quickly the first time. The second, third and so on, they are more prolonged for me, but I believe that being attuned to each other makes it more likely that neither of us will feel disappointed in the end result of the meet and more than likely, neither of us will have missed out on an orgasm or three "
i agree with this. Rarely have i had a man cum then pack up for the day. I have been with guys who only cum once but they know they can only cum once so hold off until the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, if the lady is truly as turned on as I am, then we are both cumming fairly quickly the first time. The second, third and so on, they are more prolonged for me, but I believe that being attuned to each other makes it more likely that neither of us will feel disappointed in the end result of the meet and more than likely, neither of us will have missed out on an orgasm or three i agree with this. Rarely have i had a man cum then pack up for the day. I have been with guys who only cum once but they know they can only cum once so hold off until the end"

Some of us just take longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pretty much complete control so can pick and choose, occasionally I will decide to cum multiple times but generally I prefer only to cum at the very end of a session.

Years of edging myself and more recently learning about dry orgasms has enabled me to decide when I want to ejaculate. For me one orgasm after fucking for a few hours is so much better than cumming multiple times.

It's led me to have to reassure partners that I really am enjoying myself as if you don't cum after an hour or so they do tend to start to think something is up, once they know I prefer it that way then it's not usually an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within 30 seconds I put all doubt from there minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often don't cum on meets, when me and Mrs started playing I said I would save my orgasm for her, after a while we decided to scrap that idea but still don't always cum, I still really enjoy my self and go for hours but the women involved tend not to like it lol xx"

How do you do this........honest question.....hours???? How??? please enlighten me....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


" dry orgasms "

Wtf is a dry orgasm? Google time......

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I like to cum before the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" dry orgasms

"

So basically a Fakegasm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes medication does not help . I was on tablets which caused retro grade ejaculation .. you basically ejaculated but the medication sent the sperm into your bladder rather than out of your penis . Very strange sensation xx

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By *atsnTitsCouple
over a year ago

Land Of Naughtiness

Babydoll writing

I always like a guy to cum then I feel fully satisfied otherwise I feel I haven't done enough to make that person cum and left them unsatusified. Before meeting babe I never orgasmned before I had that good feeling but never came now I squirt and love it. The messier and wetter the better

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford


"The only position I cum from is being ridden and I sometimes find that hard too. Even blowjobs rarely make me cum no matter how good it feels. "

i dont think ive ever cum from a blo job..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I cum all the time during sex and wanking, but rarely come during a blow job! Not sure if it's because only ever had 2 women swallow, so feel I have to keep it in. When a woman has decided to swallow I've cum loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ladies get disappointed when a guy doesn't cum?

I know men often do when a lady doesn't orgasm but is it the same for women?"

it is very disappointing but very hypocritical for me as I dont orgasm on a meet really. Occasionally but for reasons other than whats being done to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" dry orgasms

So basically a Fakegasm... "

Nope, Male orgasm is possible without ejaculation.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


" dry orgasms

So basically a Fakegasm...

Nope, Male orgasm is possible without ejaculation."

That sounds perfect for me: win/win.

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