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"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! " or boiling a kettle takes longer | |||
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"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha " Haha I'm sure you are. It is nothing to do with performance of the women but I'm sure some women do take it personal even though it's nothing to do with that xx | |||
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"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha " Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue | |||
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"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! or boiling a kettle takes longer " Ha ha thank god I didn't try and find out! | |||
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"The only position I cum from is being ridden and I sometimes find that hard too. Even blowjobs rarely make me cum no matter how good it feels. " Do you find it easier if you've met the person as a regular? | |||
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"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! " That's easy! Can get my kit off ever so quick!! | |||
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"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue " From now on I bet every guy I meet doesn't cum just to spite me haha | |||
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"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue From now on I bet every guy I meet doesn't cum just to spite me haha " You're allowed to shout "I know why you're doing this, you bastard!" | |||
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"The only position I cum from is being ridden and I sometimes find that hard too. Even blowjobs rarely make me cum no matter how good it feels. Do you find it easier if you've met the person as a regular?" Now you mention it. Yes. But only a bit easier. | |||
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"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue From now on I bet every guy I meet doesn't cum just to spite me haha You're allowed to shout "I know why you're doing this, you bastard!" " Sod that I'll just milk them dry | |||
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"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha Having just looked at your pictures I can see why you don't have that issue From now on I bet every guy I meet doesn't cum just to spite me haha You're allowed to shout "I know why you're doing this, you bastard!" Sod that I'll just milk them dry " *drifts off into daydream * | |||
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"As long as he has had fun and a huge genuine smile I don't get disappointed .... for me it's all about having fun and no pressure and being completely ourselves " Hi | |||
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"I hate it when a guy takes ages, I get so bo_ed " Get the playing cards out and play Patience? | |||
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"I hate it when a guy takes ages, I get so bo_ed " I am fucked then | |||
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"I've not really had that happen as it's normally the other way round. Guess I'd question if I was any good at it ( which obviously I am ) haha " | |||
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"I'd fake it for you ladies. Make you feel better! " Unlike men we know when it's being faked as there's always evidence left around haha | |||
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"Do you ladies get disappointed when a guy doesn't cum? I know men often do when a lady doesn't orgasm but is it the same for women?" I quite like it... If he stays hard and continues fucking me in different ways... The best lovers learn self control and can go for hours... In this case it's really amazing and he usually cums at the very very end. Otherwise it could be a sign that he has health issues... Not good... Especially if he doesn't stay hard | |||
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"my partner says he doesn't have to cum to have had a gd time, as long as the female goes away happy she has cum that's good enough for him...." I agree to a certain extent. But I sometimes get the feeling my orgasm is part of the females enjoyment. | |||
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"my partner says he doesn't have to cum to have had a gd time, as long as the female goes away happy she has cum that's good enough for him.... I agree to a certain extent. But I sometimes get the feeling my orgasm is part of the females enjoyment. " Absolutely it is... But at the right time... Once you've pleasu_ed her | |||
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"I usually take ages to cum, so quickies are out the window " Yes each man is different... Some can repeat rounds so no problem if he cums relatively soon... For those who cannot... Self control is essential | |||
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"I hate it when a guy takes ages, I get so bo_ed This " About 3 minutes ok...including a coffee after | |||
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"It doesn't bother me, all our bodies work differently. If I'm with a naked guy it means I'll have sussed out before hand if he's nice or not. And that's more important for me " There's sense in that too... | |||
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"there are both men and women who struggle to reach orgasm. if you know it and tell your playmate in advance i can't see a problem. it's about the fun isn't it?" exactly.... | |||
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"my partner says he doesn't have to cum to have had a gd time, as long as the female goes away happy she has cum that's good enough for him.... I agree to a certain extent. But I sometimes get the feeling my orgasm is part of the females enjoyment. Absolutely it is... But at the right time... Once you've pleasu_ed her " Why not before and after her pleasure. If it's more than a quickie why not more than once if it's possible? If I do cum it doesn't mean I can't pleasure her again. | |||
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"there are both men and women who struggle to reach orgasm. if you know it and tell your playmate in advance i can't see a problem. it's about the fun isn't it?" Completely agree | |||
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"if you can cum like that then all well and good but why does a guy HAVE to cum on a meet.... do all ladies cum on meets???? " I rarely cum during sex... Not on a meet... Not in a club... Always after or sometimes when watching porn together... But the pleasure from really good quality play is mind blowing for me... Just different from orgasms which are also wonderful... They complement each other... And by not Cumming my appetite stays insatiable | |||
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"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! " I thought you liked my suit of armour. | |||
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"There is nothing wrong with not cumming aslong as your both enjoying it and having fun." that's exactly right... | |||
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"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command." I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum. | |||
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"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command. I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum. " a lot of people on here think you have to perform like porn stars.... when in reality its nothing like that at all.... having fun is the most important thing.... | |||
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"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command. I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum. a lot of people on here think you have to perform like porn stars.... when in reality its nothing like that at all.... having fun is the most important thing...." I leave them to it. I'd rather not meet than compete with all that | |||
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"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command. I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum. a lot of people on here think you have to perform like porn stars.... when in reality its nothing like that at all.... having fun is the most important thing.... I leave them to it. I'd rather not meet than compete with all that " They do know that most male porn starts are gym fit and also hax gay or bi sexual orientation. Not to mention that the industry standed is 6+ Inches, circumcised and preferably can only finish through wanking. Dont ask me how I know all this I had too much spare time as a teenager. | |||
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"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! " That is very funny! | |||
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"I get disappointed when you sort a meet out and the taking off the clothes is longer than the sex! or boiling a kettle takes longer Ha ha thank god I didn't try and find out! " You talking about one you put on a stove or the new age quick boil versions? | |||
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"Do you ladies get disappointed when a guy doesn't cum? I know men often do when a lady doesn't orgasm but is it the same for women?" Can't say I've Ever had the luxury lol quite the opposite- so how do you stop it?? | |||
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"I'd fake it for you ladies. Make you feel better! " Rarely......but I have actually thought about doing this on occasion. | |||
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"I had a guy once who was like that, to be honest I got used to it and had several orgasms on him. " And that's what counts! | |||
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"I don't think I would like it if a guy didn't cum. We recently met a guy who went for ages, I was very close to asking him to stop when it transpi_ed he was delaying it. I told him that he needed to finish now and he immediately came! Sex that goes on for ages and ages just doesn't appeal to me! For me one of the most fantastic erotic sensual feelings is when a guy cums and I can feel it through his whole body! It's what it's all about for me!" Exactly the same here | |||
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"I'd fake it for you ladies. Make you feel better! Rarely......but I have actually thought about doing this on occasion. " I knew someone who did. | |||
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"I had a meet with a guy who was impotent... traumatic Ive also had a meet last moments... Id always opt for over excited than under" I would say if it was traumatic then he did not look after you properly | |||
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"The only position I cum from is being ridden and I sometimes find that hard too. Even blowjobs rarely make me cum no matter how good it feels. " A stallion with no seed! Sacreligious! Lol J/K Nice thighs! | |||
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"In my experience, if the lady is truly as turned on as I am, then we are both cumming fairly quickly the first time. The second, third and so on, they are more prolonged for me, but I believe that being attuned to each other makes it more likely that neither of us will feel disappointed in the end result of the meet and more than likely, neither of us will have missed out on an orgasm or three " I prefer men not to cum as when some do there is no second or third time. So if cumming quickly the first time is the measure of being truly turned on then I'm going to lose out. | |||
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"In my experience, if the lady is truly as turned on as I am, then we are both cumming fairly quickly the first time. The second, third and so on, they are more prolonged for me, but I believe that being attuned to each other makes it more likely that neither of us will feel disappointed in the end result of the meet and more than likely, neither of us will have missed out on an orgasm or three I prefer men not to cum as when some do there is no second or third time. So if cumming quickly the first time is the measure of being truly turned on then I'm going to lose out. " Perhaps if I knew that I were unable to go again then I may feel that I should restrain myself. But as I have said, this is only from my experiences so far and what I believe. | |||
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"for me it doesn't bother me weather the guy cums or not... as long as we have all had fun.... its not all about cumming.. its about having fun, not being able to perform on command. I'm not into all this 'competitive fucking' shite that so many seem to be on here. I have to like the person and have mutual respect before I'll even thinking of having sex with them. It doesn't matter if neither of us cum. a lot of people on here think you have to perform like porn stars.... when in reality its nothing like that at all.... having fun is the most important thing.... I leave them to it. I'd rather not meet than compete with all that They do know that most male porn starts are gym fit and also hax gay or bi sexual orientation. Not to mention that the industry standed is 6+ Inches, circumcised and preferably can only finish through wanking. Dont ask me how I know all this I had too much spare time as a teenager." Don't believe everything you hear lol, I'm not gym fit not gay or bi & not circumcised nor are 90% of the guys I know who star in them. Yes lots of guys want off at the end as most shoots finish with a facial cum shot & it's easier for us to aim than the lady. | |||
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"In my experience, if the lady is truly as turned on as I am, then we are both cumming fairly quickly the first time. The second, third and so on, they are more prolonged for me, but I believe that being attuned to each other makes it more likely that neither of us will feel disappointed in the end result of the meet and more than likely, neither of us will have missed out on an orgasm or three " i agree with this. Rarely have i had a man cum then pack up for the day. I have been with guys who only cum once but they know they can only cum once so hold off until the end | |||
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"In my experience, if the lady is truly as turned on as I am, then we are both cumming fairly quickly the first time. The second, third and so on, they are more prolonged for me, but I believe that being attuned to each other makes it more likely that neither of us will feel disappointed in the end result of the meet and more than likely, neither of us will have missed out on an orgasm or three i agree with this. Rarely have i had a man cum then pack up for the day. I have been with guys who only cum once but they know they can only cum once so hold off until the end" Some of us just take longer | |||
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"I often don't cum on meets, when me and Mrs started playing I said I would save my orgasm for her, after a while we decided to scrap that idea but still don't always cum, I still really enjoy my self and go for hours but the women involved tend not to like it lol xx" How do you do this........honest question.....hours???? How??? please enlighten me.... | |||
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" dry orgasms " Wtf is a dry orgasm? Google time...... | |||
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"The only position I cum from is being ridden and I sometimes find that hard too. Even blowjobs rarely make me cum no matter how good it feels. " i dont think ive ever cum from a blo job.. | |||
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"Do you ladies get disappointed when a guy doesn't cum? I know men often do when a lady doesn't orgasm but is it the same for women?" it is very disappointing but very hypocritical for me as I dont orgasm on a meet really. Occasionally but for reasons other than whats being done to me x | |||
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" dry orgasms So basically a Fakegasm... " Nope, Male orgasm is possible without ejaculation. | |||
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" dry orgasms So basically a Fakegasm... Nope, Male orgasm is possible without ejaculation." That sounds perfect for me: win/win. | |||
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