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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never ever been intimidated by a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My phone screen doesn't intimidate me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My phone screen doesn't intimidate me"

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never ever been intimidated by a profile. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so "

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

What do you mean? "
i dont know perception maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

What do you mean? i dont know perception maybe "

I've never been intimidated by a man. So I can't see anyones profile making them appear to be a big guy is going to make a difference.

Nobody's profile should ever do that to anyone either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, I love big guys. No one has ever intimidated me nor ever will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all, I love big guys. No one has ever intimidated me nor ever will."
just me lol

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

The only time I feel intimidation is when I see some of the massive Wangs some of you hung guys have!! Lol

Aj

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nah, a smile negates a lot of stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shut up.!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont think a profile is going to pop through my screen and biff me on the nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so "

I don't understand op...please explain in proper sentences

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so "

The text in the profile is the most important bit. This is where you can show people your personality... or where you could intimidate them if you do it wrong.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

The text in the profile is the most important bit. This is where you can show people your personality... or where you could intimidate them if you do it wrong.

Cal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

I don't understand op...please explain in proper sentences "

Makes perfect sense to me. He's asking if a guy can come accross on his profile as intimidating. He thinks, as a big guy, he does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think you come across as intimidating cause of your size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most mens profiles consist of about 5 words and as many cock pics...

not intimidating but very off putting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

I don't understand op...please explain in proper sentences

Makes perfect sense to me. He's asking if a guy can come accross on his profile as intimidating. He thinks, as a big guy, he does."
exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think you come across as intimidating cause of your size?"
yeah right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

I don't understand op...please explain in proper sentences

Makes perfect sense to me. He's asking if a guy can come accross on his profile as intimidating. He thinks, as a big guy, he does.exactly "

Ahh ok. No then

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Saying you are very kinky may concern some ladies.

For me personally if someone is a big rugby build, or tall and hefty , I am intimidated as I have had scarey experiences in the past. I cannot completely relax in fear of what they may do. But this is a personal thing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words on a screen don't intimidate me.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

The OP isn't that big. I am a big guy and my profile hardly raises any interest...let alone any fear.

May change my profile text to...."GRRRRRRRRRRRRR"

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so "

I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so "

I think the wrong pics and text could give the impression of someone intimidating, but that's not what I get from your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

I don't think so. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think your profile is intimidating OP so dont worry... unless of course you were hoping it did in which case, you must try harder cupcake!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont think your profile is intimidating OP so dont worry... unless of course you were hoping it did in which case, you must try harder cupcake! "
Not at all

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i don't think you're intimidating either. your the type of guy i crave to dominate actually.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some gay men really like the 'bear look' so you might get interest from them - fabs and such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww your profile is lovely and in no way intimidating. ..

You look like a lovely fella and hope you find some fun on fab xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't find your profile intimidating XXX

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not intimidating at all, quite appealing actually

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Could mine be intimidating?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think most types of people could have behaviour, attitude or physical attributes that could intimidate others.

Larger people especially can unconsciously draw upon someone's past experience, with parents who had power or instances where stronger others got the upper hand. When younger it's more likely to have ended as a frustrated stuck experience as we didn't have our adult resources to handle the situation differently.

Whatever the past, it's common for people who are larger to hold a position that's easily interpreted as intimidating.

You can only be responsible for whatever your own behaviour is that affects others. Most reasonably alter their style when they know their impact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

words on a screen thats all a fab person is until you see or speak to them - if i didnt like i would block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most mens profiles consist of about 5 words and as many cock pics...

not intimidating but very off putting "

1 cheeky cock pic would be FAB to see!! X

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"most mens profiles consist of about 5 words and as many cock pics...

not intimidating but very off putting

1 cheeky cock pic would be FAB to see!! X"

Well yes a bare profile... Merits instant dismissal... Obviously the writer has no clue about the need for communicating information... So this is a red flag. Delete

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Yep some profiles intimidate me on exceptional men. Xxx

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Yep some profiles intimidate me on exceptional men. Xxx"

Yes if a guy... Or a lady for that matter... Is too cocky or boastful... Too perfect... Then I assume this person will be a perfectionist and I avoid...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The size of a man doesn't intimidate me, nor does his hotness.

But arrogant, rude guys I avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so "

Dunno 'bout anyone else but I am not intimidated by any man; not even by my husband and he *is* a big guy

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating."

As in if you go to the gym and have a 6 pack your higher ranked on forums because you have been on them for years

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

Dunno 'bout anyone else but I am not intimidated by any man; not even by my husband and he *is* a big guy

- Mrs. J -"

Perhaps intimidated is not the ideal word... Perhaps we're talking about an unequal match where one person has very high expectations in terns of this or that... Especially aesthetically... That most people wouldn't be able to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating.

As in if you go to the gym and have a 6 pack your higher ranked on forums because you have been on them for years "
No. I didnt mean the forum. I meant in general.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so "
i get told my veris are intimidating...i just giggle..be yourself, there's no one else to be, that will make you as happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so

Dunno 'bout anyone else but I am not intimidated by any man; not even by my husband and he *is* a big guy

- Mrs. J -

Perhaps intimidated is not the ideal word... Perhaps we're talking about an unequal match where one person has very high expectations in terns of this or that... Especially aesthetically... That most people wouldn't be able to meet "

OK, I see what you mean

Can't say that I have ever been in a situation such as that as the only time I have interacted with anyone is when they have approached me first

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Anyone intimidated by a profile isn't someone that would appeal to me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating.

As in if you go to the gym and have a 6 pack your higher ranked on forums because you have been on them for years No. I didnt mean the forum. I meant in general."

Appeal is about attraction and personality, op,s profile appealed to me more so than the ( gym body) profiles because his came across as a nice down to earth guy, If he was in my area I wouldddefinitely have sent him a message or if had messaged me I would reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating.

As in if you go to the gym and have a 6 pack your higher ranked on forums because you have been on them for years No. I didnt mean the forum. I meant in general.

Appeal is about attraction and personality, op,s profile appealed to me more so than the ( gym body) profiles because his came across as a nice down to earth guy, If he was in my area I wouldddefinitely have sent him a message or if had messaged me I would reply "
That is good for you

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

Not to me "M" but I am a blokes bloke and not small myself, your pictures may come across that way to some males In a couples profile but why no reassure them in you profile that your nothing more than a big teddy bear willing to please and pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some 'gym fit' men look positively grotesque. I prefer a fit man who takes care of himself but is not obsessed. And he has to have a nice, gentle personality and must be kind and must be tall

- Mrs. J -

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so i get told my veris are intimidating...i just giggle..be yourself, there's no one else to be, that will make you as happy x"

Out of hiding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so "

Not at all x

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so "

We don't think so at all.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Could a man come over as intimidating as a big guy i think so i get told my veris are intimidating...i just giggle..be yourself, there's no one else to be, that will make you as happy x

Out of hiding? "
no i got my long awaited router yesterday..ive moved and now at last i have internet..good to see you kinky, hope you are very well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating.

As in if you go to the gym and have a 6 pack your higher ranked on forums because you have been on them for years No. I didnt mean the forum. I meant in general.

Appeal is about attraction and personality, op,s profile appealed to me more so than the ( gym body) profiles because his came across as a nice down to earth guy, If he was in my area I wouldddefinitely have sent him a

message or if had messaged me I would reply That is good for you"

Just pointing out a six pack doesn't higher rank :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating.

As in if you go to the gym and have a 6 pack your higher ranked on forums because you have been on them for years No. I didnt mean the forum. I meant in general.

Appeal is about attraction and personality, op,s profile appealed to me more so than the ( gym body) profiles because his came across as a nice down to earth guy, If he was in my area I wouldddefinitely have sent him a

message or if had messaged me I would reply That is good for you

Just pointing out a six pack doesn't higher rank :-/

"
I know and that is good.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating.

As in if you go to the gym and have a 6 pack your higher ranked on forums because you have been on them for years No. I didnt mean the forum. I meant in general.

Appeal is about attraction and personality, op,s profile appealed to me more so than the ( gym body) profiles because his came across as a nice down to earth guy, If he was in my area I wouldddefinitely have sent him a message or if had messaged me I would reply "

This isn't his first profile though, and it was totally different last time.

Behaviour standards we mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating.

As in if you go to the gym and have a 6 pack your higher ranked on forums because you have been on them for years No. I didnt mean the forum. I meant in general.

Appeal is about attraction and personality, op,s profile appealed to me more so than the ( gym body) profiles because his came across as a nice down to earth guy, If he was in my area I wouldddefinitely have sent him a

message or if had messaged me I would reply That is good for you

Just pointing out a six pack doesn't higher rank :-/

I know and that is good."

Op also had a nice genuine profile read which was appealing

Can't be doing with half a novel to read

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"There are also is a league table of body types, the fitter someone is the higher they are ranked, so can come across as intimidating.

As in if you go to the gym and have a 6 pack your higher ranked on forums because you have been on them for years No. I didnt mean the forum. I meant in general.

Appeal is about attraction and personality, op,s profile appealed to me more so than the ( gym body) profiles because his came across as a nice down to earth guy, If he was in my area I wouldddefinitely have sent him a

message or if had messaged me I would reply That is good for you

Just pointing out a six pack doesn't higher rank :-/

"

Agreed. I'd take the OP's body type over a ripped gym bod anytime.

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