FabSwingers.com forum: Weight

By *AA123 OP Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

I'm probably like most women who are big like me, very sensitive about my weight and when we are trying to plan meets I'm like "I hope they know how big I am!

Robin puts up loads of pictures of me and my body because he says he's proud of me and wants to show me off to world! I just don't want to scare anyone off! Lol.

Do any of you have this insecurity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of the people on here have the same or similar fears about not being fancied. Afterall its what we're here for. Your pictures are gorgeous and anyone chatting with you can clearly see them so they know what to expect.

Embrace the fact theyre interested and put some sass in that ass! X

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I know what you mean. It can then be a real kick in the pants when you get Messages from "BBW lovers"! Talk about confirmation!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yeah, I do! My weight fluctuates constantly (I've only just discovered my clavicle and cheekbones and lost my roll after Christmas!).

I accept the fact I'm fat and send those I'm meeting a full length nude so their face isn't

. I think most larger women worry that they are bigger than people think they are.

As long as you're genuinely happy within yourself, I think that's all that matters. And having a partner who loves you for who you are makes it even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm probably like most women who are big like me, very sensitive about my weight and when we are trying to plan meets I'm like "I hope they know how big I am!

Robin puts up loads of pictures of me and my body because he says he's proud of me and wants to show me off to world! I just don't want to scare anyone off! Lol.

Do any of you have this insecurity? "

Robin should be proud of showing you of you are a really attractive women and so what if you have a bit of weight you are gorgeous and anyone whom has the opportunity to meet you should be lucky.

You have a beautiful face great breasts incredible areolas and you look amazing in your pictures.

So don't be sensitive you look great thanks for sharing your pics I fabbed a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people would like to change something about themselves

I wish I was taller and had slightly bigger breasts; I don't and there is nothing I can do about either

When younger, these things used to bother me; as I got older, it became unimportant. Plus, the only man I care about, loves me the way I am. That is enough for me

Concentrate on the people who find you desirable as the others are simply irrelevant nobodys

- Mrs. J -

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's not just women that have that issue. I'm sensitive about my weight as well.

I see picture of guys with chiselled abs, flat stomachs, etc and then I look at myself and think "why bother since I don't look anything like that" and it knocks my confidence and self-esteem which causes me to retreat into myself.

I've started going to the gym (not just for the exercise side of things but also for my metal health) and the needle on the scales is going down, slowly, which is boosting my confidence slightly. Last night a friend I hadn't seen in a few weeks said I was looking good and commented that I'd lost a bit of weight which also helped.

You have someone that loves you for who you are and you should be proud of that. If anyone is scared off then it's because they are insecure in themselves.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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nothing wrong with being big. i used to be obese and loved having bigger boobs and a more 'womanly' figure. especially after being quite slim and not having boobs and a boyish figure.

unfortunately it affected my mobility so i lost a lot of weight and got down to overweight only and even now i have to get to less then overweight to have the optimum health now, but i am quite happy this size.

and no offence meant to anyone who is comfortable with a boyish figure, i just enjoy being more rounded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yeah i struggle..

I state dress size, height, boob size and pray men kinda get the idea.

I have in various threads shared my struggles and stated my weight. Last week i uploaded a full body naked picture which made page 1 of fabbed pictures.. was crazy how much love i recieved for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do sometimes - which is why my public photos are taken from behind

It's more my body shape than my weight.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"I'm probably like most women who are big like me, very sensitive about my weight and when we are trying to plan meets I'm like "I hope they know how big I am!

Robin puts up loads of pictures of me and my body because he says he's proud of me and wants to show me off to world! I just don't want to scare anyone off! Lol.

Do any of you have this insecurity? "

Every women has these insecurities, 80% of the ladies I shot are bigger ladies & hate certain bits about themselves so I have to catch angles & poses that suit them.

Kim my wife goes up & down from a size 18-20 & like you still gets concerned about what other guys/girls will think about her even though she is a successful porn star, be yourself & enjoy being you as guys honestly won't worry.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm probably like most women who are big like me, very sensitive about my weight and when we are trying to plan meets I'm like "I hope they know how big I am!

Robin puts up loads of pictures of me and my body because he says he's proud of me and wants to show me off to world! I just don't want to scare anyone off! Lol.

Do any of you have this insecurity? "

You're not that insecure because you're on fab. Insecure is not letting your husband see you naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very self conscious. I have lost 2.5st in last yr and still see myself at my biggest. I only feel sexy when all dressed up with undies and stockings etc and worry what guys think once they come off.

I always do social first for that reason then they can politely decline future meets without running screaming when in bed. (I know unlikely to happen but that's how insecure I feel about it)

All the meets Iv had lately are so supportive of my size and love my curves and have been wanting to rip my clothes off so I know it's in my head but still hard.

Be confident in fact your man loves you for the size and shape you are xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of the people on here have the same or similar fears about not being fancied. Afterall its what we're here for. Your pictures are gorgeous and anyone chatting with you can clearly see them so they know what to expect.

Embrace the fact theyre interested and put some sass in that ass! X"

very nice indeed

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

There's nobody perfect on here. We all have our insecurities. It's up to other people to be respectful and kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I constantly worry, I've always been bigger than my social circle and for years I let it hold me back.

At 5'9" I can carry some of it easily but I am obese and dong something about it in a healthy way. I've lost 8kg in 6 weeks and feeling much more sexy & sassy for it too!

I've never had an issue with meets except my own insecurities, that said at the moment I've very very happy with the men I'm meeting and couldn't ask for better men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat finger day!

Must do more finger exercises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the main thing that stops me meeting I'm very self conscious and prevents me relaxing properly. I look at other woman and constantly compare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am very self conscious. I have lost 2.5st in last yr and still see myself at my biggest. I only feel sexy when all dressed up with undies and stockings etc and worry what guys think once they come off.

I always do social first for that reason then they can politely decline future meets without running screaming when in bed. (I know unlikely to happen but that's how insecure I feel about it)

All the meets Iv had lately are so supportive of my size and love my curves and have been wanting to rip my clothes off so I know it's in my head but still hard.

Be confident in fact your man loves you for the size and shape you are xxx"

I absolutely get this, I've done exactly the same!

All I see is the fatter me of when I was 3 stone heavier. I'm relatively intelligent and I know it's all in my head but it's so hard trying to tell yourself that you are smaller and you are desirable to other people and they do want to see you naked and they hopefully won't run away screaming!

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"I'm probably like most women who are big like me, very sensitive about my weight and when we are trying to plan meets I'm like "I hope they know how big I am!

Robin puts up loads of pictures of me and my body because he says he's proud of me and wants to show me off to world! I just don't want to scare anyone off! Lol.

Do any of you have this insecurity? "
yes I have this n luckily none of my meets or fb have ever complained bout it .. we are what we're an are all beautiful inside n out x

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Yeah, I do! My weight fluctuates constantly (I've only just discovered my clavicle and cheekbones and lost my roll after Christmas!).

I accept the fact I'm fat and send those I'm meeting a full length nude so their face isn't

. I think most larger women worry that they are bigger than people think they are.

As long as you're genuinely happy within yourself, I think that's all that matters. And having a partner who loves you for who you are makes it even better.

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ur perfect I'd love a figure like urs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you are gorgeous and it's definitely not just women who get self conscious about weight. I'm physically very fit, I compete in triathlons and cycle a lot but I'm carrying a bit more timber than I'd like to be. My arms and legs are toned but I cant shift fat from my torso. I'm about 2 stone heavier than I'd ideally like to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to show how big I am on my profile. I have found that there are people that are fine about it and people not so.

I just politely said to someone no thanks. Got a "your to fat for me anyway" their spelling not mine! And blocked me.

I would rather keep my wobbly, bobbley bits for guys who appreciate that my personality is as big as the rest of me.

I think age makes you more accepting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm a little insecure about my body and I'm trying to lose some weight. I actually think posting pictures on here and people liking them has given me a bit of a confidence boost

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Yes I'm a little insecure about my body and I'm trying to lose some weight. I actually think posting pictures on here and people liking them has given me a bit of a confidence boost

Happy to help with some Fabbing

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was always very slim then a series of health hiccups & pregnancy led to me putting on weight and struggling to shift it.

I ended up on fab in a roundabout way, the confidence boost from pics being fabbed and complimented, meets being more than happy to enjoy my body in most cases and good feedback from club trips has really boosted my confidence.

I'm brutally honest on my profile and pics and have a deliberately unflattering full length nude pic I use if I want to be sure other person 'gets' how big I am (currently 16/18, f cup bra but have been as big as 20 and down to 14 while on here).

I think it is also an age/maturity thing. As I've got older I've stopped caring what people I don't respect or will never meet again think. Waste of energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I care a little less now I'm in my mid 30s but I'd still like to loose weight so I can get better at the sports I enjoy but also for my confidence.

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By *hruster1969Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Everyone has different taste some will be attracted to you/your body some won't and that goes for anyone of any size....then there's personality to also consider.

Dont worry just be yourself that is the moat attractive attribute of anyone in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has different taste some will be attracted to you/your body some won't and that goes for anyone of any size....then there's personality to also consider.

Dont worry just be yourself that is the moat attractive attribute of anyone in my opinion"

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I'm probably like most women who are big like me, very sensitive about my weight and when we are trying to plan meets I'm like "I hope they know how big I am!

Robin puts up loads of pictures of me and my body because he says he's proud of me and wants to show me off to world! I just don't want to scare anyone off! Lol.

Do any of you have this insecurity? "
I put my height and weight on my profile and enough pics so they can see to what extent I'm chubby...

Hate it when other people hide it which happens... Especially guys with big beer guts or fizzy drinks guts... Oof

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I have massive body hang ups, ive had a few abdominal surgeries

Your photos are completely honest so anyone lucky enough to meet yiu will know exactly who they get to meet

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I have massive body hang ups, ive had a few abdominal surgeries

Your photos are completely honest so anyone lucky enough to meet yiu will know exactly who they get to meet"

Well I find it impossible to take reasonable full body pics but a few pics showing your curves, the areas where you've had surgeries... Just be proud of what you have... Dress it up with pride in the your favourite lingerie... Love curvy... Even chubby women... They tend to be horny as fuck and I love to please them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very insecure about my body, I see myself still at my biggest. But haven't had any problems with our meets or people's attitude towards me. In fact I've had lots of compliments and it's boosted my confidence. Plus paul loves all of me. X

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Thankfully I have put all that body worry behind me. I am what I am and it doesn't seem to put guys off

You can worry about it and spoil your fun, and life for that matter, or own it

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By *AA123 OP Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

Thankyou all so much for your kind words and encouragement, it means alot.

I've suffered from anorexia and bulimia in the past. Now I'm just fat, tipping the scales at 25 stone and size 32 I'm the biggest/heaviest I've ever been. I worry about my sexual stamina, I adore sex and I am very bendy from my yoga/pilates/martial arts days but I get knackered easy which sucks

guess I need more practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think cos this is a sex site people are less fussy about physical attraction. I know i have met men who would never look twice at me in real life cos im fat.

Thats one reason why i stopped meeting. It becomes a bit souless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think cos this is a sex site people are less fussy about physical perfection."

FTFY

"I think age makes you more accepting."

I do alterations and recently had an old lady, who for the record was slim, complain that she "used to be a size 8". This is the only bit of communication she managed with me, she was very fragile, her age was... 95!

"Put the sass in the ass", awesome phrase! Our bodies are but a vessel. Look after yours as best you can, use it, take joy from it - but remember, it's just the husk. Be kind to yourselves everyone (hugs)

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Some people on here are still not interested in meeting larger people. I don't think it makes much difference whether it's fab or vanilla dating sites.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm probably like most women who are big like me, very sensitive about my weight and when we are trying to plan meets I'm like "I hope they know how big I am!

Robin puts up loads of pictures of me and my body because he says he's proud of me and wants to show me off to world! I just don't want to scare anyone off! Lol.

Do any of you have this insecurity? "

Yes. I have no plan whatsoever to let anyone new see me naked in real life because I am currently podgier than I've been in a year. I am well aware it's probably only me that even sees that but I feel self-conscious about it, angry at myself for slacking on the progress I was making and won't meet anyone new until I am body confident again.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to weigh 22 and 1/2stone. I was confident and never been short of real life boyfriends or sex meets. In the real world i was usually the biggest the guy had gone out with and until i had the internet i never once was with someone who was naturally attracted to big women. It was me as a person they where attracted to.

I lost weight for health reasons and it was one of the best things i ever did. But if your happy healthy and confident thats all that matters

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By *XMandMXxCouple
over a year ago

swindon

I love my curves and so does Mr M

Sometimes I feel a bit frumpy and self conscious but even guys have off days!!

There are so many people on Fab, you'll find people who don't like anything to grab onto and you'll find people who crave the attention of a stick with false curves,

Horses for courses I say!!

In the words of Ru Paul, if you can't love yourself, how in the hell are ya gonna love somebody else!

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