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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been here a few months now and I have had meetings with a few guys bir I ammhere with put my partner knowing. I belive I still love him but wanted somthing more to my life. Question is am I wrong to do this with out his knowlage. How many others are here with out there partners knowing. I would have no idea how to let him know what I have been doing as I thi k he may get anger. Dose any one have any ideas how I can bring it up that I like lots of cock at the same time with out upseting him. Should I stay on here or leave or some how get him to agree to allow me here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him while you're both having sex that you've fantasised about have sex with more than one guy at a time, see how he reacts from that and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you're wrong to cheat on him but as a grown woman I'm pretty sure you know that already.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell him while you're both having sex that you've fantasised about have sex with more than one guy at a time, see how he reacts from that and take it from there."
do you think it would work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell him while you're both having sex that you've fantasised about have sex with more than one guy at a time, see how he reacts from that and take it from there. do you think it would work"

Dunno, but when having sex you'd be surprised what he would agree to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you genuinely love him like you say you do, you'll have some respect for him and tell him the truth.

He has every right to be angry at what you've been doing, not only are you putting your health at risk, you're endangering his too. Which, I think is pretty reckless on your behalf, what you get upto is your choice. I would say have a little respect for your partner and allow him to choose whether he wants to still be married to someone willing to risk his sexual health to satisfy her own needs.

How would you feel if you passed on something like Herpes or HIV to him and he wasn't even aware of what you were doing? It's all about choices, you choose to do what you do which is great, no judgement here, but at least have the decency to give him the choice too.

You never know, the thought of him being away and you being serviced by lots of guys might be a massive turn on for him, he might want you to send videos and pics when he's offshore. Who knows, even when he's back he could be driving the van and joining you on your BB van tours

Just stop being deceitful about it and give him the choice to make

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Tell him while you're both having sex that you've fantasised about have sex with more than one guy at a time, see how he reacts from that and take it from there. do you think it would work"

I'd say it's your best option. It's better than any other way and definitely better than the way I found out about my ex mrs. Think I'd leave the bareback bit out though at least for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"If you genuinely love him like you say you do, you'll have some respect for him and tell him the truth.

He has every right to be angry at what you've been doing, not only are you putting your health at risk, you're endangering his too. Which, I think is pretty reckless on your behalf, what you get upto is your choice. I would say have a little respect for your partner and allow him to choose whether he wants to still be married to someone willing to risk his sexual health to satisfy her own needs.

How would you feel if you passed on something like Herpes or HIV to him and he wasn't even aware of what you were doing? It's all about choices, you choose to do what you do which is great, no judgement here, but at least have the decency to give him the choice too.

You never know, the thought of him being away and you being serviced by lots of guys might be a massive turn on for him, he might want you to send videos and pics when he's offshore. Who knows, even when he's back he could be driving the van and joining you on your BB van tours

Just stop being deceitful about it and give him the choice to make "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to make your own mind up really, it's your life not ours. XXX

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

As per a previous post, bring up the idea during an intimate moment and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's degeneracy of the highest degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I feel it's wrong to cheat on a partner. My husband are on both on here, he has a separate profile. We're open and honest with each other about what we're doing. If he cheated on me I'd leave him. I consider someone to be completely disrespectful and the opposite of love. And exposing them to STIs by having unprotected sex without their knowledge or consent I feel is incredibly selfish. You're right, he probably is going to be angry if you tell him and justifiably so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should tell him everything and fully expect him to leave you

And before he does get back, go to a clinic and get tested before you pass something on to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should tell him everything and fully expect him to leave you

And before he does get back, go to a clinic and get tested before you pass something on to him"

Or he might find out after your passed something on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See, now if I had a husband I'd treat him like a king, wouldn't be doing all this shit behind his back.

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Cheating on a partner will always be wrong. To do it in the manner your doing is just incredibly wrong, stupid, selfish and dangerous.

All it takes is one of the 10-20 at a time to have something and you pass it on.

Another thing is your posting pics, no doubt someone will have posted them elsewhere. Imagine he goes on a porn site, looks at pics and goes hold on that's my wife and the pic says after 20 guys in the van.

Tell him before he finds out some other way.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Only you can answer really, you know your husband better than any of us.

What ever you decide you should get regularly tested because how would you and he feel if you pasted something on to him. I think that would be a much more devastating conversation... Oh by the way I have..... You need to get tested. Than I would like to have set with multiple partners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I get the idea I will get tested and then inly do meets with condoms as that is better less chance I will have to tell him then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I get the idea I will get tested and then inly do meets with condoms as that is better less chance I will have to tell him then"

And then maybe change your avatar too. It might put people off who do play safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I get the idea I will get tested and then inly do meets with condoms as that is better less chance I will have to tell him then

And then maybe change your avatar too. It might put people off who do play safe. "

Only giving advise because you asked in your opening post about what to do that's best!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Ok I get the idea I will get tested and then inly do meets with condoms as that is better less chance I will have to tell him then"

But you need to tell him -secrets like that destroy marriages - do you secretly want to get caught, is that why you publicise your full name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I get the idea I will get tested and then inly do meets with condoms as that is better less chance I will have to tell him then"

You're a medical rep as well you should be all about promoting health and surely you'd get discount on jonnys?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"...do you secretly want to get caught, is that why you publicise your full name? "

I have wondered this too... your profile gives an awful lot of personal information, which would make you easily identifiable to anyone who might know you (not just your partner, but family, friends, colleagues...). Unless its all a fantasy persona for the benefit of your meets, it screams of someone who wants to be identified and caught. Do you think that perhaps all you really want is to get your partner's attention and this is a way of showing him that if he doesn't give you the attention you need, there are plenty of others who will? Its just a thought...

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Ok I get the idea I will get tested and then inly do meets with condoms as that is better less chance I will have to tell him then"

Just because it's safer doesn't mean it's right to cheat on him though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get tested. Tell him. Expect him to leave you. I wouldn't blame him and would hope he would. You have given him no second thought in all of this. He'll be better and safer without you

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"...do you secretly want to get caught, is that why you publicise your full name?

I have wondered this too... your profile gives an awful lot of personal information, which would make you easily identifiable to anyone who might know you (not just your partner, but family, friends, colleagues...). Unless its all a fantasy persona for the benefit of your meets, it screams of someone who wants to be identified and caught. Do you think that perhaps all you really want is to get your partner's attention and this is a way of showing him that if he doesn't give you the attention you need, there are plenty of others who will? Its just a thought... "

I do think there must be some deeper psychological issues that urgently need to be addressed.

Apparently there are people he works with on here who already know. Poor guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't been getting tested regularly already?

I feel really sorry for your hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...do you secretly want to get caught, is that why you publicise your full name?

I have wondered this too... your profile gives an awful lot of personal information, which would make you easily identifiable to anyone who might know you (not just your partner, but family, friends, colleagues...). Unless its all a fantasy persona for the benefit of your meets, it screams of someone who wants to be identified and caught. Do you think that perhaps all you really want is to get your partner's attention and this is a way of showing him that if he doesn't give you the attention you need, there are plenty of others who will? Its just a thought...

I do think there must be some deeper psychological issues that urgently need to be addressed.

Apparently there are people he works with on here who already know. Poor guy "

I've had a message from someone he works with. He will find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are wondering how to broach the subject, just show him your profile on here.....

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

A lot of valid points made so far, however its your choice how you live your life.

It sounds like you have some serious choices to make and i am not envious.

As for introducing him into things, have you discussed swinging before? Have you discussed your bi side? If so i would suggest another woman and bring him in that way, what man doesnt want two women?

But please do think about how your actions would impact on him both physically and emotionally. Remember once trust has been broken it can never be 100% again

Boo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he's gonna find out for himself pretty soon anyway if u two been getting intimate. When he wakes up pissing razor blades or when his dick falls off lol

just saying

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"...do you secretly want to get caught, is that why you publicise your full name?

I have wondered this too... your profile gives an awful lot of personal information, which would make you easily identifiable to anyone who might know you (not just your partner, but family, friends, colleagues...). Unless its all a fantasy persona for the benefit of your meets, it screams of someone who wants to be identified and caught. Do you think that perhaps all you really want is to get your partner's attention and this is a way of showing him that if he doesn't give you the attention you need, there are plenty of others who will? Its just a thought...

I do think there must be some deeper psychological issues that urgently need to be addressed.

Apparently there are people he works with on here who already know. Poor guy

I've had a message from someone he works with. He will find out. "

Me too. I just know from friends how much it hurts to be the last to know. She needs to come clean with him, honesty is the only thing that a relationship works on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to tell him or leave him, rather the former than the latter

I get this is a swingers site and a tool for finding sex but driving around the country for the sole purpose of shagging tens of men behind his back without any sort of protection is something else entirely

The first guy you shagged could have had something and you've passed it on to the all the other guys you have been with

I hope the two of you can get sorted and move on and what issues there are can get sorted, but that may only happen if the two of you break up

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

In fact thinking about it the only vaguely honourable thing

left to do would be to delete the profile before he suffers the torment of reading it and go and beg his forgiveness. That's a big ask however much he loves you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See, now if I had a husband I'd treat him like a king, wouldn't be doing all this shit behind his back. "

Exactly! 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See, now if I had a husband I'd treat him like a king, wouldn't be doing all this shit behind his back.

Exactly! 100% "

Really gets my goat that I'm single and would love a boyfriend but then see all these women treating their significant others quite poorly.

Feel like I want to set up a club for the husbands and partners that have suffered deceit. Would offer them care and biscuits and love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this sounds silly but do you enjoy what you do? I mean the sex, do you orgasm and enjoy it? What is it that makes you do what you do? Is it the attention ? I'm just trying to understand and not being funny. Do you not get tired exhausted?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Don't forget getting tested now may not show something that you could have contracted in the last 2 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're playing a game. I think you know exactly what you're doing. Exactly how it's going to end up.

It's your life, you can do what you want, but you're playing with fire.

You're making a mug of the man you're supposed to love. However you want to dress that up, that isn't nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're playing a game. I think you know exactly what you're doing. Exactly how it's going to end up.

It's your life, you can do what you want, but you're playing with fire.

You're making a mug of the man you're supposed to love. However you want to dress that up, that isn't nice.

"

I was thinking similar. Won't take much for people to work out where her husband works as she states it on her profile which I find disturbing and a bit mean. I'd not be happy in the least.

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I can see this on Jezza soon. "Has my wife been shagging her way up and down the country behind my back".

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Don't forget getting tested now may not show something that you could have contracted in the last 2 weeks. "

The last three months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

148 meets later, the OP thinks 'am I doing something wrong?'

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"148 meets later, the OP thinks 'am I doing something wrong?' "

No, the OP thinks "I fancy some attention today, what shit can I post on the forum to get it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help but wonder the direction this thread would've took if it had been a guy posting it. I don't think there'd be so much advice, just outright condemnation.

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"148 meets later, the OP thinks 'am I doing something wrong?'

No, the OP thinks "I fancy some attention today, what shit can I post on the forum to get it"

"

If it's attention they want just contact the company they rep for and inform them what goods she's really promoting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are married and need discretion why is there so much personal info in your profile? Full name location , where your husband works and for how long? That's really not discreet is it?

Seriously though have you thought about seeing your gp as I do think there's an underlying cause for your risky behaviour and promiscuous lifestyle and it is not a case of if its when something dangerous happens as you put your safety and health at risk every time and that's pretty worrying

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Don't forget getting tested now may not show something that you could have contracted in the last 2 weeks.

The last three months "

The big one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you love him and to add to that I don't think your happy with your life. I think you need to come off here for the time being and have a big long think about who you are and what you want from life.

I'm talking from experience.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're even asking the question you know it's wrong

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By *llywalesWoman
over a year ago

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Im just glad that the guys have given her veris... One asked me to meet a few weeks ago ? Im so glad I didnt bother.. Ewww

Thier choice I suppose?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You are wrong to be here without his knowledge that goes without saying,you know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be cynical, but sometimes I wonder if some parts of this scenario is just a fantasy for the OP.

Or I hope so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also like I said on your thread last night do you not worry that your gonna end up dead in the back of your van. You really don't know who your meeting. Not only are you not thinking about your husband. Your not thinking about your family. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't help but wonder the direction this thread would've took if it had been a guy posting it. I don't think there'd be so much advice, just outright condemnation. "

Do you honestly think this situation could be reversed?

A man travelling the country in his van with 10 or more women queuing up to have sex with him.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can see this on Jezza soon. "Has my wife been shagging her way up and down the country behind my back". "

and hundreds of people shouting at their screens saying yes she has!

I can only hope he's doing the same as well poor sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just glad that the guys have given her veris... One asked me to meet a few weeks ago ? Im so glad I didnt bother.. Ewww

Thier choice I suppose? "

I actually turned lad that messaged me other week for same reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget getting tested now may not show something that you could have contracted in the last 2 weeks.

The last three months "

Indeed... in the case of HIV it can take up to 3 months to be detectable in testing, this period is when a person is highly infectious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just glad that the guys have given her veris... One asked me to meet a few weeks ago ? Im so glad I didnt bother.. Ewww

Thier choice I suppose? "

Yes I had a message from a guy with a veri from her I politely refused and told him why. Within minutes he'd removed the said verification.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"See, now if I had a husband I'd treat him like a king, wouldn't be doing all this shit behind his back.

Exactly! 100%

Really gets my goat that I'm single and would love a boyfriend but then see all these women treating their significant others quite poorly.

Feel like I want to set up a club for the husbands and partners that have suffered deceit. Would offer them care and biscuits and love. "

It the reason I stay single. Lots of women say why can't I find a decent bloke bla bla bla but in my experience when they have 1 they've no idea how to return the decent and I've rebuilt myself to many times so trust nobody anymore....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just glad that the guys have given her veris... One asked me to meet a few weeks ago ? Im so glad I didnt bother.. Ewww

Thier choice I suppose? "

I keep an eye on that too.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've also turned down someone as they'd met the OP. On the plus side for her all the men she's met will definitely be back for more as it looks like nobody else wants to meet them!

In answer to your original post I think you should delete your profile, get tested, and talk to your hubby about what you want. But I don't think you have any intention of doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The first guy you shagged could have had something and you've passed it on to the all the other guys you have been with

"

Any guy who meets and fucks someone who behaves likes this should know the risks. I almost want to say they deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've also turned down someone as they'd met the OP. On the plus side for her all the men she's met will definitely be back for more as it looks like nobody else wants to meet them!

In answer to your original post I think you should delete your profile, get tested, and talk to your hubby about what you want. But I don't think you have any intention of doing that. "

I have a suspicion that many men don't leave a veri or display one from the op and her meet total more like double of what it says, more like 300+

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I've also turned down someone as they'd met the OP. On the plus side for her all the men she's met will definitely be back for more as it looks like nobody else wants to meet them!

In answer to your original post I think you should delete your profile, get tested, and talk to your hubby about what you want. But I don't think you have any intention of doing that.

I have a suspicion that many men don't leave a veri or display one from the op and her meet total more like double of what it says, more like 300+"

Possibly not double but I agree with this overall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't help but wonder the direction this thread would've took if it had been a guy posting it. I don't think there'd be so much advice, just outright condemnation.

Do you honestly think this situation could be reversed?

A man travelling the country in his van with 10 or more women queuing up to have sex with him. "

When you put it like that...fair enough

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I have been here a few months now and I have had meetings with a few guys bir I ammhere with put my partner knowing. I belive I still love him but wanted somthing more to my life. Question is am I wrong to do this with out his knowlage. How many others are here with out there partners knowing. I would have no idea how to let him know what I have been doing as I thi k he may get anger. Dose any one have any ideas how I can bring it up that I like lots of cock at the same time with out upseting him. Should I stay on here or leave or some how get him to agree to allow me here"

When he gets home , ask if he wants to watch some porn with you . Assuming he says yes , enter cumslut in the search , and choose a scene like your chosen play . He may love it , in which case you simply ask if he would be into trying it out for real . If he hates it , you're fucked really .

Hopefully he may be into trying it out and you can go out with him and carry on playing as you are as a couple . He may even give you his blessing to play while he's away as long as you send pics and videos .

Good luck op

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

To have some balance it's worth saying that i sincerely doubt all her meets were single, unmarried guys. They happily took home whatever she may have to their wives. We can easily slate the OP because she asked the question but it takes at least 4 men to have a gangbang and 1 van to have a gangbang in a van.

Ps: i sincerely doubt all the 'personal information' is accurate either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here a few months now and I have had meetings with a few guys bir I ammhere with put my partner knowing. I belive I still love him but wanted somthing more to my life. Question is am I wrong to do this with out his knowlage. How many others are here with out there partners knowing. I would have no idea how to let him know what I have been doing as I thi k he may get anger. Dose any one have any ideas how I can bring it up that I like lots of cock at the same time with out upseting him. Should I stay on here or leave or some how get him to agree to allow me here"
You really need to ask if it's wrong ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've also turned down someone as they'd met the OP. On the plus side for her all the men she's met will definitely be back for more as it looks like nobody else wants to meet them!

In answer to your original post I think you should delete your profile, get tested, and talk to your hubby about what you want. But I don't think you have any intention of doing that.

I have a suspicion that many men don't leave a veri or display one from the op and her meet total more like double of what it says, more like 300+"

1 in 600 people in the UK are living with HIV, the likelihood is that ratio is higher amongst barebacking swingers... frightening thought

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up "

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield


"See, now if I had a husband I'd treat him like a king, wouldn't be doing all this shit behind his back.

Exactly! 100%

Really gets my goat that I'm single and would love a boyfriend but then see all these women treating their significant others quite poorly.

Feel like I want to set up a club for the husbands and partners that have suffered deceit. Would offer them care and biscuits and love. "

Where do I sign lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You say you believe you love him,you don't do you! Especially as you do bareback,if you had an ounce of respect for him you'd at least get the men to cover up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

"

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here a few months now and I have had meetings with a few guys bir I ammhere with put my partner knowing. I belive I still love him but wanted somthing more to my life. Question is am I wrong to do this with out his knowlage. How many others are here with out there partners knowing. I would have no idea how to let him know what I have been doing as I thi k he may get anger. Dose any one have any ideas how I can bring it up that I like lots of cock at the same time with out upseting him. Should I stay on here or leave or some how get him to agree to allow me here"
yeah just set the mood . Drinks . Coal fire . A nice meal . Then tell him you have cheated on him 127 times . You will be fine

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By *D0203Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Top reply

Wise words to be taken seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm aware this will make me sound a judgmental prick. but it's more the way you go about the cheating that I think is disgusting.

Bareback gangbangs....put yourself at risk by all means, but he deserves better

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up "

Haha good call. ...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

"

I agree to an extent,but surely if you're going to start numerous thread's about what she does then people will comment and she will be judged.

For God's sake,she does bb behind her husbands back with numerous men in a van,starts a thread about whether she should continue or not and has a status up about meeting tonight! There's a lot for people to judge there methinks

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person. "

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

"

Not when she openly asked for opinions!

Aj

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms ."

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not when she openly asked for opinions!

Aj "

There's a difference in saying you think it's wrong to do what you're doing behind your husbands back , and taking it to the level that some have been doing in this thread .

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV. "

To be honest , I would guess he must have some idea of what's going on . If he hasn't the relationship must be somewhat lacking in some way or another . And that may be why the op does what she does .....

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"...do you secretly want to get caught, is that why you publicise your full name?

I have wondered this too... your profile gives an awful lot of personal information, which would make you easily identifiable to anyone who might know you (not just your partner, but family, friends, colleagues...). Unless its all a fantasy persona for the benefit of your meets, it screams of someone who wants to be identified and caught. Do you think that perhaps all you really want is to get your partner's attention and this is a way of showing him that if he doesn't give you the attention you need, there are plenty of others who will? Its just a thought...

I do think there must be some deeper psychological issues that urgently need to be addressed.

Apparently there are people he works with on here who already know. Poor guy

I've had a message from someone he works with. He will find out. "
oh shit!

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV.

To be honest , I would guess he must have some idea of what's going on . If he hasn't the relationship must be somewhat lacking in some way or another . And that may be why the op does what she does ....."
tbh I think I'd realise my wife's bits had somewhat changed

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not when she openly asked for opinions!

Aj

There's a difference in saying you think it's wrong to do what you're doing behind your husbands back , and taking it to the level that some have been doing in this thread ."

Look if you don't like the answers then don't ask the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"148 meets later, the OP thinks 'am I doing something wrong?'

No, the OP thinks "I fancy some attention today, what shit can I post on the forum to get it"

"

You nailed it

OP do you really need to keep hearing that people actively avoid you and the men who meet you because of your blatant disregard for the sexual health of your husband, 'lovers' (for want of a better word) and their wives/partners? Because it's getting to the point where soon enough nobody will touch you with the shitty end of someone else's shitty stick...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV.

To be honest , I would guess he must have some idea of what's going on . If he hasn't the relationship must be somewhat lacking in some way or another . And that may be why the op does what she does ....."

Maybe so, and his colleagues know so i doubt it will be long if he doesn't. But I am never going to encourage anyone like her and always urge them to do the right thing, as much as is possible now anyway. If I'm doing something wrong I hope someone with no axe to grind challenges me too.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV.

To be honest , I would guess he must have some idea of what's going on . If he hasn't the relationship must be somewhat lacking in some way or another . And that may be why the op does what she does .....

Maybe so, and his colleagues know so i doubt it will be long if he doesn't. But I am never going to encourage anyone like her and always urge them to do the right thing, as much as is possible now anyway. If I'm doing something wrong I hope someone with no axe to grind challenges me too."

I certainly have no axe to grind .

By the morals of anyone not cheating , of course she is doing something wrong . But the outright condemnation seems harsh . It all seems consensual , legal and above board from where I'm sitting .

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV.

To be honest , I would guess he must have some idea of what's going on . If he hasn't the relationship must be somewhat lacking in some way or another . And that may be why the op does what she does .....

Maybe so, and his colleagues know so i doubt it will be long if he doesn't. But I am never going to encourage anyone like her and always urge them to do the right thing, as much as is possible now anyway. If I'm doing something wrong I hope someone with no axe to grind challenges me too."

His colleagues know . Fuck!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The rate shes going she will be found dead in a ditch.

Random guys on her own in out the way locations.

Bareback would be the least of my worries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The rate shes going she will be found dead in a ditch.

Random guys on her own in out the way locations.

Bareback would be the least of my worries."

Not only that she's tied up on most meets which makes her even more vulnerable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like she is "Taking some time out" according to her status

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op. Your going to do what you do regardless.

But for christ sake get regular checks and you must of made friends with a couple of the guys have them there throughout your "meets".

Your going to end up dead, or seriously hurt or r*****.

Give your bloody head a good wobble

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV.

To be honest , I would guess he must have some idea of what's going on . If he hasn't the relationship must be somewhat lacking in some way or another . And that may be why the op does what she does .....

Maybe so, and his colleagues know so i doubt it will be long if he doesn't. But I am never going to encourage anyone like her and always urge them to do the right thing, as much as is possible now anyway. If I'm doing something wrong I hope someone with no axe to grind challenges me too.

I certainly have no axe to grind .

By the morals of anyone not cheating , of course she is doing something wrong . But the outright condemnation seems harsh . It all seems consensual , legal and above board from where I'm sitting ."

Her partner is not consensual, and the act of barebacking includes him in the deal. That's what most people are condemning, few comdemned the single young lady who was engaged in a similar spree.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I think you're playing a game. I think you know exactly what you're doing. Exactly how it's going to end up.

It's your life, you can do what you want, but you're playing with fire.

You're making a mug of the man you're supposed to love. However you want to dress that up, that isn't nice.

"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV.

To be honest , I would guess he must have some idea of what's going on . If he hasn't the relationship must be somewhat lacking in some way or another . And that may be why the op does what she does .....

Maybe so, and his colleagues know so i doubt it will be long if he doesn't. But I am never going to encourage anyone like her and always urge them to do the right thing, as much as is possible now anyway. If I'm doing something wrong I hope someone with no axe to grind challenges me too.

His colleagues know . Fuck!"

Yup, there is a guy on here messaged me - he is torn and doesn't know what to do.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV.

To be honest , I would guess he must have some idea of what's going on . If he hasn't the relationship must be somewhat lacking in some way or another . And that may be why the op does what she does .....

Maybe so, and his colleagues know so i doubt it will be long if he doesn't. But I am never going to encourage anyone like her and always urge them to do the right thing, as much as is possible now anyway. If I'm doing something wrong I hope someone with no axe to grind challenges me too.

His colleagues know . Fuck!

Yup, there is a guy on here messaged me - he is torn and doesn't know what to do. "

If he's just a colleague I would advise him to stay out of it,it would be doubley devastating for him to know everyone knows at work as well. Let him find out by other mean's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See, now if I had a husband I'd treat him like a king, wouldn't be doing all this shit behind his back.

Exactly! 100%

Really gets my goat that I'm single and would love a boyfriend but then see all these women treating their significant others quite poorly.

Feel like I want to set up a club for the husbands and partners that have suffered deceit. Would offer them care and biscuits and love. "

Did you just say Biscuits?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There's really not any point giving this more airtime as you have since posted your next tour date/time

Maybe you'll be lucky and a sexual health nurse, psychiatrist and social worker will turn up

She is doing what she wants to do , and there seems to be plenty of other fab members who are happy to join her .

It's a bit much to be so judgemental on here isn't it ?

Not judgemental, i actually think she may well be a vulnerable person.

If she is , hoping a sexual health nurse , a psychiatrist and a social worker will turn up at her next meet won't help will it ?

It's just possible that the op gets a thrill from doing what she does . Who knows ?

If this makes her vulnerable , she seems happy enough in her vulnerability . There are all manner of ways that people use things as coping mechanisms .

But not many of them can give their innocent partner HIV.

To be honest , I would guess he must have some idea of what's going on . If he hasn't the relationship must be somewhat lacking in some way or another . And that may be why the op does what she does .....

Maybe so, and his colleagues know so i doubt it will be long if he doesn't. But I am never going to encourage anyone like her and always urge them to do the right thing, as much as is possible now anyway. If I'm doing something wrong I hope someone with no axe to grind challenges me too.

His colleagues know . Fuck!

Yup, there is a guy on here messaged me - he is torn and doesn't know what to do.

If he's just a colleague I would advise him to stay out of it,it would be doubley devastating for him to know everyone knows at work as well. Let him find out by other mean's."

Hopefully the OP will realise she has to change something soon.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"

Maybe so, and his colleagues know so i doubt it will be long if he doesn't. But I am never going to encourage anyone like her and always urge them to do the right thing, as much as is possible now anyway. If I'm doing something wrong I hope someone with no axe to grind challenges me too.

His colleagues know . Fuck!

Yup, there is a guy on here messaged me - he is torn and doesn't know what to do.

If he's just a colleague I would advise him to stay out of it,it would be doubley devastating for him to know everyone knows at work as well. Let him find out by other mean's.

Hopefully the OP will realise she has to change something soon. "

Yeah it's not good

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By *rozacMan
over a year ago

london


"I have been here a few months now and I have had meetings with a few guys bir I ammhere with put my partner knowing. I belive I still love him but wanted somthing more to my life. Question is am I wrong to do this with out his knowlage. How many others are here with out there partners knowing. I would have no idea how to let him know what I have been doing as I thi k he may get anger. Dose any one have any ideas how I can bring it up that I like lots of cock at the same time with out upseting him. Should I stay on here or leave or some how get him to agree to allow me here"

Jesus, that hurt to read

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I do now have I list of 124 guys I know I'm not gonna meet so I'm thankful the veri's are still showing.

Seriously though. Please please go and get checked and double checked.

And if the results are something you don't want to hear, you must make sure you contact those who you've been in contact with. Assume they have partners who may be/have already contracted something. It's not fair on them.

Chances are they wouldn't even consider getting checked if they are a loyal partner and believe theirs is too. If they have caught something it's the last thing they'll be expecting.

Some infections have no symptoms.

Some can cause infertility.

I don't think the enormity of the effects have been considered at all.

I for one, couldn't have that on my conscience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do now have I list of 124 guys I know I'm not gonna meet so I'm thankful the veri's are still showing.

Seriously though. Please please go and get checked and double checked.

And if the results are something you don't want to hear, you must make sure you contact those who you've been in contact with. Assume they have partners who may be/have already contracted something. It's not fair on them.

Chances are they wouldn't even consider getting checked if they are a loyal partner and believe theirs is too. If they have caught something it's the last thing they'll be expecting.

Some infections have no symptoms.

Some can cause infertility.

I don't think the enormity of the effects have been considered at all.

I for one, couldn't have that on my conscience. "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"I do now have I list of 124 guys I know I'm not gonna meet so I'm thankful the veri's are still showing.

Seriously though. Please please go and get checked and double checked.

And if the results are something you don't want to hear, you must make sure you contact those who you've been in contact with. Assume they have partners who may be/have already contracted something. It's not fair on them.

Chances are they wouldn't even consider getting checked if they are a loyal partner and believe theirs is too. If they have caught something it's the last thing they'll be expecting.

Some infections have no symptoms.

Some can cause infertility.

I don't think the enormity of the effects have been considered at all.

I for one, couldn't have that on my conscience. "

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By *D0203Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

She can't live up to her name or anything she has said..... I messaged for fun and got no reply!

I'm joking by the way

Dare I say..... attention seeker?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i don't believe you have to be completely honest about everything if you love someone, although it would have been best if you had been honest prior to doing what you've done as trust is a good foundation for all relationships. if the truth will hurt him and crush his soul then don't tell him. do not hurt him to get over your own guilt and selfish feelings.

right now you're acting like you love him by not ignoring what he would think about this and considering his feelings instead of being selfish. this is good.

you could tell him the truth if you have to and feel you need total honestly to repair your relationship but if you truly do love him you'll do everything possible in your power to let him know none of what you did was his fault whatsoever.

love should begin with being considerate for that person, and this includes sacrifice on your part for that. do not leave him feeling that he is inadequate or is to blame for what you did without his consent.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"She can't live up to her name or anything she has said..... I messaged for fun and got no reply!

I'm joking by the way

Dare I say..... attention seeker? "

she probably has a bazzilion messages offering her the same thing you did. fucks sake, she's gonna pick who's most convenient for her and she isn't a service for you inspite of her enjoying loads of cock.

get over it.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"i don't believe you have to be completely honest about everything if you love someone, although it would have been best if you had been honest prior to doing what you've done as trust is a good foundation for all relationships. if the truth will hurt him and crush his soul then don't tell him. do not hurt him to get over your own guilt and selfish feelings.

right now you're acting like you love him by not ignoring what he would think about this and considering his feelings instead of being selfish. this is good.

you could tell him the truth if you have to and feel you need total honestly to repair your relationship but if you truly do love him you'll do everything possible in your power to let him know none of what you did was his fault whatsoever.

love should begin with being considerate for that person, and this includes sacrifice on your part for that. do not leave him feeling that he is inadequate or is to blame for what you did without his consent."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The rate shes going she will be found dead in a ditch.

Random guys on her own in out the way locations.

Bareback would be the least of my worries."

My thoughts exactly. It will be her family hurting then just cos of her selfishness. Xxx

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Am I the only one whos finding it funny how the amount of verifications is dropping ever since some people stated I won't meet anyone that's met the op

Also it appears she is legit in taking a break

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Am I the only one whos finding it funny how the amount of verifications is dropping ever since some people stated I won't meet anyone that's met the op

Also it appears she is legit in taking a break "

Yep they're all blocking her rapido so their verifications don't show. Luckily I already used the private notes function on all the Scottish ones

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By *D0203Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"She can't live up to her name or anything she has said..... I messaged for fun and got no reply!

I'm joking by the way

Dare I say..... attention seeker?

she probably has a bazzilion messages offering her the same thing you did. fucks sake, she's gonna pick who's most convenient for her and she isn't a service for you inspite of her enjoying loads of cock.

get over it."

Wow!

Did you fail to see my sarcasm when I said.... I was only joking??!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP in all seriousness I do hope your ok, a break will help you see the bigger picture and give you time to view things objectively.

Stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She had veris from several Forum posters plus her Blackpool veris are gone too.

I would never meet someone like the OP. I'm not that desperate and never would be.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"She can't live up to her name or anything she has said..... I messaged for fun and got no reply!

I'm joking by the way

Dare I say..... attention seeker?

she probably has a bazzilion messages offering her the same thing you did. fucks sake, she's gonna pick who's most convenient for her and she isn't a service for you inspite of her enjoying loads of cock.

get over it.

Wow!

Did you fail to see my sarcasm when I said.... I was only joking??!!!!!

"

i saw the joking bit, yes.

unfortunately a lot of men think that way and often use passive aggressive 'humour' to get a nasty point across.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Down to 111 verifications, i wonder how many of them are called Peter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She had veris from several Forum posters plus her Blackpool veris are gone too.

I would never meet someone like the OP. I'm not that desperate and never would be. "

Well done you have yourself a blue Peter badge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one whos finding it funny how the amount of verifications is dropping ever since some people stated I won't meet anyone that's met the op

Also it appears she is legit in taking a break "

If we did a who's shagged who tree on fab then a fair few of us would gave indirectly shagged the OP

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By *D0203Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"She can't live up to her name or anything she has said..... I messaged for fun and got no reply!

I'm joking by the way

Dare I say..... attention seeker?

she probably has a bazzilion messages offering her the same thing you did. fucks sake, she's gonna pick who's most convenient for her and she isn't a service for you inspite of her enjoying loads of cock.

get over it.

Wow!

Did you fail to see my sarcasm when I said.... I was only joking??!!!!!

i saw the joking bit, yes.

unfortunately a lot of men think that way and often use passive aggressive 'humour' to get a nasty point across.

"

If I was rejected by OP I'd give up the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down to 54.

Nearly at 42

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Down to 54.

Nearly at 42 "

7 now.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I would delete the whole profile, give the poor man the abridged version.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Down to 54.

Nearly at 42

7 now. "

Didn't think AIDs was such a quick killer these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Down to 54.

Nearly at 42

7 now.

Didn't think AIDs was such a quick killer these days"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Shes left the summary up though

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

Wow. It was 111 when i last looked. Now says 7 but comes up with no verifications?

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Maybe you should be asking do you really love him or is it lust?? Because i cant believe you love someone on one hand then go behind there back and hurt them with the other.

How would you feel if he had been playing away behind your back potentially getting other women pregnant and picking up diseases on the way??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are you women going to find out who she's shagged now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here a few months now and I have had meetings with a few guys bir I ammhere with put my partner knowing. I belive I still love him but wanted somthing more to my life. Question is am I wrong to do this with out his knowlage. How many others are here with out there partners knowing. I would have no idea how to let him know what I have been doing as I thi k he may get anger. Dose any one have any ideas how I can bring it up that I like lots of cock at the same time with out upseting him. Should I stay on here or leave or some how get him to agree to allow me here"

Do what makes you happy.

Maybe watch gangbang porn with him and see what he thinks.

Your relationship is a separate issue. Only you know if you love him or not.

Maybe think about if he was home all the time, if you'd still be on here or shagging just him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are you women going to find out who she's shagged now? "

I bet they have the list.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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it's a shame that when a person shows their core, vulnerable, human side there are people here ready to pull that to pieces.

so what if she's fucked half the site behind her husbands back and done it without condoms. she made this topic for help.

i hate how predatory and inhumane some people are. and this is coming from someone who enjoys giving out consensual humiliation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are you women going to find out who she's shagged now?

I bet they have the list. "

like Santas naughty list but worse

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"How are you women going to find out who she's shagged now? "

Ha ha !!!

Gotta love this ..... all the northern women worrying now as they can't see who she's shagged !

Thing is this .... there could , and probably are women all over the country doing a similar thing . It's not uncommon for a woman to shag 20 guys in one night at a gangbang . And yes , some of these events are bareback .

Your sexual health is your responsibility . No one else's . Assume nothing is safe and play accordingly and you'll be doing as much as you can . Failing that , don't have multiple partners as nothing is 100% safe other than no sex at all .

It's kinda backfired on you all now hasn't it ?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"it's a shame that when a person shows their core, vulnerable, human side there are people here ready to pull that to pieces.

so what if she's fucked half the site behind her husbands back and done it without condoms. she made this topic for help.

i hate how predatory and inhumane some people are. and this is coming from someone who enjoys giving out consensual humiliation."

I'm glad we aren't the only ones who think like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really think she listens to anyone? She's been shagging them in my town this morning and suddenly comes here for some attention seeking? Maybe not enough men turned up for her taste?

Someone who really wants help will listen and follow good advise. She definitely has something 'missing' in her life which obviously transpires by how she writes and behaves. Maybe you should spare some thought for her husband and how all this could affect and hurt him. Shame respect means nothing to some people these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are you women going to find out who she's shagged now?

Ha ha !!!

Gotta love this ..... all the northern women worrying now as they can't see who she's shagged !

Thing is this .... there could , and probably are women all over the country doing a similar thing . It's not uncommon for a woman to shag 20 guys in one night at a gangbang . And yes , some of these events are bareback .

Your sexual health is your responsibility . No one else's . Assume nothing is safe and play accordingly and you'll be doing as much as you can . Failing that , don't have multiple partners as nothing is 100% safe other than no sex at all .

It's kinda backfired on you all now hasn't it ?

"

Fucking stupid to get all bitchy about it. Fab is just one website. People could be having bareback gangbangs all over the place and the verification chasers would never know. It's all 6 degrees of separation... or less..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do now have I list of 124 guys I know I'm not gonna meet so I'm thankful the veri's are still showing.

Seriously though. Please please go and get checked and double checked.

And if the results are something you don't want to hear, you must make sure you contact those who you've been in contact with. Assume they have partners who may be/have already contracted something. It's not fair on them.

Chances are they wouldn't even consider getting checked if they are a loyal partner and believe theirs is too. If they have caught something it's the last thing they'll be expecting.

Some infections have no symptoms.

Some can cause infertility.

I don't think the enormity of the effects have been considered at all.

I for one, couldn't have that on my conscience. "

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