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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston

My rant thread threw up another topic.

How do you view the forum, is it strictly friends zone or FAF?

Do you only meet from the forum?

Do you only meet outside the forum?

A mix of the 2?

Which is more straightforward?

Do you feel like it's time for a change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some fellow forumites and some for a social some for much more .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count on one hand the number of forum peeps we'd meet.

Probably exactly the same when switched around, not many would meet us, so it pretty much evens out

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By *wingtolifeCouple
over a year ago

who knows

forum is just to chat, dont actively search on the forum unless theres a meet request or an event which will read.

but apart from that just really for discussions

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"My rant thread threw up another topic.

How do you view the forum, is it strictly friends zone or FAF?

Do you only meet from the forum?

Do you only meet outside the forum?

A mix of the 2?

Which is more straightforward?

Do you feel like it's time for a change?

"

Neither.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I have meet 4 Women who use/used the forums, 2 was just a social and 2 resulted in us having sex, But I have also met Women who use the chat rooms,

Its a mix of them really, I haven't met anyone who just uses fab in general,

In fact I rarely even chat to Women who don't use the forums/chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both. The meets i have had are with both forum and non forum members...my current my friends list is nearly all forum folk... and most of them I definitely FAF with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met anyone via the forum, but I live in hope

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"My rant thread threw up another topic.

How do you view the forum, is it strictly friends zone or FAF?

Do you only meet from the forum?

Do you only meet outside the forum?

A mix of the 2?

Which is more straightforward?

Do you feel like it's time for a change?

Neither. "

Wanking?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say a bit of both

I tend to clubs but know people from club scene that do forums and chat

I sometimes look through ads but I often just perv them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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My current partner is/was a forumite so yeah, I meet forum folk and do things other than challenge/mock them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Oh and no, I don't just meet from the forum. I don't see it as being any different to meeting those in the forum.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I meet who I fancy.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think with peeps from the forum you can tell a bit better if you're gonna get on, because you can see their interaction with others too, and can see if their personality comes over as consistent.

I do go to clubs, not necessarily to "get some". I just feel safer. I worry about going to a normal club in case my drink gets spiked or something. I don't have that worry at the clubs of an adult nature

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"My rant thread threw up another topic.

How do you view the forum, is it strictly friends zone or FAF?

Do you only meet from the forum?

Do you only meet outside the forum?

A mix of the 2?

Which is more straightforward?

Do you feel like it's time for a change?

Neither.

Wanking? "

Don't even do much of that.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"My current partner is/was a forumite so yeah, I meet forum folk and do things other than challenge/mock them. "

Challenge, mock, you do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it very unlikely we'd meet anybody via the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it wasn't for the forums I'd never meet!

I've gone off piste a few times and only ever had one meet from it.

All my other meets have been with people from the forums or people who lurk but don't post on here.

Before I UNLOSed I had 24 veris in about 2 and a bit years all thanks to the forums!

They all want to bloody friend zone me though ...

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"If it wasn't for the forums I'd never meet!

I've gone off piste a few times and only ever had one meet from it.

All my other meets have been with people from the forums or people who lurk but don't post on here.

Before I UNLOSed I had 24 veris in about 2 and a bit years all thanks to the forums!

They all want to bloody friend zone me though ... "

Don't cry bro xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there have been 2 people in 6 years that I've met that have used the forum. One turned into drama and I've no clue what happened to the other. I steer clear of drama and I have no inclination to become the next forum thread subject. ..oh, And there's far more choice away from the forum given that a very low percentage of the whole site actually use the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My rant thread threw up another topic.

How do you view the forum, is it strictly friends zone or FAF?

Do you only meet from the forum?

Do you only meet outside the forum?

A mix of the 2?

Which is more straightforward?

Do you feel like it's time for a change?

"

I've met from both but I'll be completely honest I was a bog standard fab bloke (careful now) before being reedjumacated by the forum.

This year I've only met from the forum and they were all lovely. Even those that ran off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there have been 2 people in 6 years that I've met that have used the forum. One turned into drama and I've no clue what happened to the other. I steer clear of drama and I have no inclination to become the next forum thread subject. ..oh, And there's far more choice away from the forum given that a very low percentage of the whole site actually use the forum. "

And I have no desire to change the way I do things. Why make things hard on myself? I'm certain that those that use the forum wouldn't want to meet me either as I don't play their games

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We've met a few forum ppl for socials and more.

We also meet non forum ppl for socials and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met anyone from forum but quite few if FAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a mix of both. It's nice to get to know people a bit more on the forums. A lot of our meets have been because we've been seen on the forums even if they don't post.

And yes there are lots I'd friend zone there are a good few I'd faf x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met folk that aren't on the forum. More than a few forumites socially and some for more

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I think there have been 2 people in 6 years that I've met that have used the forum. One turned into drama and I've no clue what happened to the other. I steer clear of drama and I have no inclination to become the next forum thread subject. ..oh, And there's far more choice away from the forum given that a very low percentage of the whole site actually use the forum.

And I have no desire to change the way I do things. Why make things hard on myself? I'm certain that those that use the forum wouldn't want to meet me either as I don't play their games "

But they play the game so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actively seek to meet anyone but the forums have proven a good place to find temptation. I like how you get a glimpse into someone's personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actively seek to meet anyone but the forums have proven a good place to find temptation. I like how you get a glimpse into someone's personality. "

Genuine question. ..can you not get that via pm? I certainly can and from what others say I wonder if they can't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple of forumites for socials in the past but I don't think I would meet anyone off here for sex...

if I am looking, which isn't often, I usually do a search or go and chat in the chatrooms..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple of people from the forums. The diatance can be a pain for forum people though. However, there are a select few I would happily drive the distance for.

I've met more people away from the forums, either through Fab or in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only met one who uses the forum the rest have just been through searches etc. Id meet more from here (i perv on a couple) and if it went weird just ignore their posts but im not a mega poster anyway! X

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm too far anyway from anyone to even consider it so meh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet forum people as you can tell by my verifications

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I tend to use fab as a means of keeping in touch with people I've met in clubs these days.

I've only met one person from the forums so far and he is a lovely guy. I would definitely meet others from here but distance is the biggest problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actively seek to meet anyone but the forums have proven a good place to find temptation. I like how you get a glimpse into someone's personality.

Genuine question. ..can you not get that via pm? I certainly can and from what others say I wonder if they can't? "

Yeah I can sometimes but I do get a bit bored of the usual "fancy a chat" intro messages with nothing on the profile showing who they are. The forums let me see a bit of personality before that first message. Plus 9 times out of 10 a message from a forumite comes relating to a thread on here so conversation kinda has a subject from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes quite a lot to become friend zoned by me, people generally start in that position, and few leave it.

My favorite thing is to learn about people, so I like PMs...although you know that Pinky

I can't chat to 90% of forum users though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to meet a few forumites but just socially.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I tend not to initiate messages but chat to people who contact me but mainly chat with forum users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't meet. My life is much simpler as a result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to meet a few forumites but just socially.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums."

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I meet outside of the forums.

I like popping in here when I need to zone out.

On the odd occasion there's someone with a sense of the absurd who seems quite balanced.

Mostly it's inhabited by people who want to get apoplectic in as sanitary an environment as they can.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"If it wasn't for the forums I'd never meet!

I've gone off piste a few times and only ever had one meet from it.

All my other meets have been with people from the forums or people who lurk but don't post on here.

Before I UNLOSed I had 24 veris in about 2 and a bit years all thanks to the forums!

They all want to bloody friend zone me though ... "

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"I have met some fellow forumites and some for a social some for much more ."

Shame this gent lives miles away, but he is a fantastic flirt, very witty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever met forumites socially and I'm happy with that.

If one of them managed to sway my mind in another direction, that's ok too.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've mostly met people from the chatroom, where I've enjoyed their banter and a bit of rapport has developed. Not always for play.. In fact most of my meets have been social.

I've yet to meet an active Forumite.... But that's going to change next month (holding you to that hug OP)

I've rarely met anyone purely from exchange of mail alone... I think this is because I like to see how they interact with other people... Not just with me... You get a truer picture that way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met a fair few from the forums - some purely social and have now become personal friends - some have attracted my and met as playmates (mostly women who have gone on to meet up at the ladies events ) and some i have met at clubs and home with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fab/forum socials and putting names to faces have met some great friends of the forums x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice "

Because that may be what makes their minge twinge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice "

Yeah I Don't get this either. I don't care if they're nice to their mummy's. ..

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Not met anyone from the forums yet.

I live in hope.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Because that may be what makes their minge twinge "

What being a nice little smoke blower?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Yeah I Don't get this either. I don't care if they're nice to their mummy's. .. "

Ahhh but I don't want to dick with a dick's dick, so I guess everyone is different.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Yeah I Don't get this either. I don't care if they're nice to their mummy's. .. "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Yeah I Don't get this either. I don't care if they're nice to their mummy's. ..

Ahhh but I don't want to dick with a dick's dick, so I guess everyone is different. "

Dick with the dick of a dick who is dickish

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Because that may be what makes their minge twinge

What being a nice little smoke blower? "

Or avoiding the smoke blowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me fab is not all about sex it used to but life evolves i love the social aspect too and meeting new people. One of the reasons i got into swinging in the first place is i am a girl of a certain age, friends settling down married kids so friendship circle decreases etc and i still want to go out and have fun discovered swinging and fab and not looked back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Yeah I Don't get this either. I don't care if they're nice to their mummy's. ..

Ahhh but I don't want to dick with a dick's dick, so I guess everyone is different. "

I guess we are...and we all know everyone on the forum is genuinely how they present themselves. That's all I'm saying

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Yeah I Don't get this either. I don't care if they're nice to their mummy's. ..

Ahhh but I don't want to dick with a dick's dick, so I guess everyone is different. "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Because that may be what makes their minge twinge

What being a nice little smoke blower?

Or avoiding the smoke blowers "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Yeah I Don't get this either. I don't care if they're nice to their mummy's. ..

Ahhh but I don't want to dick with a dick's dick, so I guess everyone is different.

I guess we are...and we all know everyone on the forum is genuinely how they present themselves. That's all I'm saying "

You mean people might be fake? Have a fake persona?

I don't believe it!

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Because that may be what makes their minge twinge

What being a nice little smoke blower? "

Don't think that's it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet from the forum and i don't really friend anyone from the forum (or the site). Why? Because it's drama waiting to happen. I witnessed it on the last site i was on, and i've witnessed it here. I don't do drama.

I have folk i chat too from around the site obviously, and they are not necessarily potential meets, but they are not friends either.

I'm anti-social and introverted. A lone wolfette, prowling the corridoors of Fab.

Rawr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some want to see how people interact with others prior to getting them naked?

I want to know they are going to make my minge twinge not if they are playing nice

Yeah I Don't get this either. I don't care if they're nice to their mummy's. ..

Ahhh but I don't want to dick with a dick's dick, so I guess everyone is different.

I guess we are...and we all know everyone on the forum is genuinely how they present themselves. That's all I'm saying "

Ahh but you think it's not that obvious how to peel back the onion layers? Purhlease!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet from the forum and i don't really friend anyone from the forum (or the site). Why? Because it's drama waiting to happen. I witnessed it on the last site i was on, and i've witnessed it here. I don't do drama.

I have folk i chat too from around the site obviously, and they are not necessarily potential meets, but they are not friends either.

I'm anti-social and introverted. A lone wolfette, prowling the corridoors of Fab.

Rawr! "

Aroooooooo!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I'm going to say on line Friend zone as I've not met anyone

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its not either or though is it? All forum posters are Fab members, but not all Fab members are forum posters. So I meet Fab members.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I can be a bad, rude filthy boy, being a Trollop in club and bedroom

However I can be my genuine calm collective decent guy when talking to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well those that have met me can vouch that im pretty much the same in the flesh as on here - i dont have different online opinions when im out and about - dont get people with online game plans

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"well those that have met me can vouch that im pretty much the same in the flesh as on here - i dont have different online opinions when im out and about - dont get people with online game plans "

I think you are even better in the flesh

Bun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well those that have met me can vouch that im pretty much the same in the flesh as on here - i dont have different online opinions when im out and about - dont get people with online game plans

I think you are even better in the flesh

Bun "

so are you mrs - but then we might be biased - a little

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

When I first joined I met mostly from the forums. Now I prefer to meet off. If I do meet forumites I do not make it public and I ask that they do the same if it's not a social meet.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"well those that have met me can vouch that im pretty much the same in the flesh as on here - i dont have different online opinions when im out and about - dont get people with online game plans

I think you are even better in the flesh

Bun

so are you mrs - but then we might be biased - a little"

Yes, I think we might be a bit biased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did only meet fellow forumites when I decided the time was right to meet. But I broadened my horizons after a year or so x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive met lots of forumites socially. For sex about 5 in 10 years I use the rest of the site for my proper meets mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really use the forum to meet anyone. I just use it to post, it is comedy gold

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The forum is practically the only reason I stay in Fab. It represents probably 95% of all the interaction I get from anyone in here, all of which is cyber, ie, I have never met any forumites.

I have used other sites alongside Fab, with better (actual meet) results, but none have a forum for general banter.

Geography bites.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I can kill a thread me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i am.thinking its time for a break from fab

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I meet people socially and sexually from the forum and the rest of the site. I think I'm mostly friend-zone (actually, more spinster aunt zone) for the people who notice me on here.

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

I like the forum because it gives me a better idea about people in advance of my reaching out to them.

I dislike the forum because it gives people a better idea about me in advance of my reaching out to them.

Double-edged sword.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't actively seek to meet anyone but the forums have proven a good place to find temptation. I like how you get a glimpse into someone's personality.

Genuine question. ..can you not get that via pm? I certainly can and from what others say I wonder if they can't? "

I'm not sure I do. Communication via PM is one to one. On here I get a wider view of how they communicate with others, especially those they don't want to flatter into sex.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Never met anybody from the forums but do enjoy reading the threads and there is such a variety of topics discussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actively seek to meet anyone but the forums have proven a good place to find temptation. I like how you get a glimpse into someone's personality.

Genuine question. ..can you not get that via pm? I certainly can and from what others say I wonder if they can't?

I'm not sure I do. Communication via PM is one to one. On here I get a wider view of how they communicate with others, especially those they don't want to flatter into sex.

"

As above. You learn a lot about people based upon the way they treat others and engage with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met one guy via the forum mostly I just use for the banter though

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think some of the ladies take the forums too personal, they don't realise the forum is just a debating ground where people throw different views.

They immediately have their hands block button, blocking people they might never meet, I am different on the forum than in person and I don't take it personally. I guess there might be a lot of unhappy feelings from previous relationships and they bring it on to the forums, for me it's all fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet people on the forums for socials. I enjoy that aspect of the site and it's led to a few friendships.

I rarely see anyone on the forum I'd meet for sex and I'm sure people view us the same way. I don't rule it out, though.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"To be honest i am.thinking its time for a break from fab"

But I you Taffster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly off the forums but have met one who posts on here.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Everyone I chat to has been via the forums - both those that I just 'chat' to and those I've met for a social or more.

I find them a great way of getting a 'feel' for someones personality beyond the profile blurb.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"To be honest i am.thinking its time for a break from fab"

Nooooooo!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest i am.thinking its time for a break from fab"

My 4 month break over the Winter did me the world of good my friend! If you do decide to take a break my advice is don't UNLOS, just park the profile.

You will be missed though, you're a really decent chap! But a break can be good for the soul!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also have never met anyone on forums as to much drama and very few my type and distance aswell never see anyone posting from where I'm from either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest i am.thinking its time for a break from fab

My 4 month break over the Winter did me the world of good my friend! If you do decide to take a break my advice is don't UNLOS, just park the profile.

You will be missed though, you're a really decent chap! But a break can be good for the soul! "

Don't mind him. He's just lining up another award

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mix of both for me.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"To be honest i am.thinking its time for a break from fab"

I would say there is really no need to take a break, just maybe allocate less time to it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've met forumites and non-forumites. Both socially and for more

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over a year ago


"I meet people on the forums for socials. I enjoy that aspect of the site and it's led to a few friendships.

I rarely see anyone on the forum I'd meet for sex and I'm sure people view us the same way. I don't rule it out, though."

Never say never.

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