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By *ire_thorn OP   Man
over a year ago

no comment

I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she had a health condition that makes her nap? Maybe she's awake all night on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously?

Perhaps she just says that because she doesn't want to chat to you

Perhaps she has health issues which make her nap

Perhaps she is an insomniac and naps in short stints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she's a night owl and needs the power naps during the day. Maybe there's a medical condition that causes it. Doesn't make her boring in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or as harsh as this may sound, you're boring her.

Maybe ask her instead of us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She sounds perfect to me!

I quite fancy a nap right now to be honest!

Annnnd.... maybe she needs naps during the day as she's out fucking and dogging all night!?! Not so boring now hey!?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Have you asked her why she appears to nap all the time,it sounds like she's not getting enough sleep at night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to nap a lot and do no training in the gym or any kind of physical exercise. When it came to sex I put all the work in. To me napping is lazy, unless there are other reasons like working in a hot climate, siestas are necessary. Or if there is an underlying health condition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the claimed lethargy is her way of sending you a subliminal message.....

Hey I'm just speculating .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ire_thorn OP   Man
over a year ago

no comment

No. No. No... Lol she said, and I quote "sleeping is my favorite hobby"

If it were medical I wouldn't have said anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Society needs to be more friendly to the nap-prone.

Without the stigma I could nap an additional 3 times a day, making it 8 in total

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"No. No. No... Lol she said, and I quote "sleeping is my favorite hobby"

If it were medical I wouldn't have said anything "

It's definitely my favourite hobby. F'cking love naps. Lol.

If a guy thought my taking naps was boring it'd be an obvious sign were not compatible. No biggie.

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By *ire_thorn OP   Man
over a year ago

no comment

And no, it's definitely not a lack of interest. I'm not daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she suffers with Insomnia, as I do.

Some days are better than others.

I've had days where I've been unable to sleep and then struggle to get through the day and on occasion, need to take a nap to recharge the batteries.

This can be the beginning of, what can seem like, a never ending cylce of disruption to ones sleep pattern.

Had a few days last week like this.

Past few days have been a lot better though and am actually getting a reasonable amount of sleep and at the right times.

That said, perhaps you might be better off talking to her about it rather than asking a group of strangers on a swinging site.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"No. No. No... Lol she said, and I quote "sleeping is my favorite hobby"

If it were medical I wouldn't have said anything "

She could just me making light of a condition. All I seem to do is nap recently. Turns out I got a few vitamin deficiencies. My body is basically in famine mode. I'm not afraid to tell people, but that's me. Yes, I'm a little embarrassed by it, but hey. I make a tit of myself daily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why continue your interactions with this woman if she appears to 'bore' you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the only thing she tells you about herself is that she's just waking up or just about to nap, I'd be inclined to agree. But if you've been talking for a while, I'm assuming you guys do talk about other things too?

Trust your instincts brother. It's not worth getting into something you're not 100% into but don't go writing her off just because she likes to nap. Just had one myself and it was ace! =)

Maybe she likes to lucid dream..?

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I can't believe I napped at the start of the thread... awake now though.

Give her a break OP, am sure she'd appreciate you telling all and sundry too and asking if they thought she was boring...

Sheesh Kebabs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why continue your interactions with this woman if she appears to 'bore' you? "

exactly this...

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By *ire_thorn OP   Man
over a year ago

no comment

She is a sweetheart. I just think there is more to see in life than the back of one's eyelids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is a sweetheart. I just think there is more to see in life than the back of one's eyelids. "

She apparently disagrees if she chooses to sleep a whole heap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naps are good, I just had a 10 minute power nap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had five minutes in the hammock

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Just had five minutes in the hammock "

Was that you snoozing in my hammocks?!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

I've got someone napping on the sofa as I'm typing. She's done this for the past 12 years we've been together whether she's been working or not. She never sleeps all through the night though as a noise or needing a wee wakes her up and she can't get back to sleep (Unlike me and our son who could sleep through an earthquake) but she's definitely not boring or dull.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Sorry what did you all just say....?

Zzzzzz.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is a sweetheart. I just think there is more to see in life than the back of one's eyelids. "

Dreams are great though. Don't underestimate the pleasure of spending time idle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the forum is not the place for discussing your private communications.

I wonder what she may think if she reads your post OK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a daytime sleeper; I can't call it a nap as it's usually an hour or two.

Today, I'm fighting to keep myself awake as, although I slept through the night (hurrah!), my new medication is making me very drowsy.

I won't be driving or operating machinery while I'm on them.

I'm amazing in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to sleep on average 3-4 hours a night and I'd be fine with that, no nap needed. These days I love having a nap and now have 5-6 hours a night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as she don't fall asleep while your giving her one, jobs a gooden lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you enjoy talking to her? Yes, carry on.

If you think she's boring, maybe you do t really like her enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or as harsh as this may sound, you're boring her.

Maybe ask her instead of us?"

- Mrs. J -

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i've not long woke up from a nap, and i'm boring. but if guys are looking for entertainment then i'm fine if they pass me by.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "

When you talk to her she wants to go to sleep?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Maybe she has narcalepsy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she's in her 90's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. No. No... Lol she said, and I quote "sleeping is my favorite hobby"

If it were medical I wouldn't have said anything "
Do she sleep at night.? Do she work.? Is she bored.?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

If she wants to take naps that's her business

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "

Have you offered her your chest to lay on?

Because that's exactly what I would do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a nap.I'm knackered

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By *atsun xxxMan
over a year ago

Nr LOUTH Lincolnshire

Naps are so underrated

#napwhenyouwant!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love a nap.I'm knackered "

I've not long woken up from mine

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "

You've been talking to her for a while ? Yet you find her boring ?

C'mon. You don't find her that boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If every time I talked to someone she fell asleep . I would not probably tell everyone on fab

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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford


"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "

How rude are you??!!!

Oh my God, maybe it's not your job to monitor her sleeping patterns. If you find her boring, man-up and tell her. I'd love to know what she says back.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Perhaps she finds you boring

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Tbh if you find her boring I'm wondering why you're bothering to chat to her! Poor woman!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Perhaps she finds you boring "
hence all the sleeps

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"No. No. No... Lol she said, and I quote "sleeping is my favorite hobby"

If it were medical I wouldn't have said anything "

It may be without her realising, in fact I would put money on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ain't nothing wrong with a snooze.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky if I see a full 6hrs of awake time in 24hrs. xxx

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By * Reason WhyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Area

She may have a health condition. I (fem) sometimes need a nap in the afternoon, due to having low blood pressure and suffering from insomnia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "
does she use a spinning wheel at all?

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