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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right last month I scratched a car in a private car park round the back of a building where my daughter does a class. It was my back wheel arch against their back wheel arch. I left a note under the windscreen (cos there were cameras there anyway) plus it's a place I got to every week. I said to call me which they did and they were happy for me to pay for the repair.

Was literally a scratch no dent and I had one of those mobile repair people quote it (£180) then go out to do it. Anyway the owners of the car were happy to wait till the end of the month (may pay) the mobile repair person said he was happy to take half the money that pay and half next pay cos I went to give it all to him and had already said emote hand in need to wait till end of the month cos I'm skint so he took half and said he'd wait.

Literally just had this text message off the guy I'll copy and paste it and tell me what you think he's implying

Hiya ******, hope you are ok? Look, I've been thinking about the rest of the bill for ******'s car .... I don't know if there's any other way of paying it back without taking money off you, as I feel awful taking your money. Let me know if you can think of anything.

1) why text this late

2) why feel awful when you've already given a quote which I was happy to accept

3) what other way can you pay someone without money, cookies? Cakes?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Right last month I scratched a car in a private car park round the back of a building where my daughter does a class. It was my back wheel arch against their back wheel arch. I left a note under the windscreen (cos there were cameras there anyway) plus it's a place I got to every week. I said to call me which they did and they were happy for me to pay for the repair.

Was literally a scratch no dent and I had one of those mobile repair people quote it (£180) then go out to do it. Anyway the owners of the car were happy to wait till the end of the month (may pay) the mobile repair person said he was happy to take half the money that pay and half next pay cos I went to give it all to him and had already said emote hand in need to wait till end of the month cos I'm skint so he took half and said he'd wait.

Literally just had this text message off the guy I'll copy and paste it and tell me what you think he's implying

Hiya ******, hope you are ok? Look, I've been thinking about the rest of the bill for ******'s car .... I don't know if there's any other way of paying it back without taking money off you, as I feel awful taking your money. Let me know if you can think of anything.

1) why text this late

2) why feel awful when you've already given a quote which I was happy to accept

3) what other way can you pay someone without money, cookies? Cakes?"

D*unk and horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a crush it seems, probably was on pornhub and thought he'd act out his own scenario.

Boom chicka wah wah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) & 2) I can't answer.

3) I can answer and I guess you probably can too!

Call his bluff and ask exactly what he means!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you know the answer to this question..

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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ask him what he means by that? make him outright say it.

kinda creepy he feels bad for taking money but not for taking your body, which is basically the only thing you own outright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer to lick his bum hole

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I can only guess he doesn't know you very well .

Why do I say this ?

Well unless he's particularly well endowed , and is happy to never look at , talk , or interact with another woman again , he surely wouldn't be hoping for a shag would he ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow that's so creepy...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

tell him you will wash his car and mow his lawn and see if he accepts the offer

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Message him back and tell him its fine, you're happy to pay. I think its pretty clear what he means and it would leave you open to problems.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I can only guess he doesn't know you very well .

Why do I say this ?

Well unless he's particularly well endowed , and is happy to never look at , talk , or interact with another woman again , he surely wouldn't be hoping for a shag would he ? "

He's definitely not on the forum, even if he's on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At no point did you flirt or lead him on?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Seriously, tell him you'll stick the original arrangement. Anything else is worth much more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say he's on fab and has seen your profile - with your clear face pic.

No brainer really

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Right last month I scratched a car in a private car park round the back of a building where my daughter does a class. It was my back wheel arch against their back wheel arch. I left a note under the windscreen (cos there were cameras there anyway) plus it's a place I got to every week. I said to call me which they did and they were happy for me to pay for the repair.

Was literally a scratch no dent and I had one of those mobile repair people quote it (£180) then go out to do it. Anyway the owners of the car were happy to wait till the end of the month (may pay) the mobile repair person said he was happy to take half the money that pay and half next pay cos I went to give it all to him and had already said emote hand in need to wait till end of the month cos I'm skint so he took half and said he'd wait.

Literally just had this text message off the guy I'll copy and paste it and tell me what you think he's implying

Hiya ******, hope you are ok? Look, I've been thinking about the rest of the bill for ******'s car .... I don't know if there's any other way of paying it back without taking money off you, as I feel awful taking your money. Let me know if you can think of anything.

1) why text this late

2) why feel awful when you've already given a quote which I was happy to accept

3) what other way can you pay someone without money, cookies? Cakes?"

Let him take you for dinner, free dinner and clear the bill, ta-dah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just inform him you'll stick to the cash arrangement as agreed.

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

DONT BE DAFT! We all know what 'payment' he's after...!...magic beans, obvs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say he's on fab and has seen your profile - with your clear face pic.

No brainer really "

I totally agree with this comment and I thought this was a serious question lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just said don't worry I'll pay you the rest a week tomorrow, I met him in town last week which is a good job, he doesn't have my address either.

Makes me think now am I giving off some weird vibe that I want people to shag me or what. When I was in contact leading up to him doing the repair he had said can't your husband sort it for you (cos I was explaining how busy I was and stuff) I said no I don't have a husband (because that's the truth) wasn't trying to come on to him or fuck all.

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I just said don't worry I'll pay you the rest a week tomorrow, I met him in town last week which is a good job, he doesn't have my address either.

Makes me think now am I giving off some weird vibe that I want people to shag me or what. When I was in contact leading up to him doing the repair he had said can't your husband sort it for you (cos I was explaining how busy I was and stuff) I said no I don't have a husband (because that's the truth) wasn't trying to come on to him or fuck all.

"

Some fellas have all the charm, don't they?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I just said don't worry I'll pay you the rest a week tomorrow, I met him in town last week which is a good job, he doesn't have my address either.

Makes me think now am I giving off some weird vibe that I want people to shag me or what. When I was in contact leading up to him doing the repair he had said can't your husband sort it for you (cos I was explaining how busy I was and stuff) I said no I don't have a husband (because that's the truth) wasn't trying to come on to him or fuck all.

"

today i saw another topic where a guy got a thanks message off a woman and thought it might be a come on, seems like women don't have to say much for some men to wonder if they're being approached for sex.

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"I just said don't worry I'll pay you the rest a week tomorrow, I met him in town last week which is a good job, he doesn't have my address either.

Makes me think now am I giving off some weird vibe that I want people to shag me or what. When I was in contact leading up to him doing the repair he had said can't your husband sort it for you (cos I was explaining how busy I was and stuff) I said no I don't have a husband (because that's the truth) wasn't trying to come on to him or fuck all.

"
There's a word for people like him. "Predator"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Well I don't know too much about the cost of that kind of repair but I did think £180 sounded like a lot! Maybe he added on a bit, now feels bad and is obviously trying his luck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm saying nothing. I got my piercing for the price of a blow job.

PTU xxx

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"Well I don't know too much about the cost of that kind of repair but I did think £180 sounded like a lot! Maybe he added on a bit, now feels bad and is obviously trying his luck!! "
True about the cost...depending on the damage and colour, a paint 'smart repair' is usually around £45 + vat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I don't know too much about the cost of that kind of repair but I did think £180 sounded like a lot! Maybe he added on a bit, now feels bad and is obviously trying his luck!! "

Almost 30 of that was vat and tax and he was the cheaper of the two mobile people that went out and quoted me. Wasn't my car to do and didn't want to inconvenience the car owner by having to take the car to a garage so sent the mobile repair people to repair it on her works premises. Mobile people are known to be a bit dearer than a garage. Plus wanted it done cos it was stressing me out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I don't know too much about the cost of that kind of repair but I did think £180 sounded like a lot! Maybe he added on a bit, now feels bad and is obviously trying his luck!! True about the cost...depending on the damage and colour, a paint 'smart repair' is usually around £45 + vat"

Was only a little car. Fiat 500 in the mocha browny colour. It was quite a big scrape, it covered the whole length of the wheel arch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the guy was being genuine when i read that. Maybe im naive. He might not have been thinking about any sexual favours at all so .. lets not assume.

That said the guys on this thread think he was suggesting that.

Hmm

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"Well I don't know too much about the cost of that kind of repair but I did think £180 sounded like a lot! Maybe he added on a bit, now feels bad and is obviously trying his luck!! True about the cost...depending on the damage and colour, a paint 'smart repair' is usually around £45 + vat

Was only a little car. Fiat 500 in the mocha browny colour. It was quite a big scrape, it covered the whole length of the wheel arch. "
Unfortunately a female will sometimes get taken advantage of in this situation. Not right, but it does happen. You did the right thing all round though and understandably wanted it done and dusted asap so none of what's happened is your fault.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

He was weighing up his option the probability of sex, pay and you end contact. Sex and you'll have someone calling you at the time you mentioned above.

What else could he have possibly meant?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"He was weighing up his option the probability of sex, pay and you end contact. Sex and you'll have someone calling you at the time you mentioned above.

What else could he have possibly meant?"

He needs his socks darned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's reasonable to assume he is seeking a sexual interaction ...however we are using the word assume.

I agree with other posters ...respond and say yes I am skilled at........(what ever u r skilled at, art, cooking, accountancy, admin, design etc.) and I suggest those. Answer his question.

His response will indicate his thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Offer to lick his bum hole "

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had you talked about work you'd done in the past cleaner etc?

Might be he's depressingly staring at a mountain of dishes and thinking it's worth the notes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm saying nothing. I got my piercing for the price of a blow job.

PTU xxx "

I will never understand when people decide to prostitute themselves for less than an average street walker for "free" things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups.

Now, from personal experience when I was doing jobs I'd often trade work for services. Admittedly they'd be for other trades but still, job for a job and all that. It's not that uncommon a practice at all

But with that, I know what it's also like working and not getting paid. World doesn't run on favours. So I'd advise paying him, even if he does feel guilty. BUT if you want to make a friend make him some chilli or some freezable munch, tub it up and aye. Some home made ready meals are always a treat.

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