FabSwingers.com forum: Too picky

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm so picky i'm doing my own head in i need to jump in and have fun i'm quite shy at first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're allowed to be as picky as you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe go to a club .. Chat to people get to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're allowed to be as picky as you like "

I'm not to picky

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Picky or unfairly fussy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're allowed to be as picky as you like "

True, but there is no point in being unrealistic

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm so picky i'm doing my own head in i need to jump in and have fun i'm quite shy at first lol "

Not dogging tonight OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh come on mate it's simple. When in doubt, go for fizzy cola bottles. Can't go wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so picky i'm doing my own head in i need to jump in and have fun i'm quite shy at first lol "
Everyone picky on here which makes it hard for genuine people to have fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were very picky too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're allowed to be as picky as you like

True, but there is no point in being unrealistic

Gotta love a trier though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

me too . x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to be picky!

Depends what you want though, if you want NSA then lower the pickiness but if you want the wine, dine thing then pick away.

You'll find what suits you & maybe have some fun along the way

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I'm so picky i'm doing my own head in i need to jump in and have fun i'm quite shy at first lol "

Weren't you on here before though?

We remember how you were the first time, have you changed now?

Abuse rarely wins you any bonus points, but we guess you found that out last time didn't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's he trying his luck or our patience? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

This, I only meet people I find attractive. You can call it picky, I call it common sense

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

I wouldn't say I'm picky .....

I just have high expectations

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

^^This, but it also frustrates me in more ways than one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site. "

Hardly! You can still have NSA without shagging loads of people your not interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so picky i'm doing my own head in i need to jump in and have fun i'm quite shy at first lol

Weren't you on here before though?

We remember how you were the first time, have you changed now?

Abuse rarely wins you any bonus points, but we guess you found that out last time didn't you?"

He is new on here

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm picky and proud.

Welcome back btw OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site.

Hardly! You can still have NSA without shagging loads of people your not interested in

Finding only one person just for nsa sex sounds like a sort of relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site. "

How does making good friends that I happen to find attractive, meeting them, socializing with them and potentially getting intimate with them mean that I need to be on a different site?

I use the site the way I like thanks. Fab isn't all about gang bangs, orgies and jumping straight into bed with a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site. "

I wouldn't say swinging was about fucking as many people thats available to you. I would say it's about finding people you have a connection with and exploring and sharing sex with them.

Everyone here has different ideas of what swinging means to them. Some here may not even class themselves as a swinger. If they can find what they are looking for why move sites?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site.

Hardly! You can still have NSA without shagging loads of people your not interested in

Finding only one person just for nsa sex sounds like a sort of relationship "

Some people including myself actually find it hard to even find one person they are sexually attracted to on here, so finding plus 1 you know is never going to happen, to better to cultivate an existing connection and explore that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site.

I wouldn't say swinging was about fucking as many people thats available to you. I would say it's about finding people you have a connection with and exploring and sharing sex with them.

Everyone here has different ideas of what swinging means to them. Some here may not even class themselves as a swinger. If they can find what they are looking for why move sites? "

But as women on fab, isn't it our duty to spread our legs for all the men, even if we don't fancy them or find them interesting at all?

I couldn't even take myself seriously while typing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site.

Hardly! You can still have NSA without shagging loads of people your not interested in

Finding only one person just for nsa sex sounds like a sort of relationship

Exactly this!

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Try being picky when there's two of you, it's twice as hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site.

I wouldn't say swinging was about fucking as many people thats available to you. I would say it's about finding people you have a connection with and exploring and sharing sex with them.

Everyone here has different ideas of what swinging means to them. Some here may not even class themselves as a swinger. If they can find what they are looking for why move sites?

But as women on fab, isn't it our duty to spread our legs for all the men, even if we don't fancy them or find them interesting at all?

I couldn't even take myself seriously while typing that.

Of course. We all have to do our bit and take one for the team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site.

I wouldn't say swinging was about fucking as many people thats available to you. I would say it's about finding people you have a connection with and exploring and sharing sex with them.

Everyone here has different ideas of what swinging means to them. Some here may not even class themselves as a swinger. If they can find what they are looking for why move sites?

But as women on fab, isn't it our duty to spread our legs for all the men, even if we don't fancy them or find them interesting at all?

I couldn't even take myself seriously while typing that.

Of course. We all have to do our bit and take one for the team.

Oh curses! Pass me the lube then or my foof's going to feel like sand paper...

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

As a guy I would say it is very important that you stay picky and only go for the kind of chic you like, especially in this environment, it will help you a lot, you can always be friendly to all the ladies but you only go for the kind of lady you want , it will separate you from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've communicated with those that believe they're picky but it's obvious they're just flattering themselves.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site. "

Swinging doesn't mean indiscriminately fuckin anything that moves

you need to be attracted to on some level

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Were very picky too xx "

And we are .

We are all about a quantity of quality ,

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Picky? Me? I'd say selective and particular I much prefer things that way.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Have your own standards and progress at your own pace.

Even if you have seemingly golden opportunities available, if it's not right for you at any point, you're not losing anything .

Target your social skills for improvement but without pressure. You learn from successes and things that are different - you move on.

Consider not just using it website and don't compare yourself, though it's fine to learn from others.

If fab is too pressuring, step away and change your expectations.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I'm so picky i'm doing my own head in i need to jump in and have fun i'm quite shy at first lol

Weren't you on here before though?

We remember how you were the first time, have you changed now?

Abuse rarely wins you any bonus points, but we guess you found that out last time didn't you?

He is new on here

He isn't new on here, he left and came back.

The first time on here wasn't very much fun for anyone.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm so picky i'm doing my own head in i need to jump in and have fun i'm quite shy at first lol

Weren't you on here before though?

We remember how you were the first time, have you changed now?

Abuse rarely wins you any bonus points, but we guess you found that out last time didn't you?

He is new on here

He isn't new on here, he left and came back.

The first time on here wasn't very much fun for anyone."

It seems some people can just never fade into the background going by past behaviours and other have long memories

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

As adults we do have to remember that Karma bites back.

Some things are easy to remember to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could be called picky - but I'd rather meet one person who I'm really interested in, rather than loads of people who don't interest me at all. Works for me so far.

That not really swinging though that's like dating you need a different site.

Hardly! You can still have NSA without shagging loads of people your not interested in

Finding only one person just for nsa sex sounds like a sort of relationship

I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing what you want is not being picky.

Picky is being picky while also NOT knowing what you want and when that happens, NOBODY fits what you *think* you want because you have no fucking idea what you're looking for.

That's probably your issue OP.

Know what you want, then look for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm incredibly picky.... to the point that I'm a really shit swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should always be picky but I'd also advise on being realistic on what u can actually pull on here

I would never go below a 7 out of 10 even when horny ASF have to have a stardand and if u r attractive u can afford to be picky I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found picky people tend to have dreadful personalities.

They seem to be upthemselves, look down at others etc.. We prefer those who can hold a conversation and great to have fun with, that's what important to us. When we read profiles of picky people, they're a real turnoff.

You have to balance looks and personality.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm picky too, it's the only way to be.

I'd never meet a grumpy, arrogant man

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I'm picky too, it's the only way to be.

I'd never meet a grumpy, arrogant man

Harsh, but past performance does speak volumes!!

We call it Karma!

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