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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?"

How do you know they "hate" the site before they join?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?

How do you know they "hate" the site before they join? "

Good point, I should have been more specific , it tends to be people who have been on here before then rejoin , even though they hate the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?"

like who?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?

like who? "

I obviously can't name these people , they are easy to spot though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?"

I don't consider them to be my responsibility, they're adults and free to make themselves miserable if that's their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?

like who?

I obviously can't name these people , they are easy to spot though "

Tell. Shhh. I won't say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can tell then by the blank picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?

I don't consider them to be my responsibility, they're adults and free to make themselves miserable if that's their choice."

Fair enough, i think they need help though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?

I don't consider them to be my responsibility, they're adults and free to make themselves miserable if that's their choice.

Fair enough, i think they need help though "

Can you help them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?"

Shag them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true, before I joined I gritted my teeth, gnashed them and said to myself I,d hate to join that site. But my disobedient finger went and joined anyway. XXX

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Grrr....grrrrr.....o

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think anyone hates the site and remains a member. I think some people hate that the site doesn't live up to their expectations but remain members in the hope that it will.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?

Shag them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different here op ... just let them get on with it .. I am sure they don't need your help.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

you don't have to do anything.

let me hate something, or i will die (inside only, not literally).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone hates the site and remains a member. I think some people hate that the site doesn't live up to their expectations but remain members in the hope that it will."

That would be me. I hate it like liver n onions.

Positive thinking and bumhole pics make me smile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?

I don't consider them to be my responsibility, they're adults and free to make themselves miserable if that's their choice.

Fair enough, i think they need help though

Can you help them? "

We can all do our bit to help,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone hates the site and remains a member. I think some people hate that the site doesn't live up to their expectations but remain members in the hope that it will."

I have to disagree. I think some people hate the site and the fact they need to be on here . If you can see who they by reading their profiles and status updates .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think anyone hates the site and remains a member. I think some people hate that the site doesn't live up to their expectations but remain members in the hope that it will.

I have to disagree. I think some people hate the site and the fact they need to be on here . If you can see who they by reading their profiles and status updates ."

I understand but isn't that more about hating themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say though, these past few days I've seen an awful lot of negativity on here!

Whether it be on status' or people trolling forum posts.

Two people spring to mind immediately & I just don't understand why they are here if it's not to have fun?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think anyone hates the site and remains a member. I think some people hate that the site doesn't live up to their expectations but remain members in the hope that it will.

That would be me. I hate it like liver n onions.

Positive thinking and bumhole pics make me smile. "

Do they Ms Carrott I'm off to think about a positive bumhole picture and see if it makes me smile.

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