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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you get on here a day?

It's not a competition people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 3 or 4, but as a chubby single guy I don't really expect much more lol

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

A big fat 0 and no not a feel sorry for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get many lol

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By *randnew23sumsCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We rarely get messages from people. When we do they are usually people who haven't read the profile and not what we are looking for.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

50-100 mark. More if I reply, even with a no thanks, coz then you get the 'thanks for the reply' message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2-3 if we're lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people I speak to on a regular basis so maybe 15-20

Newbie messages from people I've not spoken to before? 2-3 a week

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

18 today.

7 yesterday

23 day before

2 day before that

2 day before that

on average 7-13 day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 - 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually 0 possibly 2 on a very good day

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

On average, maybe 2?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average around 15 a day, more if I have show other pics on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about twenty in a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30/50 and that's with filters on..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Sometime's non because I'm hiding,sometimes a few,sometimes a few more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average about 70...more if I'm chatting to good friends - and that's plenty enough for me. My filters are very tight for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 5 a day, not sure if that's a good or bad thing

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Dozens.. Many people message to tell me I'm 'not their type'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe 3-4 per day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cut it down to about 50 a day...that's because I now block anyone I know I'll never bang or anyone who keeps messaging trying to make small talk. I spend too much time on here as it is, so I just clear as much 'clutter' now as I can.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

It depends. If it's coming up to ladies night at Cupids/La Chambre, or arranging a meet then we get quite a few,(maybe 20 or more) because I'm chatting with people about it. Otherwise it's the odd one or 2 a day, sometimes none!

We do have single males blocked from messaging though, as we prefer to find them ourselves, otherwise the number of messages rockets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to be doing better than most, it would appear, so I'm not complaining

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

zero usually not that im too botherd, prefer face to face chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooohhh well then errrr.......lets see......dum de dum de dum *blows air through teeth*...... roughly? zero. since ive been here that is. there are actual cobwebs in my inbox

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I don't do average..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today I have received 2 messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than none

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Depends if we are talking to someone ..can have quite a few ..

Somedays 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50-100 mark. More if I reply, even with a no thanks, coz then you get the 'thanks for the reply' message."

Thanks for commenting in the forum

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Depends, sometimes get some on the back of the forums and had some lovely complimentary ones today. Thanks all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't make an effort = 0

If I make an effort and/of I'm chatting to one or more people = loads

I like to chat.

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

None if you're talking new / out of the blue messages. If it's replies then probably 1 for every 10 I send....on a good day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No average. Some days high. Some days none.

Depends on my profile edit or if I go in forum. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odd one or two if we haven't been on but a few if we're on looking at profiles. Quite a few more if we put new pics up (not very often). We do have quite strong filters too.

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield


"Do you get on here a day?

It's not a competition people. "

Depends on who I've pissed off or if I've said owt funny.

Since filtering we get nothing by way of sexual interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 3 men send me an opening message, even though two shouldn't be able to, and a handful from someone I'm having a conversation with.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Depends on the day, how much we post in the forums etc but on average 2-5 per day from different users.

The not looking for single guys on our profile seems to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2 then a dry period, maybe more on a busy forum day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

When we are just being "us"... about 5 a day.

When we are actively promoting an event...anything up to 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None usually.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"None usually."

Cant believe that ..lovely pics and profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 or 4.

I've been lazy about even looking at messages for the last few months anyway.

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

2 or 3 a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get on here a day?

It's not a competition people. "

None usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on average about 10 a day but that goes up quite a bit when I post new pics..

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Basically zero, other than the odd chats with people I know. I'm happy with that though

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"50-100 mark. More if I reply, even with a no thanks, coz then you get the 'thanks for the reply' message.

Thanks for commenting in the forum "

Eh up trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approx 50. But I delete most of them every morning.

PTU xxx

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

I woke up to three this morning. !! That's rare ..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0,001 on average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how often I've been on and if I've been on forums or chat, whether I've added pics recently or if I'm mid way through chats with others.

Usually anything from 50-200.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@ 5 / 6 a month.

I'm excluding forum type messages as that's not really a REAL, stone cold "out of the blue" message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I average 0.00025832 per month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends how often I've been on and if I've been on forums or chat, whether I've added pics recently or if I'm mid way through chats with others.

Usually anything from 50-200. "

So that's why my latest 17 messages haven't been read yet!

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By *allypWoman
over a year ago

Bricket Wood

With no pictures, tight filters, and a piss off message on my title and status, I still get too many !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@ 5 / 6 a month.

I'm excluding forum type messages as that's not really a REAL, stone cold "out of the blue" message.

"

I've just worked it out.

That's 0.166 messages a day.

Those of you guys above getting 2, 4 and in one case 30...send some of them my way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too bloody many lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, on a quiet day it can be just a few but some days it can be over a 100 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol"

Self delete after a week. This makes so much sense to me now. I had been wondering where they were going!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Depends on the day and how many threads I'm participating in really... I very rarely get non-thread-related mail during the week. But on the weekend I get tonnes of random 'come join me in my hotel room' mail.... Often from guys I've already had the 'thanks but no thanks, not my thing' conversation with on previous occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just depends how active I am on the site, or put pics on, had 100 plus on Saturday, but only 20 today maybe. But it's quality not quantity always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is so difficult to answer

0

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

One or two at best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many, it's great!

Not interested in meeting at the moment so any we do get, it's a thanks but not meeting reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if new pic put up you get a lot more

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I average 0.00025832 per month "

Could you be a bit more specific?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends how often I've been on and if I've been on forums or chat, whether I've added pics recently or if I'm mid way through chats with others.

Usually anything from 50-200.

So that's why my latest 17 messages haven't been read yet!"

I'm getting there

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol"

Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that.

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over a year ago


"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol

Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that."

Well where else do they go?!??! I go to bed st night with a number and it's less the next day? I am a newbie, I thought that's what happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2-3 a day.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Too many, you'll have to have patience whilst I read them and send a reply to you all in between working and life.

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By *neeyedpirateMan
over a year ago

ask!

None lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol

Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that.

Well where else do they go?!??! I go to bed st night with a number and it's less the next day? I am a newbie, I thought that's what happened? "

I think possibly the sender deletes. I can only speak from my experience, as I don't like to see loads of unanswered messages sat in my outbox, so just delete to keep myself from feeling ignored

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm new, so not had any yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol

Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that.

Well where else do they go?!??! I go to bed st night with a number and it's less the next day? I am a newbie, I thought that's what happened?

I think possibly the sender deletes. I can only speak from my experience, as I don't like to see loads of unanswered messages sat in my outbox, so just delete to keep myself from feeling ignored "

But if you delete them surely that doesn't delete it from my inbox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh is there a message sendin/receiving function on fab???......who knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get about 3-5 message per week, if we are chatting to friends we sometimes more. We have not got single males blocked but they seem to listen when they read the profile.......which is strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 3 new ones a day on average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 a day on a good day. Unless we put new photos up or looking for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15-20ish on a quiet day. 50-100ish on a busy day.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol

Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that.

Well where else do they go?!??! I go to bed st night with a number and it's less the next day? I am a newbie, I thought that's what happened?

I think possibly the sender deletes. I can only speak from my experience, as I don't like to see loads of unanswered messages sat in my outbox, so just delete to keep myself from feeling ignored

But if you delete them surely that doesn't delete it from my inbox? "

Anyone know the answer to this lol?

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By *igerlilycubWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

50 to 100 more when post new pics

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Do you get on here a day?

It's not a competition people. "

None

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It varies and also depends if there's a Tea Party coming up

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Do you get on here a day?

It's not a competition people.

None "

Bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many and rarely any that interest me.

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"50 to 100 more when post new pics "

You post new pics most days! Lol xx

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By *igerlilycubWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I love doing pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unsolicited - very few

from friends - a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think my inbox is broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think my inbox is broken "

That many ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Do you get on here a day?

It's not a competition people.

None

Bollocks "
none in 3 days

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Do you get on here a day?

It's not a competition people.

None

Bollocks none in 3 days "

You've been quiet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think my inbox is broken "

I think it's the age range filter you have on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U counting replies to questions sent or out of the blue messages op

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It depends how often I've been on and if I've been on forums or chat, whether I've added pics recently or if I'm mid way through chats with others.

Usually anything from 50-200. "

*mental note: don't PM bunny*

I rarely get a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just gone up to 1...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get 0 lol

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By *lwaysdiscreetMan
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

ZERO SWEET F A

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Very rarely do I get messages unless I message a few of my friends on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50 to 100 more when post new pics "

showoff, lol.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

1000

Per millennium

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love doing pics "

and we love you doing those pics, keep it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two per week from couples

Zero ever from a single woman

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-3 a day, normally asking to see more pics

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

5 or 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't keep up with them. It's difficult especially when your chatting to some one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 200

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Massively high filters and a not meeting profile text gets me about 2 a day. Of which I delete on average 2 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say minus 10 a day that's including the no thank replies

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Not enough

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

175 today. Its when I put a face pic profile on

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

[Removed by poster at 13/06/17 01:55:34]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

2 or 3 a month I'm afraid lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely couldn't be arsed answering that many messages!

I think the question should of been, how many new messages do you get a day. Would be easy to start racking them up if you're counting conversations as messages.

I think fab should adopt a quick chat style of message system rather than the current email style one. Most other sites use them and it flows much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as I'm looking to meet today, I'm hoping for at the very least....... 1

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