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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

I just had a friend over and we got relaxed while watching a film which ended in me giving her a massage which turned to sex.

All was going really nice and well until she was about to reach a very intense climax. At which point she demanded I stop.

Was that to protect her pride? So as not to fall in love? What!!!? Somebody please tell me as it will take some time to bring the subject up and ask her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just ask her?

We don't know her so why would we have a clue why she stopped you?

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By *uzi Jones 26Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

I do the same. If a feeling gets so intense that you don't know how it continues or what follows it feels the safest thing to do x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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maybe she poops when she's cumming?

that's all i got.

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

It's because she was gonna cum and leave a wet patch.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Op, I'm curious, do you fall in love everyone you have an intense orgasm?

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

If an amazing orgasm was all it took for me to fall in love, I'd be married to my vibrator.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why yes, because whenever a man gives a lady an orgasm they instantly falls in love with the man. Literally EVERY time.

Maybe she was self concious? That can be a vulnerable moment and she might not have been willing to let go in front of you. She simply might not have felt comfortable enough.

Or just talk to her? If you're adult enough to have sex together then you should be adult enough to talk about it IMO.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Sometimes the wave simply doesn't break... You can have a really intense orgasm building and just lose it in an instant, for any number of reasons. No point in trying to get it back, once that switch is flipped the power is gone. Takes a while to recharge and be ready to start over

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Oh jaysus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual pleasure and endorphines were designed to create emotions in humans so you are playing with fire.

If you have orgasms in a 1 2 1 situation it is dangerous which is why i like groups. In a group there is no emotion, just pleasure. So let rip with the orgasm as the next guy will take you back there in a few minutes and you will all go your separate way i the end.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Maybe she didnt want to boost your ego....

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Op, I'm curious, do you fall in love everyone you have an intense orgasm?"

Lol no I don't. But I've had occasions where a fuckbuddy has fallen for me because of the oxytocin dosage.

It doesn't quite work the same for men as far as I'm aware. But at the same time I do know men who have fallen in love after great sex with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm marrying my wand, and you're all invited, you know because intense orgasms

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"If an amazing orgasm was all it took for me to fall in love, I'd be married to my vibrator."

I bet you wouldn't throw it away!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op no idea. Ask her.. for me I don't orgasm with meets and would stop a guy if I was getting close because i feel to vulnerable. I Have to really trust someone to do that.

Doesn't mean i dont have great times but I wouldn't orgasm with a meet.. unless its over watching Mr with someone else but that's a different type of one.

Full bodu trembling leave me in a heap then nope. No way would I let a meet but normally my mind has already put the block on first so there is no worry.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Wait what....

So when we have a really good orgasm with someone we get emotions?

Funny I thought I was just getting fucked really well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op, I'm curious, do you fall in love everyone you have an intense orgasm?"

You...you mean to say you don't?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Strange way of looking at thing's,haven't a clue why she would stop herself maybe it was too sensitive for her. Maybe she wasn't going to cum,don't know ask her.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Op, I'm curious, do you fall in love everyone you have an intense orgasm?

You...you mean to say you don't?

No. Although I was very distraughtwhen my favourite wand broke.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I've told someone to stop before but that was because I was going to soak his bed if he didn't

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Why not just ask her?

We don't know her so why would we have a clue why she stopped you? "

I will. But I was just trying to coax her into going for round 2 first.

It took months to get her into bed. I Have to raise the question at the right time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe she poops when she's cumming?

that's all i got."

Hahahaha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hi

I just had a friend over and we got relaxed while watching a film which ended in me giving her a massage which turned to sex.

All was going really nice and well until she was about to reach a very intense climax. At which point she demanded I stop.

Was that to protect her pride? So as not to fall in love? What!!!? Somebody please tell me as it will take some time to bring the subject up and ask her."

I can't say for sure as I don't know either of you but if you don't have the level of intimacy and trust that enables you to talk about this you don't have the level of intimacy and trust for her to relax enough to experience an intense orgasm with you.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Oh jaysus"

Glad you're here I need a drink, that popcorn's a bit salty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Want to get the drinks too...

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"I do the same. If a feeling gets so intense that you don't know how it continues or what follows it feels the safest thing to do x"

Is there a kind of fear of something and do you know what you're afraid of if so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom...

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have cum and passed out .... I don't do this a lot thank god .. maybe she do that too.?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15."

Oh fella

I've been shaking like a shitting dog, ripping the sheets and screaming to heaven but rest assured....I wasn't afraid to fall in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op, I'm curious, do you fall in love everyone you have an intense orgasm?

Lol no I don't. But I've had occasions where a fuckbuddy has fallen for me because of the oxytocin dosage.

It doesn't quite work the same for men as far as I'm aware. But at the same time I do know men who have fallen in love after great sex with a woman."

I think that's more of an in the moment lust not love!!

If we ladies fell in love every time we had great sex the world would be buggered.... Literally!!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom..."

That explains why the popcorn is so salty

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Why yes, because whenever a man gives a lady an orgasm they instantly falls in love with the man. Literally EVERY time.

Maybe she was self concious? That can be a vulnerable moment and she might not have been willing to let go in front of you. She simply might not have felt comfortable enough.

Or just talk to her? If you're adult enough to have sex together then you should be adult enough to talk about it IMO."

I will in due course. I just wasn't in the position to at the time and it's not the first time.

I love talking on those levels. But I wanted to get a general consensus from a female perspective as fellas or not really that complicated or interesting to talk to.

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By *uzi Jones 26Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

"I do the same. If a feeling gets so intense that you don't know how it continues or what follows it feels the safest thing to do x

Is there a kind of fear of something and do you know what you're afraid of if so?"

I suppose it's fear as never got to that point. I have orgasms, great ones but I get to a certain point and can't carry on, at least have to slow down x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15."

Or....

Maybe she didn't want to carry on anymore and was faking the enjoyment without wanting to hurt your feelings.

Like, I wasn't there I haven't got a fucking clue.

Maybe she was simply embarrassed about her cum face. Mine's horrific.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Was it a full moon OP?

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"If an amazing orgasm was all it took for me to fall in love, I'd be married to my vibrator."

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

"I do the same. If a feeling gets so intense that you don't know how it continues or what follows it feels the safest thing to do x"

Me too I do it to

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15.

Or....

Maybe she didn't want to carry on anymore and was faking the enjoyment without wanting to hurt your feelings.

Like, I wasn't there I haven't got a fucking clue.

Maybe she was simply embarrassed about her cum face. Mine's horrific. "

Oh fuck have you ever filmed your cum face? I look like one of them gurners, I find a pillow hides that shit well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I just had a friend over and we got relaxed while watching a film which ended in me giving her a massage which turned to sex.

All was going really nice and well until she was about to reach a very intense climax. At which point she demanded I stop.

Was that to protect her pride? So as not to fall in love? What!!!? Somebody please tell me as it will take some time to bring the subject up and ask her.

Entirely this

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15.

Or....

Maybe she didn't want to carry on anymore and was faking the enjoyment without wanting to hurt your feelings.

Like, I wasn't there I haven't got a fucking clue.

Maybe she was simply embarrassed about her cum face. Mine's horrific.

Oh fuck have you ever filmed your cum face? I look like one of them gurners, I find a pillow hides that shit well"

It really is enough to make you dislike yourself rather a lot ain't it. My cum face offends me.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Oh jaysus

Glad you're here I need a drink, that popcorn's a bit salty

I hope he wasn't too scared to shoot his load

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id worry over someone falling in love with cos they had an orgasm

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15.

Or....

Maybe she didn't want to carry on anymore and was faking the enjoyment without wanting to hurt your feelings.

Like, I wasn't there I haven't got a fucking clue.

Maybe she was simply embarrassed about her cum face. Mine's horrific.

Oh fuck have you ever filmed your cum face? I look like one of them gurners, I find a pillow hides that shit well

It really is enough to make you dislike yourself rather a lot ain't it. My cum face offends me."

I look positively angelic

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

" I think that's more of an in the moment lust not love!!

If we ladies fell in love every time we had great sex the world would be buggered.... Literally!! "

Some can handle it some can't. I'm not referring to all women. It's not a blanket science. It's that I'm a very straight talking person. I won't lie to get in your pants.

Most ladies on here are swingers so they are not likely to be the type to fall in love after great sex. But more on the hunt for great sexual experiences and adventures. I just wanted honest opinions. Which I must say I seem to be getting.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Oh jaysus

Glad you're here I need a drink, that popcorn's a bit salty

I hope he wasn't too scared to shoot his load "

I'll just ask him

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Op, I'm curious, do you fall in love everyone you have an intense orgasm?"

Oh dint be ridiculous! It's only us weak willed, doe eyed, Jane austin-esque, feeble minded women who fall in love with any man who brings us to orgasm

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom..."

You weren't afraid to shoot your load were you cutie? I can definitely FTFY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom...

You weren't afraid to shoot your load were you cutie? I can definitely FTFY

I wasn't aware that I had... thought it was just your favourite tasty treat

Feel free to fix it though

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your about to cum face may have done it

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Op, I'm curious, do you fall in love everyone you have an intense orgasm?

You...you mean to say you don't?

Oh come on, you were there to witness my moment of divine intervention weren't you?

Can't spell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

May i sit down beside you got popcorn too

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Op no idea. Ask her.. for me I don't orgasm with meets and would stop a guy if I was getting close because i feel to vulnerable. I Have to really trust someone to do that.

Doesn't mean i dont have great times but I wouldn't orgasm with a meet.. unless its over watching Mr with someone else but that's a different type of one.

Full bodu trembling leave me in a heap then nope. No way would I let a meet but normally my mind has already put the block on first so there is no worry."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

May i sit down beside you got popcorn too

Sure thing, dig in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

May i sit down beside you got popcorn too

Sure thing, dig in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a variety of reasons, but I very much doubt falling in love is one of them.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"maybe she poops when she's cumming?

that's all i got.

Hahahaha

I experienced that once. The person tried to pretend it was blood as they rolled it up in the sheet.

It reminded me of the film Kingpin with Woody from cheers. Can't remember his real name.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15."

A friend does that usually before a fit, she has epilepsy.

Some women pass out at the point of orgasm.

It was only a question.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom...

You weren't afraid to shoot your load were you cutie? I can definitely FTFY

I wasn't aware that I had... thought it was just your favourite tasty treat

Feel free to fix it though

You're not afraid of an intense climax just in case you fall in love?

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"I have cum and passed out .... I don't do this a lot thank god .. maybe she do that too.?"

Wow!! That would be such a turn on. But could be illegal to touch you while unconscious. Lol

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15.

Oh fella

I've been shaking like a shitting dog, ripping the sheets and screaming to heaven but rest assured....I wasn't afraid to fall in love. "

That's not what you asked. You asked how I knew it was gonna be intense. I didn't say she was gonna fall in love. I was basically asking why some women are afraid of intense orgasms. I love them even the ones that give you a bad headache!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom...

You weren't afraid to shoot your load were you cutie? I can definitely FTFY

I wasn't aware that I had... thought it was just your favourite tasty treat

Feel free to fix it though

You're not afraid of an intense climax just in case you fall in love?

I'll try not to catch a case of the feels

Be careful though, NorfolkCouple's having a dig too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom...

You weren't afraid to shoot your load were you cutie? I can definitely FTFY

I wasn't aware that I had... thought it was just your favourite tasty treat

Feel free to fix it though

You're not afraid of an intense climax just in case you fall in love?

I'll try not to catch a case of the feels

Be careful though, NorfolkCouple's having a dig too

It's a good one this

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15.

A friend does that usually before a fit, she has epilepsy.

Some women pass out at the point of orgasm.

It was only a question.

Sorry I thought you were questioning my intelligence.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Could be a variety of reasons, but I very much doubt falling in love is one of them."

Have you never had what was supposed to be a casual fling go wrong because of your skills to put it bluntly?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom...

You weren't afraid to shoot your load were you cutie? I can definitely FTFY

I wasn't aware that I had... thought it was just your favourite tasty treat

Feel free to fix it though

You're not afraid of an intense climax just in case you fall in love?

I'll try not to catch a case of the feels

Be careful though, NorfolkCouple's having a dig too

I'll be happy with your precum

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Could be a variety of reasons, but I very much doubt falling in love is one of them.

Have you never had what was supposed to be a casual fling go wrong because of your skills to put it bluntly?"

Lust...

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Your about to cum face may have done it

Good one. I have never come from playing with someone's vagina, g spot or clitoris with my hands.

You must be easily please my friend.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15.

A friend does that usually before a fit, she has epilepsy.

Some women pass out at the point of orgasm.

It was only a question.

Sorry I thought you were questioning my intelligence.

No I wouldn't do that.

I was try to get a picture of the events so I could give a sensible answer to your question of why some women are afraid of intense orgasms.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Op no idea. Ask her.. for me I don't orgasm with meets and would stop a guy if I was getting close because i feel to vulnerable. I Have to really trust someone to do that.

Doesn't mean i dont have great times but I wouldn't orgasm with a meet.. unless its over watching Mr with someone else but that's a different type of one.

Full bodu trembling leave me in a heap then nope. No way would I let a meet but normally my mind has already put the block on first so there is no worry.

That's a lot of pressure on the women you have sex with. Could that be part of the problem with this lady? Could she be picking up on your dissapointment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a crazy question.....but shaking, writhing around etc....how do you know that she did not follow through and actually orgasm??!

Otherwise I would say that she didn't want to feel vulnerable, maybe she was embarrassed or over sensitive or she did not want to squirt or something!! Could be for several reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have cum and passed out .... I don't do this a lot thank god .. maybe she do that too.?

Wow!! That would be such a turn on. But could be illegal to touch you while unconscious. Lol"

I have a good friend off this site who also passes out when she has an intense orgasm. She does warn beforehand it lasts only a few minutes and she needs plenty of recovery time. It's so intimate to experience it.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"How do you know it was going to be an intense orgasm?

The trembling, the writhing, the gripping of the pillows etc etc...

I'm not 15.

Or....

Maybe she didn't want to carry on anymore and was faking the enjoyment without wanting to hurt your feelings.

Like, I wasn't there I haven't got a fucking clue.

Maybe she was simply embarrassed about her cum face. Mine's horrific.

Oh fuck have you ever filmed your cum face? I look like one of them gurners, I find a pillow hides that shit well

It really is enough to make you dislike yourself rather a lot ain't it. My cum face offends me.

I look positively angelic

I've never thought of doing a selfie at that point. But I think I may have to now.

I'm one of those people that chews their tongue while concentrating on a task. Many years ago in the camcorder days I found myself doing it mid session. I've been very conscious not to let that happen again. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom...

You weren't afraid to shoot your load were you cutie? I can definitely FTFY

I wasn't aware that I had... thought it was just your favourite tasty treat

Feel free to fix it though

You're not afraid of an intense climax just in case you fall in love?

I'll try not to catch a case of the feels

Be careful though, NorfolkCouple's having a dig too

I'll be happy with your precum

I think we all know that Pinky

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"I have cum and passed out .... I don't do this a lot thank god .. maybe she do that too.?

Wow!! That would be such a turn on. But could be illegal to touch you while unconscious. Lol

She has to feel doubly comfortable or make sure she keeps her ID and credit cards in a secure location. Lol

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"*Fetches popcorn* Anyone else?

Pass me some cutie

Careful you don't dig too deep, some cheeky devil's cut a hole in the bottom...

You weren't afraid to shoot your load were you cutie? I can definitely FTFY

I wasn't aware that I had... thought it was just your favourite tasty treat

Feel free to fix it though

You're not afraid of an intense climax just in case you fall in love?

I'll try not to catch a case of the feels

Be careful though, NorfolkCouple's having a dig too

I'll be happy with your precum

I think we all know that Pinky

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over a year ago

"I have cum and passed out .... I don't do this a lot thank god .. maybe she do that too.?

Wow!! That would be such a turn on. But could be illegal to touch you while unconscious. Lol

She has to feel doubly comfortable or make sure she keeps her ID and credit cards in a secure location. Lol"

Think she knows what she is doing

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Op no idea. Ask her.. for me I don't orgasm with meets and would stop a guy if I was getting close because i feel to vulnerable. I Have to really trust someone to do that.

Doesn't mean i dont have great times but I wouldn't orgasm with a meet.. unless its over watching Mr with someone else but that's a different type of one.

Full bodu trembling leave me in a heap then nope. No way would I let a meet but normally my mind has already put the block on first so there is no worry.

That's a lot of pressure on the women you have sex with. Could that be part of the problem with this lady? Could she be picking up on your dissapointment?"

Nah I don't put any pressure on. I'm very easy going. It wasn't like that at all.

It's all good. I'm sure she'll be back. We're good friends anyway so I'll get my chance to ask soon enough. We'll have a giggle about it.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

There was a time I'd have done the same thing. I wasn't comfortable enough with myself and was very self conscious. Certain things were pushing boundaries and I was genuinely unsure how I would react. I think it takes a lot of trust for me to really let go with someone sexually. That trust doesn't mean I will fall in love with them though!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Op no idea. Ask her.. for me I don't orgasm with meets and would stop a guy if I was getting close because i feel to vulnerable. I Have to really trust someone to do that.

Doesn't mean i dont have great times but I wouldn't orgasm with a meet.. unless its over watching Mr with someone else but that's a different type of one.

Full bodu trembling leave me in a heap then nope. No way would I let a meet but normally my mind has already put the block on first so there is no worry.

That's a lot of pressure on the women you have sex with. Could that be part of the problem with this lady? Could she be picking up on your dissapointment?

Nah I don't put any pressure on. I'm very easy going. It wasn't like that at all.

It's all good. I'm sure she'll be back. We're good friends anyway so I'll get my chance to ask soon enough. We'll have a giggle about it."

But you just said you'd feel disappointed if a woman didn't come and earlier you said it would take some time before you could ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had this and it's very off putting and leaves you feeling bad. Do you feel the man and that connection because you nearly got her to climax, or can it make you feel like a rapist, is it the ladie wants you to stop because she doesn't fancy You, or will she shit her self. Men aren't supposed to know. Open up and talk to us grrrrrrr!!!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi

I just had a friend over and we got relaxed while watching a film which ended in me giving her a massage which turned to sex.

All was going really nice and well until she was about to reach a very intense climax. At which point she demanded I stop.

Was that to protect her pride? So as not to fall in love? What!!!? Somebody please tell me as it will take some time to bring the subject up and ask her."

If you had been watching the re-make of Dirty

Dancing that could be the reason why....LOL.

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over a year ago

"Op no idea. Ask her.. for me I don't orgasm with meets and would stop a guy if I was getting close because i feel to vulnerable. I Have to really trust someone to do that.

Doesn't mean i dont have great times but I wouldn't orgasm with a meet.. unless its over watching Mr with someone else but that's a different type of one.

Full bodu trembling leave me in a heap then nope. No way would I let a meet but normally my mind has already put the block on first so there is no worry.

May I ask what you have sex for in that case. I love making women cum and sharing that intense pleasure. I'd feel disappointed if we were having sex and I didn't make you have intense or multiple orgasms. I'd need counselling after!! Lol"
i enjoy sex. I Enjoy giving. 99% of men wouldn't know i didn't.. but i dont do 121 meets anyway. As dont like all this intimate stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe in that actual moment she wasn't comfortable cuming that intensely.

A variety of reasons, don't ask us ask her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I just had a friend over and we got relaxed while watching a film which ended in me giving her a massage which turned to sex.

All was going really nice and well until she was about to reach a very intense climax. At which point she demanded I stop.

Was that to protect her pride? So as not to fall in love? What!!!? Somebody please tell me as it will take some time to bring the subject up and ask her."

She probably didn't want a mess on her couch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybes die pulls a funny face (as I do) or maybe she just told you she was climaxing, too make u feel good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe in that actual moment she wasn't comfortable cuming that intensely.

A variety of reasons, don't ask us ask her.

But we ask and there is no answer

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over a year ago

"Maybe in that actual moment she wasn't comfortable cuming that intensely.

A variety of reasons, don't ask us ask her.

But we ask and there is no answer"

I've been in that scenario and told the guy exactly why it wasn't comfortable for me.

He was cool about it and we had a great night.

Communication is the key...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol!! Point proved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fair question OP. Google 'orgasm endorphins love' and there's lots of info there. Yes it can make people feel love so it's not a dumb question!!

There are some intelligent answers in the thread.

No harm in asking - she might not be honest with you about why she stopped so it's good to read different possibilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fair question OP. Google 'orgasm endorphins love' and there's lots of info there. Yes it can make people feel love so it's not a dumb question!!

There are some intelligent answers in the thread.

No harm in asking - she might not be honest with you about why she stopped so it's good to read different possibilities. "

But isn't honestly leading to that connection and way forward . Don't lie!!! Be honest and stop making us feel bad. And single men get slated on here for not reading a profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fair question OP. Google 'orgasm endorphins love' and there's lots of info there. Yes it can make people feel love so it's not a dumb question!!

There are some intelligent answers in the thread.

No harm in asking - she might not be honest with you about why she stopped so it's good to read different possibilities.

But isn't honestly leading to that connection and way forward . Don't lie!!! Be honest and stop making us feel bad. And single men get slated on here for not reading a profile lol"

It's a very personal thing and she might not feel comfortable telling him that's all. They aren't in a relationship. What does that have to do with profiles?

I don't have orgasms during sex and I won't explain why either.

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over a year ago

"Op no idea. Ask her.. for me I don't orgasm with meets and would stop a guy if I was getting close because i feel to vulnerable. I Have to really trust someone to do that.

Doesn't mean i dont have great times but I wouldn't orgasm with a meet.. unless its over watching Mr with someone else but that's a different type of one.

Full bodu trembling leave me in a heap then nope. No way would I let a meet but normally my mind has already put the block on first so there is no worry.

That's a lot of pressure on the women you have sex with. Could that be part of the problem with this lady? Could she be picking up on your dissapointment?"

OP my wild guess is that she was thoroughly worked up but nowhere near a conventional climax. When you're with someone who is dead keen on taking you there but not hitting quite the right spots it gets more and more and more frustrating to keep going as you never get any closer. It doesn't sound like you've had the level of communication where she could tell you it wasn't working for her!

On the opposite end of the spectrum, like someone else said she may have had enough / reached satisfaction. I find this with vaginal stimulation/full body orgasms, there comes a point that I've had my fill and I don't need or want to continue.

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over a year ago

"Maybe in that actual moment she wasn't comfortable cuming that intensely.

A variety of reasons, don't ask us ask her.

But we ask and there is no answer"

In our experience Night Flyer a lot of people don't want to hear honest feedback (not even when they ask) and quite as many people don't want to give it or don't know how.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known ladies who have multiples need to stop because they get what they describe as 'the jangles'....girl thing?

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over a year ago

Do ask her, when it feels right. But also wouldn't necessarily over think it. I found with a past partner there were times I had to ask him to stop because I couldn't cope with the intensity at that time, but I also told him that I'm the moment as it wasn't a bad thing. But this is why I prefer ongoing fwb rather than one offs because the more you get to know each other the better the sex potentially can get. Anyway good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another reason OP- sub drop. Look at the 'Downer after a meet' thread in Swinger's chat. Orgasm might make it worse for her so she may stop before that point to avoid it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you've been reading too many Mills and a Boon novels.... Orgasms don't work that way. I'm guessing she's a squirted....and didn't want to ruin your sofa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you were "finger blasting" her.....which can be really off-putting (keep away from the bad porn films)

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There could be so many reasons.

You said she was a friend, so perhaps she didn't want to cross that line.

Or, she realised that she wasn't that into you, or still had feelings for someone else.

Or, maybe she does fancy you, and needs to know that you feel the same, and not just for sex.

Communication is good. Even if it's not what you want to hear.

Staying friends may be more important, my friend.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"It's a fair question OP. Google 'orgasm endorphins love' and there's lots of info there. Yes it can make people feel love so it's not a dumb question!!

There are some intelligent answers in the thread.

No harm in asking - she might not be honest with you about why she stopped so it's good to read different possibilities. "

Thank you Blue Carrot. Don't worry I ignore the ignorance

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Do ask her, when it feels right. But also wouldn't necessarily over think it. I found with a past partner there were times I had to ask him to stop because I couldn't cope with the intensity at that time, but I also told him that I'm the moment as it wasn't a bad thing. But this is why I prefer ongoing fwb rather than one offs because the more you get to know each other the better the sex potentially can get. Anyway good luck with it.

Thanks Rose

I'm getting somevintrtesting feedback and very little ego driven foolishness. It's quite refreshing.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Think you've been reading too many Mills and a Boon novels.... Orgasms don't work that way. I'm guessing she's a squirted....and didn't want to ruin your sofa?"

Mills and Boon!! LOL

My mum used to read those. "Orgasms don't work that way" for everyone. But some women espescially FWB's can find that intimate climatic intensity overwhelming and want to move the arrangement to a more committed scenario. Whereas if you perform poorly... lol

Perhaps in your experience..

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"There could be so many reasons.

You said she was a friend, so perhaps she didn't want to cross that line.

Or, she realised that she wasn't that into you, or still had feelings for someone else.

Or, maybe she does fancy you, and needs to know that you feel the same, and not just for sex.

Communication is good. Even if it's not what you want to hear.

Staying friends may be more important, my friend."

Very true. I wasn't making a big deal out of it just curious because I've seen it with others and some have given various reasons. I wanted to see what others had to say on the matter and it seems there are lots of reasons for different people and scenarios. It's been interesting.

We've been friends for years and played a couple of times during the friendship. That was the first time we played while sober though. Lol

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