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Can ex's previously married really be friends?

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By *ustle7174 OP   Couple
over a year ago

grimsby

Thoughts??

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some can

some can't

same as with most situations

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Some can but most can't and some just choose not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I have a good relationship with my ex husband and his new partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My next door neighbour is still good friends with his ex-wife, much to the benefit of their daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unanswerable question as everybody and all situations are different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some can

some can't

same as with most situations"

This. I think to some extent the reason for the split makes a tremendous difference to being friends afterwards.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

I am friends with my ex as it makes my Daughters life easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ... not in my case anyways.... I'd like to run over my dear ex husband ...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I did and then I didn't.

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By *cotty2hotty75Man
over a year ago

Leeds

If you have kids together then I think you need to. Though I appreciate it's not easy. I'm forever biting my tongue with my ex wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely OP.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

I have a decent relationship with my ex & father of my children. He is an excellent dad. Have no desire to meet the woman he left me for though. They are both on here too

JG x

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire

Im friends with my ex fiance.. slept with him a few times too

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By *ni_ladMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

If children were involved it would be best for the child to have a healthy relationship between separated parents??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends, she's under the patio in freezer bags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met up with my ex of 25 years ago recently, we got on perfectly fine. However his new partner did not enjoy the experience. So I would say it depends on the situations. X

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

No from both of us .

Of course you have to be civil , for the sake of the kids , but deep down would far rather not have to have anything to do with ex partners at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm better friends with my ex the we were when we were together.

PTU xxx

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Were friends easily. But we're a strange set up

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

My mum and dad were friends after they split. I, however, can't stand to be in the same room as my ex husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes got kids together so friends and life is too short not to be.

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By *ni_ladMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"No from both of us .

Of course you have to be civil , for the sake of the kids , but deep down would far rather not have to have anything to do with ex partners at all ."

Just an opinion but would you not at least get to know the ex's new partner? Especially if they're to play a big role in your child's life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can have good relationship but not a true friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm friends with my ex but we have a child together so we try to get on. I dislike talking about shared history with her in front of her current fella as it feels like I'm marking my territory so to speak. I get on with him as well but again wouldn't call him a friend

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no reason why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mum and dad were friends after they split. I, however, can't stand to be in the same room as my ex husband."

at your avatar.

PTU xxx

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"My mum and dad were friends after they split. I, however, can't stand to be in the same room as my ex husband.

at your avatar.

PTU xxx "

Thank you

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i am good friends with my ex. i support him and he supports me, even after i split with an ex after him he was there for me and i cried on him at times.

all round good guy who genuinely cares for me and i care for him.

if you have kids you have to 'grow up' and be civil for them. being friends is a huge bonus and i feel lucky to have him in my life.

we weren't married but were together 11 years, most of the time cohabiting also.

other exes i am not friends with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im still very good friends with the ex wife. Was a bit tense through the divorce but now we get on well.

We even shared a bottle of wine last week which ended in a nostalgic bj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm friends with my ex wife. Mainly due to the kids. I managed to keep it together when she decided that I was no longer required - despite having 3 kids!

However it has caused problems - just broke up with my girlfriend of two years because she couldn't get her head round the fact we were still friends. She didn't like the fact that we still buy presents for the kids for Xmas and birthdays so they are from Mum and Dad etc.

But still, kids will always come first in my life.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm good friends with my ex of 12 years but it probably helps he now lives in a different country!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"No from both of us .

Of course you have to be civil , for the sake of the kids , but deep down would far rather not have to have anything to do with ex partners at all .

Just an opinion but would you not at least get to know the ex's new partner? Especially if they're to play a big role in your child's life?"

Nope

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