FabSwingers.com forum: Men, have you ever turned down sex...

By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

And Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah for loads of reasons

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes quite a few times. Why because my brain no longer lives in my cock....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, because I'm an idiot, and going six months without wasn't long enough apparently

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a lot of times because I didn't fancy them enough.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Yes, because I don't feel the need to have sex with someone just for the sake of getting laid. I have to actually be attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.... and a gentleman never tells any details

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By *ibertine61Man
over a year ago

hereford

Yes . Because there was no attraction and in at least two cases the woman was d*unk

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes.... and a gentleman never tells any details "

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Men kept messaging me on here asking to fuck me but I'm straight.

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Yes. Men kept messaging me on here asking to fuck me but I'm straight.

Hahah that's a valid reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because I was in a relationship at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, because I don't feel the need to have sex with someone just for the sake of getting laid. I have to actually be attracted to them."

This

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Staines

Yeah I have

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

Yeah a good few times when ive not fancied them. Hardest time was a long time ago at a house party of a girl my best mate was infatuated with... during the night i was just chatting with her upstairs and we casually walked into her room.... it was a trap!! She locked the door got on her knees in front of me, started to undo my jeans and said 'do what you want to me..... anything'..... but because of my bloody best mate i turned around, unlocked the door and went back downstairs to him and my other mates. He never knew it happened. And he never got with her.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

yes.

I did not fancy the couple.

I tried to ignore them polity dodging the question. hoping they would take the hint. but they did not. she ended up asking me. I said sorry you are not my type and then she asked why! ffs I thought. you never ask that question unless you want to be told you are ugly.

I just said, "please dont ask me that, you are just not my type, end of"

I then got blocked and she told anyone who would listen that she found me ugly and stupid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Wasn't into her sexually. Happens both ways OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, prior to being in a relationship I had a single profile.

But I have standards unlike quite a few guy's on here

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes, the women in question worked in the same building.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm not attracted to them yes.

Needs to be some kind of attraction from both sides, otherwise you end up with no passion and just boring sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah a good few times when ive not fancied them. Hardest time was a long time ago at a house party of a girl my best mate was infatuated with... during the night i was just chatting with her upstairs and we casually walked into her room.... it was a trap!! She locked the door got on her knees in front of me, started to undo my jeans and said 'do what you want to me..... anything'..... but because of my bloody best mate i turned around, unlocked the door and went back downstairs to him and my other mates. He never knew it happened. And he never got with her.

The things we do for friends

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yeah, because am selective

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

The things we do for friends

I know. Hes been a great friend over the years so i dont regret it..... but i may always be haunted by the 'do what you want to me... anything' line....

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

The things we do for friends

I know. Hes been a great friend over the years so i dont regret it..... but i may always be haunted by the 'do what you want to me... anything' line.... "

Lol if only

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I have on several occasions for several different reasons. I actually got hit with a umbrella once by a lady I used to work with cause I wouldn't go back to her hotel room whilst on a work trip. Lol

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"I have on several occasions for several different reasons. I actually got hit with a umbrella once by a lady I used to work with cause I wouldn't go back to her hotel room whilst on a work trip. Lol"

I have a rule never mix business and pleasure lol I don't want to be the topic of the office gossip

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Seems like we all have OP..

Has anyone NEVER turned down sex????

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Of course. I'm not some piece of meat

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

Of course, just cause we're male it doesn't mean we only want sex...

If I'm on a hot kill streak in battlefield and the ex would come over trying to get some she would get told "you can wait till I'm done"

I've turned down couples on here as it felt like it was more him than her wanting to meet, I've also asked a couple to leave mine for the same reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.For varied reasons over the years, mostly because they were in relationships and didn't have their partners consent. Or they were work colleagues.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Quiet a number of times. Usually because the person is only looking for something I'm ot interested in.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"Quiet a number of times. Usually because the person is only looking for something I'm ot interested in."

That should have been not interested in.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"And Why?"

Do you think that it's not possible for men to turn down sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And Why?"

Yes pretty much everyday on here......

The reasons being specific and multiple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - firmly believe in being a gentleman when appropriate. To have just done it for the sake of it would have been using the lady concerned and very unfair. If we don't have respect we don't have anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought most men if not all men have turned down sex at some point and not necessarily because they didnt fancy someone. May have been too d*unk, too tired or too depressed to have sex.

God knows us women turn down sex enough so why shouldnt it be the same for guys?

I like a guy to be picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened on the odd occassion. One time I had an evening of washing my hair planned and dinner was already cooking and I wasn't gonna put any of that off for sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. I'm not a savage.

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

"I would have thought most men if not all men have turned down sex at some point and not necessarily because they didnt fancy someone. May have been too d*unk, too tired or too depressed to have sex.

God knows us women turn down sex enough so why shouldnt it be the same for guys?

I like a guy to be picky

I get more horny when i'm depressed.. more horny whrn i'm tired and when i'm d*unk. I fear men may be wired slightly differently

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Men are allowed to say no?

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

Put i am bloody picky too!! Just horny and picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male half here.....many times over years for many many a reason ...bad attitudes n out look on life ....self centered n to me me me types ..from this site as a single before I was with my lovely lady ...had a quite a few meets that were (only way to put it ) false advertising n not honest n up front about things is size n shape n camera angles...not sort to judge but nice if people are up front not left to surprise on meet...and several for bad hygiene when pretty much at point of no return....dont go down well but then again neither do I if it ain't clean n fresh lol ....and believe it or not there has been a few cracking lady's nut voice n way of talking n style of i.e. to snobby or to chavvy has also led to me cutting meets short n making excuses ....fussy Fcker I suppose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because she was a bloody train wreck. D*unk, sobbing because she broke up with her fella who was a mate of mine. Offered it on the plate but not a hope of me eating off that plate.

King

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It's happened on the odd occassion. One time I had an evening of washing my hair planned and dinner was already cooking and I wasn't gonna put any of that off for sex!

Your poor vagina

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Yes of course we have..

Just we think about it all the time ,does,nt mean we act on it all the time.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

yep and for many differing reasons

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

all the time. I have sex when I want too not when someone else tells me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's happened on the odd occassion. One time I had an evening of washing my hair planned and dinner was already cooking and I wasn't gonna put any of that off for sex!

Your poor vagina

I know!... I mean.. ummm.. erm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes becuase the I think you would want more.

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes.

I made a promise to someone I wouldn't sleep with someone else.

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Men are allowed to say no?"

Depends whos asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, cos they are too far lol.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Yes, cos they are too far lol."

your just too damn picky too far indeed!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, cos they are too far lol.

your just too damn picky too far indeed!!!!! lol

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That is right I am too there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

Because I was scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, because she was stark raving bonkers! I don't mean just a little bit, but a full on, 100% bunny boiling stalker!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"And Why?"

Yes....

Because I didn't fancy them.

Because I wasn't interested in being unfaithful.

And because I had broken off the FB relationship due to her getting too attached.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously 9 out off 10 men on here are well below my standards not saying they are ugly just not for me and I'm not desperate i just act slutty on updates instead haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time on here, mainly because people fail to read my profile, fail to understand that not everyone is at the beck & call of women/couples simply because they're on a sex site, and not every man on here will fuck anything with a pulse.

I find it completely unacceptable that it's taken as a given that every man on here is on the bottom rung.

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