FabSwingers.com forum: Lust at Second Sight

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im not suggesting that all swingers have the "wham bam and wipe it on the curtains on the way out" kind of attitude,but there is probably a large percentage that only meet the once,and then move on.Which is cool is thats your bag,but isnt there a possibility of missing out of the 2nd Shag Syndrome.First times, or first meets,can be glorious,of course The Rush you feel from that moment of meeting for the first time and then the possibility of sex is a heady mixture.Now of course some people will turn out not to be your cup of earl grey,either little connection or on a different sexual plain to yourself.

But if theres something there, a spark taht you want to investigate further,do you always follow it up? I find sex the second time round is always far more fulfilling,the first meet you are sniffing around each other,then pulling out your best tricks in the bedroon,all in a whirlwind of lust,slowly prodding each others boundaries.But its only on reflection afterwards you sometimes realise what moments did it for each other...together.You are able to talk/type about these moments after and then become more comfy about displaying your own wants and desires.So come the second time when the battle commences its all the highlights but yet feeling that little bit more assured about what you each want,plus i spose you get a chance to see if they only did own one item of sexy underwear afterall

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I regularly enjoy lust at second third or fourth sight if we all feel the same way

Sometimes there is just not enough time to explore everything you want to explore in one meet

I find that the more you get to know someone the more comfortable you may feel about sharing fantasies that you may not have had a chance to try out and would only feel comfortable trying them with someone that you have an element of trust with

Im not talking about constant weekly meets though,but to know that you have something further planned to give each other something to get excited about for the next time,and to make each meet a little different to keep the excitement levels about each other high

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

What a great thread

I guess it all comes down to the fact we seek different things from a meet.

For me i prefer an ongoing friendship as i find the sex gets better with time and knowing someone.

Mercedes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is somthing lovely about meeting people again and again ..... leads to friends and a trust i find . I lust them even more when i have this and we are all open about our needs and our likes and makes for good sexy fun . jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i prefer regular meets to one offs

And have several friends i see regular xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some first meets are fantastic, some just good and some second meets can be even better and some not. It all depends what sort of encounter you are looking for. If its a stranger no talking meet then obviously the second time isn't going to be as exciting if that is your thing. I do like repeats with some but also like the one off experience as well.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"There is somthing lovely about meeting people again and again ..... leads to friends and a trust i find . I lust them even more when i have this and we are all open about our needs and our likes and makes for good sexy fun . jo xx"

Agrees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a great thread

I guess it all comes down to the fact we seek different things from a meet.

For me i prefer an ongoing friendship as i find the sex gets better with time and knowing someone.

Mercedes x"

It is a great thread and I have much the same viewpoint as you. I have had one nighters foisted on me by unsctupulous guys who have said they want an fb same as me - but after the deed off they swan. Hazards of the game we play I guess so no biggie. I do think that some of these one nighters have their place though and are of the moment and both parties have left highly satisfied by what just happened and enjoy the lustful afterglow.

I have an fb I see from time to time and sometimes I just want to rip his clothes off even when I see him socially because I know what he does for me... I love that sort of dry mouthed lust and pounding heart feeling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind one offs or repeats just as long i as i get on with them. What about 2nd, 3rd 4th meets? When does it become a relationship though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah, the big scared word "relationship".well I have a "realtionship" with a few people I've met. The terms of that vary,but to me if you meet a person a few times and continue to so and you both enjoy your agreement then its a "relationship" of sorts. Is it a show od exclusivity ...no... Is it a show that you respect each other.... Yes,for me at least

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