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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES

Been here a bit. Sent some messages but very rare to get a reply. Am I doing something wrong...

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Nope your a single male expect most messages to get deleted always remember patience is the key

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By *tavroMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Nope your a single male expect most messages to get deleted always remember patience is the key"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a bit. Sent some messages but very rare to get a reply. Am I doing something wrong... "

I've met a few nice people on here. Women, TV's, couples and even men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find your current approach isn't working, change it.

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


" "

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"If you find your current approach isn't working, change it. "
I don't know if it is my approach.. I thought my profile was ok ish..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you have to do is...

Buy cake

Set it as profile pic

Enjoy a yellow inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be yourself, don't expect anything it will happen eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've not asked for profile advice so we can't give you any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

patience is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

they get your message and check out your profile....

then decide not to respond..

it happens

its also not compulsory to reply

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"You've not asked for profile advice so we can't give you any."
fire away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you find your current approach isn't working, change it. I don't know if it is my approach.. I thought my profile was ok ish.."

OK ish isn't good enough. You're a single guy in a sea of single guys, if you want to stand out you need to aim for better than OK ish. But even if your profile was fantastic you have to accept that you are not going to appeal to most people. Women can afford to be picky.

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"

they get your message and check out your profile....

then decide not to respond..

it happens

its also not compulsory to reply"
any advice..

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"If you find your current approach isn't working, change it. I don't know if it is my approach.. I thought my profile was ok ish..

OK ish isn't good enough. You're a single guy in a sea of single guys, if you want to stand out you need to aim for better than OK ish. But even if your profile was fantastic you have to accept that you are not going to appeal to most people. Women can afford to be picky. "
have you read my profile

.....

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"What you have to do is...

Buy cake

Set it as profile pic

Enjoy a yellow inbox "
hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've not asked for profile advice so we can't give you any. fire away"

Ok, the profile isn't bad, but you say you're a smoker but won't meet smokers.

And your age range goes up to 99. Would you really have sex with someone that old?

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

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"You've not asked for profile advice so we can't give you any. fire away

Ok, the profile isn't bad, but you say you're a smoker but won't meet smokers.

And your age range goes up to 99. Would you really have sex with someone that old?"
That's a mistake. Clearly. I'll adjust it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a bit. Sent some messages but very rare to get a reply. Am I doing something wrong... "
patience is the key but it could take over a year before you get to meet plus you got to be Verified i think to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you have to do is...

Buy cake

Set it as profile pic

Enjoy a yellow inbox "

Bitches love cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple. It I always surprises me that men looking for sex with women, come to a website where there are about 100 single men per single woman, and say what am I doing wrong. Your not necessarily done by anything wrong. You just have an unreasonable expectation. Very few men would attempt to compete with 100 men for 1 woman in regular life.

Mrs

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple. It I always surprises me that men looking for sex with women, come to a website where there are about 100 single men per single woman, and say what am I doing wrong. Your not necessarily done by anything wrong. You just have an unreasonable expectation. Very few men would attempt to compete with 100 men for 1 woman in regular life.

Mrs"

I get what you're saying. Maybe i need to change that. Thanks for the input. and nice pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you have to do is...

Buy cake

Set it as profile pic

Enjoy a yellow inbox "

Any minute now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple. It I always surprises me that men looking for sex with women, come to a website where there are about 100 single men per single woman, and say what am I doing wrong. Your not necessarily done by anything wrong. You just have an unreasonable expectation. Very few men would attempt to compete with 100 men for 1 woman in regular life.

Mrs

I get what you're saying. Maybe i need to change that. Thanks for the input. and nice pics "

But you can't change the ratios on Fab!

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple. It I always surprises me that men looking for sex with women, come to a website where there are about 100 single men per single woman, and say what am I doing wrong. Your not necessarily done by anything wrong. You just have an unreasonable expectation. Very few men would attempt to compete with 100 men for 1 woman in regular life.

Mrs

I get what you're saying. Maybe i need to change that. Thanks for the input. and nice pics

But you can't change the ratios on Fab!"

Yes. I get that too. Shame

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"What you have to do is...

Buy cake

Set it as profile pic

Enjoy a yellow inbox

Any minute now "

Lol not a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you find your current approach isn't working, change it. I don't know if it is my approach.. I thought my profile was ok ish..

OK ish isn't good enough. You're a single guy in a sea of single guys, if you want to stand out you need to aim for better than OK ish. But even if your profile was fantastic you have to accept that you are not going to appeal to most people. Women can afford to be picky. "

I went off what you said, which was ok ish. I have now read it and if I was looking single guys it wouldn't appeal. Smoker would be the first hard limit for me. Thinking sex is nothing without oral is the second. But those are issues of compatibility. It also just bored me. Sorry.

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"If you find your current approach isn't working, change it. I don't know if it is my approach.. I thought my profile was ok ish..

OK ish isn't good enough. You're a single guy in a sea of single guys, if you want to stand out you need to aim for better than OK ish. But even if your profile was fantastic you have to accept that you are not going to appeal to most people. Women can afford to be picky.

I went off what you said, which was ok ish. I have now read it and if I was looking single guys it wouldn't appeal. Smoker would be the first hard limit for me. Thinking sex is nothing without oral is the second. But those are issues of compatibility. It also just bored me. Sorry."

Wow don't hold back

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple.

Mrs"

really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple.

Mrs

really? "

Well I thought single men were the largest demographic, followed by couples, and single women being the smallest demographic. If that is correct then most women here will be part of a couple and therefore of no use to men who only want single women. Am I wrong?

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Women don't hold back on here i'm afraid- i'd run with the cake idea its got winner written all over it lol

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple.

Mrs

really?

Well I thought single men were the largest demographic, followed by couples, and single women being the smallest demographic. If that is correct then most women here will be part of a couple and therefore of no use to men who only want single women. Am I wrong? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple.

Mrs

really?

Well I thought single men were the largest demographic, followed by couples, and single women being the smallest demographic. If that is correct then most women here will be part of a couple and therefore of no use to men who only want single women. Am I wrong?

Yes"

Ok cool

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Ok you wanted it, you got it.....

The 3 pics you have are all pretty much the same. Change them up a bit, so something to make yourself stand out, catch an eye.

Your profile text I don't think is too bad, I would leave the oral bit in if that's how you feel, you may put some off though with that statement, but at least it will prevent a meet with a woman who doesn't like it, and disappointment on your part. So it works as a filter for both sides.

Just double check the odd spelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. No. Maybe.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You've only just joined - expectations are often amiss with many single guys here. Reality can be an occasional meet each year, once established - which may take a year or two.

Different approach and expectations may help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you have to do is...

Buy cake

Set it as profile pic

Enjoy a yellow inbox

Bitches love cake "

And cake loves bitches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you have to do is...

Buy cake

Set it as profile pic

Enjoy a yellow inbox

Any minute now "

Sorry, I was at work. I got here as soon as I could

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

cake??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here 7 weeks. What exactly were your expectations of the site when you joined.

This is not Instashag.

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By *unlovinghero OP   Man
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"cake?? "

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