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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its a lovely day and after a couple of lovely night was wondering if anyone let their drinking affect the way they swing??...Do you get beer goggles on maybe?? Do you girls think.. Ohhhh he's a d*unk, no chance or Ohhh god he's pissed i'll take advantage maybe??

Does your drinking affect your posts even... you know, sober and nice then you hit the bottle and just start mad ramblings???

Drink... Is it good or bad in the swinging world lol...

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

gonna get jumped on for this no doubt but our view (yes for once I can say 'our') is that if you have to be d*unk to swing you shouldn't be doing it. We like to remember everything we have done and who we have done it with. If we come across a 'd*unk' in any swinging situation we quickly move on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a lovely day and after a couple of lovely night was wondering if anyone let their drinking affect the way they swing??...Do you get beer goggles on maybe?? Do you girls think.. Ohhhh he's a d*unk, no chance or Ohhh god he's pissed i'll take advantage maybe??

Does your drinking affect your posts even... you know, sober and nice then you hit the bottle and just start mad ramblings???

Drink... Is it good or bad in the swinging world lol... "

only been to a swinging club once and drank water in between wine. never noticed anyone at all having a few too many.

yeah i have been guilty of having one too many on a meet, but i just go soppy and wana dance.

back to being d*unk on posts, i have been told by patrick that my posts just get more outrageous and i say things perhaps i shudnt

wot about you pitbull, do you turn into a poodle when the drink flows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not swung yet but when i do would like to have a drink.Not get pissed but have a drink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personally love the ones who get d*unk and sloppy....

But thats another thread lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sloppy ...... maybe .... Floppy ???

Drinky and Droopy ( are they dwarfs ? )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol... Ahhh yes the floppy thing too...

Oooerr.. Another sad symptom maybe??

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Well since I take a Bottle of JD to club and wiggles is only 5ft and size 6, I pretty much end up d*unk when bottle ends :P (though I also only ever drink when at club)

I don't drink to swing, I just enjoy relaxing and as it's only place I feel safe enough to let my guard down and drink (as no muppet is going to give wiggle hastle, unlike a normal pub)

Has it effected my swinging, HELL YES, i'm alot more social, JD acts like viagra for me, once I go hard she can play as long as she wants.. (somthing the women seem eagre to test)

I turn into an absolute smily teddy when drinking and seem to become alot more aprochable, the bar staff even admited they would be suprised to ever need to remove my bottle from me :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wana bottle of wot he has then

me after wine i wana snog the gob of everyone and dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We havent swung yet, but i would like to have a drink just to feel relaxed and i also love dancing when im drinking Katie

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

don't get us wrong, we like a drink but there is a difference between 'a drink' and getting d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just give me a bottle of merlot and am anyones anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah thats true there is a difference between having a drink and getting d*unk i personally wouldnt like to get d*unk on a meet as anything could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah thats true there is a difference between having a drink and getting d*unk i personally wouldnt like to get d*unk on a meet as anything could happen"
i agree would wanna have my wits about me when meeting people.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"just give me a bottle of merlot and am anyones anyway"

My favourite is a nice Shiraz but find Merlot to be more than acceptable

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I must be eather odd, or just to honest, as even if I drink till I pass out, I still remember everything I or anyone else did.

I still think the "I was d*unk and don't remember" is just a self lie, people use to not take responsibility for showing how they realy are or what they realy think.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get me wrong if me and john were going to a club i wouldnt mind having a good drink and a laugh and a dance as i think you would feel more relaxed in a club

if i was going on a meet to someones house i wouldnt want to get d*unk

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE


"gonna get jumped on for this no doubt but our view (yes for once I can say 'our') is that if you have to be d*unk to swing you shouldn't be doing it. We like to remember everything we have done and who we have done it with. If we come across a 'd*unk' in any swinging situation we quickly move on by."

Totally agree! we have had an odd experience when the other person has had one too many and it wrecks the night in our opinion, we only drink soft drinks,coffee or water when we are playing. we understand some are nervous and need a drink to relax but do you really want to be remembered for pucking up in some strange bathroom or worse not have any recollection of the meets events??? no thanks

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"gonna get jumped on for this no doubt but our view (yes for once I can say 'our') is that if you have to be d*unk to swing you shouldn't be doing it. We like to remember everything we have done and who we have done it with. If we come across a 'd*unk' in any swinging situation we quickly move on by.

Totally agree! we have had an odd experience when the other person has had one too many and it wrecks the night in our opinion, we only drink soft drinks,coffee or water when we are playing. we understand some are nervous and need a drink to relax but do you really want to be remembered for pucking up in some strange bathroom or worse not have any recollection of the meets events??? no thanks "

Never throw up, never forget whats happened and am very incontrol of what I do when d*unk.. (though i do get rather cheeky)

Agree though, if you need to drink to swing, then probably not good idea.. Though I need to swing to drink, so am fine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be eather odd, or just to honest, as even if I drink till I pass out, I still remember everything I or anyone else did.

I still think the "I was d*unk and don't remember" is just a self lie, people use to not take responsibility for showing how they realy are or what they realy think....."

well i'm a fibber then

got pissed last night an cant remember why she not speaking to me

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I must be eather odd, or just to honest, as even if I drink till I pass out, I still remember everything I or anyone else did.

I still think the "I was d*unk and don't remember" is just a self lie, people use to not take responsibility for showing how they realy are or what they realy think.....

well i'm a fibber then

got pissed last night an cant remember why she not speaking to me "

No no thats just the normal "well if you don't know what you did to upset me, i'm not telling you" that women always give, when they realy just want a gift or to be left alone :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont do d*unk ppl meets had a bad

experience with a cpl who got very

d*unk an it put me off meeting cpls now

i know not everyone's the same but all

the same its a put off..there's drinkin

on meet a theres getting out ya head it

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont do d*unk ppl meets had a bad

experience with a cpl who got very

d*unk an it put me off meeting cpls now

i know not everyone's the same but all

the same its a put off..there's drinkin

on meet a theres getting out ya head it

xx

"

apologies....i actually think yer ave a cute arse...soz about the quip saying it luked like the bbd on an egg. it was the merlot talking...got a lot to bloody answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Happy giggly tipsy is cool on a meet or at a club,its relaxing and lowers inhibitions

I can't play if im too d*unk I am completely desensitised,well I can play but it would be like necrophilia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gonna get jumped on for this no doubt but our view (yes for once I can say 'our') is that if you have to be d*unk to swing you shouldn't be doing it. We like to remember everything we have done and who we have done it with. If we come across a 'd*unk' in any swinging situation we quickly move on by."

Spot on,no need to add more!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be eather odd, or just to honest, as even if I drink till I pass out, I still remember everything I or anyone else did.

I still think the "I was d*unk and don't remember" is just a self lie, people use to not take responsibility for showing how they realy are or what they realy think.....

well i'm a fibber then

got pissed last night an cant remember why she not speaking to me

No no thats just the normal "well if you don't know what you did to upset me, i'm not telling you" that women always give, when they realy just want a gift or to be left alone :P"

after showing her this she finally told me what i did whoops

not my fault i thought her knicker draw was the toilet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont do d*unk ppl meets had a bad

experience with a cpl who got very

d*unk an it put me off meeting cpls now

i know not everyone's the same but all

the same its a put off..there's drinkin

on meet a theres getting out ya head it

xx

apologies....i actually think yer ave a cute arse...soz about the quip saying it luked like the bbd on an egg. it was the merlot talking...got a lot to bloody answer for"

if i was 2 care wat ppl said on here it be time 2 chuck it..i can give as gd out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with d*unks in swinging lol at least i get a shag xx

Craig x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I (Martin) tend to do most of the driving, so i usually dont drink unless we are staying local to the club or meet, or staying over if its a house party. If I do drink, I get very chatty and friendly, rather than a little shy and chatty lol, the world is suddenly my best friend lol.

I prefer not to drink too much, just in case some muppet gets a bit out of hand (it happened recently at a party).

Jayne likes to drink, sometimes just a couple sometimes quite a bit, but I have seen her swing sober and when shes a little tiddly, and there is no diference in her behaviour, other than she can get a little louder lol!!

As for other people, we dont mind if they have had a drink, but prefer them not to be d*unk when we meet, as it then worries usd that perhaps they need to be d*unk to meet anyone, which is not a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we think 1 drink to help calm any nerves aint to bad but we prefer to remember the lovely people we meet and what fun we have had with them!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Drink!!!!

lol

Yes like everything - all in good measure.

As for effecting posts in ere errrmmm, never!!!!!

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

When dogging was at the height of its popularity thanks to the coverage it got in the gutter press it wasn't uncommon to see the female half of the couple getting more than a wee bit tiddly.

A more cynical man than I might think it was the only condition some of the ladies could be 'persuaded' by their partner to participate in something she might not have if sober.

Not exactly a turn on of any sort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well we think 1 drink to help calm any nerves aint to bad but we prefer to remember the lovely people we meet and what fun we have had with them! "

lol... I'm sure as hens lay eggs anyone who meets you guys will remember every single last detail..... and some lol.

No drink required, no beer goggles, no dutch courage...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't drink on meets (even social ones) or at the club.... and have nothing to do with anyone who obviously has.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Well we think 1 drink to help calm any nerves aint to bad but we prefer to remember the lovely people we meet and what fun we have had with them!

lol... I'm sure as hens lay eggs anyone who meets you guys will remember every single last detail..... and some lol.

No drink required, no beer goggles, no dutch courage... "

now that IS some verification

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well we think 1 drink to help calm any nerves aint to bad but we prefer to remember the lovely people we meet and what fun we have had with them!

lol... I'm sure as hens lay eggs anyone who meets you guys will remember every single last detail..... and some lol.

No drink required, no beer goggles, no dutch courage...

now that IS some verification"

Was some meet lol...

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Well we think 1 drink to help calm any nerves aint to bad but we prefer to remember the lovely people we meet and what fun we have had with them!

lol... I'm sure as hens lay eggs anyone who meets you guys will remember every single last detail..... and some lol.

No drink required, no beer goggles, no dutch courage...

now that IS some verification

Was some meet lol... "

Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Good for youxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we think 1 drink to help calm any nerves aint to bad but we prefer to remember the lovely people we meet and what fun we have had with them!

lol... I'm sure as hens lay eggs anyone who meets you guys will remember every single last detail..... and some lol.

No drink required, no beer goggles, no dutch courage...

now that IS some verification

Was some meet lol... "

and we second that!!!!!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Well we think 1 drink to help calm any nerves aint to bad but we prefer to remember the lovely people we meet and what fun we have had with them!

lol... I'm sure as hens lay eggs anyone who meets you guys will remember every single last detail..... and some lol.

No drink required, no beer goggles, no dutch courage...

now that IS some verification

Was some meet lol...

and we second that!!!!!! "

I SHOULD HOPE SO TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

;-) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blushes badly..... Honestly pmsl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blushes badly..... Honestly pmsl!! "

You werent blushing much friday!! A little rosy cheeked after mind!!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Blushes badly..... Honestly pmsl!!

You werent blushing much friday!! A little rosy cheeked after mind!!! "

so is our pitbull a good old dirty dog then......,lol

Blushing indeed!!!

Dont believe it....lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blushes badly..... Honestly pmsl!!

You werent blushing much friday!! A little rosy cheeked after mind!!! "

Pmsl... you were looking then???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blushes badly..... Honestly pmsl!!

You werent blushing much friday!! A little rosy cheeked after mind!!!

so is our pitbull a good old dirty dog then......,lol

Blushing indeed!!!

Dont believe it....lol xx"

dirty ole dog... Ohhh thanks, more a clean and tidy ol dog maybe ... even pit bulls can scrub up you know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blushes badly..... Honestly pmsl!!

You werent blushing much friday!! A little rosy cheeked after mind!!!

so is our pitbull a good old dirty dog then......,lol

Blushing indeed!!!

Dont believe it....lol xx

dirty ole dog... Ohhh thanks, more a clean and tidy ol dog maybe ... even pit bulls can scrub up you know.. "

and he scrubbed up mighty fine!! .........for an ol dog

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Blushes badly..... Honestly pmsl!!

You werent blushing much friday!! A little rosy cheeked after mind!!!

so is our pitbull a good old dirty dog then......,lol

Blushing indeed!!!

Dont believe it....lol xx

dirty ole dog... Ohhh thanks, more a clean and tidy ol dog maybe ... even pit bulls can scrub up you know..

and he scrubbed up mighty fine!! .........for an ol dog "

heeeheeeeheeee

Glad y'all had a mighty fine evening x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Glad y'all had a mighty fine evening x"

So am I...... Ohhhhhhhh So am I

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"

Glad y'all had a mighty fine evening x

So am I...... Ohhhhhhhh So am I "

still recovering then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Glad y'all had a mighty fine evening x

So am I...... Ohhhhhhhh So am I

still recovering then"

Still recovering this end!!!

Head full of fantastic images!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Glad y'all had a mighty fine evening x

So am I...... Ohhhhhhhh So am I

still recovering then

Still recovering this end!!!

Head full of fantastic images!! "

lol... I can't think of anything to add. Apart from.... Encore, encore.... pmsl

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"

Glad y'all had a mighty fine evening x

So am I...... Ohhhhhhhh So am I

still recovering then

Still recovering this end!!!

Head full of fantastic images!!

lol... I can't think of anything to add. Apart from.... Encore, encore.... pmsl "

JEALOUS!!!!

Some of us didnt get a shag this weekend.....

.....now GET A ROOM!!!!

PMSL xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

JEALOUS!!!!

Some of us didnt get a shag this weekend.....

.....now GET A ROOM!!!!

PMSL xxxxxx"

Now now.... I'm sure if you have been following things... You know theres been many a weekend between ours lol...

Not exactly been in the mood ya knows... so yeah maybe gushing a little.. (sorry) and well, come on lol... take a peek at em, they are fookin georgeous, inside and out... Who wouldn't ff's...

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"

JEALOUS!!!!

Some of us didnt get a shag this weekend.....

.....now GET A ROOM!!!!

PMSL xxxxxx

Now now.... I'm sure if you have been following things... You know theres been many a weekend between ours lol...

Not exactly been in the mood ya knows... so yeah maybe gushing a little.. (sorry) and well, come on lol... take a peek at em, they are fookin georgeous, inside and out... Who wouldn't ff's... "

noted xxxx

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"just give me a bottle of merlot and am anyones anyway"

one bottle of merlot on it's way to you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just give me a bottle of merlot and am anyones anyway

one bottle of merlot on it's way to you lol"

get on yer push bike and deliver it with the pizza am only down the road from yer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we agree with the comment on dogging we go quite regular and ther have been many cpls where fem is pissed or stoned a def no go we would never play with any 1 who was pissed its to risky for obvious reasons a few drinks is ok but theres no fun when there that d*unk they dont know what there doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a woman has to get d*unk to want to play with me then who am I to ruin her evening...

She's spent all that time and effort, buying sitting fretting.. drinking away till the fuzzyness kicks in.. then with the boozy breath wispers in my ear... Ok, take me... I'd be a s*** to say no..

All that effort wasted... Litterally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have a couple of drinks when at a club, but gernerally if I'm playing I much prefer to be sober. If I meet a guy or a couple who have had one too many, it does put me off.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"we agree with the comment on dogging we go quite regular and ther have been many cpls where fem is pissed or stoned a def no go we would never play with any 1 who was pissed its to risky for obvious reasons a few drinks is ok but theres no fun when there that d*unk they dont know what there doing"

............. and if a woman isn't sober enough to give consent there could be legal consequences.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Nothin wrong with someone having a drink but if they need to be pissed to join in then they shouldnt be there. I had a tiple at the last social and i think i will at the beach party just so i can take advantage of mrnotts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothin wrong with someone having a drink but if they need to be pissed to join in then they shouldnt be there. I had a tiple at the last social and i think i will at the beach party just so i can take advantage of mrnotts"

Lol.... i'm staying sober so I know who hit me first lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few social drinks to take the edge off and enjoy yourselves ... yes! (not that we need it to enjoy mind) ... d*unk and slobbering is a big turn off for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few social drinks to take the edge off and enjoy yourselves ... yes! (not that we need it to enjoy mind) ... d*unk and slobbering is a big turn off for us both "

Oh dear, lol thats our chance gone with you then since you last saw me ha ha

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