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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when i meet people whenever its for the 1st time or 2nd i still like to dress to impress

like decent underwear and some nice clothes nice shoes.(ok if i'm meeting eveshamgirl i wont as she will nick em lol)

im wondering how many people dont try just turn up in anything, like jogging bottoms or a tatty jumper and then think thats ok for a 1st meet?

or am i being picky???

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

I think you should dress to impress! if you turn up scruffy..it's goodbye from us!

Once met a lady who turned up with gravy stains down her blouse..I had to make my excuses, shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as you are clean and your dress is appropriate to the situation then there is no issue for me in what you are wearing

ie if coming round to mine, casual wear is fine. if meeting outside, then smarter casual.

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

lol,,nope always try to dress nice for meets,,wether its a cofee or a full meet,,just good form i think,lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"like decent underwear and some nice clothes nice shoes.(ok if i'm meeting eveshamgirl i wont as she will nick em lol)"

oi!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be smart, but casual. Hav ebeen told I look good in a suit though, so maybe I'll go for the full on "business look" in the future.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

It depends...,if i am meeting someone I have know for years I will have jeans and t shirt someone new jeans and shirt and. Shoes

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

talking about dressing..we are going out next week and I was wondering..instead of the normal mini dress, what about going in a smart business suit and pearls etc.

of course nice and sexy underneath....

I think it would be good, J is not so sure

what's your thoughts......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always smart, well I think I am

I have worn a nice lightweight suit for a meet, on more than one occaision

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"talking about dressing..we are going out next week and I was wondering..instead of the normal mini dress, what about going in a smart business suit and pearls etc.

of course nice and sexy underneath....

I think it would be good, J is not so sure

what's your thoughts......

Mmmmmmmmmmmm

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always smart, well I think I am

I have worn a nice lightweight suit for a meet, on more than one occaision "

If I wear a dark suit though, I look like a bouncer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never met anyone dressed badly as yet but have seen a few joggins at parties.

Personally, getting ready is part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i try dressing to impress everyday no matter what am doing

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Jogging bottoms at a part...shocking I hardly. Where jogging bottoms when in town

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

I know where you saw the jogging pants at a party! theres 2 places I've seen it.

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

And...one place is very near you!..lol

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Is shocked regarding the jogging bottoms....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i try dressing to impress everyday no matter what am doing "

in front of people you're never going to see again, you have to look your best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in front of people you're never going to see again, you have to look your best "

Is that a question or a statement?

Trends, times and fashions may change, but standards remain constant

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I'm a take me as you find me kind of person, most comfy in jeans. Don't feel comfy in skirts or dresses unless they are floor length and cover everything!! but that's a self depreciation thing with me...

However, my favourite item is a black leather zip and buckle dress!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in front of people you're never going to see again, you have to look your best

Is that a question or a statement?

Trends, times and fashions may change, but standards remain constant "

statement. albeit tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a take me as you find me kind of person, most comfy in jeans. Don't feel comfy in skirts or dresses unless they are floor length and cover everything!! but that's a self depreciation thing with me...

However, my favourite item is a black leather zip and buckle dress!!!"

I'm perfectly happy in casual clothes, but it is nice to smarten up sometimes and personally it makes me feel good.

I wear a shirt and tie with jeans and suit jacket quite regularly, and I will also wear a waist coat with a tie to accompany jeans and nice shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in front of people you're never going to see again, you have to look your best

Is that a question or a statement?

Trends, times and fashions may change, but standards remain constant "

think he is from the Isle of Sark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a take me as you find me kind of person, most comfy in jeans. Don't feel comfy in skirts or dresses unless they are floor length and cover everything!! but that's a self depreciation thing with me...

However, my favourite item is a black leather zip and buckle dress!!!

I'm perfectly happy in casual clothes, but it is nice to smarten up sometimes and personally it makes me feel good.

I wear a shirt and tie with jeans and suit jacket quite regularly, and I will also wear a waist coat with a tie to accompany jeans and nice shoes. "

oooo casual but smart, turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people could wear a bin bag and look good - i could wear a hugo boss suit and still look a twat.

dress appropriately to your body shape and what you feel comfortable in.

i wear shirts and pants all week for work so my weekend wardrobe consists of jeans, cargo pants and shorts.

i have 1 or 2 casual summer shirts but the majority of my wardrobe is rugby shirts, hooded sweat-tops, polo shirts and t-shirts.

i don't have 1 pair of smart shoes apart for those i wear for work - weekend is for trainers, boots or north face walking shoes.

so i guess i'm fucked if i am ever expected to dress up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i meet people whenever its for the 1st time or 2nd i still like to dress to impress

like decent underwear and some nice clothes nice shoes.(ok if i'm meeting eveshamgirl i wont as she will nick em lol)

im wondering how many people dont try just turn up in anything, like jogging bottoms or a tatty jumper and then think thats ok for a 1st meet?

or am i being picky??? "

You are not picky at all. I always dress nice if i am meeting anyone and expect the same. It shows a that some time and consideration has been made for others.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always dress smart for meets you have to first impression counts on meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i meet people whenever its for the 1st time or 2nd i still like to dress to impress

like decent underwear and some nice clothes nice shoes.(ok if i'm meeting eveshamgirl i wont as she will nick em lol)

im wondering how many people dont try just turn up in anything, like jogging bottoms or a tatty jumper and then think thats ok for a 1st meet?

or am i being picky???

You are not picky at all. I always dress nice if i am meeting anyone and expect the same. It shows a that some time and consideration has been made for others. "

yer undress ain't bad either

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I'm a take me as you find me kind of person, most comfy in jeans. Don't feel comfy in skirts or dresses unless they are floor length and cover everything!! but that's a self depreciation thing with me...

However, my favourite item is a black leather zip and buckle dress!!!

I'm perfectly happy in casual clothes, but it is nice to smarten up sometimes and personally it makes me feel good.

I wear a shirt and tie with jeans and suit jacket quite regularly, and I will also wear a waist coat with a tie to accompany jeans and nice shoes. "

ooohh shades.... me finks me wuvs yopu xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so irregardless of how long someone had spent in the bathroom beforehand, washing, scrubbing, plucking, preening, cutting, trimming, adding them finishing touches prior to a meet, unless they turn up wearing clothing that 'looks like they have made an effort' then it goes no further than drinkypoo's ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so irregardless of how long someone had spent in the bathroom beforehand, washing, scrubbing, plucking, preening, cutting, trimming, adding them finishing touches prior to a meet, unless they turn up wearing clothing that 'looks like they have made an effort' then it goes no further than drinkypoo's ?"

don't be daft, I am well know for my "effortless chique" and I get fucked load. (now like a bit of chiquey self promo)

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

as long as you are clean and trim then shabby chic is the in thing nowadays!!!

clothes do not maketh the person, it's what is inside that counts

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

depends..If you like rough scruffy looking people, then I guess it's ok,

but if you like people who have made an effort thats fine as well.

takes all sorts! and no one is right and no one is wrong!

depends on the people involved and you cant have a go at someone that thinks different from you.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I will dress comfortable, for me that is, during the day jeans and a fitted t, usually with trainers. At a night time, more appropriate.

If I dress up, I feel uncomfortable, and that shows in the way I react to people.

I usually wear something pretty underneath though, even just for a social meet, just in case!!!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Hello funky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well anyone up for meeting blokes in rugby tops, jeans and trainers or boots, count me in !

anyone expecting brogues, chino's / slacks and a blazer style jacket, count me out !

altho get me on a work day and u just might get to see me in a suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never worn a suit. last time i wore anything of the sort was in school!

im always dressing casual but i think you can dress casual and look smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see the problem with smart jeans and a decent t-shirt the majority of my t-shirts are in excess of 50 quid so whys that worse than a £5 shirt from Burtons if thats what fashionable

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i met a very nice man last week who, after reading that i like a many to wear jeans and a nice shirt actualy made the effort to do so when he would usually wear jeans and t shirt etc

doesnt seem like much, just putting a shirt on but i think it shows great respect for the person you re meeting to look nice for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wear shirts as well but don't see the problem with wearing a nice t-shirt thats well ironed and is fitted well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i met a very nice man last week who, after reading that i like a many to wear jeans and a nice shirt actualy made the effort to do so when he would usually wear jeans and t shirt etc

doesnt seem like much, just putting a shirt on but i think it shows great respect for the person you re meeting to look nice for them"

but he obviously feels he looks nice in jeans and a t-shirt

so was it respect or the fact he thought if he wore a crisply ironed shirt he thought he'd have more chance of gettin ur knickers off ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wore a £6 tshirt i bought at primark yesterday and had all eyes on me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i met a very nice man last week who, after reading that i like a many to wear jeans and a nice shirt actualy made the effort to do so when he would usually wear jeans and t shirt etc

doesnt seem like much, just putting a shirt on but i think it shows great respect for the person you re meeting to look nice for them

but he obviously feels he looks nice in jeans and a t-shirt

so was it respect or the fact he thought if he wore a crisply ironed shirt he thought he'd have more chance of gettin ur knickers off ?"

i dont wear knickers so that wasnt the driving factor

he actually said, as he was leaving, he wanted to look nice for me, and to be honest if he had of worn a t-shirt i wouldnt have noticed because he was a lovely man and thats what counts most of all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

full veil.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Hello funky "

Hiya babe

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love to dress up x even if black jean and lovely top ........ you can bet money on it under will be somthing very nice , lol have to be ready for everything .. ;p;

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Always dress to impress, as you only get one chance at 1st impressions. If we where to meet someone whether it be coffee or other and they turned up in joggers, tatty jumpers it would be a polite hello and goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I dress to impress, hmm I don't make a deliberate conscious effort to dress differently because I always dress up. I'm not really a casual dressed type person. I don't walk around in evening dress all the time, but I am always in a dress or skirt and shoes or sandals. I would only wear jogging things to the gym, that goes for trainers too, its just gym wear, wouldn't dream of wearing it other than to those places.

I'm not a lover of jeans either, and I don't own a sweatshirt. I put it down to my upbringing. I am the only girl, long awaited too, so I was always dresed in pretty girly things. Never really had trousers as a child and my mother was a bit of a clothes horse, she was always immaculately dressed. I am certainly more casual than my mother ever was, but Ill never be a jeans and tshirt type girl.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

forgot to say, that it doesnt matter about the price of the clothing as some £5/6 shirts, t-shirts ect look as good as the ones at £30/40. Its not as if we are going to ask how much an item of clothing cost or have the price tags on display lol. I love a man in jeans and t-shirt, its a classic look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to be honest if he had of worn a t-shirt i wouldnt have noticed because he was a lovely man and thats what counts most of all!"

and with that i rest my case

clean and tidy and a crackin personality wins out every time over a self obsessed strutting peacock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do I dress to impress, hmm I don't make a deliberate conscious effort to dress differently because I always dress up. I'm not really a casual dressed type person. I don't walk around in evening dress all the time, but I am always in a dress or skirt and shoes or sandals. I would only wear jogging things to the gym, that goes for trainers too, its just gym wear, wouldn't dream of wearing it other than to those places.

I'm not a lover of jeans either, and I don't own a sweatshirt. I put it down to my upbringing. I am the only girl, long awaited too, so I was always dresed in pretty girly things. Never really had trousers as a child and my mother was a bit of a clothes horse, she was always immaculately dressed. I am certainly more casual than my mother ever was, but Ill never be a jeans and tshirt type girl. "

u dont need to dress to impress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I'm not a casual type of person, I like guys that are. I don't mind jeans and tshirts or shirts and trousers or suits.

I don't like old fashioned clothes, if the guy was really lovely and I liked him then it wouldn't change the fact I'd play with him if we wasn't dressed fashionably but I'd notice. I don't like guys in really high trousers or grandad style cardigans.

I wouldn't like a guy to turn up in a football shirt or a jokey slogan tshirt - something like 'bring back hairy pussies', I wouldn't be that impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd venture to say that an items cost is immaterial as long as you are wearing something appropriate for your shape and circumstances. On a first meet if you're gym fit and turn up wearing clean, fresh gym gear at a pub for a cheeky pint or two and a natter well alls fine. Turning up wearing a crotchless spiderman outfit at a restaurant is summit else

Ultimately its about respecting the other people you're meeting who may well have made an effort, and as we are all trying to get into each others pants a bit of effort goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so something that no one seems to have touched on here, is it more important for the woman to turn up 'dressed appropriately' than the man ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u can both be dressed smart and still clash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what is more important is that the person is clothed. If they feel good they will look good.

I dress in what I am comfortable for the venue nothing more.

I tend to fuck people naked so their clothing is kinda irrelevant. If they were dirty it wouldn't matter what they were wearing.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"so something that no one seems to have touched on here, is it more important for the woman to turn up 'dressed appropriately' than the man ?"

most guys when arranging a meet wlil ask "what you going to wear for me" and expect the full lingerie deal... corset/basque/stockings/suspenders/heels, etc, but they are more than happy to turn up in jeans and a t-shirt.

It's a 2-way deal....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i were to be meeting someone outside of my home i would be smelling nice and clean and presentable. I wouldnt be all basques and stockings...

Dont wear trousers as me ass to big and looks horrid...so a nice dress and sandels etc.

As long as you can see someone has made an effort ...shaved and showered etc (man) then what they wear is a small part of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"talking about dressing..we are going out next week and I was wondering..instead of the normal mini dress, what about going in a smart business suit and pearls etc.

of course nice and sexy underneath....

I think it would be good, J is not so sure

what's your thoughts......

"

YES!

You will look absolutely spectacular in a sexy business suit.

There's nothing as hot as a sexy lady in a tightly fitted business suit in my opinion.

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