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By *rs White OP   Couple
over a year ago

South

Messaged a couple with similar interests to us I found from surfing friends of friends profiles.

They asked how I found them so I said, friends of friends surfing.

They messaged back, quite angry, and said basically that they dont like people who surf profiles.

Is it me..or is that the point of a profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally cant see owt wrong in that lol

Its like when folk moan about look at me profiles in the forums

I was always of the understanding that that that's the whole point of a profile on a swinging site

I could however be wrong xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that is the point of a profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all have a look at whos met who or on friends list

i would be flattered if someone said that to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont see the problem, you may meet the people for you by doing, that you may never have met otherwise lolx

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By *rs White OP   Couple
over a year ago

South

Yeah, thats what I thought..by the way..I like all your profiles!..lol

It did make me cross, or should I say embarrased that they though I was "seedy" or something.

just wanted confirmation thats all ta!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, thats what I thought..by the way..I like all your profiles!..lol

It did make me cross, or should I say embarrased that they though I was "seedy" or something.

just wanted confirmation thats all ta!"

Well i thinks ya bad peeps

Fancy daring ta look at ya friends verifications ta find genuine meets

Appalling in my opinion ya should be ashamed a yaselves xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

how else are you supposed to meet people if you dont surf profiles??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, you should count yourself lucky you got a reply, lol.

I've sent loads of messages off, and not one reply. But that's the joys of being a single male.

Not bad profile though ops white

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

oh dear I must be really bad, spend most of the time checking out profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no point having a profile if peeps not going to look you up!!

I don't think you done anything wrong

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By *uckoo clockCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Carry on. They have the problem not you !!

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By *ll of a QuiverCouple
over a year ago

Douglas


"how else are you supposed to meet people if you dont surf profiles?? "

Our thoughts as well.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Personally cant see owt wrong in that lol

Its like when folk moan about look at me profiles in the forums

I was always of the understanding that that that's the whole point of a profile on a swinging site

I could however be wrong xx "

Do people look at us on the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and very nice profile hehe

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Messaged a couple with similar interests to us I found from surfing friends of friends profiles.

They asked how I found them so I said, friends of friends surfing.

They messaged back, quite angry, and said basically that they dont like people who surf profiles.

Is it me..or is that the point of a profile?

"

it is... i can also see where there other couple is coming from because i know of friends that have met me.. and then had mail saying

"well you have met him, so I am sure you will meet me"..

or used it to abuse

"well you met him, why on earth will you not meet me"

when i heard people were using it like this my first reaction for a while was to not show meets and friends lists......

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Indo look at friends friends profile. Imhave messaged them tho

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By *rs White OP   Couple
over a year ago

South


"Messaged a couple with similar interests to us I found from surfing friends of friends profiles.

They asked how I found them so I said, friends of friends surfing.

They messaged back, quite angry, and said basically that they dont like people who surf profiles.

Is it me..or is that the point of a profile?

it is... i can also see where there other couple is coming from because i know of friends that have met me.. and then had mail saying

"well you have met him, so I am sure you will meet me"..

or used it to abuse

"well you met him, why on earth will you not meet me"

when i heard people were using it like this my first reaction for a while was to not show meets and friends lists......"

We would Never ever do anything like that, always try to be polite! and we answer the majority of messages if only to say thanks but no thanks!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

only way this would annoy me is if the person who messaged deliberatly named dropped the mutual friend trying to use it as a "pass" for a meet . i had it just recently where the fem said ohh as "X" said you were a lovely person thought you be ideal for a last minute meet .they got told i need to suss people out for myself and just because i got on with "x" doesnt mean theyd be my type .

dont see why anyone has to avoid messaging a person just because they have a mutual friend but tact and discretion a must

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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We would Never ever do anything like that, always try to be polite! and we answer the majority of messages if only to say thanks but no thanks!"

.. but being on the other end of it and seeing how it can be used against others I can understand that people can be twitchy..... I was horrified when I heard about it... I know people who have tried to use my name to get meets in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon you've had a lucky escape, and they've saved you the trouble of having to meet people who simply don't think you are good enough for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messaged a couple with similar interests to us I found from surfing friends of friends profiles.

They asked how I found them so I said, friends of friends surfing.

They messaged back, quite angry, and said basically that they dont like people who surf profiles.

Is it me..or is that the point of a profile?

"

Carry on, at least you are able to out the bad tempered old gits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally cant see owt wrong in that lol

Its like when folk moan about look at me profiles in the forums

I was always of the understanding that that that's the whole point of a profile on a swinging site

I could however be wrong xx

Do people look at us on the forums? "

Yes, very nice too.

People will be complaining of being watched when they go doggini, at this rate

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I surf profiles all the time .. how are you supposed to get to know people.. Anyway im nosy..I like to see who is meeting whom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally cant see owt wrong in that lol

Its like when folk moan about look at me profiles in the forums

I was always of the understanding that that that's the whole point of a profile on a swinging site

I could however be wrong xx

Do people look at us on the forums? "

aye, looking good there, albeit your numbered list is a bit prescriptive, makes you sound strict! lol

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By *rs White OP   Couple
over a year ago

South


"only way this would annoy me is if the person who messaged deliberatly named dropped the mutual friend trying to use it as a "pass" for a meet . i had it just recently where the fem said ohh as "X" said you were a lovely person thought you be ideal for a last minute meet .they got told i need to suss people out for myself and just because i got on with "x" doesnt mean theyd be my type .

dont see why anyone has to avoid messaging a person just because they have a mutual friend but tact and discretion a must "

I couldn't and wouldn't tell them who it was, due to the delay in the reply I couldn't remember anyway! Discretion is everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We would Never ever do anything like that, always try to be polite! and we answer the majority of messages if only to say thanks but no thanks!

.. but being on the other end of it and seeing how it can be used against others I can understand that people can be twitchy..... I was horrified when I heard about it... I know people who have tried to use my name to get meets in the past"

It didn't work so they stopped doing it? ......... oni jokin, yer luvleee xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messaged a couple with similar interests to us I found from surfing friends of friends profiles.

They asked how I found them so I said, friends of friends surfing.

They messaged back, quite angry, and said basically that they dont like people who surf profiles.

Is it me..or is that the point of a profile?

"

You should reply back "lolwut?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We would Never ever do anything like that, always try to be polite! and we answer the majority of messages if only to say thanks but no thanks!

.. but being on the other end of it and seeing how it can be used against others I can understand that people can be twitchy..... I was horrified when I heard about it... I know people who have tried to use my name to get meets in the past"
........ Lmfao

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