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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive been quite saddened by a number of posts on a number of threads this morning

When people die through accident,drug taking murder or war we should not be distracted from the fact that however they died they are likely too have left a big hole in someones life

Death affects us all and we should do well to remember there fa the grace of god go I (To coin a phrase)

Life in my opinion is too short to concentrate on the short comings and lives of others

And after the last few days events in Oslo and the same with Amy and all our lads that fight and perish

We should do well to take time out and think of their families and friends who will be missing them deeply whatever the circumstances of their death xx

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

"Ive been quite saddened by a number of posts on a number of threads this morning

When people die through accident,drug taking murder or war we should not be distracted from the fact that however they died they are likely too have left a big hole in someones life

Death affects us all and we should do well to remember there fa the grace of god go I (To coin a phrase)

Life in my opinion is too short to concentrate on the short comings and lives of others

And after the last few days events in Oslo and the same with Amy and all our lads that fight and perish

We should do well to take time out and think of their families and friends who will be missing them deeply whatever the circumstances of their death xx"

Well said

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Ive been quite saddened by a number of posts on a number of threads this morning

When people die through accident,drug taking murder or war we should not be distracted from the fact that however they died they are likely too have left a big hole in someones life

Death affects us all and we should do well to remember there fa the grace of god go I (To coin a phrase)

Life in my opinion is too short to concentrate on the short comings and lives of others

And after the last few days events in Oslo and the same with Amy and all our lads that fight and perish

We should do well to take time out and think of their families and friends who will be missing them deeply whatever the circumstances of their death xx

Well said

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thank you! Exactly how I feel!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"We should do well to take time out and think of their families and friends who will be missing them deeply whatever the circumstances of their death xx"

This is exactly how I feel about it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well put and said, cheers.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Soapy talks sense to me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is how I feel about it too Soapy.

Regardless of how someone dies, I find it very sad that people cant feel a little compassion. Now ok Im making an assumption that noone on this forum knew any of the people on the news that have died this weekend. And whilst it has shocked, it hasnt affected us, probably none of us are crying and we're posting and cooking our sunday lunches at the same time.

We are all going to die, not all of us will die peacefully in our sleep when we are 100 from old age. We may all develop illness which have been exacerabated by our lifestyles. Like I said on another post, smokers may develop cancers or hardening of the arteries, people who eat a lot of fat may develop heart disease etc etc, we all know this. None of us are perfect, we probably all do something to our bodies which is not healthy.

It would be nice to think that when we go people will feel compassion and loss for us, regardless of what we died from.

The thing that annoys me the most is when people make jokes out of celebrity death or tragedy. I think its disgusting.

Thankfully I am grateful that Im not that type of person and I am certainly glad that I am not a hard hearted person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soapy... you are as calm as a Hindu cow pal.

Well said. +1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have lost two friends early in life, and thats why now i life for today and not tomorrow and do all that i can because u never know when its your turn to go.

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By *outhlondondudeMan
over a year ago

london

Thank you for saying this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for saying this."

Plus one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well said that man

It is always sad when a life is lost however it is lost, its the hole it leaves in the lives of those left behind that saddens me most, the questions left unanswered, the words left unsaid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Soapy and Iconic xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very well said what man?

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

thinking of my mum today as race for life is happening.

with my job im always losing someone all you can do is make the last days as peaceful and painfree as you can and most of all let them know your there with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your so right xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, we move on from this world but it is the people we leave that have the hardest suffereing.

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

here here, oh great sage soapy darling, xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I think of death, and of late the idea has come with alarming frequency, I seem at peace with the idea that a day will dawn when I will no longer be among those living in this valley of strange humours.

I can accept the idea of my own demise, but I am unable to accept the death of anyone else.

I find it impossible to let a friend or relative go into that country of no return.

Disbelief becomes my close companion, and anger follows in its wake.

I answer the heroic question 'Death, where is thy sting? ' with the following reponse :

' it is here in my heart and mind and memories.'

Maya Angelou

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

very well said soapy and iconic, i think you both have summed up what most people think xx

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By *quamarina1964Woman
over a year ago

Bideford

Always in life there will be moments like this! Unfortunately it does happen! But although i do feel for amy's family, what people seem to forget is, there are many people fighting for our country and they get killed doing just that, fighting for our freedom! I respect them and there familes, but dont see any threads for those people! R.I.P the many people in service for our country, may your spirits soar high and continue to guide us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on Soapy.

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

Well said Soapy xx

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