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"I'm brutally honest. I call it how I see it. No point sugar coating bullshit! But I do bite my tongue sometimes" I'm the same. A bit of diplomacy can be needed on occasion. | |||
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"I'm a lot better now than when I was younger I'll tell you that. " Fucking hell | |||
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"I'm a lot better now than when I was younger I'll tell you that. Fucking hell " Don't start. | |||
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"Not many compensations for getting older .......But I think the more mature you become the more able you get to make the right decision more quickly.... In your face youngsters ,... " How many years left again | |||
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"I'm brutally honest. I call it how I see it. No point sugar coating bullshit! But I do bite my tongue sometimes" This for me, but I need to bite my tongue more! | |||
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"Not many compensations for getting older .......But I think the more mature you become the more able you get to make the right decision more quickly.... In your face youngsters ,... " | |||
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"Not many compensations for getting older .......But I think the more mature you become the more able you get to make the right decision more quickly.... In your face youngsters ,... How many years left again " At your age not the sort of thing you should waste too much time thinking about..... | |||
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"I meant bollocks... not bullocks. Oops " Forsooth, acting is all about learning yer lines innit sis Exit stage left | |||
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"I do. I prefer to lift people up rather than not. However, I'm honest, and part of lifting people up might be calling them out on occasion, rather than doing them a disservice by ignoring or colluding with behaviour I don't appreciate. I can be very feisty and have a low tolerance for blinkered self righteousness, and I know that I can be tough. I am aware I'm not perfect and can own my shit, and I'm always willing to explain my view to those that would like to listen. I find people fascinating and how they interact and portray themselves very interesting." I will back that up 100%. | |||
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"Similar to another thread I know, but do you think before you do or say something? I usually don't and end up putting my foot in it. What about you?" Actually after reading this again i realised that i only bother about what i say to people i love and thats a handfull of people. The rest, well i say whatever comes to mind at the time | |||
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"I'm brutally honest. I call it how I see it. No point sugar coating bullshit! But I do bite my tongue sometimes" I am the same | |||
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"Similar to another thread I know, but do you think before you do or say something? I usually don't and end up putting my foot in it. What about you? Actually after reading this again i realised that i only bother about what i say to people i love and thats a handfull of people. The rest, well i say whatever comes to mind at the time " Have you ever thought about what you say might affect those people though? | |||
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"Similar to another thread I know, but do you think before you do or say something? I usually don't and end up putting my foot in it. What about you? Actually after reading this again i realised that i only bother about what i say to people i love and thats a handfull of people. The rest, well i say whatever comes to mind at the time Have you ever thought about what you say might affect those people though? " Obviously not at the time, i would guess that all those on this thread who have admitted to speaking without thinking first havnt thought how it might affect those people. Generally im not particularily bothered how it would affect others anyway. I do take care about people i love though so with them i think before i speak. However, despite what is thought about me, i am a kind person and most of what i say to others is nice so it would affect them in a good way. Not everyone is negative or nasty. | |||
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"Similar to another thread I know, but do you think before you do or say something? I usually don't and end up putting my foot in it. What about you? Actually after reading this again i realised that i only bother about what i say to people i love and thats a handfull of people. The rest, well i say whatever comes to mind at the time Have you ever thought about what you say might affect those people though? Obviously not at the time, i would guess that all those on this thread who have admitted to speaking without thinking first havnt thought how it might affect those people. Generally im not particularily bothered how it would affect others anyway. I do take care about people i love though so with them i think before i speak. However, despite what is thought about me, i am a kind person and most of what i say to others is nice so it would affect them in a good way. Not everyone is negative or nasty." Exactly, my post wasn't necessarily aimed at what you were saying. I am neither negative nor nasty, but just try to come across as honest as I can be. Some people can take things in a negative way though don't you think? | |||
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"To be honest I think most posters on here are guilty of this to some extent including myself. It doesn't make us bad people but we are human to which we are always go to make mistakes. I know I have upset people on here by my tongue in cheek comments and I have Ben upset buy other people's comments. It would be nice to think I would bite my tongue every time as I do not go out of my way to upset anyone......but as said I'm only human. " Even in my spelling mistakes | |||
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"I do. I prefer to lift people up rather than not. However, I'm honest, and part of lifting people up might be calling them out on occasion, rather than doing them a disservice by ignoring or colluding with behaviour I don't appreciate. I can be very feisty and have a low tolerance for blinkered self righteousness, and I know that I can be tough. I am aware I'm not perfect and can own my shit, and I'm always willing to explain my view to those that would like to listen. I find people fascinating and how they interact and portray themselves very interesting. I will back that up 100%. " Grins. Yep, I've pulled you up in love! You know it's in love though. Hugs. | |||
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"Similar to another thread I know, but do you think before you do or say something? I usually don't and end up putting my foot in it. What about you? Actually after reading this again i realised that i only bother about what i say to people i love and thats a handfull of people. The rest, well i say whatever comes to mind at the time Have you ever thought about what you say might affect those people though? Obviously not at the time, i would guess that all those on this thread who have admitted to speaking without thinking first havnt thought how it might affect those people. Generally im not particularily bothered how it would affect others anyway. I do take care about people i love though so with them i think before i speak. However, despite what is thought about me, i am a kind person and most of what i say to others is nice so it would affect them in a good way. Not everyone is negative or nasty. Exactly, my post wasn't necessarily aimed at what you were saying. I am neither negative nor nasty, but just try to come across as honest as I can be. Some people can take things in a negative way though don't you think? " If you are truly interested then ask others who answered the same as me. | |||
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