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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

My regular didn't know my daughter's name. 6 months every week with a small social

It suprised me more than upset me or anything, quite funny.

But just made me think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even wanna know their names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much, sometimes I dont even know their name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a daughter?

I dunno, i try and know at least a little bit about the person I'm meeting beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find people tend to reveal more of themselves to me than I do to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My regular didn't know my daughter's name. 6 months every week with a small social

It suprised me more than upset me or anything, quite funny.

But just made me think "

I get to know some people loads and not manage to agree a date to meet

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

I prefer that they know next to nothing. I'm an exceptionally private person and my real life never crosses over with Fab. Two men who I've known for over 5 years and still see regularly know my real name and what I do for work but no one else. It's not important in Fab world for me. Maybe I'm going to be the odd one out here...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't talk about my private life to my family, so I'm hardly likely to talk about it to a one night stand.

My ex FB knew about my daughter, as we were seeing each other for nearly 10 years. But I am unlikely to mention her to people I barely know.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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More than they know about me.

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

some I couldn't even tell you there names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how to turn them on, if I can trust them, there temperament etc, takes time but I do pay attention, not a one and kind of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends, some people know little bits and very few lots. I'm protective of my family so don't share much about them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what they want you to know

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I prefer that they know next to nothing. I'm an exceptionally private person and my real life never crosses over with Fab. Two men who I've known for over 5 years and still see regularly know my real name and what I do for work but no one else. It's not important in Fab world for me. Maybe I'm going to be the odd one out here... "

that makes me feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fuck buddy knows every tiny detail about me.

Other people nothing at all. Sometimes go as far as to lie to throw them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 02/06/17 18:12:52]

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Quite a lot actually. I'm not a dog so will always have a conversation with people before sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know lots but that comes with talking and making a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the only meet I've had sex with off here, (after meeting four times and talking for six months) he didn't even ask my name until after we'd had sex. And he had my number saved in his phone under the name of the town I live in.

Bad taste on my part!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

People seem to tell me everything about their lives and I tend to be a bit more secretive.

I always give my real name though just in case I ever bump into them when I'm out with non fab friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the only meet I've had sex with off here, (after meeting four times and talking for six months) he didn't even ask my name until after we'd had sex. And he had my number saved in his phone under the name of the town I live in.

Bad taste on my part! "

Hmmm not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people I socialize with on fab know far more about me than the people I have sex with do. And I like it that way.

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"With the only meet I've had sex with off here, (after meeting four times and talking for six months) he didn't even ask my name until after we'd had sex. And he had my number saved in his phone under the name of the town I live in.

Bad taste on my part! "

it's not just men that do that. lol

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Too bloody much and they know too much about me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all relative, the longer we've going on regularly meeting someone the more they know about us and the more we know about them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the only meet I've had sex with off here, (after meeting four times and talking for six months) he didn't even ask my name until after we'd had sex. And he had my number saved in his phone under the name of the town I live in.

Bad taste on my part!

Hmmm not good "

In hindsight, nope!

Though I've been talking to my next meet for nine months, and they know quite a fair bit about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very little...nor do I want to. I have several regular meets, some of whom don't even know my real name, let alone my childrens'!

I don't share personal information with anyone on Fab, and I don't ask for theirs either.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

A lot.... By the time I'm sleeping with someone I know them very well. I need that to be able to trust someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the only meet I've had sex with off here, (after meeting four times and talking for six months) he didn't even ask my name until after we'd had sex. And he had my number saved in his phone under the name of the town I live in.

Bad taste on my part!

it's not just men that do that. lol "

I do like to know their name not surname of course but not good calling someone bigcock when you meet them for coffee is it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's just a ONS then as little as possible

If it's a fwb then as much as they want to give out. I always like finding things out about people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much, certainly not much that people will remember I hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the only meet I've had sex with off here, (after meeting four times and talking for six months) he didn't even ask my name until after we'd had sex. And he had my number saved in his phone under the name of the town I live in.

Bad taste on my part!

it's not just men that do that. lol

I do like to know their name not surname of course but not good calling someone bigcock when you meet them for coffee is it lol "

You could go for Mr Cock, or the more informal Big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it depends on the guy. Sometimes it's natural to chat about stuff, sometimes it's just not appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads and loads. Men love talking about themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know everything. I rifle through there purse whilst they're not looking. I open up there phone and search the rough photos. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much, certainly not much that people will remember I hope. "

Some of us will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much, certainly not much that people will remember I hope.

Some of us will "

I told you R stands for Reginald

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, not much really. After all, being a man I just do all the talking and don't listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much, certainly not much that people will remember I hope.

Some of us will

I told you R stands for Reginald "

Lol and S stands for Selma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically just what I want them to know

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I talk too much about private stuff with people I spend the night with or an entire evening.

For quickies they know nothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People we meet regularly probably know a fair bit about us and vice versa, but we don't talk in any detail about our family or work, keep things like that very vague. That suits us, would rather talk about shared interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even wanna know their names "

Oh Andy

Err...Stephen

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Ballgags come in handy.

So do scarfs

Gag those men who like to talk too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine there are people married for years who are unfortunately shocked by how little they know of their partners.

So FBs really pale into insignificance as they're only FBs.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Oh, not much really. After all, being a man I just do all the talking and don't listen "

Correct

All about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much, certainly not much that people will remember I hope.

Some of us will

I told you R stands for Reginald

Lol and S stands for Selma "

Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends, some people know little bits and very few lots. I'm protective of my family so don't share much about them x "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by Liam Neeson at 02/06/17 18:32:23]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much, certainly not much that people will remember I hope.

Some of us will

I told you R stands for Reginald

Lol and S stands for Selma

Ha!"

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"[Removed by Liam Neeson at 02/06/17 18:32:23]

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Shhhh no one was supposed to know I'm really a man

Anyway. I have acquired a very specific set of skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to divulge too much info... some people try to talk too much... snogging their faces off usually stops all that nonsense

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I try not to divulge too much info... some people try to talk too much... snogging their faces off usually stops all that nonsense"

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know she fucking steels the duvet and some how manages to take up 9/10ths of a queen sized bed even though she's 9/10ths my size

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I know she fucking steels the duvet and some how manages to take up 9/10ths of a queen sized bed even though she's 9/10ths my size "

And she is your Queen

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk. "

Vee have vays of making you talk....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some people use false names, even if you think you know that

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I tend to know more about them than they know about me. Locals don't tend to know my work or even my name. But I enjoy finding out things about another person, dosnt matter how much contact I have with them. people are just interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know she fucking steels the duvet and some how manages to take up 9/10ths of a queen sized bed even though she's 9/10ths my size

And she is your Queen "

Well.... I do think she'd like to break free

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The last girl I slept with, I worked with, so I knew a bit about her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk.... "

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by Liam Neeson at 02/06/17 18:32:23]

Shhhh no one was supposed to know I'm really a man

Anyway. I have acquired a very specific set of skills."

Understood. I ain't seen ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly like to get to know them...but not full on family tree get to know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk....

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that "

It *was* my intent too

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"[Removed by Liam Neeson at 02/06/17 18:32:23]

Shhhh no one was supposed to know I'm really a man

Anyway. I have acquired a very specific set of skills.

Understood. I ain't seen ya "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk....

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that

It *vas* my intent too "

Ftfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk....

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that

It *vas* my intent too

Ftfy "

Vee ask zee questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk....

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that

It *vas* my intent too

Ftfy

Vee ask zee questions "

I'm vatching you two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them very little. I don't give out personal info and i don't probe them for any. I've known some guys for years and met them many times yet they still don't know my surname, where I live, my kids names even what job I do. It's totally irrelevant to my fab life. Discretion is everything to me. I love meeting people and not have to talk about work and kids and family life. It's really liberating and part of the fun for me....although because of the way I meet hubby does get a little more than a mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk....

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that

It *vas* my intent too

Ftfy

Vee ask zee questions

I'm vatching you two. "

Ohhhhhhhhhh Renè....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to give away much anyway, but will happily answer pretty much anything honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My regular didn't know my daughter's name. 6 months every week with a small social

It suprised me more than upset me or anything, quite funny.

But just made me think "
think most people wouldnt know much more about me than my name and age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk....

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that

It *vas* my intent too

Ftfy

Vee ask zee questions

I'm vatching you two.

Ohhhhhhhhhh Renè.... "

Michelle?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some, nothing at all, some people i can't even remember what they look like any more but some know a great deal and have become very close fiends. such is human interaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest partners I know their jobs and where they live. One I know a little about his family but only his brother's name. Other than that, I don't know much else; we don't talk about personal stuff. Nothing is kept secret, we just don't do questions and answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some I felt comfortable chatting with and got to know a little about them.

Most just general chit chat.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"You know what they want you to know"

Exactly!

I was meeting with someone who convinced me he was a widower..

Some I have known for ages know my real name and I know theirs. Others I still only know their Fab name, even though we have been meeting for years.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk....

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that

It *vas* my intent too

Ftfy

Vee ask zee questions

I'm vatching you two.

Ohhhhhhhhhh Renè....

Michelle?... "

Allo allo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different some people know me well some don't and visa versa I don't always want to know everything about someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to meet couples for socials 1st so get to know a little about each other. Can't all be fruity talk

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Not much usually. Its private and don't want to know details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much usually. Its private and don't want to know details"
.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk....

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that

It *vas* my intent too

Ftfy

Vee ask zee questions

I'm vatching you two.

Ohhhhhhhhhh Renè....

Michelle?...

Allo allo"

I'm barely resisting going in to Del Trotter franglaise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I'm sleeping with...??? Chance would be a fine thing haha

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Everything. I have ways of making people talk.

Vee have vays of making you talk....

I'm so glad it wasn't just me that thought that

It *vas* my intent too

Ftfy

Vee ask zee questions

I'm vatching you two.

Ohhhhhhhhhh Renè....

Michelle?...

Allo allo

I'm barely resisting going in to Del Trotter franglaise... "

Mangetout g3orgie

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It varies from person to person and also how many times you meet then

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