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By *ustle7174 OP   Couple
over a year ago

grimsby

Me personally, it's only even been gay men.

I've never had a woman come on to me. I must smell of marriage or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get chatted up

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Fair bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

Kinky

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Depends on where I am. Some bars quite a bit. Others not so much. Yeah, it varies.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Quite often, but then again that is what we like to do, go out on the pull so MrsH is quite flirty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where I am and who im with. Most of my friends are guys so people assume one is my boyfriend!

If im with the girls guys approach me but my shyness sometimes comes across as disinterest which sucks at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually once...

Couple more if am lucky...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Never

I hate going out for drinks with one of my friends through. He get's chatted up all the time. Mind you he is good looking and does modelling.

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By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't. I hide in corners of pubs. I've been chatted up by a couple of my customers. It's flattering, but that's all.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

A night out??? What's that???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely... sucks being a Shrek lookalikey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this one guy try and undo the zip on my dress in the middle of the dance floor. He didn't even say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very rarely... sucks being a Shrek lookalikey "

Whaaaaaaat!!!

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I never get chatted up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happens

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By *ni_ladMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Actually a fair bit recently, but it's all very clear to see why! They see me waiting at the bar to buy a drink and think they can hop in flutter their eyelashes and grab a free drink before they're off again

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By *ni_ladMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"I never get chatted up "

How?! You're stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this one guy try and undo the zip on my dress in the middle of the dance floor. He didn't even say hello. "
some strange ones out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't let me out much but it's happened once or twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very rarely... sucks being a Shrek lookalikey "
sorry I don't believe you look like shrek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally, it's only even been gay men.

I've never had a woman come on to me. I must smell of marriage or something "
never go out except swinging.. so never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very rarely... sucks being a Shrek lookalikey

Whaaaaaaat!!! "

Oops... did I not mention that before PB?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a night out? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very rarely... sucks being a Shrek lookalikey

Whaaaaaaat!!!

Oops... did I not mention that before PB?!"

You do a cracking job with the makeup then Minxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times wouldn't call it chatting up but certainly got some numbers by the end of it..

I even use to talk bollocks that sounded real and see if it floats, this soon turned into a game with the lads haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *ran_can_twoCouple
over a year ago

Me,very rarely.But mrs GC2 was chatted up the other night by 3 blokes and I'd only left her 5 minutes to go the toilet in the bar we were in !! Mind you I can't blame them,she was wearing a sexy little black dress with bright _ed shoes that show her sexy pins off nicely !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.I'm too old to get chatted up these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. Last time was probably when i was 17.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often,, mainly by d*unken older men who want a fumble or blokes who are fascinated by my boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never. Last time was probably when i was 17. "

Hi Tatt Guy

Do you come here often??

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By *ollyDayDreamerWoman
over a year ago

Gorleston

Never get chatted up......I have a RBF & it must put folk off......

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I do alright!

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Every time I go out .that's usually 2 or 3 times a week

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Almost every day

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Every time I'm out at least once

Went on a socialitger day with a female fab friend and pulled the pubs manager that we were both perving over

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Every time I'm out at least once

Went on a socialitger day with a female fab friend and pulled the pubs manager that we were both perving over "

* Social other day

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Quite often,, mainly by d*unken older men who want a fumble or blokes who are fascinated by my boobs.

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... they are lovely looking

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Male half never. Female all the time wherever we go lol

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I don't put myself in the position of being chatted up these days but years ago, unless anyone made it overtly clear that's what they were doing I mostly didn't have a clue because I'm so bad at reading signals, making eye contact or responding in kind (because I usually didn't know what was happening!).

On the rare times I recognised it for what it was it was inevitably someone pissed out of their skull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally, it's only even been gay men.

I've never had a woman come on to me. I must smell of marriage or something "

Never lol x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Erm... I wouldn't say I get chatted up much, I'm more of a

gimmick. Getting patted on the head and taken the piss out of for being a short arse.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Rarely!! I probably wouldn't realise anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, never.

Mrs N, all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often but mostly get just sta_ed at lol...probably cos dancing like a crazy woman ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember the last time I was chatted up (unless it was the shoe lady a couple of weeks ago!).

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Not sure if I ever have been

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Now and again. I'm too polite and end up chatting for too long with people I'm not interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. Or i just never notice lol

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Rarely when I'm down in the locals, don't want to anyway of being asked who's she?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never. Last time was probably when i was 17.

Hi Tatt Guy

Do you come here often?? "

Too often.

Think I need a break!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely, but out in Bristol tomorrow afternoon/evening so will see if i can do better

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been on a night out for ages but I pull every time I've ever been out, never actually gone home with anyone though. Don't know what the penis will be like, I take their number and get back to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just this Saturday gone a couple of girls and I do mean girls latched on to my mates and myself, took us quite a while to shake them off, we were old enough to be their fathers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been known to happen, but not as often as I'd like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never .... and I am being serious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Never. I am either totally unattractive or totally unapproachable. I like to think it's the latter but who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never .... and I am being serious..."

What!? You've never been in a bar or nightclub and had a guy offer to get you a drink or give you the look or flat out ask for your number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much never, I'm usually out with my 2 guy mates and everyone presumes one's my fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty much never, I'm usually out with my 2 guy mates and everyone presumes one's my fella "

Without them though there'd definitely be a queue to chat you up

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Quite often, but then again that is what we like to do, go out on the pull so MrsH is quite flirty. "

Same here , love it when my wife gets chatted up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

Let's see how many white knights dare to jump on that one

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Never.I'm too old to get chatted up these days "

Get outta here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost every time. Not number exchanging; I don't do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never .... and I am being serious...

What!? You've never been in a bar or nightclub and had a guy offer to get you a drink or give you the look or flat out ask for your number? "

Nope ... I smell bullshit and idiots and dismiss them ... You have to break through a wall with me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never.

Let's see how many white knights dare to jump on that one "

What about a white knightdress?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never .... and I am being serious...

What!? You've never been in a bar or nightclub and had a guy offer to get you a drink or give you the look or flat out ask for your number?

Nope ... I smell bullshit and idiots and dismiss them ... You have to break through a wall with me first "

Yeah but even if you dismiss them you still pull in the first place.

I can't see what guys have in their pants so I never go home with anyone on a night out, I still pull though. Pulling (to me) is generating interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never .... and I am being serious...

What!? You've never been in a bar or nightclub and had a guy offer to get you a drink or give you the look or flat out ask for your number?

Nope ... I smell bullshit and idiots and dismiss them ... You have to break through a wall with me first "

I can confirm it's a wall well worth breaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never.

Let's see how many white knights dare to jump on that one

What about a white knightdress? "

They are much harder. ..but I think even the white knights know they are wasting their time trying to blow smoke up my arse

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

Got chatted up a few weeks ago and have been out a cpl of times since.nothing to serious at the moment but who knows where it gonna lead.mite have to delete the profile if it gets serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never.

Let's see how many white knights dare to jump on that one

What about a white knightdress?

They are much harder. ..but I think even the white knights know they are wasting their time trying to blow smoke up my arse "

Nah, I'm after her husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i do ok on the odd occasion i head to the local towns/bars so can't complain and it's appreciated.

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By *AYSALCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Ive never been chatted up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously for anyone never to get chatted up. ..you must be sending out some seriously miserable fuck off vibes! Even us ugly fatties get chatted up!

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path

yes all the time but i dont know why i dont think im anythig special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never .... and I am being serious...

What!? You've never been in a bar or nightclub and had a guy offer to get you a drink or give you the look or flat out ask for your number?

Nope ... I smell bullshit and idiots and dismiss them ... You have to break through a wall with me first

I can confirm it's a wall well worth breaking "

You are tall enough to jump over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously for anyone never to get chatted up. ..you must be sending out some seriously miserable fuck off vibes! Even us ugly fatties get chatted up! "

What ugly fatties ?? Come on seriously ??

I tried to chat a guy in a club at Xmas... I think he thought I was taking the piss ... and I wasn't d*unk

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Not really. I'm chatty so I chat to people... I think they might think I'm chatting them up.

I have a mild bit of flirting that doesn't lead to anything that could be conside_ed chatting up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never "

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very often I get approached doesn't mean I'll engage with everyone. But I guess it's my exotic look that attracts them and my irresistible smile

Alex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get chatted up I must project a stay away vibe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never! I am oblivious to flirting (unless at a swinging event) because I am shy. Mr Jane often spots people flirting with me though. My friends tell me i come across as aloof and i give "fuck off" vibes!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Its never happened.

Once some d*unk guy on holiday tried and I was horrified.. my sons even more so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its never happened.

Once some d*unk guy on holiday tried and I was horrified.. my sons even more so. "
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Sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When am sober sometimes Been told am a bit aloof

After a few drinks, a get chatted up often more approachable, so I've been told

Ladies your chat up lines are just as bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to when I was younger and slimmer!

Now - very rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going out with most of you lot. ..I might even pull then!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Never unless it's a fab organised social.

I do get chatted up in supermarkets occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I got chatted up in church once, I thought I had imagined it as I was still slightly inebriated from the night before, but no he followed it up a couple of weeks later with an apology - he was only 40 yrs my senior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

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By *layboi69Man
over a year ago

alfreton

Once thats all lol never really chat up either ill talk if we click then step 2

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm out with a lady friend..yes.

...or when I was out with my ex girlfriend it happened quite a lot.

Very RARELY when I'm out on my own with my mates.

It's weird.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

If I'm out with a lady friend..yes.

...or when I was out with my ex girlfriend it happened quite a lot.

Very RARELY when I'm out on my own with my mates.

It's weird. "

I get approached more when I am with a man, swinging and ordinary world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, sometimes I'm windmilling around the dance floor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If I'm out with a lady friend..yes.

...or when I was out with my ex girlfriend it happened quite a lot.

Very RARELY when I'm out on my own with my mates.

It's weird.

I get approached more when I am with a man, swinging and ordinary world.

"

I genuinely wonder if there has ever been a study on why that is.

There must be a reason for it. It's really weird.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, sometimes I'm windmilling around the dance floor. "

In those shoes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens sometimes but normally I think they are just being nice until my friends tell me that they are chatting me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If I'm out with a lady friend..yes.

...or when I was out with my ex girlfriend it happened quite a lot.

Very RARELY when I'm out on my own with my mates.

It's weird.

I get approached more when I am with a man, swinging and ordinary world.

I genuinely wonder if there has ever been a study on why that is.

There must be a reason for it. It's really weird."

It's not rocket science. Groups of guys/ girls are far more intimidating than a guy out with one other person. ..even if it does appear to be their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's not rocket science. Groups of guys/ girls are far more intimidating than a guy out with one other person. ..even if it does appear to be their partner. "

I would have thought there was nothing more intimidating than approaching somebody who is out with their partner or somebody who could be their partner.

I'd find that the most intimidating scenario ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's not rocket science. Groups of guys/ girls are far more intimidating than a guy out with one other person. ..even if it does appear to be their partner.

I would have thought there was nothing more intimidating than approaching somebody who is out with their partner or somebody who could be their partner.

I'd find that the most intimidating scenario ever."

I'd rather do that than approach someone who is part of a group. No chance. I don't want them all taking the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never!

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

I don't either ....but when I was married I did ....yeah I know its ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's not rocket science. Groups of guys/ girls are far more intimidating than a guy out with one other person. ..even if it does appear to be their partner.

I would have thought there was nothing more intimidating than approaching somebody who is out with their partner or somebody who could be their partner.

I'd find that the most intimidating scenario ever.

I'd rather do that than approach someone who is part of a group. No chance. I don't want them all taking the piss. "

Ssssh

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Much more so since hitting my 40'S..when younger very rarely.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

As Chris.... Never, as Chrissy a surprising amount.

Most are intrigued when I open my gob as it doesn't add up I swear lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time will be the first...

But then I'm that thick that unless they beat me with a brick and carried me away I'm not sure I would think they were being anything other than friendly

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By *cenario-xxxMan
over a year ago

Salford

Chatted up??? What's that when it's at home???

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

God, loads of times.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of all the times I have been on a night out I can safely say, in my teens a lot. In my 20s, ummm... I don't think it has happened yet.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Of all the times I have been on a night out I can safely say, in my teens a lot. In my 20s, ummm... I don't think it has happened yet. "

Wait til you get to your fifties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this one guy try and undo the zip on my dress in the middle of the dance floor. He didn't even say hello. "

I imagine your clothes do look better off you than on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's not rocket science. Groups of guys/ girls are far more intimidating than a guy out with one other person. ..even if it does appear to be their partner.

I would have thought there was nothing more intimidating than approaching somebody who is out with their partner or somebody who could be their partner.

I'd find that the most intimidating scenario ever."

Haha women don't seem to care seemingly. At least not in my experience. After all, they are just being 'friendly'

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

NEVER

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"NEVER "

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"NEVER

0

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Nuthing

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Hardly ever.

Even then, I usually don't realise and have a lightbulb moment about three days later. Kinda - "oh, that woman I was chatting with the other was nice.......wait a minute....".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If I have had enough alcohol to be chatty instead of being Betty Nomates in the Quiet Corner I do get chatted up. Mind you, there are a lot of chancers out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eh quite a few,always get drinks bought,,its nice as long as their not too pushy.

one guy asked me if I had any sisters,,i said yes but you would,nt like em as they don't have a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really have night outs as I rather spend my money on tuna

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Paul...never

Flik...around 4,362

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By *annGentMan
over a year ago

With a cracking view

Once, when I was in uniform !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once every hour.

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By *layboi69Man
over a year ago

alfreton


"Much more so since hitting my 40'S..when younger very rarely. "
i wouldnt mind getting caught in your web

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously for anyone never to get chatted up. ..you must be sending out some seriously miserable fuck off vibes! Even us ugly fatties get chatted up! "

Well I'd better work at becoming an ugly fattie then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's like the beatles film 'a hard day's night' every time i go out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

I got chatted too a while ago in a bar

I was on my own sat at the bar waiting for my friend and the guy sat next to me told me my shoes were fabulous and I had perfect ankles and legs for them ...

But he was definitely gay

Does getting chatted too count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the day when I actually had night's out it did happen occasionally

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Back in the day when I actually had night's out it did happen occasionally "

Same here!

Had a rare vanilla night out with a girl from work last night! We got chatted up (and eyed up by quite a few groups of guys) but that was really down to her as she's a gorgeous, petite Thai lady. I felt like one of Cinderella's ugly sisters sat next to her!

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By *wingcityMan
over a year ago

perth

I have to say that I am surprised at the amount of gorgeous women on here that say they don't get chatted up on a night out.

It's been a while since I was out but I can remember my girl mates always saying how bad it was, maybe they were just kidding on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously for anyone never to get chatted up. ..you must be sending out some seriously miserable fuck off vibes! Even us ugly fatties get chatted up! "

Well that's fucking charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never got chatted up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

Probably happened a few times while I was married . I'd not be able to tell if I was being chatted up it's been that long !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally has never happened... but then again, an ex did joke that I wag completely oblivious to anyone flirting with me

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulled tonight, and he was so fit.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get eyed up quite often but rarely approached. If I am approached on a night out they're usually very d*unk.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a pub or bar, I've had a few women approach.

Seems like the bottom of the food-chain on fab, isn't necessarily so irl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough, if ever (sigh) poor me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

Guys don't chat up big girls in front of their friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam fat and ugly so never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iam fat and ugly so never "

I find that hard to believe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never

Guys don't chat up big girls in front of their friends "

I wouldn't chat you up... but only because I'd assume you were already with someone xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never

Guys don't chat up big girls in front of their friends "

We do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iam fat and ugly so never

I find that hard to believe!

"
so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would add that, although I never get approached when out in the UK, in the Caribbean and southern Europe it's a different story. Men are much more confident there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Mrs gets attention from both sexes , gay guys flirt like hell with me which Makes me laugh & I find their humour absolutely funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would add that, although I never get approached when out in the UK, in the Caribbean and southern Europe it's a different story. Men are much more confident there."

I think the less politically correct the place, the more forward the men are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my youth I was frequently approached by women who made the first move. I don't go out so much now, but it still happens on occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very rarely... sucks being a Shrek lookalikey "

I'm pretty sure Shrek never liked like you, not even Mrs Shrek...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubbish. Besides, I like bigger girls. Lol

Let me know where you go out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never. I am either totally unattractive or totally unapproachable. I like to think it's the latter but who knows."

Not talking about you particularly as we've never met but there is a lot in what you say. Even the physically attractive can unconsciously appear unapproachable to people who really fancy them. It can be body language or expression, or even if they talk to you and don't get an encouraging response it won't go well. Most people who experience this don't realise the impression they are giving off. We are creatures of instinct and first impressions count for a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iam fat and ugly so never

I find that hard to believe!

so true "

Let me know when you're out then, I'll come find you!

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

A fair bit! I'm a chatty, friendly person though with good social skills which helps. X

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Never

I think I don't give off that vibe and being so tall, I think I intimidate them...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never

I think I don't give off that vibe and being so tall, I think I intimidate them...lol "

Yes some guys & women are intimidated by height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would add that, although I never get approached when out in the UK, in the Caribbean and southern Europe it's a different story. Men are much more confident there.

I think the less politically correct the place, the more forward the men are.

"

That's one way of looking at it. I am all for equality and respect, but too much political correctness makes the relationship between men and women confusing and complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would add that, although I never get approached when out in the UK, in the Caribbean and southern Europe it's a different story. Men are much more confident there.

I think the less politically correct the place, the more forward the men are.

That's one way of looking at it. I am all for equality and respect, but too much political correctness makes the relationship between men and women confusing and complicated."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never

I think I don't give off that vibe and being so tall, I think I intimidate them...lol

Yes some guys & women are intimidated by height "

I wouldn't say intimidated... just assume that I wouldn't be what you stunning ladies are after xxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you're going to the wrong places

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Maybe you're going to the wrong places "

You might be onto so. Ethiopia v there!

Although I was out in rugby Thursday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how dark the bar was. I once got chatted up with the line "do you want to be the mother of my children?"

There was two bars (when i was younger) where you were guaranteed to be chatted up. So if you'd not spied someone you fancied but still wanted a snog, that's where you went.

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