FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting prisoners

By *ophieslut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Would you have meets with prisoners, even if just socials, before full release? Would you filter by crime type? I've never been inside, in case you're deterred from meeting me

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By *ophieslut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No one have a view?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It would depend on the crime but theoretically yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have not been inside but quite A few have been inside you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, how hot she was and what crime was committed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one have a view?"

Personally I would steer clear.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

depends on what he has done I guess...

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

"Would you have meets with prisoners, even if just socials, before full release? Would you filter by crime type? I've never been inside, in case you're deterred from meeting me

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you might of met prisoner's without knowing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Burglars and car jackers might be OK but I'd avoid the murderers

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

No in my mind their debt to society hasnt been paid in my eyes.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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nope, i wouldn't. they'd probably start asking for money or me to bring them things they can use in prison. my ex has been in several times, i paid a tenner for him a radio then fucked him off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before full release? Have you been approached? They said they were getting out soon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. No. Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once spent the night in the cells for jokingly toe-punting a copper up the arse outside a kebab shop in Wandsworth. It was only a light tap.

Turns out they don't find that sort of caper at all funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once spent the night in the cells for jokingly toe-punting a copper up the arse outside a kebab shop in Wandsworth. It was only a light tap.

Turns out they don't find that sort of caper at all funny. "

And that surprises you, does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once spent the night in the cells for jokingly toe-punting a copper up the arse outside a kebab shop in Wandsworth. It was only a light tap.

Turns out they don't find that sort of caper at all funny.

And that surprises you, does it?"

Yes. I was borh hugely shocked and fascinated by the idea that someone in control of the general public's safety, who has an incredibly tough job, didn't enjoy being mocked by a d*unken idiot.

Who'd've thought?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't DSB our meets so might have met people who have served their time. Besides, there are far more criminals outside prison than were ever in it.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Yes, I'd meet someone who'd done bird. I believe in people's capacity to change and move their lives forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once spent the night in the cells for jokingly toe-punting a copper up the arse outside a kebab shop in Wandsworth. It was only a light tap.

Turns out they don't find that sort of caper at all funny. "

Good. There needs to be more respect for the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet them. It could cause problems with my job.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Dependent on their crime.

I don't view prisoners as different from anyone else.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I once spent the night in the cells for jokingly toe-punting a copper up the arse outside a kebab shop in Wandsworth. It was only a light tap.

Turns out they don't find that sort of caper at all funny.

And that surprises you, does it?

Yes. I was borh hugely shocked and fascinated by the idea that someone in control of the general public's safety, who has an incredibly tough job, didn't enjoy being mocked by a d*unken idiot.

Who'd've thought?"

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Some yes some no same as the rest of society there's some nutters just not been caught yet .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. I spent a lot of my younger life going out with people that had been in jail.

It would bring complecations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't touch it with a 10ft pole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent 17 years locking them up.... so a no from me!!!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I wouldn't meet them. It could cause problems with my job. "

I have a friend who inadvertently brought home a former armed robber. She only found out because her flatmate recognised hem as a former client from her previous job in the prison service.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the 1990s a friend of mine dated a guy who'd been in for armed robbery. Him and his co-robbers had got caught because as they came out of the village post-office they'd just done over, taking off their balaclavas, a bus load of Japanese tourists turned up, all happily snapping away

I wouldn't see an ex con.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I have met some with work and never to be trusted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lady who'd been in open prison in Tutbury some years ago. She looked like Sporty Spice & told me she was gagging for cock.

I wished I'd taken her up on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So inmates have access to fab?! Thats a new one. I'd of thought they had internet access monitored

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"So inmates have access to fab?! Thats a new one. I'd of thought they had internet access monitored"

Some prisoners get let out when they are close to release to do work in the community etc. I know of one who was a voluntary IT tutor when I was a volunteer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have no problem depending on crime they'd commi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd have no problem depending on crime they'd commi"

Commited. Was chatting to lad on here before and he'd just got out.he was in england otherwise I would have met him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend on the crime.

I was a prison custody officer in a category B all male prison and there were loads of fit handsome guys inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This brings back a nice memory from my old swinging days back in the day of contact mags, long before the internet.

I put an ad in and one of the replies was from a lass who was doing time for robbing off her employers. Well I'm the sort of man who believes everybody deserves a second chance in life, so replied.

To cut a long story short on her release I met her and shagged the arse off her for a good few months.

Thanks OP had completely forgotten about that till now

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful."

Hypocrisy? Is casual sex on a par with some of the worst crimes that can be committed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People always say "As long as you're not a serial killer".

How many people do you have to kill before you are classed as a serial killer?

If it's more than 7 I'm ok, any less I'm fucked!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody with less than National Security Vetting gets into knickers

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful."

Well yeah, I'd meet a guy that had been to prison for certain offences but not others, i.e. If he was partial to a bit of raping and murdering then I'd pass him by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So inmates have access to fab?! Thats a new one. I'd of thought they had internet access monitored"

i used to chat to my nephew on facebook at night.....the screws had no idea he had a phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once spent the night in the cells for jokingly toe-punting a copper up the arse outside a kebab shop in Wandsworth. It was only a light tap.

Turns out they don't find that sort of caper at all funny.

Good. There needs to be more respect for the police. "

i'll respect the individual, not the uniform. there are some great officers out there and some complete wankers so i'll respect them on a case by case basis..it's not automatic because of their badge.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If it's more than 7 I'm ok, any less I'm fucked!!!

3 or more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once spent the night in the cells for jokingly toe-punting a copper up the arse outside a kebab shop in Wandsworth. It was only a light tap.

Turns out they don't find that sort of caper at all funny.

And that surprises you, does it?

Yes. I was borh hugely shocked and fascinated by the idea that someone in control of the general public's safety, who has an incredibly tough job, didn't enjoy being mocked by a d*unken idiot.

Who'd've thought?"

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I once spent the night in the cells for jokingly toe-punting a copper up the arse outside a kebab shop in Wandsworth. It was only a light tap.

Turns out they don't find that sort of caper at all funny.

And that surprises you, does it?

Yes. I was borh hugely shocked and fascinated by the idea that someone in control of the general public's safety, who has an incredibly tough job, didn't enjoy being mocked by a d*unken idiot.

Who'd've thought?"

you should kinkily offer to be put in their handcuffs, they take that so much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful.

Hypocrisy? Is casual sex on a par with some of the worst crimes that can be committed?"

I assume only if your an idiot!

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By *ophieslut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

After I posted this I saw news of a supposedly dangerous prisoner on the run.

I admire people for their honesty and particularly for learning from their mistakes and wanting to repay society

It's easy to shag first though, before you know that they're just on day release etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet them. It could cause problems with my job.

I have a friend who inadvertently brought home a former armed robber. She only found out because her flatmate recognised hem as a former client from her previous job in the prison service."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful."

I would have to declare it because of my job, i wouldn't want to lose my job. What's wrong with me saying no ?

Apart from the problems it would cause in my job i wouldn't want to anyway because i have had enough of criminals trying to wreck my life. I simply wouldn't trust them either.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Pretty sure I wouldn't no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one have a view?

Personally I would steer clear."

Love your profile name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful.

Hypocrisy? Is casual sex on a par with some of the worst crimes that can be committed?

I assume only if your an idiot! "

* you're

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I once got talking to someone from pof,he didn't drive and his longest relationship was a year. I queried this as it seems a little strange for someone in his early forties. He told me as the conversation was heading toward's meeting that he's actually been in prison for the last 19 year's.

The conversation on my behalf slowly came to an end...

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

Here's a thought.... What if a prison was to organise and invite people to attend a greedy girls, milf or cougars and cubs night?

Would you go? How many takers do you think it would get?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Here's a thought.... What if a prison was to organise and invite people to attend a greedy girls, milf or cougars and cubs night?

Would you go? How many takers do you think it would get? "

Id go. Id pick my victims carefully.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

On a lighter note there's a very funny episode of 'Gimme, gimme,gimme' where Linda meets an escaped prisoner she's been corresponding with.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"On a lighter note there's a very funny episode of 'Gimme, gimme,gimme' where Linda meets an escaped prisoner she's been corresponding with."

Blimy! I didn't know they'd made a funny one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. No. Maybe. "

^ this.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful."

I'd avoid meeting a fab member who can't make a distinction between tax evasion and sexual assault or murder.

No hypocrisy and it isnt a fuck site.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful.

I'd avoid meeting a fab member who can't make a distinction between tax evasion and sexual assault or murder.

No hypocrisy and it isnt a fuck site."

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful.

I'd avoid meeting a fab member who can't make a distinction between tax evasion and sexual assault or murder.

No hypocrisy and it isnt a fuck site."

White collar crime is sooo sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful.

I'd avoid meeting a fab member who can't make a distinction between tax evasion and sexual assault or murder.

No hypocrisy and it isnt a fuck site."

So, there are 3000 calls a week to r*** crisis lines in England and Wales alone. That's a lot isn't it!

What are the chances we've come into contact with one of these accused?

I, personally, have stopped two r*** in my life (I was cut for stopping the second).

The guy got a custodial. For wounding me not for the r*** because that girl was so beat down and scared she found refused to appear in court.

That guy now has a family is now on pof and other sites.

You think he publicised it or people made the distinction of what he was? You think you can make the distinction, or - he will offer the honest appraisal of what or who he is.

No he wont. Neither would you.

Because for the great majority on this fuck site it's a game and your (you're) looking for something to fit your ideal / illusion or alternative lifestyle.

Otherwise you wouldn't be on here you'd do it on Facebook and fuck the consequences.

It is a fuck site (dress it how you will) and it is displaying flexible virtue which is all the more emphasised in the forums echo chamber. It's not bad it's just reality.

Example...famous actor punched the b'jesus out of his wife. 3rd time broke her jaw. Today... Women adore him men want to be him.

There's a really simple study the Dutch carried out on flexible virtue within 'communities'. It's an excellent read and it parallels exactly this subject.

It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

Flexible virtue means nothing. A sex offender is different to a shoplifter. Dress it up how you like.

Anybody can hide things. That doesn't change the principle.

Your comment was against people who said 'depends what they were in for'.

Do you see a shoplifter and a sex offender as the same?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Suppose criminals need love too. There's loads of documentaries on this and some women seek out prisoners to be in relationships with, some get leathered and wonder why? hmmm. some live happy relationships. So I'm guessing it's about the person not the crime.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I read this as meeting pensioners and thought why not if their up for it. Obviously i realised my mistake...so as we only look for ladies, i'm not sure how angel would feel about someone coming at her with a soap dildo or one they'd fashioned in woodwork

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North West Devon...

Only if they wear those fetching strippy grey clothes with their ball and chains in tow..love a man in uniform....lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt be professional me meeting prisoners sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are seriously getting confused about "knowing meeting a prisoner" and "unknowingly meeting a prisoner".

The way I took the OP to mean was KNOWINGLY.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North West Devon...

"Wouldnt be professional me meeting prisoners sadly"

us either

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Wouldnt be professional me meeting prisoners sadly"

Why sadly,do you want to meet prisoners?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful.

I'd avoid meeting a fab member who can't make a distinction between tax evasion and sexual assault or murder.

No hypocrisy and it isnt a fuck site.

So, there are 3000 calls a week to r*** crisis lines in England and Wales alone. That's a lot isn't it!

What are the chances we've come into contact with one of these accused?

I, personally, have stopped two r*** in my life (I was cut for stopping the second).

The guy got a custodial. For wounding me not for the r*** because that girl was so beat down and scared she found refused to appear in court.

That guy now has a family is now on pof and other sites.

You think he publicised it or people made the distinction of what he was? You think you can make the distinction, or - he will offer the honest appraisal of what or who he is.

No he wont. Neither would you.

Because for the great majority on this fuck site it's a game and your (you're) looking for something to fit your ideal / illusion or alternative lifestyle.

Otherwise you wouldn't be on here you'd do it on Facebook and fuck the consequences.

It is a fuck site (dress it how you will) and it is displaying flexible virtue which is all the more emphasised in the forums echo chamber. It's not bad it's just reality.

Example...famous actor punched the b'jesus out of his wife. 3rd time broke her jaw. Today... Women adore him men want to be him.

There's a really simple study the Dutch carried out on flexible virtue within 'communities'. It's an excellent read and it parallels exactly this subject.

It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

Ok, now tell us the story about the guy who got done for tax evasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trouble is, you would have no way of knowing what crimes they had committed, you'd have to take their word for it, unless it was something very well publicised. And as for women who target men inside, i read an interesting book years ago , the researcher found not a single one who had not been violently abused by men in the past...with a long term prisoner, they can get all the love and romance (after a fashion), but guy can never actually hurt you...very sad, but i can sort of see the rationale..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

Flexible virtue means nothing. A sex offender is different to a shoplifter. Dress it up how you like.

Anybody can hide things. That doesn't change the principle.

Your comment was against people who said 'depends what they were in for'.

Do you see a shoplifter and a sex offender as the same?"

Point well missed.

My point is you can't distinguish...

Unless you have swinger spidey sense...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

Flexible virtue means nothing. A sex offender is different to a shoplifter. Dress it up how you like.

Anybody can hide things. That doesn't change the principle.

Your comment was against people who said 'depends what they were in for'.

Do you see a shoplifter and a sex offender as the same?

Point well missed.

My point is you can't distinguish...

Unless you have swinger spidey sense...

surely it is understood that this thread is about knowingly meeting ex prisoners?

of course no one knows anyone's true past unless they disclose it.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Point well missed.

My point is you can't distinguish...

Unless you have swinger spidey sense...

Ok, the original question was, would you meet a prisoner.

A reply was 'depends what they are in for'.

Your (paraphrased) answer was that that is hypocritical.

So, if you knew the persons offence, would it make a difference, or are you saying it is irrelevant?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

Flexible virtue means nothing. A sex offender is different to a shoplifter. Dress it up how you like.

Anybody can hide things. That doesn't change the principle.

Your comment was against people who said 'depends what they were in for'.

Do you see a shoplifter and a sex offender as the same?

Point well missed.

My point is you can't distinguish...

Unless you have swinger spidey sense...

Well let me see...

A shoplifter steals stuff from a shop and a sex offender committed crime with a sexual element to it. Seeing as we're about to engage in sexual activity, I think the thief poses the lesser risk of harm.

Or am I missing something glaringly obvious?

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

"Then you do have a problem then?

A lot of this depending on the crime they committed stuff going on in this thread...

Loving the moral hypocrisy of it all lol...

The idea of flexible virtue on a fuck site...OMG beautiful.

I'd avoid meeting a fab member who can't make a distinction between tax evasion and sexual assault or murder.

No hypocrisy and it isnt a fuck site.

So, there are 3000 calls a week to r*** crisis lines in England and Wales alone. That's a lot isn't it!

What are the chances we've come into contact with one of these accused?

I, personally, have stopped two r*** in my life (I was cut for stopping the second).

The guy got a custodial. For wounding me not for the r*** because that girl was so beat down and scared she found refused to appear in court.

That guy now has a family is now on pof and other sites.

You think he publicised it or people made the distinction of what he was? You think you can make the distinction, or - he will offer the honest appraisal of what or who he is.

No he wont. Neither would you.

Because for the great majority on this fuck site it's a game and your (you're) looking for something to fit your ideal / illusion or alternative lifestyle.

Otherwise you wouldn't be on here you'd do it on Facebook and fuck the consequences.

It is a fuck site (dress it how you will) and it is displaying flexible virtue which is all the more emphasised in the forums echo chamber. It's not bad it's just reality.

Example...famous actor punched the b'jesus out of his wife. 3rd time broke her jaw. Today... Women adore him men want to be him.

There's a really simple study the Dutch carried out on flexible virtue within 'communities'. It's an excellent read and it parallels exactly this subject.

It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

Ok, now tell us the story about the guy who got done for tax evasion."

So when Andy Dufresne came to me in 1949 and asked me to smuggle Rita Hayworth into the prison for him, I told him no problem. And it wasn't....

-Matt

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over a year ago

It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

Flexible virtue means nothing. A sex offender is different to a shoplifter. Dress it up how you like.

Anybody can hide things. That doesn't change the principle.

Your comment was against people who said 'depends what they were in for'.

Do you see a shoplifter and a sex offender as the same?

Point well missed.

My point is you can't distinguish...

Unless you have swinger spidey sense...

Well let me see...

Or am I missing something glaringly obvious?"

Well done sherlock! The fbi need people like you.

The glaringly obvious thing is this... who the f**k introduces themselves as a sex offender or a thief.

Hi am John serial r**ist... fancy coffee?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

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It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

Flexible virtue means nothing. A sex offender is different to a shoplifter. Dress it up how you like.

Anybody can hide things. That doesn't change the principle.

Your comment was against people who said 'depends what they were in for'.

Do you see a shoplifter and a sex offender as the same?

Point well missed.

My point is you can't distinguish...

Unless you have swinger spidey sense...

Well let me see...

Or am I missing something glaringly obvious?

Well done sherlock! The fbi need people like you.

The glaringly obvious thing is this... who the f**k introduces themselves as a sex offender or a thief.

Hi am John serial r**ist... fancy coffee?

Quite a few women write to and go on to marry men on death row so some clearly do declare their crimes.

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over a year ago

"People are seriously getting confused about "knowing meeting a prisoner" and "unknowingly meeting a prisoner".

The way I took the OP to mean was KNOWINGLY."

Yes i took it that way too.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"On a lighter note there's a very funny episode of 'Gimme, gimme,gimme' where Linda meets an escaped prisoner she's been corresponding with.

Blimy! I didn't know they'd made a funny one! "

All depends on your sense of humour dear boy!!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

It highlights how people within the community display flexible virtue based on which side of the transgression they are and how the benefit fits their desire.

Flexible virtue means nothing. A sex offender is different to a shoplifter. Dress it up how you like.

Anybody can hide things. That doesn't change the principle.

Your comment was against people who said 'depends what they were in for'.

Do you see a shoplifter and a sex offender as the same?

Point well missed.

My point is you can't distinguish...

Unless you have swinger spidey sense...

Well let me see...

Or am I missing something glaringly obvious?

Well done sherlock! The fbi need people like you.

The glaringly obvious thing is this... who the f**k introduces themselves as a sex offender or a thief.

Hi am John serial r**ist... fancy coffee?

Mate, there are places you can go to brush up on your reading comprehension. Some of these courses are even free to the unemployed.

Hope this helps.

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over a year ago

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Bigamy. Pardon? Oh bugger me. Well thats ok I guess.

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over a year ago

Mate, there are places you can go to brush up on your reading comprehension. Some of these courses are even free to the unemployed.

Hope this helps.

Is this from personal experience?

I'll give it a miss chap. Its seems all it's enabled you to do is turn missing the point into an art!

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over a year ago

"I once spent the night in the cells for jokingly toe-punting a copper up the arse outside a kebab shop in Wandsworth. It was only a light tap.

Turns out they don't find that sort of caper at all funny.

Good. There needs to be more respect for the police.

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