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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you consider your dating age to be?

And would you consider dating anyone older or younger than yourself?

I should probably start with mine, 19-25, three years each way for me. Although I tend to sway towards someone older than me rather than younger .

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I generally tend to date people older than myself but on here all my meets so far have been younger.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Women - 25 to 45?

Men - 35 to 50?

They aren't really set as such but that seems to be what I prefer dating wise.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

When I was on as a single fem I met only younger men.

My partner now is also younger but only by 2 years

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i never really had an age but they where usually couple of years older. Until i met my partner and hes 22 years older than me. Never in a million years would i.have gone looking for someone that much older than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always older.. i was 20 and dated a 42 yr old...

as i've grown up a bit i doubt id go for that age gap again.

Im 29.. id go for 30 to 40

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

So far it's always been younger men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I guess from 30 through to 55 maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first long relationship,he was 10 years older, but since then younger, husband was 14 years younger, and most casual dating ive done has been much younger men..not particularly looked for them though..i'd be happy to date someone my age or older,just don't seem to be any out there!

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

I was always for the older. Till i got older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 34 and I usually just date older women from 45 to 72

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I look younger than my years (and act it ) so I prefer a bit younger but as I've got older I seem to attract people me nans age....haven't dated one yet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25-40ish.

Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25-40ish.

Probably."

I think 25 would probably be too young for me in reality.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

never dated so I don't know. ex partner have been 2 and 9 years older though... so I guess older?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm getting nowhere dating so it's pointless saying . Why can't I find someone who I fancy the pant's off to date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"25-40ish.

Probably.

I think 25 would probably be too young for me in reality."

Aren't you 28?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 absolute MINIMUM and that's pushing it.

45 Maximum.

(For dating..although I'm not looking to date at present)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25-40ish.

Probably.

I think 25 would probably be too young for me in reality.

Aren't you 28?"

34.

There is a world of difference though, unfortunately.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

five younger to ten older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 28, I'd probably date 22-40..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you consider your dating age to be?

And would you consider dating anyone older or younger than yourself?

I should probably start with mine, 19-25, three years each way for me. Although I tend to sway towards someone older than me rather than younger ."

Preferably 40s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband is 14 years older than me and that feels just right but I've always preferred older men. I probably wouldn't go much older though. With women I'd consider younger than me but possibly not too much older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25-40ish.

Probably.

I think 25 would probably be too young for me in reality.

Aren't you 28?

34.

There is a world of difference though, unfortunately."

Keep the '-ish' and allow us 40 year olds our daydreams

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 28, I'd probably date 22-40.. "

Just made the bracket, expect a proposal message soon

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"25-40ish.

Probably.

I think 25 would probably be too young for me in reality.

Aren't you 28?"

28!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dating age for a partner currently is specifically 38

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep the '-ish' and allow us 40 year olds our daymares "

Sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"25-40ish.

Probably.

I think 25 would probably be too young for me in reality.

Aren't you 28?

34.

There is a world of difference though, unfortunately."

You look so much younger, I bet you get asked for ID at the bars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25-40ish.

Probably.

I think 25 would probably be too young for me in reality.

Aren't you 28?

28! "

I've 6 years of improvement on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25-40ish.

Probably.

I think 25 would probably be too young for me in reality.

Aren't you 28?

34.

There is a world of difference though, unfortunately.

You look so much younger, I bet you get asked for ID at the bars "

Too much grey for that. Plus I look a lot more like a hobo these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep the '-ish' and allow us 40 year olds our daymares

Sure."

Neigh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 28, I'd probably date 22-40..

Just made the bracket, expect a proposal message soon "

I'll just keep refreshing my inbox!

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By *amesLeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds City Centre Apartment


"I'm 28, I'd probably date 22-40.. "

Am I ur type?x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husband was 2 years younger than me. When I started dating again I was looking at around 45-55. Now mr is 3 years older than me. But age is just a number x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 28, I'd probably date 22-40..

Just made the bracket, expect a proposal message soon

I'll just keep refreshing my inbox! "

24-40, seems like you tricked me, good one

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"25-40ish.

Probably.

I think 25 would probably be too young for me in reality.

Aren't you 28?

28!

I've 6 years of improvement on that."

Good point

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i'm dating people around my age this past year. so anyone from 38-48 so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys 30-50

Girls 25-40

Theyre negotiable though, if I met someone I liked then age is irrelevant. That's just what I tend to go for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys and girls - 25 -35

Won't go for anyone younger then me but will be persuaded if there a little older then 35.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If dating anyone from 28-48

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Dating wise I'd prefer younger women 25-31

Fab wise I prefer older women 26-55

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What about intelligence, or I guess 'common sense'?

Would you prefer your partner to be more or less intelligent than you?

I know intelligence is a broad spectrum but in general terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like them to be pretty equal but if I had to choose id say more. My husband had so much general knowledge I was always in awe at the pub quiz! Its sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about intelligence, or I guess 'common sense'?

Would you prefer your partner to be more or less intelligent than you?

I know intelligence is a broad spectrum but in general terms."

I would struggle to find someone with less intelligence then me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about intelligence, or I guess 'common sense'?

Would you prefer your partner to be more or less intelligent than you?

I know intelligence is a broad spectrum but in general terms.

I would struggle to find someone with less intelligence then me

"

You fooled me, so I guess you have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also would like my partner to be more intelligent than me, but at the same time I would also like them to be a little less mature .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating or meets?

For meets- 28-34

For dating- 31-37

Prefer a bit younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number.. it's the attraction that counts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about intelligence, or I guess 'common sense'?

Would you prefer your partner to be more or less intelligent than you?

I know intelligence is a broad spectrum but in general terms."

I never really thought about age when I was dating. But Marc is 4 years older than me and it feels perfect. I don't think I would have dated a guy younger than me, anyway.

I do like being with someone who is more intelligent than me, though. And I've honestly never met someone in person as intelligent as Marc is, so I guess I just lucked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number.. it's the attraction that counts... "

That's my take too? I came on here with quite rigid thoughts of 25-40 but actually there are some real hotties that are outside of these parameters that I would absolutely meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the last few years I e dated between the ages of 20-42 (during my early 30's) I think the 'better' dating was with women around my own age though, if I chose to date again it would probably be late 20's early 30's ideally currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say between 25-40 although it doesn't matter too much to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm dating guys that are 40 and 55 respectively. I think i prefer slightly older, wiser, more intelligent than me. The 40 year old isn't going to last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" And I've honestly never met someone in person as intelligent as Marc is"

It's cool - I'm happy being a very close second. No offence taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" And I've honestly never met someone in person as intelligent as Marc is

It's cool - I'm happy being a very close second. No offence taken."

Close second. Ha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems like age wise people swing both ways but everyone prefers a more intelligent partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" And I've honestly never met someone in person as intelligent as Marc is

It's cool - I'm happy being a very close second. No offence taken.

Close second. Ha! "

No, VERY close.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I always used to see guys around my own age or a little older, but they're mostly too decrepid now lol, so I'd just say over 50. For fwb/fb I go lower.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

When I was younger always went for older... Now im older always prefer younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like age wise people swing both ways but everyone prefers a more intelligent partner "
I don't know about intelligence, As long as they can hold a decent conversation good enough for me

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

it's not necessarily the age that's important- but where the other person is in life, what he she wants and the experiences... whatever number that might be

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I was dating I'd say my age range would be 37-49

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was dating I'd say my age range would be 37-49 "

Better get my finger out looks like after 49 am Fuxxxd on here

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I can't get a date ever way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get a date ever way "

Same, people only want me if I'm fucking them

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"it's not necessarily the age that's important- but where the other person is in life, what he she wants and the experiences... whatever number that might be"

That's a fair point really.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

When I was dating in my twenties, it was always someone older. I've been dating on and (mostly) off again over the last 2 years and they've mostly been younger. 10 years younger would probably be my maximum and perhaps the same older.

I don't tend to notice age though really, my friends are a range of ages and it's things other than our ages that have drawn us together.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I can't get a date ever way

Same, people only want me if I'm fucking them "

At lest you've had sumone. And to me thar is Mor to dating than just fucking.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"If I was dating I'd say my age range would be 37-49

Better get my finger out looks like after 49 am Fuxxxd on here "

Age isn't everything, there are always exceptions. I'm not in a position to date but if I was there are loads of attractive +50's on here!!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

50 plus would be my ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as on here. Since my mid-thirties have always liked younger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This post makes me want to reconsider the dating age a little, perhaps 19-27?

But since my younger sibling is 20, dating someone younger than her would feel a little weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 to 52

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find old men sexy, the older the better. Wouldn't even consider under 50.

No real preference with women, though I do find young convincing cross dressers sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's less about age and more about life and expectations. I've given up on looking for something with substance, though.

I'd want someone who could support and challenge me. That's probably going to come from someone older. But i want an equal for the other bits of life, so not too much older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For proper dating would have to be from 35-45 roughly.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Generally mid 40's to mid 50's.

I have just started dating again after a gap of about 10 years. So it was a pleasant surprise and coincidence to suddenly see one of my dates from that time is the star of a television advert that is currently running. She's married now but still as gorgeous looking as ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would date age 23-30.

I find i have have more fun with the younger guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd normally go 20-30. But the current lady I am dating is probably older than my higher bracket lol. She is worth it though. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeez I seemed fucked, I'm 49 and past it so it seem....(crawls back under rock)

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