FabSwingers.com forum: what is this desperation with veri posts and stuff

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i dont get it if ppl like you they will meet or get know you so you cam or fone so can know you

but seems an abundance of moans about oh am not verrified or booo these ppl done have em

omg shhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! Wot he say...

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

yeah the verification thing comes up alot,,we have verified many people,,but we dont have many verifications,,simply because we dont care about them,,yes i know they are handy,,but just because someone writes a glowing reference for us or anyone else,doesnt mean that others will like or get on with us,others,,so we prefer to meet people,,not just go by veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am not fussed personally

gonna take a special woman to be my first verification

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Well, I suppose it's a range of issues!

For some people, they've not been on the site for long, but expect instant meets and gratification!! When they don't get that, they feel left out and whinge!

For others, it's an ego trip; "look at me, am I not God's gift to fellow swingers?" and expect us to idolise them!

For others, let's just say I couldn't possibly comment, as my views would land me in hot water!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at it another way.

While people are moaning on here about stuff that covered twice daily at least it's keeping them off the streets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ano its just crazy ive read few just when on looking and bored and some were just a copy and past and always the same stuff they write, wonder why some people bother.

but seems to be alot of moaning about em christ you could create a fake account veri yaself a slowing report and delete the account if your so desperate

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Look at it another way.

While people are moaning on here about stuff that covered twice daily at least it's keeping them off the streets."

Yeah, we're doing them a service!

They're a danger to themselves!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i see this alot in chat too, single men wanting cam veris. When i ask why, the only answer is so they can have a veri.

i assume someone has been talking about the secret "Veri" room,where the real swingers hang out! Remember guys, it's need to know only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is some people do take notice of verifications and wont meet (especially single men) without them.

Personally, I find the whole idea rather bizarre that I'd take the word of total strangers into account when deciding who I take to my bed...but that's just me.

I've read of people (ok, single men) having a whale of a time meeting people, but some how feel they're missing out because they've not been verified. Again, I'd have thought the main thing would be meeting and sod the verifications...but as I said, maybe it's just me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well as single male who been on here ages.... id be happy just with nice meet if the person veri me or not i wouldnt care just be nice have an actual meet (it would be my first time too)

but some ppl seem obsessed with em

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

"The thing is some people do take notice of verifications and wont meet (especially single men) without them.

Personally, I find the whole idea rather bizarre that I'd take the word of total strangers into account when deciding who I take to my bed...but that's just me.

couldnt agree more,,the meet is more important than the vei,lol,,well to us it is

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

"i see this alot in chat too, single men wanting cam veris. When i ask why, the only answer is so they can have a veri.

i assume someone has been talking about the secret "Veri" room,where the real swingers hang out! Remember guys, it's need to know only!

I will only veri people if I have met them and I have to say of the people I have met 99% I would verify, as those who meet are the genuine swingers not bedroom voyeurs

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i see this alot in chat too, single men wanting cam veris. When i ask why, the only answer is so they can have a veri.

i assume someone has been talking about the secret "Veri" room,where the real swingers hang out! Remember guys, it's need to know only!

I will only veri people if I have met them and I have to say of the people I have met 99% I would verify, as those who meet are the genuine swingers not bedroom voyeurs

You can watch me in the bedroom anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well as single male who been on here ages.... id be happy just with nice meet if the person veri me or not i wouldnt care just be nice have an actual meet (it would be my first time too)

but some ppl seem obsessed with em "

will bear you in mind then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ta be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only display social verifications on our profile although we do have others, we do look at others verifications but don't take them too seriosly. There are quite a few ppl becomming obsesive with verifications in the forums of late, must be hard for them being the only real ppl on Fab surrounded by fakers, Paranoia springs to mind, cue that song again,,,,,,,,,,,,

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Of course, verifations may seem like buses, you have none, then - once having one it can make it easier to meet others - along come a whole load more.

Each verification has differing value: from photo verified, to an actual real meet: but only if another perceives it this way. I do, but have met both verified and unverified people, taking each instance on individual merit.

In an ideal world there would be no 'time wasters', those who let others down, potentially cost them money and lost opportunities. As we're not quite there yet, verifications on here - and other sites don't have the same systems - do serve some purpose, for some people.

As others say, there do seem to be some copy/paste ones around, but I'd prefer the system as it is, to not having this functionality. That said, it's great to get new members on here, and a warm welcome is better than suspicion etc.

So, welcome to you, and hope that you get lots of fun. There are people who met unverified members, so look out for those, if you don't have it and anyone gives you a hard time.

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