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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So today I had a social planned for this evening but I am now unable to go due to my child's plans changing. I messaged the lady and informed her of the situation and we hope to arrange for another time. No stress or drama. Who would be OK with this and who would paint me as being a Time-wasting so and so..

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Why would you be labelled as a time waster if you have a legitimate reason and have provided notice as far as possible in advance and not just not turned up? I think if you've built up a rapport and connection with a potential meet, it'd be obvious if you were wasting their time.

By the sounds of it your meet doesn't think that you are OP, so all good there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So today I had a social planned for this evening but I am now unable to go due to my child's plans changing. I messaged the lady and informed her of the situation and we hope to arrange for another time. No stress or drama. Who would be OK with this and who would paint me as being a Time-wasting so and so.. "

Sounds like that ole thing called life.

Some will call you a time waster. I wouldn't

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Does she think you're a time waster? She's the only person you should be considering right now.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I would be fine with this and try to re-arrange. Sometimes life does get in the way of fab.

If you cancelled a second time i might not be as understanding though.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

one chance only sorry

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By *oodprincess69Woman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

I wouldn't call you a time waster, life is life at times things come up, no point stressing over it xxx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

It's one of those things dude. Shit happens.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I would be fine with this and try to re-arrange. Sometimes life does get in the way of fab.

If you cancelled a second time i might not be as understanding though.

"

I wouldn't cancel on you a first time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering as it's legitimate and we're cool and will rearrange. Was thinking about how others deal with it when it's not taken as such.. Eg: one chance and you're out.. Life's not like that in my eyes.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

That would be fine with me, as you had given notice, apologised and are planning to rearrange. A time waster for me, is the guy that just doesn't turn up and doesn't contact the person they were meant to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my early fab days I'd have given you a second chance but my experience has led me to no longer give a second chance

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not at all op,you let them know and most people appreciate sometimes life gets in the way.

Miss

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By *iverpool_lad80Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Well from past experience you don't get a second chance there's always sombody on here to step in to your shoes last min

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems that it's a good job I don't live in Scotland. No tolerance for men with kids.haha .

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I would be fine with this and try to re-arrange. Sometimes life does get in the way of fab.

If you cancelled a second time i might not be as understanding though.

I wouldn't cancel on you a first time "

Ooh, you smoothie ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real life happens. You let her know, she may be disappointed, but if it's a first occasion I'm sure she'd understand.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I think you've been fair.. You've given notice, given a fair explanation, and re-sheduled if I'm reading you right. I think that's the important bit, to try to reschedule there and then... Otherwise even the best of excuses can seem like a blow-off

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I would be fine with this and try to re-arrange. Sometimes life does get in the way of fab.

If you cancelled a second time i might not be as understanding though.

I wouldn't cancel on you a first time

Ooh, you smoothie ace "

Who, me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be fine with that, we've had to do it and it's happened to us. Life sometimes gets in the way. You at least let her know. X

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By *ulldog1977Man
over a year ago

Maidenhead and se london

Here are some tome wasting people. Was at there post code for a hour. All I go was be done soon . Don't waste your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time wasting. Reading a thread from a user no longer on here………

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not time wasting op as long as the person is informed in good time. I've had meets cancelled with me about to setout for travel. We did eventually meet in the end though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People's underdstanding of time and its value is very vast!

Always remember time used well and comstructively to attian is deemed well.

"Time wasted "

You waste others or even your very own time. It will never come back,nor can you buy it,extend it,change it, nor return it.

So why do we all actually waste time??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be fine with this and try to re-arrange. Sometimes life does get in the way of fab.

If you cancelled a second time i might not be as understanding though.

"

rightly said and put.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Time wasting. Reading a thread from a user no longer on here………"

At least they wasted no time with grammar or punctuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your own very time is free,as such do was you wish.

Its all running out. Like sand slipping away less and less.

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